how to find your personal style & confidence

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hi loves, welcome back! in this video, I talked about how to find your style. I define style as the way you want to dress and how you express yourself. I also dedicated the first section of the video to how to build your confidence. always remember that if other people can wear it, you can too! given that you are not harming yourself or others in that process :)
And yessss i saw how some of you guys wanted to see a graduation vlog. I didn't have enough content to film an entire vlog so I dedicated the last 3-4 minutes of this video to a mini graduation vlog. I hope you guys liked it.
I don't usually make outfits video since it's not usually the first thing that comes to my head when I want to make videos. I am well aware this video isn't an actual OUTFITS video (apologies if that's what you were expecting). But do let me know if you guys want to see my essentials, clothings I wear or creating outfits. I always like taking suggestions from you guys!
anyways thank you so much for watching. i also wanna know who actually reads my description lol. if you made it all the way here, comment a 🐙 (octopus lol). anyways I love you all! Hopefully summer is officially starting for you guys! hopefully you all are doing well.
Next week's video will be a start of a new series: the healing diaries. I will upload episode 1 of the series and be explaining in the next video what this series is going to be about. in a quick explaination: journal entries but on a deeper and personal level on sensitive topics I don't share often. I consider journal entries to be more advice giving (although ofc I relate it back to myself). Healing diairies will be more of things I'm still struggling with or working on or sensitive topics I don't often talk about on the internet. I guess the differentiation between the two would also depend on how comfortable I feel about the topic. so yeahhhhh. ok anyways I'll see yall soon !!
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@via.ilyouu Год назад

I’d like to add that: If i just had the confidence back then, I could be wearing the same clothes I wear now and still look so slay🩷 so this is why confidence is important 🌷or at least having the courage to wear them out. i love you all

@redelightzzz Год назад

YESSSSSS AND THAT'S ON FACTS! LOVE YOU MORE!! 🤍🤍🤍

@JustABoy98 Год назад

♥️♥️

@oIdricecooker Год назад

LETS GO BIG SIS 😌❤️

@linphyusinthant8045 Год назад

I really love your 2022 eye makeup 😭 can you please make a tutorial video

@ri4eva 11 месяцев назад

hii 🌷 the term you used "so slay" is actually apart of the african american vernacular language but misused. a lot of black people feel uncomfortable when aave is used in the wrong way, so please be mindful of what you say!

@nova4476 Год назад

‘’do it scared’’ reminds me of my favorite Lemony Snicket quotes ‘’Do the scary thing first and get scared later’’ and ‘’If we wait until we're ready, we'll be waiting for the rest of our lives’’. This video couldn’t have come at a better time, massive thank you!!

@emeraldwhite7506 Год назад

COUNT OLAF!!!

@canthinkofagoodusn 11 месяцев назад

I have one more good quote "Being brave means that you act even when you are scared!"

@moon-kc5bc 11 месяцев назад

YESS! Best series everr 🩷 i learned many new amazing quotes from that series

@lilskronklbloop 11 месяцев назад

MY FAV BOOK SERIES im rereading rn

@n07.3d 11 месяцев назад

Reminds me of Brook from one piece

@listless0 Год назад

A small tip from me: don't buy a lot of clothes while changing your style. Since style evolves over time it's highly possible you will not want to wear some of the clothes in a future. For me personally it's easier to buy a few clothes and wear them out and then buy replacements instead of buying full closet of my new aesthetic clothes. I'm poor and still want to look good and dress according to my style so I depend on minimalistic wardrobe. I ask myself if I really need to buy X a few time before making a purchase. Also, I let clothes I bought sit in my closet for a few days (with all tags attached). A lot of times I decidec to return something because I stopped liking it for some reason. Before removing tags make sure your new clothes goes along with your other clothes and you can make outfits. It's what I do to make sure I buy clothes that can be worn with most of my closet and are practical.

@via.ilyouu Год назад

yess! def not buy a lot of the same items. a mistake i made in the past 😭

@Stou_Stitches 11 месяцев назад

That's a precious tip when you're on a tight budget, have a small space or change your style often! I'm more of a hoarder but I should deffo burn your comment into my brain 🥲

@amtra1778 11 месяцев назад

Agree on the don't buying a bunch of clothes at the start, but the rest is a bit of the opposite for me. My mom always nagged and bashed my choices of clothing ever since I was in elementary school because they weren't trendy. That's actually how fashion works; the populace always mimics what the rich wear, while the rich want the direct opposite to set themselves apart from the rest of the population. Plus, with social media, extreme niches are much more acceptable and even encouraged, so it doesn't even really matter if something's trending or not. Especially since fashion runs in a 20 year cycle.

@jammyjammich 11 месяцев назад

You see.... im incredibly broke. And I have A MILLION WISHLISTS. So if I go through them over and over throughout the time I cant get anything, I can single out what lasts in my style choices. And those end up in the cart when I can get things 😊

@user-gi4yi2yo8y 11 месяцев назад

this is so true! if anything i try to buy timeless or basic pieces that will always look good

@saphyrentg3223 Год назад

Don't follow trends, wear timeless pieces 📝

@jcp5302 11 месяцев назад

I think it’s ok to dip into trends if any interest you. It’s only when you over-consume and only get trendy pieces when it becomes an issue. You then end up with a ton of trendy pieces that you may get bored of when it isn’t popular anymore since you over-saturated yourself in it to the point of disinterest. This doesn’t only apply to trends though; it applies to any type of clothing and aesthetic. In my personal experience, I wore so many academia/preppy outfits at one point that I barely wear my sweater vests and my long sleeved button ups now. I still wear them but not as frequently since they kind of feel overused to me. It’s like music. Sometimes you listen to a new song so much that you get bored after a while and end up dropping it. Don’t try to limit yourself to just one aesthetic and try to get wear out of all your pieces. It’s ok to have favorites but try not to only wear your favorites if you are anything like me. My taste in style is a lot more eclectic now that I tried different things and stopped trying to fit into only one category like academia. That’s the thing: people always try to box themselves up into one genre of fashion when that just hinders their creativity and stops them from discovering new things they like. Edit: And of course I typed a whole essay 💀 oops

@carrotisalie 11 месяцев назад

and if you do, don't buy them unless you actually like them and not just because it's a trend

@edwardhisse2687 8 месяцев назад

I mean, a lot of timeles pieces are kinda boring. Just find stuff you like despite the trends.

@jasmintea8825 4 месяца назад

Wear what you like, if it’s a trend and you like it, wear it 🤷🏼‍♀️

@gavisbarbie Год назад

Few tips for keeping a sustainable wardrobe: -before purchasing a piece, think about at least 5 ways to wear it, or make sure that you will actually wear if often enough -when online shopping before you checkout leave the items in your basket and let some time pass, and if you really still want it after letting the initial impulse die down then go for it Lastly while fast fashion isn't cool, it's also important to not shame others for buying from these brands especially if it's for financial reasons. Shopping sustainably can get pricey. Thrifting/ buying second hand/ hand me downs are good ways to experiment with style that doesn't break the bank. Have fun with exploring

@via.ilyouu 11 месяцев назад

this!! it’s so sad that sustainable clothing can be pricier. and yes don’t shame those who have fast fashion brand clothings since we don’t know their financial struggles. however always try to see if u can find good pieces in thrift stores such as goodwill! clothing there are usually under $10!!

@blizzardhd6516 Год назад

"Do it scared" is great advice, pretty much applies to doing anything outside of your comfort zone. Great video Via :)

@lillian_arin Год назад

You're like the elder sister that I don't have. You know it feels great to have someone who can teach you and tell you that it's okay to make mistakes. Sending virtual hugs cause I LOVE YOOOOOOOU!!!!!!!

@via.ilyouu Год назад

LUV U MORE

@d.c.3346 Год назад

VOUCH omfg thats exactly the vibe i get from her :”) explains a lot on why she feels so comforting . dang

@swisdom9117 Год назад

@@d.c.3346I agree. It’s the first time I’ve found a RU-vidr that I feel this connected to

@elisaindrawati4288 10 месяцев назад

I feel the same, eventho I'm much older than Via, but I still feel that she is more mature than me, idk maybe the way she's speaking. So yeah, consciously I already follow almost all of her social media after I watched just one of her video (the one about "growing up ugly", that was hit me, i can relate) :)))

@jaenam5017 Год назад

Tbh I know the reason why my confidence rock bottom. My mother keeps on bashing me everytime I'm trying to dress myself, saying that it doesn't look good on me, I'm too fat and it will look trash if I wore it and such things that really hurt me to the core. I'm really grateful to you because you gave me the confidence that I needed 💙

@courtneysunnight2318 11 месяцев назад

me too, my mom does say stuff like that and it hurts. I’m very self-conscious and have lots of social anxiety, but I know I’ll get the confidence eventually as I grow up. I hope you continue having confidence as well ❤

@nicolejanke6757 11 месяцев назад

Relateable

@TCGrey 11 месяцев назад

Same for me, although she never said xyz looks like shit on me. It was always more like a "Are you sure? Are you really gonna wear this? Don’t you think this is a little bit to [revealing, short, tight, black, …]? 🤨" I‘m so much more confident and comfortable in my body and how I dress since I moved out.

@RabbitTeacup 11 месяцев назад

@@TCGrey Same here. She would keep asking until I changed into whatever she wanted, usually. Even now I live far away and when I came home to visit she STILL did it! It's exhausting and it wore down my self-esteem so much that to this day I still feel rock bottom a lot.

@skye387 11 месяцев назад

I used to be the same but overtime I'm realising that my mom sense of style isn't really a good judgement either (since she's from older generation with different kind of fashion taste) so now I just wear whatever I'm comfortable with.

@LaguBudakKuching Год назад

the way i relate with you is CRAZYY. I grew up feeling ugly for the first 16-17 years of my life, and now to feel confident and wear whatever I want feels so good 😭

@abrilcorominajavier9150 11 месяцев назад

Three simple questions that help me a lot build my closet are “will i wear this at least 30 times?” “Does this match with any othe peaces I already own, and does the color match with my personal colour palette?” And finally “does the fit of this peace bother me or make me uncomfortable in any way?” This way I’m building a closet without consuming too much and I can wear comfortably every single peace. And all the peaces go well togheter so i dress up very fast!!! Love your video ❤

@artemisliah Год назад

As someone who has always been having a hard time finding my style because of my lack of confidence, its really nice hearing the advices that you gave. Thank uuuu luvya xo

@via.ilyouu Год назад

ilysmmmm and i’m so glad i was able to help!!

@lithpickett162 11 месяцев назад

with #8 (being happy in your clothes) this has taken me (and is still taking me) time to find a balance between a clothe's comfort, safety, and happiness. after being SA'd, i sometimes feel like i have to wear more masculine clothing to protect myself or be safe, but wearing really feminine clothes (whether like y2k/barbie or emo/goth/alt inspired clothes or sweet lolita) makes me the happiest. i wonder if other people have shared this struggle and what their personal safe/happy ratio is

@skye387 11 месяцев назад

I have never been SA'd so I wouldn't claim to understand you. I grew up tomboy-ish but at the same time I happen to have more curves than most so I often feel the stares. Both of these fact made me feel that I had to wear long pants and baggy clothes all the time when growing up but then I'd also be called fat when I do that, so every clothes just felt wrong but I still wore it because being called fat was better than the stares. At the same time, I somehow found out about the lolita fashion and fell in love with it, but I have never worn it myself. I would imagine myself wearing lolita while actually wearing unflattering baggy shirt. Now my going out clothes is still mostly covered up long sleeves but they're more fitting that my body curves still shown and I'd either wore fitting long pants or short skirt-pants and feel more confident because with revealing clothes being more common nowadays, I still get stares but not as much as before but the other key point is also the fact that I will only wore those when I won't be alone by myself until I'm at home otherwise I'd still wear the unflattering clothes. That's my personal safe/happy ratio. When I'm alone or will at places that gives me bad feelings I'd prioritise the feeling of safety but if I'm with people and places I feel safe with, I'd prioritise the happiness. When in doubt, I chose safety.

@zakeernalir2871 11 месяцев назад

You can either incorporate both styles and then slowly shift to feminine clothes. I am not even comfortable to go out after multiple sa’ but yeah I think it’s about starting to heal and building the courage, it’s your life after all. Slowly but surely you’ll get there

@hatsuneyu_ 9 месяцев назад

I'm sorry for what you've been through :( I 100% understand you, I love feminine clothes but I'm scared to wear them but when I do, I feel so happy, I hope you can someday have the confidence to wear them, wear whatever you want

@fluffpuff320 11 месяцев назад

"clothes are made to fit you, not the other way around" I feel like this is so obvious but so easy to forget. We get so caught up on what the number says on the label for sizing, like oh I should be a 6 so I'm only gonna buy size 6 clothes, but then you either never end up wearing it, or when you do wear it all you can focus on is how uncomfortable you are. PICK CLOTHES THAT FIT AND ARE COMFORTABLE you shouldn't sacrifice either of those just to wear things you think look nice. And yeah, it can be hard to find clothing you like in sizes that fit, but that's what makes finding that one special piece all the more special. You love your clothes more when they fit you well and feel comfortable.

@nathalik1 11 месяцев назад

Leaving high school was one of the greatest things I could do to my style! I really like alternative fashion, and honestly I feel out of place when shopping, doing groceries or just going out in general.

@via.ilyouu 11 месяцев назад

yea leaving high school was so so healing for me! glad we can relate on this 🤍🤍🤍

@AUGUSTMJ Год назад

your storytelling is stellar. your editing is so engaging too ugh 🎀🏅

@amii.xi1 Год назад

hey via, i've been watching a few of your videos, and i seriously admire your personality. you're a role model for so many. thank you for creating this content for us.

@via.ilyouu Год назад

i love uuuu🩷🩷

@stop.itlena Год назад

Yes I agree!!

@Li-kx8ps Год назад

Honestly when it comes to finding styles it’s just like she said, just wear whatever makes you happy! I discovered most of my style through Pinterest and from there i discovered that I love the simple/minimalistic aesthetic. But I only found that I enjoyed this type of aesthetic through trial and error. Constantly wearing oversized clothing because I was insecure of my figure I realized that it wasn’t flattering for my body. But through time I realized that just a simple tee and baggy pants are what really suit me best lol 🐙

@hxpponaut197 Год назад

It is really good to emphasize that you should NOT buy from trends!! People end up buying a lot of fast fashion to keep up with these and that is EXTREMELY bad for the environment!! Find a wardrobe that you love and KEEP IT!

@LeonSKennedy2002 11 месяцев назад

I’m so grateful you popped up on my recommendations because you’re so relatable! I used to wear basically the same basic outfits, just jeans and a tshirt and it just looked awful on me and I was so scared to wear what I wanted. I’m pretty much past that point, especially since I realized how many complimenting looks I get since I dress how I want to. A guy even asked for my number (that never happened in my life) because he liked my energy and guess what, it’s because I knew what I wore looked good on me and I felt like it. Take what she says to your heart because it’s amazing if you can get past this and feel confident!

@sei-g6987 Год назад

I really agree when you said that we must wear what makes us happy. Back in college, I'm into KPOP styles but I'll hear a lot of 'she's so trying hard', 'koreanang hilaw which means trying hard to look Korean', and I'll admit that it kind of undermined my confidence. I'm not trying to change my nationality. I'm just wearing the clothes I like and make me feel confident and beautiful, but why do people have to step on the little hope I have? But fortunately, there's more people who say that my style is cool and I'm brave to show my personality. And they helped me realize that I should wear my style for me and not for others.

@a._d02 Год назад

Your content is so different from the ones I watch, yet it's so good. I learn a lot from you because I'm still on the process of learning about myself. I can relate a lot to you and your experiences. Thank you for sharing your life with us. I hope you stay happy and healthy. You deserve so much love❤

@clairedrained Год назад

“Do it scared” has become my new motto im so glad I found your channel

@via.ilyouu 11 месяцев назад

YESSSSS

@paulio3o 4 дня назад

“do it scared” is one of my all time favorite quotes from you! i think of it all the time. especially when it comes to things like style and things like going on solo dayes i try to apply it

@Hopischwopi 11 месяцев назад

Style is so personal. Like sure I could go and get compliments by wearing what is seen as fashionable and fitting for my body but in the end I wear my clothes and I want to feel good and like myself. There will always be someone who likes my style and aesthetic and someone who hates it.

@himanshiibisht 11 месяцев назад

i only wear clothes in which i feel pretty, confident and comfortable and for me its wide leg jeans and some amazing graphic baggy tshirts with sneakers on. My mother tells me to wear more feminine clothes but living here in india im afraid or uncomfortable to wear it. eve teasing and staring at women walking down the street is so common in here. so its always the style in which i feel good and comfortable. thank youuu via!! i relate to you so much and you are like a big sister to me!!!💗

@caty2847 5 дней назад

As someone with a bunch of different aesthetics and a fav one forming now (cyberpunk), I always viewed myself lost because of the quantity of different clothes I had. But what you said, "style is what makes you happy," really helped me. I am not lost just cause I am not always wearing the same style. I like all of them, and as an emby, having different styles actually help me when I wanna go for more of a feminine style, or masculine, or more androgynous or just everything and nothing in one. I have been taking this journey without even realising in the past 3 years, and only now I'm finding that it's OK to use different things and finding my fav one. 3 years ago, I started this journey. I still like my first ever style but just in a different way. I have always been the tomboy and always felt that I could not have different interests cause that would be weird for others who used to perceive me in a certain way. I could not like "girl" things, I could never be interested in fashion and so on. Via's vídeos have helped me so much to just do what I want and like what I like, even if its weird for others, and for that I can only thank you.

@yeahidc Год назад

Wore an outfit today that i felt actually good in after a decade. It was just a plain black shirt with pants and my fav boots ofc but just those simple clothes gave me so much serotonin when i looked at myself in the mirror. Currently having my meal watching your videos , best combo 10/10 🤍🩷.

@via.ilyouu Год назад

SO PROUD OF YOUUUUU!!!🩷🩷🩷🌷🌷🌷

@yeahidc Год назад

@@via.ilyouu THANK YOU 🥹 💞💞

@purpleviolet9046 10 месяцев назад

I love black clothes my family gets on me because of it 😂 but idgaf

@peridotpattern9193 Год назад

I love the way you articulate thoughts so clearly and the motivational self-love messages 💛 I find your videos so relatable

@burr1tozilla34 11 месяцев назад

Im so gladddd Ive found your channel. Literally for the past few months, ive been feeling like something’s wrong with me for enjoying being alone and staying in. Ive been constantly being compared to my sisters who’re going out with their friends every now and then, and then pitied by my mom and aunts as “ oh poor her, she’s got no friends, thats why shes always cooped up in her room”. So when that becomes constant, i started to feel depressed and bad about myself, feeling like im not enjoying life , like im a black sheep of the family. But what they don’t understand is that I dont enjoy going out and party all night every single day. Its so energy draining for me. Ive been very depressed and having anxiety attacks at nights because of that. i know you might not see my comments amongst others, but THANK YOU.

@demilynn4179 Год назад

This is very true... I struggled for a long time to wear what I wanted to wear.. leaving school helped.. also moving to my own place helped😂... But even now I am still growing the" style" and the comfort zone .... to having the confidence to wear it ... some days I do not... and I might feel much better in a long-sleeved shirt or whatever ... and that is okay😇

@Me_July Год назад

i literally just love your videos so much, and it brings me a huge comfort feeling while im watching. thank you for being so nice and relatable. also you r soooo pretty !!

@avasushko 10 месяцев назад

omg i can’t find my style so l am doing everything i can. but this is first video that tells me the most important thing: “if u are happy, it’s fine”. omg thank you so much, you really helped me to make a move and learn new things 💗

@Nina-bh5jj 8 месяцев назад

Something that helped me a lot was learning that just because I like something it doesnt mean i would look/feel good in it. Learning to differentiate between clothes/styles that I liked and would wear vs ones i liked and wouldnt wear was a real moment of clarity for me.

@pan_munchies Год назад

Seeing your videos really comfort me. I like how real you are and dont sugar coat everything. I just started my youtube channel and your videos give me the confidence to try in everything I do. Thank you!!!

@Saksho-pm1jq Год назад

I love how you focus on what 'I' think my fashion and my own confidence, happiness,satisfaction not on what others think about me. ❤ Your videos always make us be more confident thank you

@gaia930 Год назад

Exactly we keep on changing with style, comfort and vibes, and if you want to find your style and clothes that flattered your body you gotta experiment with lots of clothes, styles, and colours, the design pieces because the more you understand yourself and the more you build your style which looks best on you

@flameygacha Год назад

I found your Chanel not to long ago and I’m so glad I did. It feels like you’re actually having a conversation with you which makes it more enjoyable!!!

@OurBlueOcean7 11 месяцев назад

Although it was never too severe, I’ve always been insecure and anxious of what people think of me. That’s why this video (especially your first point about not caring what people think as long as you’re happy and your personal experience of growing self confidence) really resonated with me and almost made me cry😅 thank you because this is exactly the advice i need since I’m trying to improve myself through starting a lifestyle refresh including finding my personal fashion style💙

@whatthehecktye 11 месяцев назад

Thank you, I needed to hear this golden advice. 🙏🏻 Growing up, my mother was extremely controlling of everything I wore or did. I’m learning to slowly undo that at 28, and finally start wearing what I really want.

@TheMartianHasLanded 10 месяцев назад

I also was afraid to try new styles when I was in high school but after I left, I started experimenting more with my looks (hair, makeup, clothes, shoes, jewelry.) Now people always tell me that I can get away with wearing anything and I tell them it's because I just do it without caring!!! I wear things because I like them and that's it!

@morfechristinemaec.7852 Год назад

I just found out about your channel 3 days ago and I already love it sooooo much! I enjoy your content and I find comfort in your videos. Thanks Via!

@nobodysloth3050 Год назад

Stumbled upon your channel and never realized how much I love this style of content! Thank you for all that you do! 🐙

@htmlstephie6470 Год назад

i've watched a few of your vids now and i'm absolutely in love with your vibe and style!!! our experiences are super similar and i found myself relating to a lot of what you have gone through, i'm still on this journey of letting the "you're not pretty enough to wear this" mentality go and growing my confidence, but i can say that i'm becoming more comfortable in my own skin every day. thank you for the encouragement and inspiration, it's comforting knowing that we're never alone in these situations

@moonbvnny 8 месяцев назад

this is around the second or third time i saw a video from you and i just feel so comfortable watching you talk about certain topics. i feel like i am having a talk with a big sister and honestly i love that. keep doing what you are doing! thank you for posting videos and sharing your thoughts and experiences! ♡

@Midget-lc5zc 11 месяцев назад

This is the first time im watching any of your video and can i just say your vibes are immaculate ?!? Thoroughly enjoyed this video and its genuinely helpful

@teunissenstefan Год назад

I literally just found your channel about an hour ago and I can't stop watching your videos, they're too relatable. Pretty funny that you uploaded another video just now haha

@jujules450 Год назад

I’m glad that you made this video. I’ve always struggled with what clothes to get/wear and especially with matching clothes with eachother. I feel like some of my clothes don’t match, and I end up not wearing those clothes. It’s also because I’m self conscious of what I wear when I go out. I love how you make your videos, they are comforting in a way. :”) ❤️

@neonbarnowl Год назад

Perfect timing, havent finished the video yet but recently discovered your channel. Love your sense of humor and your ability to be so vulnerable about your experiences! Relate so much even with me being 25 oof 😅 still learning how to become into my self and developing a sense of style

@multifandomstan412 11 месяцев назад

This video helped a lot I can say I’m in the same situation I’ve never had the confidence to dress the way I actually want to dress now I’m 21 and slowly building up my confidence and trying to find my style

@qayathetruestepper Год назад

I was having a literal mini-breakdown trying to online shop and my older sister was like ‘just get what you like’ and I’m like ‘but how will I put it together?’ Lmao this helped neutralise my turmoil. Ly Via! 💙

@user-ye3eb2my8i Год назад

thanks Via ♥ your video made me rethink the relationship between outfits and life and my views on clothes. In the past, I always wanted to try out as many new pieces as I could, which has frustrated me because of an inadquate budget. What's worse was that spending too much on clothes would made me feel ashamed and anxious. I've attached excessive importance to external appearance. it seems to me that clothes I wear is the only way to express myself. "If I don't put emphasis on what I wear, I'm not take my life seriously."- such thoughts used to trap me. Nowadays, I'm still interested in various clothes and have the desire to try them on, but I've already realised that there are other things in my life that are worthy of attention and I am free to choose different ways of showing my attitude to life. Clothing is just an asepect of life but reflects many things, it's a thought-provoking topic. Looking forward to hearing more of your opinions on this. Hope all is well in your life! 😗

@ilanakochmann389 Год назад

Your videos are really good, you post very often and keep the audience engaged, the shots are very aesthetic, the way you talk is very pleasant. Please keep loving what you do and you’ll succeed very much❤️❤️

@AsteraVale 9 месяцев назад

3:10 damn got me in the feels right there. I love fashion, but I've been struggling with my style for a while bc I always went back to just the mentally of "youre gonna look bad in everything, doesn't matter anymore." and just wore whatever bc I cared about what or how people would perceive me and a little insecure, but This helped and was a nice reminder

@starei 11 месяцев назад

thank you for this, i just really have to say that. for as long as i can remember, i find it difficult to find clothes which look nice on me. im not overweight not am i underweight, im just there. Im in those in between, awkward stages of my body becoming a bit more grown, ive hit puberty when i was really young (9) so ive always had this insecure image of myself. yesterday, i found this video and watched it in hopes of it actually helping me find clothes which make me look nice, but tbh, i was kind of not getting my hopes up because usually these typed of videos dont help me, but this time it did. Today, i experimented a little bit and i found myself being more confident and i really enjoy that feeling. From this video, i learnt to use these tips and they work really well. thank you again 🥹👍💗

@methusharavi5136 3 месяца назад

Via's vids are truly helping me heal part of myself that were broken, and i'm grateful ❤

@asha3681 Год назад

I’m actually obsessed with your content!!! Your videos are soo pretty and soo relatable, and your GORG. I ❤uuuu

@ikonicbostonterrier 11 месяцев назад

This was so helpful, I’ll watch this again to note things down❤ I’ve been getting interested in fashion and started to buy ‘things’ but it’s all just individual items that I like and have been struggling to build style… how you explain it made so much sense!! Thank you so much for this and just love the way you are too 🫶

@greyee0005 11 месяцев назад

Priortising basic pieces is the best piece of advice from this vid! I recently cleared out a lot of old clothes as I didn't like the style anymore, but you can wear a basic piece forever

@skye387 11 месяцев назад

Basics is when clothes accessories shine. Adding different accessories makes the same basic feels completely different.

@lvnnnnn Год назад

I swear crocheting on my little chair, sipping tea and watching these vlogs/videos is how I love to spend my afternoons. Im abt to scramble through my wardrobe as u speak this is advice I needed way earlier

@ahqso Год назад

I’ve discovered you a few days ago, and the past few years have been a bit complicated! but your videos are sooo comforting and it gives me the motivation to move on and to work on myself. I’ll definitely often leave a comment under your videos! love from france btw 🫶🏻

@vaish_diarys 10 месяцев назад

This is my first video of yours. I watched 2 of your shorts and liked how honest you were w your vulnerable feelings, and also the funny attitude. I subscribed indecisively and am finally watching the videos. I must say, your words literally have so much impact. You are just a ytber miles away, don't know where, idek who you are, and don't remember your name as I'm writing this comment but that single "do it scared" changed my mindset. I'm not exaggerating. I always felt that i am not defined to just one style. I find street style cool, i look good in my indian traditionals, i love academia but don't find myself that aesthetic yet, i don't really like wearing girlie clothes but wanna try it once to see if actually suits me or not. I hate pink but that colour goes the best w my skin. I wanna experiment w different clothings, diff styles, diff colours, diff aesthetic, diff trends and diff emetions. This just doesn't apply to clothes. I really wanna make daily life vlogs on insta and yt but am too scared to upload those. What if my friends find it cringe, what if they think I'm such a dumbo, what if my 'cold guy' crush doesn't find it interesting??? I won't say that i will start making that rn after watching this video but I will definitely try to be more confident in what i do and less interested in what others see of me. Thank you so much for this video it really REALLY means a lot. And yes i won't be apologizing for my english here. I know it's not the perfect and i definitely have made mistakes in here but who cares?? I tried and will improve w time :))

@sumayathatsit4676 Год назад

seeing my favourite youtuber back with a new video was just the thing my week needed

@ankita_shalu Год назад

one thing i wanna say here is because these words and advices come from the 'you' who has been through it yk.. it feels like you're just talking to your past self.. where some of us are, so you're kinda the evolved self. guiding us to be the better versions of us. your old self would be really proud of you. thank you again. 💖 and your mini grad vlog is sooo cute. 🥺

@manasdas55 Год назад

U don’t know how much u have helped me via ilysm and omg ur editing I love it . Thank you so much for helping me a lot with being alone 😭🫶🏻🫶🏻

@loserm847 Год назад

A couple hours late but CONGRATS ON GRADUATING!!🎓I also wanted to add that I love the way you talk like I feel like we’re having a conversation and this video was very helpful in opening my eye as well as the advice you gave so thank you

@softerhaze 11 месяцев назад

ever since starting uni ive gained more confidence to wear what i want and started finding my style, however i still sometimes feel super self conscious and awkward in public even though i was absolutely digging my outfit in the mirror lmaoo

@via.ilyouu 11 месяцев назад

this frrr!! i feel so good about it in front of the mirror but when i go out i feel so self conscious😭😭😭still struggling to djsjsjwjjwjw

@abs0lutelyn0t. 11 месяцев назад

DW Y’ALL R STUNNINGGGGG

@B._s04 Год назад

Girlll I literally just found your channel like yesterday and I love your personality, you seem so genuine❤

@bread5947 11 месяцев назад

just wanted to say thank you for this video because it was very comforting and motivating to watch :-) imma try actually wearing things i like and be more confident, wish me luck!!

@bettyjones9745 Год назад

Ur so positive human being 😩 it's like something's shining from you 💫💫💫

@notanotaa 11 месяцев назад

girl ur like a safe space for me, keep up the great content and energy ❤

@altheajulienne3345 2 месяца назад

I love the way you talk, it's like I'm talking with my bestie and she is comforting meeee✨🫶🏻

@henloworld514 11 месяцев назад

I love your videos so freaking much!! I relate so much to your high school self, and I really want to find my style and confidence now that I’ve graduated from hs too! Thank you so much for the amazing advice ♡

@chafles7481 Год назад

I love the chill vibe of your videos! Feels like just hanging out with a close friend 😃keep up the great content! 🧡

@carolinemaas802 Год назад

i love all your videos so much❤ you're so real and unfiltered and funny 🫶 i can't believe how quickly ur channel is growing im so happy for u!! please make an outfit essentials vid and where u like to get ur staples bc i love ur style!!🐙🐙

@lilac-nebula Год назад

Your content is always so inspirational and so heartwarming! Thank you for the video!

@bokuwatoki5983 Год назад

Just found your channel after I searched “personal style” and voila! You have a new subscriber ❤ I’ve been catching up on all of your videos and you’re so relatable and genuine. Yay!

@RosePhantoma 11 месяцев назад

I really appreciate that you put it as "this doesn't look good on me" and not "I look terrible in this", I need to try and think that way more

@yymmas 11 месяцев назад

thank you so much for this video !!! bless the algorithm for throwing this vid at me just as i'm trying to figure out my style :') and damn, it really does boil down to confidence + trial and error, both of which i did not have/do during HS and college :< but now, as i'm graduating college, i've been slowly trying to push myself to actually go to the fitting room to try stuff on + take pictures, and i think its going well so far ! still working on the body image thing tho but i have started to buy one basic piece at a time :')

@humaarshad 9 месяцев назад

Via reminds me of Kim Go-Eun and her role in Goblin I love Via, you’re my inspiration

@mac8124 11 месяцев назад

your feminine style is so cute!!! i'm glad you gained the confidence to wear what you want because you look great

@kiminikiii 4 месяца назад

i've only just started watching a few of your videos but i really love what you cover especially since i can relate haha. i feel like you'd be an amazing bestie irl but you're amazing

@asty2661 Год назад

'do it scared' has been my mantra since your latest journal entry haha🐙 I really like how you dress now because our style are kinda similar so thanks for the video!! will try to do more mix and match to my dresses 🐙

@hkb3a Год назад

I just recently started watching her videos and I'm in LOVE with her content ❤❤

@alfiabranwen3495 10 месяцев назад

Growing up, i had my mother to choose outfits for me so it didn't really bother me what style or what i look on it as long as im comfortable, however, looking back before those styles never actually suit me. But now, i get to choose what will fit me. Although still had that problem about self-confidence, for i get really anxious when it's time for me to go out of our house. I felt like, my neighbors would talk behind my back and say something about what im wearing. So, yeah what you really say actually moved me and somewhat inspired me to just wear what i felt like.

@lilu3371 Год назад

It takes so much courage to try different styles! I love how the video is edited, it's super relaxing and comfortable. Congratulations again on your graduation!! 🥳Lysm Fun fact: Your name ''Novia'' in Spanish literally means girlfriend hahaha

@via.ilyouu Год назад

yeppp been told since i was a kid 🌝

@stephp3455 Год назад

I commented on your video last time because I never related to someone so much. I have not gotten the confidence to wear what I want. Which I’m still trying to get because I’m scared of what people would say and my body. But looking at videos like this it gives me a boost towards the right direction.

@wels.ori5 Год назад

I love your personality, the video, and the editing, everything is really nice. Thank you so much for your advice, I really appreciate it 🌷🫂

@extremesubtlety 11 месяцев назад

Really good vid, thank you so much for sharing your insights

@lilaaryelevans2634 Год назад

Ah I loved this one so much, watching this made my week much better hehe😊 honestly your videos are the only thing getting me through this exam period.:)))✨✨

@shaymaafaisal5157 Год назад

no because i love ur videos!! im binge watching them all in one sitting, I relate to u sm :((( anyway keep doing what ure doing cuz ure amazing !!

@kellyh7158 Год назад

This was a really helpful video to watch 👍🏼❤️😄 I definitely want to learn to style clothes better. I also used to always wear jeans and a Tshirt cause it was what worked best for school and work. My closet still has like 100 shirts and 15 pairs of jeans but I’m slowly working towards changing my clothes to something more diverse and stylish. I’m trying to find a way to style the clothes I already have while also maybe buying a few stylish pieces to branch out a little. You’re totally right about confidence and style going hand in hand. I’ve totally bought clothes before that I liked but never had the confidence to wear them out so they sit in my closet for years never being worn. This was a really helpful video to watch and I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who goes through this. Finding inspo pics to help me coordinate outfits sounds like a great idea.

@bubbles8025 Год назад

ILYSM VIA

@breadbird 11 месяцев назад

i really want to get into styling myself more and this really helped me because i want to find clothes i like thst isnt just a t shirt and shorts, but ive also been really scared to try out new things and this helped me find confidence :)

@joyloebs846 Год назад

I just want you to know that your vids are ALL i've been watching every morning before college for this whole week. I love them all!

@via.ilyouu Год назад

STOP I LOVE UUUU

@flaiirenn Год назад

i'd love to see a video of you just putting together outfits! you have such great style!! it's something i honestly would like to emulate - its so elegant and dainty :)

@Rngg0 Год назад

You are literally my FAVORITE youtuber🎀 Omggg ILYSM❤❤

@phi180 11 месяцев назад

your style is immaculate!! thanks for the tips

@meIlIl 11 месяцев назад

Your content has been giving me confidence to wear different types of clothing i like❤ Thank you Via!!❤❤

@tatemacc 11 месяцев назад

im going into my 3rd year of highschool (Ive always had a uniform or super specific dress code) and I've never had time to develop a style, so i'd only ever be able to look at people wearing something that id love but I would never have the clothes or place to wear it. this video honestly really helped me with getting started because I've always been too anxious to try anything but now I'm just gonna "do it scared" :)

@AUGUSTMJ Год назад

you can do anything via. you’re a star