How I became the woman of my dreams 

First comment omg 😊🙌🏼

My only note is that a woman’s job is to CREATE, not just reproduce. We make things from nothing. We are living art, the muse and the artist. We are the healers, the poets, the ones who make spaces and people more beautiful. That’s my job as a woman. To create beauty wherever I go.

Investment channel needed

The entire video was great and I love listening to you. I respect your opinion but please do not say that a woman's job is to only reproduce. Not every woman wants to do that. I am one of them. I have a child but I am an entrepreneur too. SO many young girls listen to you and form opinions. Please don't discourage them from pursuing their dreams. It's great if your husband is earning a lot of money but that doesn't mean the woman should stop doing what she likes and only do the household chores. If she likes it, no problem. The idea is that a woman's job should be decided by the woman, not anyone else.

Needing women to wear make up, look good, smile all the time, smell good, be comfortable for men and be a birthing function- is a very sexist, patriarchal view on women. Before our society became a toxic patriarchy, women used to be high priestesses, mystics, artists, medicine women and had very high ranks in the society. We are more than birthing machines, lovely ladies. I love your channel Bobby, but please consider spreading less sexist messages. I’m not a scientist on the topic but I read a lot on it and educate myself bc I think it’s so important for us women to uncover the invisible structures of patriarchy that reduces us to functions. We are priestesses and goddesses! Thank you for you work, Bobby! You are amazing! (And excuse my unasked opinion. I’m just very passionate about this topic)

Thank you for always putting subtitles in your videos. They help me when I struggle a bit to understand new vocabulary. I binge-watch your videos to change my mindset, improving my life by learning how to manifest amazing things. Your energy is so contagious. New subscriber here from Indonesia 💕🇲🇨

If women aren’t meant to work… why are you telling us to attract financial abundance/suggesting we invest? Elaborate on this topic plz

I’m glad you mentioned kindness! So many ‘glow up’/ ‘self help’ videos seem to push the narrative that you need to be cold and heartless in order to get by in life, but how have we become the version of ourselves if we have become selfish and cold along the way?! Great video!! X

I truly, not because I'm not interested, stopped being the go-to person for everyone's issues. I stopped being predictable that I always answered the phone. Nope....sometimes I would return calls the next day. Surprisingly, the crisis they had was resolved. Don't allow other people to weigh down your ballon. Stay light and unbothered. 💜💅🏾💋

The irony of her rightfully calling out how women are conditioned to constantly spend money on their appearance and then switching and saying that women's only purpose is to look good and that we shouldn't work is not lost on me. Saying women 'naturally' aren't supposed to work is just factually incorrect. Yeah maybe western European women weren't working back in the day but in other cultures that's not the case at all. And this message that women shouldn't work while you are literally working yourself (A.K.A a content creator) is not only harmful but extremely foul. I really hope no young girls fall into this trap that so many of these influencers are setting up for them. If you're a young girl reading this, pursue your dreams, go for your aspirations and find purpose in other things other than male validation. You're more than just a pretty doll for men to gawk at and by god, don't trust these types of people. These influencers literally make money from tricking you into thinking you're not being a woman correctly and they can fix you if you pay them.

Investment channel yeeeesss please!! We girly’s do need that 💞💞💞

im a man so the video wasnt exactly aimmed at me but I just want to say there isn't anything wrong with looking for a man as a provider but i just want all the girlies to always remember to be self sufficient whilst doing that 💪💪

Love yourself like your life depends on it

You’re so wise and I was taking notes but saying our job is to reproduce and be beautiful is degrading to the power of creation we have which is not just limited to “producing” children, but to express, hold emotional space, show love, beauty and creativity. We are needed for the world to have more creativity, emotional intelligence and out of the box thinking which we excel at as females. The job industry is toxic to both men and women, yet a study showed that companies that have gender diversity are 48% more successful. Yes the daily job lifestyle is more suitable to men as their cycle functions on a daily basis where ours functions on a monthly basis, that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t participate, it only means we need more breaks and the system is designed for men which some countries started to recognize that and give women more breaks due to their cycles. There are many layers to this where the job industry is modern slavery to both genders but won’t get into that. If anything us women are great multitaskers and and have greater tolerance specially to pain and emotions, they call us emotional when I’ve always wondered how men can’t control their emotions and fight like animals when they get angry and just lose it, and they admit. That’s just a stigma… we are more powerful than you think. I still agree that we want more peace and breaks and a simple life due to our cycle (cycle is not period, both men and women have different cycles) But even men want that peaceful life as well…

I’m constantly tuned into your videos. I have a hard time listening to people I don’t connect to, but you’re great at what you do! You explain things so extensively and listen to us when we ask for you to explain things further or video recs. Thank you for your work and sharing how you’ve gotten to where you are at.

Girlll, you are truly the person who gives the most different and original ideas in social media. By the way I loveee your videosss 💗🧿🧿

Investment channel needed! But this information was so good! I’m currently in my isolation phase and I needed to hear this! Thank you for your wisdom! 🤍🧘🏻‍♀️✨

HOUSE OF HIGHINVESTMENTS PLS!! love you bobbie thank you for doing the work and the work you put out for us

Invest. Save. Buy. Not the other way around. Beautiful. Thanks for putting it into words so nicely!

Yes! Isolation is important and slowly ease into it. Can’t rush the process 😊❤

I was crying last night over everything i felt for me and one thing i asked from the universe is to give me a sign and let me know where to start and what to do and i feel this video is the sign ❤ Thank you bobbie

Absolutely on point Bobbie! Couldn't agree more that normalizing women working (specially corporate & similar fields) was nothing but a ploy to earn double the taxes!!

Curly blow dry, beautiful nails, cute outfit, matcha in my hand, basically unstoppable in that state ❤

Yesss with be kind!!!! Always smile and start a conversation if you can. I also compliment people. When you compliment people you can feel that it makes them feel good, I also tip well. Lol

So happy to see you glowing 🌟

Hmm I want to say that I feel traditional gender roles are not what feels best for everyone and that’s ok too. Like not all women want kids or want to date men and have other things that make them happy… I just think it’s worth acknowledging that

Love this! I agree that it first involves unraveling everything you were 'taught' to be, and finding who you really are. When the empowerment comes from within, our internal validation, we stop seeking it from external sources or attaching ourselves to external validation. This is how I define personal power!

her soft voice 😍❤️✨

You inspire me ! I understand I am already the women of my dreams as I continue to level up . My GLOW is irresistible! Thank you 😊

Not sure if you’ve released the investment channel yet, but YES PLEASE!!

Great points, especially Kindness which creates momentum for others which helps you. Keep growing!

I’ve been following you for some time and your content has been great but here you failed. Women need to work to be independent, to have their freedom and to realize themselves on every level, not depending on a man. We remember our mothers, grandmothers that were stuck in miserable marriages because they had no independence. Not every woman wants to be dependent doll whose “job” is to look good, lol And not every woman can, wants or needs to procreate. Cheers!

YES to the Investment Channel!!!

Isolation saved my life❤ You have a beautiful voice❤

This video is gold. Thank you! ✨Would 100% love an investment channel. You lost me at what "our job" is, though, as someone who didn't breed. I kind of see where you're going with it, but it absolutely discounts our brains and the genius we bring as ourselves.

Persistence is the key in Manifesting

*Absolutely loved this video* 🌸. It confirmed a decision that i made yesterday of cutting out "a friend" who always calls to talk about the latest tea , or her personal drama. Thank youuuu! So for now, you and Alia are my virtual besties ❤

I have successfully manifested my specific person. She was the woman of my dreams. She is my twin flame. You are absolutely gorgeous and charming. Well, thanks for sharing your message

What helped me become a better person - and women over all is learning to show others grace. We are all humans living life the first time. There’s no need to hold onto grudges. Learning to show grace towards people who hurt me not only helped me to not only learn to stop carrying old baggage, but also to learn to forgive myself and show MYSELF grace as well. It’s so obvious when someone doesn’t like their self. So learning to forgive others and myself helped me to finally find confidence, which definitely showed to others.

And love love love your channel, happy to find it. The way you explain worthiness about relationships makes perfect sense. It is a feeling from inside out, not outside in. Knowing you deserve love respect and kindness. How does one get that feeling of worthiness with nice things and money?

You are worthy You are loved I love you Thank you 🙏

I'm watching these life changing videos (( like my life depends on it..)) Beautiful Bobbi thank you i love you!..and for these wonderful magical santorini locations 💙🇬🇷💙✈️

Omg this could not have come at a more perfect time! I feel I’m in isolation right now and feeling sad because I literally only have 3 friends and 2 of them don’t live in my state. But a part of me knows that I NEED to love myself whole heartedly before I can be a good friend to anyone else. My personal transformation is happening right now as I start to meditate every day - and start to balance myself out.

Investment channel by you. Yes, please. It will finally help me make sense of where to begin & how to build & sustain it. 🤗

Yes to the investment channel 💕

Yayy! For the Investment Channel.

So many things in this video are just off. First of all, women were not made to only reproduce. That is a very offending thing for you to say. I don't have children and I'm definitely not here on this earth to pop out children. Remember that not all women can be mothers, some of these women are incapable of being mothers, taking care of a child 24/7 requires empathy. Not many women have the empathy that is needed for childcare. Also, there is nothing wrong with wearing black and not wearing make up. I love black and I sometimes mix it up with grey and white. It's my signature style, everyone knows me like that. I used to wear bright yellow and red, i felt horrible in those colors. I do agree with everything else, looking well, put together, investing in yourself, having money, and not doing impulse shopping. Just my two cents.

I could listen to you for hours - with my eyes closed - you have such a unique & calm voice and intonation. Of course the content is A+ too 😉.

You're phenmenal! So true ,everything. Thank you ❤

You inspire me so much Bobbi...i never thought i could feel so excited about life again and feel so free to be happy again...and i just know i will find my way on my own financially..thank you!

Since I discovered your channel, I started watching all your videos and you’re basically the only manifestation channel I watch 🫶 I built up my routine similar to yours and I stick to it like my life depends on it (cuz it does 😉). It’s funny because until only a couple months ago, I was exactly like you described: postman at my door everyday delivering stuff I didn’t need, Klarna on half the orders to be able to afford things clearly out of my budget, etc. And since I started this routine I naturally started to say no to these things, I quit lash extensions, nails mani and pedi and I made a promise to myself to only buy the products I need to take proper care of myself. I love your last point about taking care of your style, that’s my next step ❤ Thank you so much for all you do and please create an investment channel!!

Omg I like your mentality so much❤❤ a true feminine woman

I’ll try this. ❤ Clothes are next step, No more black and blue for me. I don’t know how to get rid of grey but I guess that’s my comfort Color, I’ll layer other colors on top And make a more feminine life.

Your videos are so helpful & on point. Powerful mindset, high vibes, inner hard work in isolation. Nothing like inner peace. Keep shining & soaring queen!!! 🌟

yeeesss to 🎯❤️❤️❤️ the investment channel

Sleep is crucial. After it I feel the growth. ❤

Oh I needed today's vdeo so much. This is the basic which is always needed to get stared with manifesting. The self concept. I was spiraling my head with manifestation techniques but I truly ant to come back to self and not put my insecurities drive my life. Thank you Bobbie!! And yes investment channel!!!! Please!!

Yes pleaaaase!!! We need to understand investments and how to invest in a smart way!!

Excellent advice. Just the last 3-4 mts were bit disappointing .

I love your energy! You exude the light femininity and radiance I see in my visualizations. I have been seeing the 'Aida of my Dreams' and been putting her front and centre in my daily life. I believe it has been at least 3 months since I created her and today when I saw you I felt like it is validating that I am on my way! She exudes that same radiance, femininity, lightness of being that you so beautifully show. One of the factors about her that I write down is that she wears flowy, silky clothes that have vibrant colors. And here you are in this dress! hahaha...Thank you for your videos. I know now that the bridge of Incidences are showing up on a daily basis and I am grateful. Lotsa ❤❤❤❤

Bobbie you look incredible gorgeous in this orange dress!😍😍🥰🥰🧡🧡thank you for your sharing

Wise. Isolation. Butterfly transformation. Investing your savings so they grow.

This is so good, you articulate yourself so well! Plus I'm loving the view ❤

I would love to see a Investment channel especially for women ❤

your videos are the best!!! you have changed my life

Thank you for this Bobbie🌹! I'm not that confident. Yet. I'm working on it. One thing that's helping me is to challenge myself and beat my last goal also playing online games against other players. There are so many facets to LIFE. We have to work on literally every part of ourselves. Appearance, Skills, Health, Hygiene, Budgeting, Investing, the list goes on! But it's definitely important to have a routine and then start working on the things that we want - little by little- adding and taking away what we don't like. I'm learning - late but learning. What you said definitely resonates with me, especially the isolation. Working in solitude is necessary to shield our energy from other peoples energy. It prevents us from getting easily distracted. When I'm around too many people I cannot focus...at all. I get scatter-brained. It definitely makes a difference to work on myself like a hermit mastering whatever I need to get better at and tossing all the things I've outgrown while emerging into that next level person- character. The goal is closer when we can imagine that we are already there. Only that takes practice too! lol

Yes, PLEASE! Investment channel!❤

❤❤❤ thank you so much, you're an angel

Your blouse is adorable and really suits you :) 🧡

THANKYOU and much love ALWAYS. You are an inspiration, keep shining gf!😘

Love that this came into my feed! Great tips, also found cutting carbs and focusing on gut health completely shifted my energy, allow me to sleep better, have more energy and overall think more clearly ❤

Thank you🌞 Investment channel, yeap✅

Girl yas please, we need this investment channel 💎⚡️

Yes investment channel please!💗💗

Investment for us girlies! Yess ❤

A girlie Investment channel!!! Yes please!!!!

You really went on a tangent about how women aren’t supposed to work 😂

had to let go of my best friend. She didn't desire to change and evolve, and even worse, made me feel like an alien for evolving.

Investment channel YES❤ I recently started to think how to invest, but I don’t know much about this stuff 😢

I started watching you today and im so happy that i found you. thank you so much, i feel like im aligned

I threw away all of my jeans so I had no choice but to put on dresses and skirts and I absolutely love it now 😌✨

thanks for the video, I do my makeup every morning with you😍

Yes an Investment Chanel would be great ☺ and you look so stunning 😍

Yes!! Investment channel!! ❤

Love this! Just found your channel! Thank you! Absolutely "stop buying dumb shit!" Instead Build your self-esteem and SAVE/INVEST your money to make more money! And be kind to yourself and to others! Awesome advice!🤗💖

i reallyyyy need your tips on how to become financially successful pleaseeee

Investment channel would be great! I want to be smarter with my money but I’m not sure where to start or what’s right and wrong. It would help tremendously. I want to know what does what, what is the right and wrongs, how much should be put in. I’m craving this !!!!!

You are such a beautiful lady.Thank you for shining your light 😘🧡

More things to add here: women are made to create, they are creators. They are also light bearers, we bring light and emotions everywhere we go. I think creating is what women were made to be-whether we create life, a piece of art, a business, a great home, friendship or emotions. Please don't limit what women are supposed to do and be on this earth.

yes to the investor channel for the girlies 😉😍

The timing of me watching this video was perfect!! Also, you're so beautiful inside and out! Greetings from Mexico

Yes, thank you for this video 🙏🏼👏🏼

yes to investment and all dream woman finance talk in general. and loved this video!

Best channel ever! Been helping me so much. Thank u :)

I love your accent ❤❤❤!!! And on top of that you’re gorgeous!!!

Shout out to the women in the comments making more sense than this video. Our "job" is whatever _we_ decide it to be. End of story.

Investment challenge - yessssss!!!! What you focus on you get! :)

Absolutely yeeeeesss to the investment channel for the girlies!!

Wow! Loved this video! Gave me a kick up the ass to get me where I want to be🙌🏼✨ thanks Bobby! You are so right we don’t need to excessively spend. How did you get out of a toxic family situation ?would love to hear your knowledge. Also love your dress 😍😍 xxx

Our job is to reproduce? What the actual f?