Thank you for this video. All of those are great tips. Nonetheless, I had an initial reaction that I wasn’t allowed to have any other emotions in a romantic relationship other than positive ones. I felt pressure to always be happy. Any guidance you would like to share around that?
It’s not about not having emotions - it’s about not expecting them to do anything in particular (as women in my experience want the other to make them feel better) and that’s the issue that backfires very, very often and causes arguments. It takes practice to share negative emotions and not expect that person to play the “father” role. Hope that clarifies it a bit better.
❤ Keep your life going. Source knows. ❤ Deal with your emotions. ❤ Talk to people who have good relationships. ❤ Regulate yourself ( hike, massage, etc.) for your mental health and will avoid outbursts. ❤ Give up looking for validation and reassurance. ❤ See what you can give vs. what you can get. ❤ What will you offer? skills.. maturity.. what is it that you are giving. 🌼 😊 these are gems Agnes!
@ashak8356 work on your self-concept and self-love. you are worthy and deserving of love. let the old story of abandonment go. focus on the present moment, and being the best version of yourself you can be. Meditation helps a lot also to regulate. Agnes has some great meditations for self love on her channel. I hope this helps 🙏🏻 🩷
@@anuradhadhavale1847you can practice radiating love, surrender and work on your self love ❤️ that is always the best thing to do in such circumstances 🙏🏼
Hey Agnes, can you explain everyone is you pushed out again please? I was told the other day by someone that I manifest everything that I feel and think. Trying to understand this whole concept. Like if a person is an asshole, how did I manifest this? How did I supposedly create a disease to someone else? I don’t get it
Okay 👌🏽 To understand that concept have a look at the everyone is you pushed out playlist (but remember not to blame yourself for everything) it’s here: ru-vid.com/group/PLro7fCOW-S6Ntly4tXKPUhge3gvmru3Wg&si=OiqX4Gp7i_V7nySi
@@AgnesVivarelli thank you Agnes! I am just trying to understand this whole thing fully. I do not know how I supposedly created a “depression” in an SP, if he had this before he met me. It does not make sense.
@@happythoughts3630you don’t create someone’s depression, alcoholism etc. The question is: what’s in me that drew this person to me in this state? It’s not about blaming yourself for how they are around you, it’s about: what do I need to work on within myself? Maybe: - Beliefs about relationships? About men? Women? Love? - being not good enough? - being 2nd best to X (fill in the blank) - not being a priority - not feeling loved or feeling unwanted Food for thought -
@@AgnesVivarelli hi Agnes! Thank you for responding back to me. I am trying to understand all of this but I’m still having some trouble. I think of myself as a very valuable person. I love who I am. My SP told me this: I don’t know how I feel about our long distance relationship anymore, i am lost, you are a better person than I ever was.” He is clearly going through his own “shit”. I am trying to figure out what to do on this. I am working on self affirmations but I don’t see how this is internalized by me? This is what he is telling me.
