How do you know your marriage is over? | Farrah Zaur 

You are a beautiful and strong woman! May Allah(S.W.T) bless you with the best.

Please do a video on basics of budgeting and handling finances for single mom’s. Please!!!

You speak perfectly in urdu and English so don't change it also many people are learning from you and making change their life positively. Take care with big hug💖🤗

Farah you send the massage to all the married women to wakeup. Live your life & be happy. Thanks for video.

Beautifully explained! Love you, farah and i appreciate ur wisdom a lot

Absolutely true,I was in narcissistic marriage for 28 years and did my best but in the end I knew that I cant change alone if he doesn't want to change so I took the decision and left him,took me too long to decide but hey it's never too late ❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌

Wonderful ! Would love to watch you more frequently but I understand that you are a busy woman and a mom. Stay blessed and happy always 😊

well said, Farah, ,I appreciate your views about marriage, you are really strong enough ,because you took the right decision of separation from your husband, you are such a brave and courageous woman,

The thing I learnt here which can be applicable in every walk of life is that never ask for validation from other people what’s going on in your life because you will reciprocate same in every relation then. Also, in every relation you can’t change the other person what you want rather accept how he/she is and support them.

Well said . But how many girls have the guts to walk away from a broken marriage, most are compromising. Or making things work for the sake of children or because of their parents. People treat your like a doormat . You are one gutsy girl.

You have taken a stand for yourself and your daughter .I have seen your earlier videos and not in one video he seemed to support you not even a smile in front of the camera ... I too am a RU-vidr and my husband doesn't like being in front of the camera ...but he always always supports me knowing that I like this ... We have our differences and yes I have changed but so has he ....if the partner is not ready to change but always expects you to change then it's better to leave .. you are strong and smart.... I support you ...

Love this video - best so far!!! Best of luck on being a better person - which you're already becoming!

Loved the way you spoke about marriage today. Beautiful👌💖

Such a beautiful video, totally relate and agree with you alhumdullilah we are stronger today ❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending much love

No words I am speechless, made me cry 😭 💯 right

Stay strong ! You are brave and super human being.so much love for you and your daughter..

I am glad you spoke about how to make marriage work towards the end even though the video is about how to tell if a marriage is over and despite the negative experience with your marriage. By no means do I support a toxic marriage but I feel a lot of people do need to put efforts in their relationships these days rather than just giving up on it. There is definitely a difference between giving up without trying/ breaking your commitment vs actually trying to make things work and not being able to

My dear happy to see you every time...💓 This is very strong topic...and you take sach strong decision most of woman can't take this decision....but I m happy 4 you😊

Love love love your videos Farah! Stay strong!!❤

Everything you said is true. Marriage is a two way game. One person should never have to compromise all the time.

thanks for bringing such awareness on this public platform. Stay Blessed. Much Courage

Hello Farrah, it’s good that you decided to help those Women out there who are going through so much but don’t know how to handle their issues or situations in their marriage. If you remember when I first saw your vlog after your divorce and I suggested to share part of your story so many Women out there can relate that how you got up and started living independently with your daughter. I also shared part of my story in that vlog of yours. Farrah dear, I loved what you have said and I totally agree with you. All the best my dear 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

Interesting and very down to earth video. You can't please everyone so more power to you ....

Nicely explained 👍🏼👍🏼 Thank you for sharing your experience.

Thank you farah... This is truly relatable... Ur inspiring many of us us to kip going without feeling miserable about ourselves.... And with each video I cn see you getting prettier... Keep going..

What u said...its so accurate... I am not married but I know...its very important for the other person to speak up otherwise...the person who is puttinh efforts feels like may b I am not putting efforts that much or may b my efforts r not in the right direction... so its really important to sort it out rather than torturing ur partner that let her/him assume that whats lacking in the relation

Asalam o alikum, Farrah I am your huge fan from Florida, USA. You create great contents on you tube. I totally aggre with your opinions about relationships. I must appreciate your effort and stay bless my dearest Farrah. May Allah help all of us and guide us on right path. Ameen. Stay strong InshaAllah and more power to you my favorite person Farrah.

Love your videos, agreed with you. Really love the flowers in a vase behind you.

Kudos to you for doing so well as a single parent. I hope you are speaking for both genders with your ideas regarding the subject. I understand traditionally in our culture the women tend to accept more changes and compromise. I'm not arguing that, but I feel you should mention that you are speaking for both genders equally.

Agreed with you my dear Farrah,,you explained well,,bcz my thought is why always wifes do samjhota,,be strong 👍 prayers for you from fariha baloch youtuber from Pakistan

Very well said you should be absolutely transparent and discuss more n make more vlogs on real life issues one of your best vlog

Mind blowing.....! farrah each nd every word is 100% correct der should be 2 sided effect not one side.... ! Luv UUU..... May Allah help u in ur life u can touch the sky darling.....

Agreed stay blessed Always stay happy and take care

I was waiting for this. Thank you so much 🙏

Amazing analysis!

You absolutely correct. What you said should be this way.

It's yours Best vedio for our youth relationships 💫💫

I went through mix emotions listening to this party being mad at you , but then I realize !! I can’t do that , I don’t know what you been though and your emotions touched me . Sometimes when we are compromising in a toxic relationship we want everyone else to do the same and that’s not fair to anyone ! I have a message for every brown toxic husband out there , she will leave you eventually and if she doesn’t then she will definitely be not there for you emotionally. Don’t abuse your wives don’t ! The Last message of Rasool ALLAH was to treat your wives better ! He left you with that Sunnah . For all my sisters who are there for their kids , ALLAH will reward you but don’t except every other women to do the same as you. Prayers can change people and if you don’t believe it try ! Try ! Allah changed the heart of Umar towards Muhammad maybe you have a Umar and you need to seek help from Allah ! Or you have Abu Jahl and he will never change

Very wise and positive words .. may Allah swt bless you both health n happiness ❤️

Thank you farrah so much for this. I have been sitting in the gray area for so long.... i have found my answer.

💯 agree with you,Sending you More power and Love from US 🇺🇸❤️ ❤️

The reason we desi people are hesitant to talk about issues and learning experience in marriage or our lives is because being judged. Ex. I made RU-vid channel but havent share with family or close friends. I think desi parents always tell there kids to be in hush hush….

Love it so much! I can deeply relate to it as my first marriage ended due to similar reasons .. its about each other at the end of the day, just like you said. Respect even over love in marriage is the key to a successful marriage

whenever i look at ur vlog it just make up my day

vlogging is not easy you are making quite engaging content۔۔۔ power woman۔۔۔۔ much love۔۔۔ love from Malaysia

I love the transition between urdu and English. Ignore people this is live a visual blog for u too. I love wqtching you him your a smart intelligent woman who speaks very well xxxx

Hats off to u, u are so well spoken I think parents whom are very orthodox. should listen to your video probably they won't agree to your talks. once again it is an eye opener for the younger generation to listen to u. Slmz to u from South Africa.

You are so vibrant and happy go lucky you deserve a partner like that, I can't wait for that. Many ppl dont leave because they need security of a marriage Good luck.love from Brisbane

Thank you for talking and sharing your personal experience. M going through exactly the same , trust me when i was driving with my kids to park i was thinking that sometimes i didn’t even remember that m human being too i need rest and acknowledgment too..

Love it when you say "hiii guys" 🥰 really look forward to your videos.... Please try to upload more .... maybe twice a week if you can. Many thanks ❤️ 😊 🙏

You couldn't have said all this any better👌 I salute you ❤

So true✌️ You r so brave ♥️♥️

By far, ur best video... May be becoz been there... Done that... But every word was soooo well thought of... Proud to have found myself after being treated as a nobody.

More power to you miss watching you from beginning of your channel ❤️❤️❤️

Agreed with you God bless you dear

Good video farah ar bht sahi bten ki hn tmne i agree with u ar ye jo kha tmne k dono ki effort zaruri hti h sahi bt h jbhi marrige life achi gzrti h ye note kia ta mane tmhary hus ki brdy waly vlog m k tmne bht effort ki ti mgr wo bnda hans k nai dy rha ta k jsy sb bekar h uski nzr m kher meri dua h k Allah tmko qadirdan hus ata frmay ar tm pichly sb dkh bhul jao aameen

Very good observation 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Go girl If a woman is strong she doesn’t need a Man She is a Man herself Wish you great luck n success

MashaAllah well said. Why do I feel like you were indirectly talking about your marriage! 😅 Love is a 2 way street! You cannot take the other person’s burden with you. Its better to end it. This used to happen with our elders. Spent their life as it is with full compromise that is one sided only. People say women without man is incomplete but we can change that! We need to find a man who understands. May Allah bless you.

Farrah u always inspires me.

Well said ! 👏

Very rightly said.

You are doing best I like your videos...you are sharing your experience ...good...keep it up dear

I agree what u said I am also faced this time and I knw it’s so painful but I stand up to my self

Great content 👌 Sending lots of prayers and love from USA Washington 🇺🇸❤

So true! Respect and equality are the key ingredients to make good out of the marriage. Consistently in pain and then compromise on it-Ab yehi Mera naseeb hai-gives you nothing but lose your own identity.

MashAllah looks pretty 💕 more power to you ❤

You are 100% correct.

I think the way you talk is normally how we talk at homes and its perfect ☺️.

Its great Farrah how well you’ve explained and brought up some of the issues people go through in marriage but are hesitant to talk about them 👏👏

🌸 Sending lots of love and prayers.. 🌸 stay strong girl ❤

hats off for u positivity 💕

Aaj kal ki ladkiyo ki fantasy is instagram 🤣 instagram is their freedom. Agar voh nahi milta that means not having perfect relationship 🤣

She spoke my heart ❤

Love your videos can you tell me about the chair from where did you get it you are sitting and blanket 🙏🙏

My mother also has toxic marriage...I saw her in pain...very difficult to bare all things...

So True.. I agree with you

I love your hair color … please tell me which color is this ???

Great nd honest analysis on marriage it is always better to have one person happy rather then two unhappy people lots of people in our society live their lives bcz of parents children social pressures take nonsense all their lives but they have nothing in common it’s always two way traffic you hit the nail on the head about marriage Masood UK

More power to you. Stay blessed and strong.

Very well explained in such simple words. ❤️

Rightly said to communicate but unfortunately sometimes it's one sided communication between inlaws and son

100% right but sometimes we have to tolerate for children. And we become deef and blind. Because no other person accepts your children even our parents and siblings start to torture your children if you come back.

Asslamu allikum dear I'm 110%with u Mujhy tu aik bat pata hy jis per guzarti hy wo hi samjh sakta hy 😪

Stay strong and blessed

U stood for yourself but broken home are another turmoil patience is the key

Well said may Allah give u lot happiness n righteous path strong woman

You are right. My marriage is over as well. But I a have dragged it for many years. I don't know why.

Absolutely right...

I just love the way u talk ...stay blessed

I hope your husband watches this video too.

I like ur style when u say "Hi Guys" 😍👍

U r strong lady more power to u enjoy ur life …I like ur vlog keep doing it

Indeed marriage is a combination of many things and in the end everyone can conclude if it is worth it There shouldn't be any kind of abuse though. Regarding communication , for some people it is necessary to have awareness around Autism. There are many adults especially from community and culture like ours who are not diagnosed. It is the other end of neurodiversity. This condition is under diagnosed It cause young people and adults an emotional numbness , difficulty understanding emotional needs of others ,struggle with interpersonal skills and inability to communicate. If they end up with someone who is on the other side ,the relationship can be hard .

Sister you have articulated in a best possible way. I think you can make psychology or related field, your profession. Give a thought. Good luck

Please share what are the flaws or issues in marriage are unacceptable and or acceptable (with example ) and precisely what set of effort is required before dumping that marriage and move on .

You are 100% right

U r right absoultly right..

More power to you❤️🔥💯

Awwww love the video so good u are ♥️♥️

Outstanding farah 👍