How I Found My Style & the Confidence to Wear It

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@niki_bbb Год назад

What I noticed is that the time when I "didn't have any personal style" and just kinda wore whatever was the time when I was heavily depressed, hated my body, hated my job (a place where I spend the majority of my time) etc. I think it's very important to at least be at peace with the body you inhabit to want to dress it and express youself! I'm in a much better place right now, I actually think about my outfits, I get complimented a lot, which I like! Recently got inspired by your layering advices and wore my fav jeans with a mesh dress on top of it (might not be crazy by internet standards but I've seen 0 people wearing something like this IRL) and some random lady on the streets gave me a thumbs up, lol. So thank you, Liz, for helping me express myself and feel like a superstar 💕

@lisa_wistfulone7957 Год назад

I really relate to this. I recently realized that most of my closet was acquired while I was in a burnout. My weight had also changed, and I was just buying whatever seemed to fit. I’m feeling much better lately, and with the inspiration of Liz and a few others, I’m thrifting items that feel energized and more like myself. Thanks for sharing your story- it’s comforting to hear from others who had similar experiences.🌸

@lilithowl Год назад

Yay! Keep going!

@lisa_wistfulone7957 Год назад

@@abbyz9790 Personally, I started seeking out images and videos from people who seem confident with their fuller figures- I found it much easier to recognize how Beautiful they were, whereas I judged myself. And I got outfit inspo from them, including stuff I thought wouldn’t work for me, but looks great! Also, I started searching for thrift clothing that “sparked joy” for me, in the size I am Right Now. I’ve put away the smaller size clothes I loved, in case I can fit them again, but out of sight, no more guilt. I’ve been gradually building a new wardrobe that makes me happy as I am now. The frumpy stuff just made me feel worse. (PS And, since I don’t always have success looking for cute stuff in my size, I make sure I only shop on good-energy days, taking water and snack so I don’t leave exhausted and tearful. I take a tape measure too, so I can quickly eliminate stuff that won’t work without having to try it on.) Hope this might help a little. It’s definitely a journey of self-acceptance 💖

@silh3345 10 месяцев назад

I feel like I’ve been somewhat similar in a way. I too didn’t know my personal style until my mental health got better. The period when I wasn’t doing well mentally was the time I was the most into following aesthetics rather than wearing my own personal style. I think part of me thought I had to fit into some type of niche to feel happiness because the people I saw with these aesthetics looked happy. It was also just easy to follow someone else’s outfit recipe when I myself lacked the mental and physical energy and motivation to come up with my own. Settling for some preexisting outfit I saw on Pinterest felt comfortable at the time cause it meant I could conserve my energy for something else rather than spend it all on figuring out what to wear. But I think the flaw in how I viewed fashion during that period is that I never truly felt like myself in my outfits. I was just trying to push myself into boxes I didn’t fit into in hopes that a new aesthetic would somehow be the answer to my problems. I was more or less cosplaying the people I saw on tiktok and Pinterest rather than dressing as myself. The aesthetics never lasted and I was hopping from one aesthetic to the next when I got bored. As soon as I got a little better mentally I realized I wasn’t actually following aesthetics because they were my style, but because I was longing for something I didn’t have wich was the happiness and interesting lives the people in the Pinterest photos seemed to have. Once my mental health got a little better it became easier to figure out my own personal style because I actually gained the energy and motivation to be creative. I feel like over time my personal style has actually become more and more simple and basic wich was something I was terrified of being when I was depressed because I viewed basic as sad and boring. Now I’ve grown to realize it’s not sad and boring unless you make it sad and boring. I fell much happier dressed in a comfortable sweater and blue jeans than when I tried to fit into niches that weren’t me. I feel like I’m truly confident in my outfits now because I feel like me in them. My personal style is practical and comfortable, but also fashionable and timeless and me.

@REnos811 Год назад

Oh man I felt that "being more confident to wear out there outfits around strangers than around people I know" mood down to my core. I do more experimentation when just working from home or going to the grocery store or walking around the park than I do when going to visit my folks. I mean, they wouldn't say that and my family does comment on how out there my outfits are, but I'm sitting there thinking "this is nothing, fam."

@joanamarcal502 Год назад

I felt it so hard too! I experiment more when I am going somewhere where I supposedly don’t know anyone than when I go to college or to places where people I know are going to be!

@sarahkinsey5434 11 месяцев назад

I feel this way about like locker/changing rooms. I'd rather have strangers look at me naked than friends or family because I will most likely never see them again. When I think about friends and family seeing me naked I think "you've seen me naked, this will always be awkward"

@am-ir2bx 9 месяцев назад

I'm the opposite because I somewhat trust the people around me to not say or do anything offensive or scary to me

@georginaferenz6083 Год назад

One hundred percent agree with your take on style! Also, I find as an older person, when I dress quirky or interesting out in public, I get tons of positive feedback from people much younger than myself. I think it makes people happy and gives them the courage to dress more authentically as well.

@Stou_Stitches Год назад

When you were talking about how personal style fluctuates and how you can mix and match different vibes and dress completely different from one day to another, I thought about how restrictive we tend to be with style and how we don't apply it to many other things. Like no one is going to look at you weird if you're eating a salad today and a soup tomorrow, or drinking apple juice even tho you usually drink orange juice... Also, if I had to pick two colors to wear for the rest of my life, I guess it would be yellow and pink hehe

@Laurasaurus5 Год назад

A small confidence hack that always works for me when I'm chickening out on wearing a more OUT THERE item - I imagine someone else showing up at the party in something similar and everyone complimenting her, would I feel jealous? Or would I not care? If I know I'd be jealous, then I wear the thing and wear it confidently! If I decide I wouldn't care, I let myself chicken out and go with something more normie/comfortable/lowkey and wear that confidently!

@lydipie Год назад

I appreciated the bit of commentary on the internet's obsession with fitting everyone's style into a certain aesthetic! I love light academia & y2k & cottagecore & rock n roll & granola girl & vintage & a million other type vibes, I hate feeling like I need to fit everything I am into a pinterest keyword. That's one thing I love about your channel--- your style is your own, it can't really be boiled down or confined!

@riverAmazonNZ Год назад

As a naturally eclectic person, I found themes in my clothes: I like high-contrast items, texture, and bold, simple shapes. But not frills, delicate shades, or ditsy prints. So any item from any aesthetic that suits my themes, is an option for me. I love mixing it up.

@vivimaria7243 Год назад

Well said about personal style evolving! As my body has changed, I don't feel like wearing my old style. I think that if I don't feel confident in an outfit, it's a sign that it's not fully "me", and it means that I need to change some parts of the outfit. I can admire an outfit on someone else, but it doesn't mean that I even want to wear it myself, or that I should feel bad if don't feel comfortable wearing it. That said, I admit adjusting my outfits to suit the occasion and people I'm around 😆

@eleriamirayse6859 Год назад

Do consider that not feeling confident can also occur when we do something for the first time(s) and not just if it's not "you". This new piece might be absolutely your style but you first need to get used to wearing it before fully being able to embrace it!

@cherry2619 Год назад

I used to be very afraid to wear what I wanted to and draw attention to myself. I used to think that I wasn't pretty enough etc, to wear the clothes I wanted to. Then I got diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and my attitude just completely changed. I don't know how much time I'll have left walking on two legs and while I'm here and up and walking, I will make use of every day and wear what I want to wear.

@Peacebewithu34 26 дней назад

You will live and be heal in Jesus name ❤😊

@babygurl6962 Год назад

I appreciate you acknowledging that people may be more receptive to your fashion because of how you look. But I also wanted to share that I'm a fat (US 24) indigenous woman and when I go out in a wild outfit I get a ton of compliments!! It's such a confidence booster, and I especially love when other plus size and/or racialized women compliment me 💕 Anyway, keep on keepin on Liz, love your vids!

@ziafeliz Год назад

I try to exclusively wear green when I go outside now and it made me so much happier.

@kass1736 Год назад

I think something I noticed personally is that having confidence kind of came with wearing stuff that is 'my style'. Like I felt more comfortable in those clothes and like myself so it kind of just felt right so I wasn't uncomfortable or self conscious. Another big thing is I recently moved cities and started university so nobody knew me or what I used to dress like so it gave me a fresh start, I also got medicated for my anxiety so that definitely helped a lot lol

@CluelessStacey Год назад

This is so weird - I'd never thought about my style at all, and then I found your channel. I'm 29y.o., and this is the first time in my life when I'm seriously thinking my outfits through and experimenting with my style. I guess, I'd never been confident before, because I was bullied in school, and then struggled with anxiety and an eating disorder... I guess I've found you at the right time

@user-mh3up6eg5h Год назад

Thanks for sharing - I really relate to this. Glad that you’re finding your style and enjoying experimenting more with fashion!

@CluelessStacey Год назад

@@user-mh3up6eg5h thank you so much for the support ❤

@eleriamirayse6859 Год назад

Don't let your past define you forever!

@sueorosz8886 Год назад

I grew up very close to where you live now and spent a lot of time in dc punk bars in the 80s and that’s where I got the courage to express myself! Lots of diy and thrifting band estate sales back then! I’m old now and wear whatever I want but that comes from age and experience dressing different styles over the years. I agree that style evolves as you age and that’s exciting! Love ❤️ your videos! Your styles always inspire!

@dunkel429 Год назад

When I want to try out a new “outrageous” outfit that I’m feeling insecure about, I save it for a vacation and I go somewhere super busy and obnoxious (usually New Orleans) where no one knows me and I’m never going to be the most outrageous one on the street.

@madisonmeyers3907 7 месяцев назад

Hah! I’m living in nola rn and I agree it would be difficult to ever be the outrageous person on the street unless you’re really trying to be 😅

@elizabethlau2178 Год назад

I really appreciate your commentary about how differently the public can respond to outfits pending your size and race!! I've witnessed too many judgemental looks being cast on larger people for their fits that I know a smaller person would be praised for and its so darn frustrating! Thank you for being such an encouraging bean on the internet ☺️

@tajashania Год назад

i love what you said about wearing your most experimental outfits in contexts where you’re the most comfortable/confident - for me it’s when i’m travelling aboard because i’m surrounded by strangers i’ll never see again, also it’s nice to dress up for a new location or dress in a style inspired by the location you’re travelling in

@juniperroberts6254 Год назад

My style has changed to be more androgynous over the years, partially because of how others treat me and partially because I feel more comfortable well covered without my figure emphasized. But I wear every bright color in the book and lots of print, and it’s been interesting to see the shift and how others respond to the way I dress.

@sarah_the_tea_queen1404 10 месяцев назад

I’ve been dressing goth/alternative for like the past 2 years and it really helped me to come to the point where now I honestly don’t give a single shit about what anyone thinks of how I dress/present since it’s literally none of they’re bussiness anyway

@MaraAnnelisa Год назад

Loving how you defined personal style as something that is multifaceted and always motion. That's also why I find it hard to declutter my closet - all of the items I no longer wear were me, and I still love them a lot. They're just not things I gravitate towards now. But because I still see them as me, I feel too attached to give them away 😅

@Honeyhams 10 месяцев назад

When I get compliments on an outfit I start calling it a "Fan Favourite" outfit

@salty_katt Год назад

My favorite color combo is pink and green and would gladly be stuck wearing my green pleated skirt with pink tops for the rest of my life!

@sl2394 11 месяцев назад

I like how you answer the question on how to find your style on a more philosophical instead of a practical level. Your view on how to "find"your style has now totally changed my perspective on what "style" means to me. I like that you say that your style is what you feels the most comfortable in and that it keeps changing throughout your life. I also felt very validated that I thought that I never fit into one particular style, but instead its totally normal to have a combinations of different styles. You are so articulate in expressing your thoughts and I love that you are so understanding and inclusive about the experiences of women regarding their race, size etc. WE STAN!!!

@Sweetinfernalcreature Год назад

I think confidence is key! Liking your outfit makes others like it. I’ve never got negative comments on my strange outfits. I have a quirky, “weird”, vintage-y personal style. I’ve only gotten the most sweet comments on them.

@Sweetinfernalcreature Год назад

Also yes please mermaidcore!!

@takemetothesky1276 Год назад

About finding your personal style: what you said exactly, I found that it really is just a mix of what you like, what you are comfortable wearing, and what your lifestyle "requires" (used very loosely here). Having a lot of visual imputs is really what makes a difference! Like sometimes I want to cosplay as a business/coorporate girlboss à la legally blonde, sometimes I want to be a small village equivalent of sabrina the teenage witch, sometimes I would rather look like I know every secrets of the humanity department of my university. It's so fun once you start to really get creative with your wardrobe. I actually don't mind try something new/out of the ordinary with friends/complete strangers but sometimes when I am in my small town where I kind of know everyone I feel uncomfortable and I second guess myself from wearing something that's out of the ordinary. That's why I try to soft-launch (?) bold items until I'm comfortable with all the look lol. My favourite clothing colours are also blue and green (my closet is already full of it), a strong contender is red though. And I would absolutely love a mermaidcore video!! I didn't even know it existed

@takemetothesky1276 Год назад

@@beepwrld exactly! In this way one can dabble in various "aesthetics" and just see what sticks

@JKJM06 Год назад

That’s so relatable because, finding my signature style is very hard because I like a lot of style and hearing you saying « try a bunch of different things and see which ones make you feel like yourself », it’s made me realize that I just can mix all those style together to make my style. Love your videos they are so helpful, I’m currently finding my style and it can be hard haha. Take care and keep going ❤

@gefelice Год назад

I always experiment with my style on the weekend, when I'm out and about or just at home. I consider it a test run for a new outfit and I try to gain confidence wearing it if it's outside my comfort zone. Throughout the week at work or meeting friends I wear what I'm comfortable with.

@miahfrancis-mh9pq Год назад

You seem like someone who is just the nicest to have as a friend! ❤

@Stormy38044 10 месяцев назад

The tip about social consquences is so important! It's a good skill to be able to sit down and go "is it my anxiety just sounding off, or is there gonna be social consequences for this?" and basically picking your battles from there

@hverdagslykke1897 6 месяцев назад

Honestly, what made me actually feel comfortable dressing however I want to and not care AT ALL about what others might think is getting my autism diagnosis at almost 30 years old. On eve I learned about autism and accepted my diagnosis it kind of turned into my "free pass" allowing me to accept myself and put on whatever clothes I wanted to because I'm just weird either way 🎉

@AlyciaThrifts Год назад

Omg I totally agree with the whole strangers vs people I know thing. Even just in social situations, I absolutely hate having acquaintances because they have just enough perception of you to judge. Very relatable!

@wlammy3171 11 часов назад

This video helped me so much, since you posted it, I’ve been experimenting with adding small “quirky” artsy touches and building from there to feel more confident ❤

@forestpine7732 Год назад

I think if I were to choose two colors to wear for the rest of my life I would choose green and gray, because I think they always look good together, and there are a lot of shades of both of them to mix and match. And also just because I'm obsessed with green and I don't know if people would recognize me without it!

@hanonymous1233 Год назад

Yes please to a mermaidcore video! I'd love to see that x

@RuviGaPo 10 месяцев назад

Orange and green are the Best colours imo

@samantharose1001 Год назад

OMG tuning in at work during my break 💖🤗

@professorquinsonsnib 5 месяцев назад

i absolutely relate to the whole section about feeling more self conscious around people you know. i’m not used to dressing in actually styled outfits around my friends and family, so they always notice and comment more. strangers assume that’s just how i dress. i’d like to get through that transition period so that my loved ones see my more experimental outfits as “me” the same way i do. thanks for putting that feeling into words, i was having trouble pinpointing why i felt self-conscious in my more adventurous outfits. love your videos!!

@victoriadevasahayam2515 Год назад

I gained a lot of confidence to wear more expressive outfits when I went away to a big city for school. There were so many people from all over the world, with a vast range of personal styles strutting their stuff all over the place. It gave me the courage to experiment, and I had a feeling of growing into my own shoes. It was one of the most important things I took with me from that time in my life. :)

@cutekitten4395 Год назад

purple and blue would be my pick for only being able to wear 2 colours, I would love to see a video on mermaid-core! I've definitely found that social norms and being a larger woman makes it very difficult to wear clothes that actually make me feel like me cause I can barely find them, also thrift stores don't exist where I grew up or where I live, or when they do they have like 50 items max and I'll never find something I can actually wear and I don't want to contribute to over consumption and synthetic fabrics are awful, and thus far I haven't had the time to learn the skills required to make the type of clothing I want. It's a real struggle

@sl2394 11 месяцев назад

Omg you cut your own hair? Thats amazing!! the entire time when I was watching the video I was thinking "your hair looks so good, I like the wavy and curly texture" turned out you cut it yourself!! and even unstyled it looks amazing!!

@paulapmr6668 Год назад

I would LOOVE to see a video of layering but in hot weather ❤️

@fioehrismann9781 Год назад

loved this video! you’re very insightful and you feel like a very safe space, so thank you!! 💜💙

@lilithowl Год назад

Very important point you made, that our style evolves with us

@stephanieg2000 7 месяцев назад

i find i get compliments from strangers on fun outfits then i'm more confident to wear them at work, i get it

@orangejulesbox Год назад

I really appreciated what you said about social consequences. I'm a transmasculine person with a colorful and not SUPER masculine fashion sense, and the consequences of me dressing the way I like can be harsh sometimes! Being included in that statement felt nice. Hearing about the slow leading into wearing what you want versus what most people say which is, "just wear it, exposure therapy!" was nice, it felt much more organic to hear. Thank you!

@invisible__design657 Год назад

would love the siren fashion video!

@Kathryn.Danielle Год назад

beep this is an amazing video, i needed this. Thanks queen. you and Kathleen give me so much inspiration 🧚‍♀️😊✨️

@heidi-so2ds Год назад

I really resonated with what you said about personal style evolution!! When I was younger I tried really hard to find my aesthetic and it never felt right for the reasons you said (personal changes and aesthetics just being too narrow for a whole person). Now I just wear what I like without trying to put a label on it and I’m really excited to experiment more with skirts and prints :) thanks for all your style advice 🫶

@radicalrabbit808 Год назад

do a mermaid core dressing video!

@samantharose1001 Год назад

ur so coolio and articulate!!! I love how u talk about clothes 🥺 super insightful and always makes me think a little differently about style, outfit combinations, experimenting with clothes, etc.

@biakosta Год назад

Also, I just thought you were so deeply philosophical and true about what a style is. Being an illustrator, there’s also always that question about your drawing/illustration style and I just wanna record your answer and play it anytime anyone asks that x) so thanksss

@rosehurst2984 Год назад

I loved what you said about how your race or gender or size might affect how people respond to your style.. You seem like a really lovely kind person and it means a lot to see a queer person making this type of content so thanks for doing what you do!! ❤

@auroratice639 9 месяцев назад

Dark teal and baby blue 🦋 (definitely cream if I could choose one more color)

@agatahighstein Год назад

Omg please make a mermaid Core Video!!!!!

@Cass63450 Год назад

Very interesting takes on the various questions! Please tell me everything about mermaidcore!

@clocadi414 Год назад

i also think that if you think you have found your personnal style, don't be shy and continue to extend it. being stuck with the same pieces and shapes can be on the long run suffocating so don't be shy and try new things. your style will always be yours even if you deviate from what you thought was you a few years ago. you always grow so your style should grow with you...

@mellimoon77 Год назад

Ah this is a really great video! I get similar questions too. And I think two things I've learned since starting to dress how I want 3 years ago is 1. many different styles is OK if that makes you happiest (I am a vintage dresser and I feel as though there is a lot of influence 'pressure' to dress in one certain era but I have found mixing eras even in one outfit is what I like most and makes me feel less 'costumy'), and 2. easing into wearing your new style is quite important at the beginning. Luckily I started doing it during lockdown in 2020 so the transition into public was slow. And if anyone stares at me it's either they love or they're jealous haha! So all good in the end. At work I definitely tone it down a little (maybe not the loudest fabrics or the shortest cuts) but even there I've gotten more and more confident wearing bright colours and lots of fun accessories, headscarves etc. and recently people have been telling me they love it and look forward to seeing my outfits. Often you bring joy to other people without realising, but most importantly has to bring joy to yourself. Oh and another thing! I feel like there's a big focus on the moment on reducing your wardrobe but I tried minimalism for a while and it just didn't work for me. So I think that if you have a big wardrobe, but you really love and wear all of the pieces that's also totally fine and sustainable ! Not necessarily consuming more, but using what you have.

@bethknapp4935 Год назад

As a 55 year old woman, I often feel like like certain clothes are looked down on for my age group. I still love jeans, graphic tees. Flannel, and funkier pieces. But I feel like people are more critical of an older woman wearing a trendy item. The fact is, I don't feel 55. When we get to a certain age I feel like we are expected to just fade into the background and let the younger people shine, but that's not how I want to live my life. Am I looking for attention? No. But I want to be able to wear what I love and what makes me, me without judgment, and sometimes it's hard. I would love to hear your opinion on this. From a younger person's perspective.

@Rhia7770b Год назад

Just from another 20-something's perspective, I love it when people who are a fair bit older than me dress expressively and have a unique sense of style! I don't think fashion should be for the young at all, I hate the idea that when I get older I need to make myself invisible or try really hard not to wear a 'trendy' item in case it's considered cringey. Wear what you love and ignore people who make you feel like that's a problem.

@bethknapp4935 Год назад

@@Rhia7770b Thank you for this! ❤️

@Laurasaurus5 Год назад

As a young person I'm insulted by the implication that we can't shine on our own!! ;)

@mandiereds Год назад

Please do mermaid core video. ❤

@VanillleEis Год назад

I find your description of personal style very refreshing. Somehow, I feel like the current discourse about personal style really narrow-minded and kind of overthinking it a lot. I also think that you either like something or you don’t. And all those things don’t always fit into just one box. 💖

@gigidabearrrr Год назад

4:01 - 4:36 OH MY GODDDD THIS IS MY EXACT CASE thank you soooo much

@Antosza Год назад

Blue and brown for me.)

@darkred83 Год назад

Great topic and video! My two colours would be green and purple. 3 yrs ago it would have been black and black...

@jonjsylvester Год назад

This is my new favorite channel. I'm someone who has "recently found their style" and have been enjoying it a lot. After watching your "how to style shorts" video, I've also decided to get my ears pierced to be able to better accessorize. I'm very grateful for all of the various inspirations I've had over the last couple years to unlock my new/old/always has been style.

@lizabee484 Год назад

OMG YES MERMAIDCORE VIDEO IM BEGGING

@sarahkinsey5434 11 месяцев назад

I could never have just one style. I like elements of many different ones, and it depends on my mood and weather. In winter I want to just live in sweatpants and sweaters. I live in Minnesota

@victoriab7148 10 месяцев назад

I totally get you on being more comfortable in crazy outfits around strangers! I'm the same. Except I don't mind dressing weird in front of my friends. It's people that kind of know me (but also not really) I'm worried about. Like people I went to school with, that one nosy neighbour that spreads gossip, people who give me the weird looks that I somehow always manage to stumbe upon, etc. I've noticed that I'm much more worried about everyone staring at me in my hometown compared to the city I'm currently studying in. I've gone all out with my outfits in the city and I feel much more confident, because hardly anyone there knows me. Plus there's so many different people with different styles, so I don't feel too out of place. But I feel like I'm most experimental with my outfits when visiting other cities/towns where literally no one knows me. But then again, yesterday I looked like a 16th century peasant walking around my hometown, so I'm pushing myself to wear whatever I like and care less about staring and strangers' opinions.

@tessarose8430 Год назад

wow everything you said at the beginning was right on! i don't hear people talk about personal style in that way much these days, because the majority are obsessed with emulating a "-core" style. i've never fit into one specific aesthetic box and i've learned it's okay to dress completely differently from one day to the next depending on my mood! it's so freeing coming to that realization and i wish more people talked about it! also everything you said about your personal style changing at different points in your life as you grow and change as a person was perfect!

@TinaHarris Год назад

I tend to be a very colorful dresser, but I also feel freer & more confident to wear out there outfits around strangers than around people I know. This is especially true at concerts, festivals, cons and events where everyone is going all out (like Pride parade). It is also true when I go on vacation, since no one there knows me.

@Mintshake_bunny Год назад

I absolutely love how you think and answered these questions! The 'How to find your personal style?' type of videos usually just make me slightly anxious, because I for sure can't narrow my style preferences down to something coherent, so your answer was truly a breath of fresh ar! And yeah, it is easier for me too to wear more out there outfits outside of my normal circle, aka hometown. But I also comfortable enough to do that with family and I'm getting better at going out in my hometown as well. If I feel my outfit could be a bit too much I resort to the thought that it's only good to cause a little disturbance in the minds of the people in this place~ Ooh, this questions are difficult! Ok, for colours my 'obvious' choice would be pink and white but I choose yellow and purple, because in light colours they can be super cute, they pair well together AND they have cool and edgy varieties as well. YES FOR A MERMAID CORE VIDEO, PLEASE, THANK YOU~! My answer is actually same, the frills, light fabrics, shiny finishes and just seashell-shaped things are really calling out to me. Totally lived for H20 when they aired it here. Also lace in the trends, yes for lace! If I ask, I'll go for bob cut and then grow it out for like a year before doing it again. This was a thign for several years :D Usually I just ask them to just take as much out as they need to get my hair healthy and then maybe to have some long-ish fringe to frame my face on both sides. ALSO, your hair always looks so good! Favourite fabric... I love mesh (soft ones) and velvety textures a lot. Wow, this is a whole essay for no particular reason. Oh well, I guess it just shows how much I enjoy your content and like to engage with it^^

@Sara-ci9bl 10 месяцев назад

Black and green

@denaoc Год назад

♥️♥️

@biakosta Год назад

I’m watching this video and wanting to answer and chat with you about every answer x) first of all, relatable about the style and confidence question; second of all, queen for cutting your own hair; and I’m so looking forward for that mermaidcore video. Let’s chat next week ehehe

@rachelpatterson4290 Год назад

Yes please to mermaidcore content 🧜‍♀️ 🐚 ✨

@twinkie_doodle Год назад

Personally I actually disagree that my style when I was in hs/early college was actually my style, because in reality it was heavily dictated by religion and the fear of being judged for wearing certain things. Not to say this is universal, just the way that I experienced dressing myself in my religion while I was practicing. Ever since I've left though, the whole world of fashion opened for me and my style has changed drastically, and I actually feel like myself. Whereas before, I felt like a presentation of what I was supposed to be/like.

@hdigalob Год назад

Totally agree with this. As someone with a very conservative upbringing, there was a lot of shame around wearing what I wanted to/felt like myself in and I’m still getting over that.

@catte.riina. Год назад

trips to the supermarket are THE time to be weird

@TheMegaOla Год назад

I totally agree with everything you said in this video but something more prevalent that stands out to me each time I hear you talk is how freking smart and humble you are. The way you articulate your thoughts, reflections and opinions you have, to me signifies you're waaaayy above average in terms of intelect. At the same time I find you really humble, kind and charming, which makes me love your videos more each time you post. I rarely leave comments on RU-vid, let alone such lengthy ones, but I had to tell you I really admire you and think of you highly 😄 I don't think it matters what a stranger on the internet thinks, but I hope you see the things your loving followers see in you 💞

@karengrohs4942 Год назад

If I had to dress in only two colors forever, they would be navy and sage green - although I'd like to say navy and red. I totally agree with you about style and confidence. I also totally agree about natural fibers.

@alicemuguet6947 Год назад

3:32 i understand this so much AND this is part of why i hate living in small towns 😭

@MelinaStyles Год назад

My answer to the question: what would be the 2 colors I’ll be wearing for the rest of my life? Black & red/purple: because 80% of my closet is black & red is a cool color to add some dimension it also looks very cool/ punky with black!🥰😍

@acetabulumshots Год назад

If I could only wear 2 colors, I'd pick green and brown because I'm a bit of a peppermint and brown is the same as orange so I could get some dark oranges in there that still read as brown and I love orange with green.

@cremeuxkraft9019 Год назад

Women will always have something nice to say about an outfit! And they are the people whose comments I care about 😂❤

@elizabethlewis5593 Год назад

The two colors I would choose are black and white

@winterwrenn 7 месяцев назад

Working somewhere that provides you with a specific uniform solely based on their own company image bothers me. I knew I hated wearing a uniform when the only thing I could do to express myself was to wear earrings and change my make up routine. Needless to say, I hate wearing uniforms because it inhibits the ability for self expression and makes me feel guilty for buying street clothes because I can’t wear them unless it’s a day off. Very frustrating.

@tracyhuckaby5876 Год назад

Purple is my favorite color. However, I don't own a lot of purple clothing. Black and gray are my second and third favorite colors. So, if I had to choose only two colors, it would most likely be black and gray.

@Dreamer5211 Год назад

Hi Beep , I love this !! 💗👍💗 Style is personal growth and understanding stages of life and living . You are a very smart young lady , you seem very well grounded and very well read . It seems there are so few who live ' there lives ' and spend so much time trying to live up to other peoples standards 🤯 Being an individual and expressing that freedom should be a God given right to every free person . However the society we live in , can at times , seem very cold and self centered , as if they would have a better way . I guess the free people and free thinkers of our world are being judged for all the wrong reasons . I love your style and your videos , always a breath of freedom and self expression and self love . There needs to be more - us -- and far less -- them !! Life is short , why not live ? Take care , Dreamer 

@emh.1178 Месяц назад

I was raised in a cult, and after i left i would "practice" wearing sleeveless shirts while playing games in my apartment and as pajamas (they are so comfy and cute). It took a while but now i can go out for groceries in jeans with a bralette and a leather jacket:D I get a lot of compliments as well (from other alt people mostly) but i have gotten a few scoffs of disdain from boring people, which was honestly pretty funny

@hadlifeadventures Год назад

I would only buy blue and black clothes 😊

@daalokos 11 месяцев назад

I have a question about how do you use the vogue runway app? as in, I used to read vogue through emails (lol) and I would check out the shows that the articles talked about for inspiration, but there were so many boring shows that I got tired of it eventually. However, there are also too many shows in their list for me to even know where to start on my own. I have just been checking asian street style fashion from time to time, but how do you do it? Also if I had to choose 2 colours they'd be black and green :)

@kcsopinionsterriblevideoskill 10 месяцев назад

Apparently I'm going to use this comment box as therapy and vent. 😅 I don't know my style, maybe because I have too many, this also applies to house decor. If I had a staff of 100 cleaning people I would decorate with a cross between a gypsy wagon with jeweled moroccan colors, rock a billy and a bit of chenille but also vintage pinup clutter, mixed with a googie jetson look but I hate cleaning and I hate things that aren't clean so I can only visit places with the esthetics I like and live with a more streamline, modern, mid century or plain look. I say that just to make it known it's not just my clothes that I rarely feel my authentic self in. Partly since I've gain weight, it really is harder to find clothes that speak to me, possibly because I haven't yet accepted the weight gain but also I think there are less "cute" clothes available. But also I don't have the eye for seeing something I love and then sticking it on my body and then pulling it together with the shoes, bags, jewelry that mske it come together instead of ruining what I was trying to do. I swear just like some people can sit down at a piano and bang out something amazing and others can't, some people can throw on a dress and instantly know what other pieces to add to make it work for the look they want. So even tho I want to dress like Stevie Nicks I mostly just wear jeans, a concert t-shirt and birkenstocks (because other shoes make my feet ache)

@mjmaddocks1132 Год назад

When it comes to confidence - fake it til you make it always works - no one can read your mind so what they see on the outside is what they figure is you. He

@sleepy_cloud2501 10 месяцев назад

Personally my anxiety always tell me that people are laughing and criticising me each time I’m out in public so I’d rather wear something that feels like me. And usually people who come up to me are always saying nice things (like that girl who literally jump out of her car to say she loved my outfit 🥹)