How He Knows She Is The One 

Which one submits to God, helps you be better a better version, prays with you!

This is great advice. Ladies, be patient with the process…what’s meant to be, will be.

A better version of himself needs to be there before he decides which person is "the one" for him.

This is advice I gave to all my hs kids male and female and my own sons A relationship does not "complete you" That's dependence A relationship that will last makes you WANT to be better Wants you to be brave Supports you in your efforts Makes you feel safe and at peace And you know they love you just the way you are

Honestly in my opinion it shouldn’t depend on the women the MEN should want to be better for themselves

This makes sense. A man came into my life last year when I had finally surrendered to the Universe and stopped looking for a relationship. I was (and still am) focused on becoming the best version of myself. We became friends and have been building a loving friendship with unconditional love. I noticed that he has started making positive changes in his life and he has even stated that I have inspired him to look at life differently. I love this man with all my heart and support him on his journey. He still wants to takes things slowly as he is healing from loss...and I am happy to allow him to lead this connection because I believe we were meant to be in each other's lives and he has earned my trust and respect by his mutual respect and consistency ❤

love that. I believe a man becomes a greater version of himself when he finds his missing rib

Since we met me he started to want to change many things, cut down his addiction, exercise more, looking better, making lots of future plans with me... told me I'm good for him. I guess there's a chance I'm his one? 😅

♥️♥️♥️♥️ Now preach this to grown men, so they can get it.

Absolutely ❤i want him to be the best version And i pray daily for him

You better for you first! Connection happens without collection; It's when heart meets heart; Love reaches out to the woman who clicks in his rib cage - he wasn't expecting that and neither was she; It's shockingly scary and delightful all at the same time, then begins collecting of each other to filly join together.

Amen absolutely if u can't bring the same to the table ,u are not the one 4 me.

That's real good advice.

More truthful words. couldn't have been spoken any better take a bow sir.❤

I know Sandi is the one because we come too as one, everything's with her just feels right, no red flags we go go above and beyond for each other,.I never felt this feeling in my my life. I have a girl who is every man's dream

If you think they won't collect data with sex you joking 😂😂

I think 5 months of dating and talking to a person is long enough to be clear on things with a woman and vice versa.

Like the little prince said "You care about your rose based on the time you invest into her"

Exactly coach Ken thank you for your advice..I appreciate it

Jesus! Whew! This! 💪🏽 message

I LOVE this!! Great teaching. I kinda shed a tear. 🥲

Be YOUR best person for YOU above all else; let the others follow your example, if they so choose to share in the light of your paths.

Amen 🙏🏾 to that!

Well said: but remember “ keep it simple sweetie” and on JESUS time, he’s keeping the ⏰‼️

Nice one coach, you are definitely spitting the facts

Great coach, great leadership 💪🏾👋🏾

I love that coach 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😁👍🏾 yes amen to THAT. U are a true blessing coach Frfr 💯

I love your voice lol You sound like Louis Armstrong I bet you’d kill “What A Wonderful World” lol

Now that's GOOD ADVICE.🎉🎉🎉

I agree with him wanting to be better first before meeting me, because I heard that before,. Then he said Im better ing himself for me. Bettering or better version should have came with good parenting. Then meet me

My husband said this in his vows

Great advice thank you 👍❤️🙏🏽

He also shouldn't be dating multiple women at the same time.

Love this!

right again coach

Awesome advice

Real Talk 🦜

Facts!

this is how i know he is the right guy too

Coach please make a detailed video if a person is in no contact situation & There is a divine connection which I feel for sure and cannot let go that person please explain this problem 🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻

This is the most beautiful advice and intelligent advice on YT for straight men today. Or for anyone-!! The person who makes you want to be the best possible version of you, and to reach for the ✨ is the One. So long as there’s also compatibility and attraction/chemistry to begin with

Very good advice coach❤

I like this.

I totally agree. The One makes You a Better virgin of yourself. Yes. You Are a Great Coach.

❤ I have been picked by my man because I give support and his thoughts on being a better man.❤

I heard that before. Good advice

What if he runs away from that one.? Some men like a woman that not necessarily criticizes him or try to change him. One that can definitely matter enough where he respects her and cares about her enough ,to allow her to handle him.

This is very good advice. My ONLY pushback is that a good woman can make any man want to be better and may even make some changes.. So what is the difference in the change? Is it big change or little change? I think more than one woman could make a man want to do/be better so what is the next thing to look for in a WIFE that a man would know ? Does that make sense??

Wow that's amazing

Thank you

Wonderful advice.❤❤❤❤❤❤

I am the one. But he never listen. Low selfestime and addiction blured his site.

I Hope your teaching these young men how to have GODLY discernment. And not rely on themselves or man.🙏

Collect then connect ❤

I like your teaching

100 💯 percent

I was wondering, and i find out the difference that she is really makes me a better version

I love you coach! ❤ But I just want to know how long is a woman supposed to wait for a man to collect their data? I don't think it's fair for a woman to have to wait for months for him to be clear on things. So men do need to be mindful of that as well.

He treats her very badly …. Then comes back begging for a second chance 😂😂😂😂

I think this is universal and not gender specific. This applies to all great connections and relationships! Friends partners… they want the best for you; and you want to be the best version of yourself also! 🦋🙌

Mmm… Be Careful Ladies…. I had a guy told this to me and I Found out he was a Narcissist… These Days, Lots of Prayer… Waiting….Confirmation from God/Jesus is your Safest Bet. Etc. Also, Hearing Confirmation from your God-Fearing Pastor. It’s Good to See them in Community. Coz, you want to Know whom you’re Getting + their Character….. Etc.

Good advice 👍

So now have to make a man want to be better for him to think she the one? lol it's all so complicated 😂

Sounds good, but some people are not at all concerned with becoming better versions of themselves.

12:07 Libra

Most times men don’t want to be that better version because they’re too busy playing the field still you know. That’s when I say BYE, Next!

BINGO!! 🎉❤

I would say its the one that out of all of the others you don't want to let go. If the others can walk away and you're okay but you had to choose only one to stay who would that be? Or if you were to go on a double date with one one of your boys and he got to choose any one of the women you're dating for his date which women would you NOT want him choose?

Wow 😆😆nice one

❤I LOVE THIS

But how much data do they need to collect? because a woman can be waiting around for months before he finishes collecting all his data. I think by 5 dates that should be enough data. What do you think Coach? 💕

How she knows he's the one

Deep!

Absolutely

I can subscribe to this coach! My husband was and still is attractive af. Not only to me, to many, many women. You can only imagine how some girls and women behave themselves to get his attention- it’s so exaggerated so it becomes funny but also sad. Anyway, I had seen him weeks before but found him so ‘he’s the one I have been waiting for’ that it made me shy (me? Shy? Wtf). One evening however, I caught his eye although he thought my shoes where ugly 😀. I couldn’t believe it but suddenly I found myself dancing for three hours with him. I’ve never seen so many girls look so angry at me 😂😂. After a few dinner and dance evenings (in Europa we don’t ‘date’, or you’re friends or your in a relationship, no in betweens.) he started turning hot and cold and hot and cold. Which I found off putting as we had the greatest of times together. He was my one, I’ve longed for him for 43 years, the man I could put my trust, grounded and intelligent, funny and handsome, honest with the right set of values. But I knew that evening I had to make the bravest choice I’ve ever taken. I had to choose for my soul, without compromise, I needed someone who chose me for me out of all his admirers. I took the chance of going home alone. I always did, we didn’t sleep together not did we kiss till then (its fabulous to not rush into things). Alone this time knowing we wouldn’t meet again next week… So I called him out and asked him what his intentions were. Because the sudden change in connection was palpable and hurtful and not in sync with his words. I told him that if he didn’t see who I was in my eyes but needed to be fooled with easy feminine trickery that that was ok but too cheap, below my values and too easy for me. I refuse to abuse my feminity to lure people in. My sexuality is the award for the man who’s intelligent enough to see my attractiveness, sexuality, playfulness in my eyes, the only place you cannot manipulate through makeup and perfume. He’s a celebrity and so many people are in awe with him just because. That part doesn’t impress me at all, I’m too proud to be a groupie. He should choose one of the groupies is he couldn’t live with someone who’s real to herself but also to him. That was the exact moment he knew I was his one. His eyes found mine, we danced till six in the morning. I went home alone as always. The week after he invited me at his place, he was going to cook dinner. That evening I wore my sexiest outfit, hair and makeup very feminine and attractive (I’m a professional makeup artist and stylist for film ad television). He was the one who I could trust with my femininity. The guy could cook my goodness! And kiss as well!! I went home by myself that evening. We still don’t live together after a decade. He’s my husband and I’m his wife. He’s the only one who can call me out and teach me things, he makes me a better version of myself. He’s my King and I admire his being. I’m not his queen luckily. I’m his wise lady living in one of the towers in his castle. The lady he choses to be with and talk to out of genuine attraction and love. After a decade we’re still madly in love and admiration for each other. We’ve only had one fight and it was horrible I thought so was going to die. It made us both better versions of ourselves…

Find a man that doesn’t need to find a woman in order to be motivated to change because his self-discipline, his self-worth, his self-esteem is enough for him to be better! -anonymous

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Sincerely speaking l'm that woman but my guy just doesn't see it and it hurts me alot😢.

Facts 🤴🏽

He knows she's the one but doesn’t want her kids. Not the one....

Facts ❤

As I woman, how can I know whose the one? Thansk.

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How do you know he is the one??

Great to know we are data collection

Yes

And then it's time to see what you want your next move to be

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No women will want bad for her man ! If hes dating multiple women all of them must be deserving just not him !

Hmm. I’m older now but it seems that when I made men want to be a better version of themselves they took it as competition. Hard to explain.

Asking God, praying to God, God is the only one who knows and will know who the partner is!

He knew i was the one but he did not wanted to give up his bad habits so I left him.

Am I the only one that thinks this dude sounds like Tony Robbins LOL

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May I be added to your list of dateable women for your students please =)

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Does this apply to women too?

Does she/her need to collect data too?

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Too late now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm the one who is getting away 🎉🎉🎉