Is that really how people see us ? I'm not sure if I like it or not, but it's damn funny for sure 😂🤣. My role models are mostly cryptic grandfathers when I think about it. ESFJ is a type I always feel like I could get along with very well btw.
Do one with and estj and an infp so I can send it to my sis. she’s infp her husband is estj it’s the most entertaining relationship I’ve ever witnessed
I am an infj with an esfj mom. I am the parttime free shrink. I will mirror back your feelings in a more understandable way while I give (cryptic) advice. Usually I will refer to simular situations and let her figure the answer out on her own. I don't want to tell people what to do but I will help you figure it out on your own. I guess that makes me Dumbledore. Usually the esfj is stressy about a situation....but its not the situation that causes the stress but the emotions triggered by the situation. If you point that feeling out and fix that feeling....the problem disappears. Ni makes the connections and sees cause and effect. So to the infj it makes perfect sense. To the esfj we out of the blue bring up "unrelated" things which all of a sudden turn out to be the key to unlock their problems. Its simply cause and effect but if you don't see it...its cryptic and like magic I guess.🤯❤️🩹
