After breaking up with my ex in 2014 he left me with a 1 year old son then, I got married in 2019 with my current husband who adores his step son and I thank God I told him about my son when we first met. Moral of the story, children are a blessing and don't hide your Blessings.
Why do women think only sex can solve their issues? I've been raising my kid's nikirokota plastics container for recycling Nimepaka rangi Nimefulia watu nguo My kid's are university as we speak!!!
Thinking the same...but nashangaa mtu anakuficha such small things si anaweza ata weka pistol akushoot ,the big issue here is kuweka secret kwa mtu who has been on your side!
I feel the same... She was just trying to safeguard her relationship that I believe she love so much and treasured... But I think she didn't know how to approach the whole issue, she loved this guy and the daughter as well. I fell she deserves forgiveness
Trust, my friend, trust. It may be the first time you're breaking it in 25 years. BUT, how do I know everything else has not been a lie? That is why passionate love becomes passionate hate, and disgust in an instant.
Love this guy❤️ Principled,smart...I wish him all the best. I was to support forgiveness untill the lady said she had to sleep with the principal to graduate. His analysis of her statement is perfect. I feel sorry for her..but cheating in a relationship is not just about sex. Transparency, honesty is 💯 requirement
cumpus or college haya mambo ya kulalal na lecturers ni real so mm naeza elewa msichana lakini kosa ni kuficha mtoto,kuwa na principle hiyo namsamee kama ni wangu as per what i passed just from my one lecturer i can understand.
Single mothers on social media sound like getting a man who can marry you with your baggage is easy but Kwa ground it seems like most guys scatter immediately they know you have kids
I have a feeling she regrets that, her eyes spoke of regrets, sorry and love for this guy, I actually felt for her but I wouldn't forgive such a secret also.
I agree...She's begging too much!And the guy has a lot of pride! She's also very young!She needs to pick up the pieces of her life,enroll herself to school get a job... Mapenzi baadaye
@@elizabethwanjiru1039 true she's young and beautiful,yes she hide the truth but she dint cheat on him,akwende huko na story mob as if he's an angel himself nkt
The lady is a rare gem. I feel that she kept the secret to avoid losing this guy. she made a mistake and i know she's feeling the pain already. Find it in your heart to forgive her
Trust is very important in relationships 💯, as psychologist I have met alot of people suffering in relationships and its very important from the first moment you meet with someone during dating period be clean About everything. Transparency in relationships very important mostly when kids are involved. Be open talk about it children are not curse but blessing.
Truth shall set you free...it might cost the lady to loose the relationship but atleast she will find peace in bringing her daughter to the lime light.. May we never hide our kids in the name of protecting a relationship
The lady also laughed... Just before she stood up and walked away. I just started watching today, this is my third episode na hii kitu kama si scripted sijui
@@alexmurithi1327 well,I can't be honest if I can't embrace, understand the r/ship kindly 🙏 Embracing will bring forth honesty. my understanding though.
Lets say the were married forever, the lady was planning to say the daughter is her sister's forever? 🚩 When a woman's feeling to have a man surpasses the feeling of claiming their child huyo toroka.. Theres no excuse plus the parents wana co-inspire to hide the child those are not inlaws you will trust then upate stevo is the baby daddy
I have three kids with different dads. And I never hide or lie to anyone that I don't have kids. Not all men hate the girls who have kids. Ipo siku utapata mume mwenye ata kupenda wewe na watoi wako wote. Never hide kids you sacrefy to deliver and taking care of them y any means because of love...
Ma d.a ur Not alone, Mm nko na 3kids too, 3yrs without dating...bt Im Now 1yr in dating with a guy n daktari having No child yet,Cku tu ya kwanza kuniuliza jina, I told him the names of ma 3kids b4 mine, na hilo jambo dio uwa anasema ilifanyaa kunipendaa ata zaidi,maanake ckumfichaa😊 he loves ma kids kama wake, ad these yr december is coming home kujuana na wazazi wng na kuwaona watoto pia,Same kuomba radhi ya ndoa, Soo..watoto hawakuwangii Issue shida n ss wazazi tuu kuwa open, A man who Truely loves, will take u the way ur, Kwa hii story dem ajilaumu tuu, that guy could love her together with her daughter,bt sasa ametupaa mbao pamoja na randa, ambia mtu ukweli atembezee kiatu mapema au akupendee ...Period!!
ladies should not hide your kid ,my cousin divorced the wife ause of hiding her kid and he began a new chapter with another ,it is better to be honest from the word go.
Just forgive her if you genuinely love her. Maybe she feared loosing you. Don't leave her because of a child. Mtoto ni baraka. Kupata mpole Kama yeye siku hizi ni vigumu Sana
My kids my first priority, 💕❤️❤️better you stay single than you deny your own blood.... If you love someone just be open to them..... If they love you they will love you the way you are... My Spanish people says... Ngombe yendagwa na mukwa wayo😂😂😂
Lilian 3 years though angekuwa amemsoma.. The guy said hata ka hangekuwa na mbegu he can adopt so the lady angeleta hiyo topic pole pole.. Anyway my Spanish people again said.. muikari mute ketina niwe owe kiria thombo eleyanga.. 😛😛
I couldn't have supported the guy kwa maamuzi yake....but the fact that it's mama n daughter deal Tena wanaambiana mama acheze Kama yeye ndio kijana asijue, it's very painfull and yet harusi na kila kitu iko kwa ground BRO tafuta mtu anakufit
Nobody is gonna talk about that principal that took this girl's innocence in exchange for her high school certificate leaving her to take care of his child 😔
JERRY SHAKUR....🔥👏🏾👏🏾...You're a Gem of a Man. Very very few have your principles. The woman who will get you, will be so happy. May you find it in your heart to forgive your ex
Gem? Eeeww! Please reconsider your taste, this guy is full of pride and so mouthy. Honestly he was heartbroken but there's a way to talk it out, not in this manner!
I once watched a Nigerian movie called 'Family business' and this is a good example bcoz the so called guy Steve ithink ndio baba ya mtoi .so this girl plus the mum and the 'steve guy'wanataka kufilisisha the taita guy then wamuachanishe 😢
Exactly that's what I said before I think that Steve working for them is the father of the child that's why she refused to say who the father of the child is.
This Guy is One of the best, he's cool and straight forward.. movie on bro and you don't deserve her..in the first place This woman is selfish because she didn't tell him the truth because she was protecting herself but she never thought how it will hurt him when he will know The Truth.. movie on bro
This girl was selfish when she decided not to tell him. She only thought about herself, period. She never gave him the truth for him to make a decision from the word go. Bro, let her go. Na si kwa ubad.
Been waiting on this💕...You are a good guy Jerry.....Take your time move on.....3yrs of lies sio fiti ingekuwa hata 90days ingekuwa considerable......ni ya muda tu....you will be okey😊
This guy is a vibe! Pole lady the train has left the platform. Just maybe the guy, Jerry had a lot of conflict an the only thing that held this relationship was love and trust. Now you broke his trust! How do you expect him to protect you from others who challenged your relationship?
This was a painful one ,kindly Stevo we convince Shakur asamehe uyo dem aki.Walikuwa wanapendana sana ,na madem pia mkianza kudate ambia mtu ukweli ,kama uko na mtoto sema kutoka mwanzo. Mwanaume aamue kukaa na wewe ams asonge mbele
Honestly, this is some self righteous man, Girl, this man needs an angel from heaven who'll "never" make a mistake. Move on and learn from your mistakes.
To my home village there was such a case that gay raise 2 kids knowing is brother and sister to the wife.Her mother and sister were the one taking care of the kids, one day she sent money to the sister to buy school shoes for the kids instead of buying she use the money and when the school was almost to be opened the sister had no money to buy the shoes she decided to tell her sister to send another money ,they started to argue until they started exchange hurting wards,sister to the wife decided to call the husband of her sister to inform him about the case....wooooi the husband was😫 and decided to start the journey to his home because he was far from home.He was hurt and didn't forgive his wife the wife decided to commit suicide she was rushed to hospital after hospital his husband take her one on one to her back to her family 👪 after one week the side chick was promoted to the main chicken 🐔 💔💔💔💔💔.......they were married for 11yrs ladies make your kids the first priorities 💙 na sio tafathari💔💔💔💔
We are happy with the follow up, Jerry has been one true person to the relationship he even asked the lady to explain during part one before Steve read the conversation giving the lady the opportunity to tell the truth
Why hide such a lie to someone loving caring like this 😭 ladies mnatakanga nini aki how about mkimit mangulusumu Kama mm🤸🤸say the truth early and let it set you free,, till mother in law ako kw mix ,, let's learn from this,, so hurting 🙏
The moment he said "wee niangalie hivi ,nakaa mavi sai""😂😂man stevo was dying with laugher from inside 😅😅😅in as much as it's an emotional story I have laughed all way juu huyu jamaa ana Swahili kizuri 😂😂😂
Even though he's hurting from her wife not opening up, it is also true that she loves him from the way they were talking with the mum. This is not cheating and she deserves forgiveness
@@peritahwanyonyi5194 love alone isn't enough in a relationship. It goes hand in hand with honesty, trustworthiness, loyalty just to mention a few. Anyone can say they love you but few genuinely do. Words can be twisted to alter our reality. Actions, like this, reflect the truth.
Steve I know you meant well but you really hurt that man by ambushing him, next time just read situation and only bring the other party if consent has been obtained. He was probably making peace but this has definitely sent him back to square one. Hopefully he gets his keys though.
