How Jason Went From a Hopeless Marriage to Wife Choosing to Come Back Though His Internal Shifts 

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“I chose to bet on myself.” Chills. Thanks fellas.

I struggle around the approach given here to affairs. Broken trust in a relationship is absolutely devastating. While the non affair partner of course played a part in the relationship dynamic, the betrayal, hidden behaviours and choice to cross the marriage line belongs to the affair partner alone. We need to own our own behaviour not take on the responsibility for other’s peoples behaviour too.

I had a phone call with Jason today. He's awesome. The way he interviewed me felt like a kick in the ass and I needed that. It's the first time I haven't felt panicked in weeks. I now know what I need to do.

Wow , this video is amazing, and I'm right where Jason was , after watching and studying Geoff's classes( I don't call them videos) I finally admitted how bad I betrayed my wife and marriage but not trying, but I'm growing internally so I can be happy with who I see in the mirror and maybe one she will trust me enough to try again

This story is so similar to what my story is. She has no desire to come back to me. I didnt give her that emotional safety. I have taken the last 2 months to better myself, but I'm afraid that I can't let go of wanting her back. I truly love the man I am slowly becoming, I just pray my ex comes back.

Fantastic video! Jason, appreciate your quote, "I was meant to be better than what I am now.". That struck a deep chord with me. Thank you both for sharing.

This has helped me so much. Instead of just trying to be a good person in front of my partner I’m trying to be a better person now all the time to really integrate these changes into my personality

Watching this through hit me so hard. Jason is the embodiment of what ownership is, means and looks like. Like most I just want my situation to improve and reconsile as quickly as possible but I’m also aware that it took years for it to get to this point. The resistance is tough. Being consistent with who and how I am towards my kids and remaining calm and unshakable despite opposition is getting easier but not quite second nature yet. She definitely doesn’t believe my changes have been genuine and either consciously or unconsciously tests my resolve and seems to want to see me fail because when or if I do it would justify ending things. She doesn’t want to try, doesn’t want me to try, just wants her space or a sense of privacy she feels she doesn’t have. Neither of us are really in a financial situation where we can afford to live separately. My history of struggling to be and prove I can be a provider has been one of the big underlying issues she’s had with me. Regardless of the financial situation we’ve been in there has been a communication block or misunderstanding of whom should be responsible for what, what there part should be and that it’s neither of our responsibilities to make up financially or emotionally where either of us are deficient. Rather than taking criticism as caring I took it as personal attacks that I had to defend myself from or try to justify or explain away. I desired to be understood and I see also I hoped having some sound logic behind my responses would grant me some grace. I went far too long not taking it seriously enough. I’d make enough changes for long enough to get comfortable again and then the cycle would repeat. I’ve stopped allowing myself to get comfortable and that’s been a real exercise in working on myself and a skill that does and will benefit me no matter what life throws my way. I won’t pretend it’s not difficult to know I’m depended on and that I can be manipulated by asking favors of me that allow me to feel useful and valuable. There’s an internal battle of feeling like there needs to be a boundary to not allow myself to be used and manipulated because if they are single and seeing other people and say we’re not and never will be together than they need to stop having any expectations or benefits of me that serve them and should only be things I make available of myself only to whom I’m in a relationship with. So far I’ve calmly been able to communicate how and why and what I feel when favors and compromises are asked of me but aren’t reciprocated but as we know applying logic to emotions doesn’t work. There must be some safety there though because she still tells me whatever I do or don’t want to hear which is probably in part to try and hurt me which is understandable. In our most recent discussion (I say that because she tried to turn it into an argument with swearing and personal attacks) she made it clear that she doesn’t want to get along with me. Every time I show that she can talk to me and tell me whatever and that we can get along she will immediately try to start an argument with me. I know this should be received as a positive thing though and is a sign of resistance. Sorry for the long comment. I’m still trying to get myself in the financial position to join the program. I will do it, it just hasn’t happened as soon as I’d hoped. Thank you Geoffrey’s as I’ve got so much from your content!

Great to hear from you both like this. I’m on the FB group, Jason stated he loved how I approached my situation and made a good start to level up in the right areas. Which gave me even more hope and a bit of pride that I was understanding, (even though I know the videos aren’t as in depth as would be in the program). I have taken the 5 step master class. Been making very small steps with my issue and have seen some results in just this first week. I really want to join the full course and better myself. Financially it’s difficult though, I hope I can find a way because I truly believe you guys can help. All the best

Watching your videos has made me aware of several different levels of growth that I need to achieve. I wasn't even able to give the lower-level needs in the relationship and it hurts to think about how unequipped I was to provide the higher-level needs. Right now, I want to work my way up! And the ultimate level up will be when I can afford to pay for this program. I also want to join the team! I'm just so happy because I learnt something that relates directly to my challenge from this video. I have been looking for something tangible to hold on to and today I got it. "Ask yourself every day, "how can I be better?" over and over again.

Another great talk. What a story...more than a story though because it's a real transformation. Looking forward to talking with you Jason and getting started on this journey, whatever the outcome.

Wow this is amazing! Jason is a true inspiration of what it means to have a top mindset. As you know I've been watching some of the videos for about a month now and went to a master class. As a former police officer (had to leave because of personal reasons) mindset is huge, and taking these approaches and asking open ended questions to learn more about how to be and what to do is excellent and really helpful. I unfortunately at this time am caught up in my masters degree and other job, but I definitely would love to join the program when this is all over, which will be the start of 2023. Definitely a top goal is to best the most understanding and patient person you can be, while a subset goal may be to get the relationship back because you want it, not need it. It's like the expression aiming for the moon but if you miss you'll shoot a star. We are aiming at our own lives and self and in that process, the relationship could be revived. These videos and learnings just excite me so much and I always re-watch whenever I'm feeling low to remind myself of the overall goal of finding happiness in myself and being the best I can be.

i started looking your videos because i am right now in the exact same position. my wife wants a divorce and meeting someone else. i was destroyed ans did MANY of the no go mistakes. now i‘m focusing on myself becoming a better me. time will tell if this affects my wife and she wants a second chance for us. i would want to but i want her to be happy and i know i will be too. i just would like to be happy with her together. your videos got. ne out of my pessimism

Thanks for the inspiration Jason!

More on " process of growth" would be welcomed! 😀 Very inspiring.. guys!

Yes, yes, yes. Take extreme ownership. Long lasting changes come from within. It's not overnight. Nothing worthwhile is easy, but the journey is so well worth it. Keep practicing like an athlete performer.

This has open my eyes that I need to better my self internaly

I kid you not man the first video I watched was yours. I looked over the video very quick and then watched other ones but yours came back and I calmed down and thought, damn why does this tickle my head watching this.... another thank you for even being here bro. It's almost like being a Christian ngl

22:36 ....(i am paraphrasinghere)" ... Jason says, Even through the resistance I experienced from other people I didn't let that feed me I defined who I was gonna be. I left the old man behind and I stuck with it.." I just joined the programmed and so impressed already. Feeling a little lost and this is a good guiding light thank you jason

I really relate to Jason's story. I too have hit the end of my relationship 12 years in and there was infidelity in the past. He also is awesome on the Facebook group.

Yes is hopeful i feel better knwing im not the only going thruogh this part my with my wife we are In about to a divorce

I feel hopeless… I just moved to a new state no job atm or money… and in this situation. Im working on bettering myself. But dang I really really wish I could take this class…. I know it would help me!!!

Nice hedge Geoffrey!

33:45 My happiness is not dependent on the relationship Untethering is big for me.. ... And nobody wants to go into a relationship where they feel that the other person's happiness. Is their responsibility

Just signed up ....amazing

Yeah this sux im in same boat im being pushy im trying so hard today was good i let her go out tonight and im giving her time and space tonight, i pray she comes to me for a talk and feels a little more safe

My marriage is there now. 26 years together. I’ve been making a lot of changes and been focusing on internal shifts and she sees it and she’s really angry. She says I should’ve done this a year ago. She told me she doesn’t love me anymore. There’s no future and no hope. She also said she started talking to other people as well (though that could’ve been a test to see how I’d respond). I’ve done my best to stay calm and I don’t react no matter what she’s saying….hard as hell btw

I am struggling with the same phase... I am currently obsessed with getting her back and before seeing this video i was already thinking about how to let go of the fact that if she's isn't there in my life I can't move up... But i want to get out of this toxicity I have developed in myself... I told her i do have an ulterior motive to spend time with her i.e. to get her back... But I am only focusing on getting her back and unable to shift my focus on improving myself for my betterment... I am desperately struggling to first accept the fact she is not my partner anymore and second instead of my goal being chasing her to the end, i should thrive to be better for myself.

What's the most motivating is that even your company Geff is growing and learning new things. That for me is just me pushing myself to put the work that I need to put in!!!!

...in order to reach your dreams...you have to do something you haven't done before...

4 Pieces of Advice: 1. My situation is not unique 2. Be Humble,"You dont know sh__t! I can't fill a cup thats full !" 3. Stop your limiting beliefs 4.Stay Consistent ( And if you are doing 34:31 the work, you don't have to focus on this as much)

Hi Geoffrey, your videos are very inspiring and give hope. I'm interested in your master class but I'm not able to attend the on the dates you've listed from the link above. Can you please send me a link to other dates you provide this class? Thanks in advance!

Give me a process to becom bulletproof im broke and tryng to provide for my family still this is my biggest struggle controlling my emotions now i dont drink amd smoke heavily

Geoff how do I get in contact on a call

Love your video Jason, but you gotta let your guest speak when they’re on a roll and and keep interrupting from telling their emotional story... just an observation 😁

24:14. ". .. master the internal stuff..."

I admitted all my faults and she is trying to step out on me. God by faith I claim my wife is back but it's up to Gods plan and my emotional control

35:41 This is what i want to work for what i want to achieve 💯

Me and Jason have the same relationship that I have on my wife and I’m like him I tried all these other things they just for funny because they’re not me and I am realizing that I’m the one that caused this

Im trying not to push

45:20💪💪💪💯