I would appreciate it Deeply if anyone could pray for me I'm very Sick suffering with chronic pain from long time illness please pray for me I'm suffering praying for Everyone everyday God bless you all
🙌😊Lord Jesus Christ of Nazaret thank you for your blood. Your blood that protects, heals & saves. King Jesus thank you for your stripes & tears. Thank you for what you did on the cross. You are enough. Victory is yours Lord God. Your will be done Abba! We are blessed,healed,loved,favored & protected! Amen! 👏😇
My family is completely filled with narcissists. I was always the black sheep and the lone wolf. I've learned to pull back and stay to myself. My life is quiet and personal. And it's the best decision I ever made.
I am a lone wolf most of the time. In my shop, or in my truck traveling. No radio--- because commercials cater to narcissists. In the shop I can listen to happy, calm music--- not into the pop culture styles. Hiking is my paradise adventure. Do you hike?
There is no such thing as rejection, rejection is God's protection and Direction ;-) Jesus wants us to choose ourselves first, which is how we Empower others and Trigger their healing, by how we choose to live. You must put your own oxygen mask on first, because it's self-preservation, and when one boat rises, we all rise❤
I'm in this situation as currently as well-God will see you through. You will prevail, as God's word says; do not be afraid. We must trust his will. His ways. He has our best interest at heart and will not let others hurt you!!! Keep being strong! I commend you, this is certainly the most difficult thing I've dealt with-sending you prayers
I’m no longer religious, due to being “raised” by religious narcissists, so it is safe to say this is the first time I have watched or listened to anything like this for two decades. I refer to myself as spiritual, and have had a deeply personal spiritual journey, post abuse and especially after going no-contact. I remember loving bible stories as a child, so there was something quite healing about listening to you just now. I appreciated how you explained everything. Thank you. You are a beautiful person 🙏💖
If you loved Bible stories you may really enjoy the yt channel Shepherd’s Chapel as they teach book by book, verse by verse so you really do get the entire story. 😇
So sorry about the religious people in your life, it’s awful. You can be saved by just reading the bible New Testament and believing it, I’m 63 now but as a 13 year old I decided to read it, and I read all about Jesus, and something in me fell in love with him… so although I had very little understanding of it in whole, as I did not read the O T until adult hood, he changed my life, I held myself to a higher standard, tried to judge myself instead of others and would look for him in every thing I did, I was not as they say born again, YET, but he was gently moving me and pushing me in his direction, I even got in to new age for a while, constant disappointment in people and jobs and husbands and life, and the betrayal of every one I knew drove me into his arms, then I experienced the born again experience ..💥💥💥💥and it’s Holy Spirit driving me every day to be with him, I am not my old self anymore,.. and I know I’m blessed, this young lady really blew me away with this kind of wisdom, she’s beautiful. Never stop just looking for Jesus it’s him who saves us from this sad world,God bless you, from NZ💥🙏🏼❤️
I'm so sorry you had that experience and hurt in your life. It's wonderful to know that It's all about relationship dear one , God doesn't desire man made religion. He loves you so much you are very precious to him. The truth is far better than anything religion offers. So don't be afraid to draw near to Jesus, he is waiting for you ❤
The Bible was never meant to be used as a weapon the way narcissists wield it. :( It was meant to give hope to people. The story of Jesus is of a man who tried to do good things, help people, heal people, and he experienced nonstop narcissistic abuse. From the moment of his birth, Herod was trying to kill him. But he overcame all of that, and continued to love and care for people. That's why it's called the "Good News," not the "Make people feel like crap" news. LOL! I was also raised by religious narcissists -- one was supposedly Catholic, the other supposedly Buddhist. Both really didn't follow the tenets of their religion. Matthew 19:29-30 says it's okay to leave them. The story of Job is another good story of someone who experienced narcissistic abuse. Job lost everything to narcs, and then endured a smear campaign by three so-called "friends." In the end, the smear-campaign revealed who were not his real friends, and with his continued hard work, he ended up regaining what he lost, and more, because he was able to weed the flying monkeys out of his life.
NEVER put GOD and men side by side. Never compare them as the same . Mam , I’ve been hurt by the elite in the church so many times but THEY will NEVER keep me from coming to my FATHER’S HOUSE. NO, not on their best day. Because I know who really is behind this evil and he loses at the END .
The false accusation is probably the most difficult for me to walk through. It’s one of most manipulative, evil, demonic thing that someone can do to gain that power and control. This one is very hard when you’re in relationship with that person..i.e. your spouse. It’s horrible to wake up and realize that this person is not and never was the person you thought they were.
@@JillKai-k6g For me it was also the hardest part. I left my ex after he smeared my name pretending that I was the abuser when he was. I only reacted to the abuse. Then he used my reactions to play the victim and went and cried by his parents saying I'm so abusive and then his parents smeared my name all over the country. That is breaking the 9th commandment and they will not enter heaven with that on their record unless they repent and correct the lies so they are worse off than us. Their eternal life is on the line. In that case I will rather take the blame because one day people will know that it was them not us who were the abusers.
What a blessing it is .. have no regrets , but listen to what Jesus said (not verbatim): "My mother, brother and sister are ones who love God and keep his commands ". God is with you at all times .. God bless you with a relationship-with-Godwise fruitful and efficient new life ...
I come in agreement with you! Lord God, bring healing to Kaitlin and clarity where there is confusion and lies. Lord, you are the truth, set her free in JESUS NAME!
I’m just getting out of a 7yr relationship with a narcissist 😣 Divorced 2yrs ago. And as I completely seeked the lord , the vail of confusion was lifted and I could see God does not approve. Only difference now is I have the armor of God on so I have the courage to finallly leave.
I finally got a temporary restraining order from mine about 3 months ago now and I have the hearing to determine whether it becomes permanent in 3 days. Please pray for me. I am trusting God to make it happen for me because it is not His will for me to be aligned with such a man.
@@annaspeaksout2964 that is crazy because I have court in 3 days as well. To find out if my protective order will be accepted or declined. He is so toxic and dangerous I hope the court sees this. I just want him out of my life for good. I can pray for him afar but I am so done. I want my peace and happiness. Will be praying for you as well!
I was lying in bed early this morning thinking and worrying about how to deal with my elderly, end stage COPD, narcissistic,controlling mother and how to deal with her. She has brought me so much pain since childhood and now I’m pushing 60, have a wonderful Christian husband and 2 great kids,and am not free to enjoy my family because of her me,me,me attitude. This is so difficult to deal with. I just finished crying out to God and praying for Him to show me how to deal with her. Afterwords I opened my iPad and there you were. Thank you! Please pray for me!
I hear you. I feel like I can never be free from bondage as long as my narcissistic mother is still here because I have to see her/talk to her every day, so I don't think I can forgive her because it's something new each day. Since I've come to Jesus earlier this year, I have been able to let go of my rage towards her, but she still gets me agitated. I've also been able to let go of the constant worry about upsetting her/inconveniencing her because she's always hateful. How do you 'honor thy father and mother' when at least one of them is a narcissist??
💞🙏💞 Something to consider. I had to separate from my mother because of her hateful attitude .. so she drew closer to other family members. I kept praying for her. When all family members went away or passed away .. she was all alone in a nursing home. Then God motivated me to go see her. I discovered that she had changed and was happy to see me. So I relocated to be with her and when I saw her reading magazines .. I took her a stack of Christian magazines .. and before she passed away 6 months later .. she found the steps in the magazines regarding how to find eternal life .. and became a totally new person in Christ. 💞🏡💞📖💞
@@kingsdaughter317 That’s a wonderful story! My mother claims to be a Christian although her acts say narcissistic, manipulative, controlling, selfish, mean, jealous, vindictive, grudge holding, miserable person. I’m not exaggerating one bit. She’s divorced 4x, thrown fits in more Dr offices than I can count,got mad and left her church years ago. She tried to overdose twice when I was growing up and is the most mentally abusive person I’ve ever seen in my life. She’s an only child as am I. She literally has no one else! She treats me horribly then turns it around and tells everyone I treat her bad. She’s in end stage COPD with congestive heart failure and can hardly walk. Her latest tirade was witnessed by my husband. She has 2 Dr appointments coming up in the next 2 weeks and I offered to take her as we always do. She absolutely refuses to commit to whether or not she will accept. Our daughter recently moved 4 hours away and I wanted to go visit her for 2-3 days. My mother completely controls what I get to do. I’ll be 60 soon and have been happily married for 32 years. She gets so jealous if we want to leave and go camping or go see our kids. She throws up things I did clear back in school! Btw my grandparents pretty much raised me thankfully. She’s still jealous of the relationship I had with them. I’m a Christian and try really hard. I have several health problems. Idk how long I am trying to live my best life possible. I’ve let her drag me into arguments a lot but can’t do it anymore. I don’t want her to die leaving me with guilt. I have enough as it is. I pray about it all the time. She has run my life for so many years I don’t know what to do. My Dr has told me to distance myself from her but I can’t seem to. Yesterday I finally had enough. I told her to find her own way to the Dr. Keep in mind that the we enable her to live alone or she couldn’t. We get groceries,medicine,cat food, fast food, Dr appointments, take out trash, and mow her lawn, and fix things at her house. She’s a total hoarder and I went and cleaned her house a couple of years ago while she was in the hospital to prevent her falling. She got mad and immediately trashed it again. She doesn’t have a kind word for me. She lies and tells people I took money from her etc. and has threatened to “get me for elder abuse”. She’s even tried to cause trouble between me and my husband. I’m finally at my limit. She has no one else but I can’t stand being around her one more second. Where do I draw the line? I pray about that every day of my life. Everything in my being says ENOUGH! RUN! Don’t look back! One day I’ll find her dead in her house but I think that’s the only way for me to have any peace. Struggling daily with this! Please pray for me to find a way to handle her. Thank you!🙏🙏🙏
I've been married for 43 years with a narcissist. It took me a long time to figure it out. I believed that as long as I was an example of Christ to him I was doing the right thing. And he believed that "doing nice things" for me was more than enough to show that he really loved me. So, lesson learned, Narcissism is abuse. Mentally, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. Period. It's the more hideous form of abuse because is not as obvious. Now I just look forward to keep living my life as peacefully and gratefully as possible knowing that as a child of God I'm more loved than anyone could ever love me. He showed me true love unlike never before. Shalom, Shalom ❤
It was 47 years under a narc marriage. I wish there was a way for very long-term survivors to connect to support each other. I think we understand at such a different level. I survived! I am at peace! I am closer with God than I could have ever imagined!
Dang, Girl…fire! Fire 🔥 🔥 Jesus has been teaching me to fight for my marriage on my knees instead of fighting my narcissist. 7years in a horribly abusive narcissistic marriage. And he is BLIND. Does not see any of it. Everything you said backs what the Lord has been teaching me. Jesus!! I stand against every narcissistic husband and wife in the spirit and I say, “you are rebuked in the Mighty Name of Jesus! Stand down and fall on your knees before the Most High. Receive your deliverance. Let marriages be restored in Jesus name!”
Husbands are who they are because of their mothers, unhealthy codependency or trauma bonds and attachments and the inability to detach in a healthy way. They cannot learn what their parents could not teach so the mother came from an unhealthy upbringing. Dr Sam vaknin has stated, that whether it's a female or male covert narcissist, and women are much worse by the way unfortunately, it all stems from the mother. If the mother is not demonstrating emotional health and healthy detachment, the child cannot either. But it is your parents that you must examine your relationship with because that is where it starts. We cannot attract what we are not comfortable with and that is not familiar to us. We attract our parents in different bodies so look for the similarities and start the inner child healing😊 you'll be amazed at what you find and then once you clear that out, release it forgive it and set boundaries specially with family, you can create a healthier life without toxicity, but it's interesting to find out that most of our employers, friends that we thought were close friends Etc are also covert narcissists😢 Because we are not going to attract the opposite of what we need healing for, the Divine wants us to do the inner work, that's been in our subconscious all along... so the divine provides us with everything we need, our higher selves already knew what we needed, we got programmed as children unfortunately😢 Detachment is key and sometimes you will need to go Gray rock, Dr Ramani and Lisa Romano are good places to start on RU-vid, Patrick Teaghan ( I think I spelled that right... teaches about role-playing and setting boundaries with family members. Setting boundaries especially with family will start the shifts for you learning to love yourself and accept yourself fully and unconditionally. There is nothing and no one that can knock you out of balance when you achieve that😊 We are energetic beings first and foremost so place the energy back on yourself because whatever we put our energy to, will thrive. If we fear something we create the opportunities to fear even more Etc❤
I just left a narcissistic relationship this past week. Only God and his word have helped me. Even though, I struggle because it's traumatic bond. God is pulling me through. God is in control. God will vindicate me. 🙏 🙏 I have endured so much, and it has made me stronger and grown my faith. Blessings and strength to all of the people who are empaths, and follow Jesus Christ.
When leaving a narcissistic relationship in a situation where both names are on the bank account, the first thing you should do before leaving is KEEP QUIET Next, make sure you have a private way to get to the bank undetected.... Take your ATM card and withdrawal as much cash as possible for your new start in life If the card and account aren't locked, then make sure you get what you absolutely need to start over, but don't tell the narc you're leaving, JUST DO IT Make sure when leaving that you have somewhere safe to go, that's where you're going to need to secretly make arrangements That's why it's vital to make sure you get your share of the money from the joint account, unless you plan to clean it out Personally I'd take the narc to the cleaners after all they put you through You can go to the bank and start yourself a new account with your share of the money Never smart to put anyone else on your account unless you know you can trust them to live up to whatever rules you put in place If you put someone on your bank account and set some rules, make sure to discuss with that person if you plan to change them in the near future Best yet though, these days you probably shouldn't put anyone else on your bank account If you do though, choose WISELY
My mom was the same. But she had her golden child my younger brother who was a snitch.He made mine and my other siblings lives so miserable being blamed for things he usually did that the rest of us hated him and her. She slapped me one night so hard in the face that my nose poured blood for sometime. After we were adults he committed suicide. My mom's first words after hearing of his death were not him he was to good to die why wasn't it one of the others.
I just left a narcissist relationship 6 weeks ago with my 6 month old baby. God was always calling me to him, the words of Jesus have helped me with this, and also getting off drugs. PRAISE JESUS
Narcissistic parable to the pharisees is astounding.. I pray this is heard. Planning out to prevent the spiritual head of being was construed to them. They fear man, not God because they have to kill the truth that destroys them by self righteousness. They lie an never speak in the empathy of God, bc then God would be known bigger than them selves.
❤❤❤❤You can do it!! It's going to be just fine, long as you lean on Him!!! Lean on Him and stop looking back, don't think for one minute that the toxicity of the people, places and things in the addiction will be different somehow if you "forgive" and tolerate yet again what you know in your heart is not right, and then expect that it'll be better next time if you try again, etc!....❤❤❤❤You can do this, try to stay clean and sober as if your life depends on it!!!! Cause it really does. I totally get it. I'm a living witness.
I got away from mine 2 years ago. I'm so thankful. I have peace and joy. Not sick and stressed. Jerry Flowers preaching helped me so much. He's on you tube. I was so scared if getting hurt again I put up a wall for a time. I'm more loving and forgiving now. I also have discernment now. When I married I just got saved and started going to church. Listen to Jerry Flowers. He's got a sermon called that was manipulation. What he preaches helps you heal too
Oh my goodness it is so refreshing to hear someone so young speaking such wisdom from God's Word! Thank you for sharing this revelation. My youngest son is married to a covert narcissist, she seems very sweet on the surface and then finds something or conjures something to come against us with. She has determined to separate our son (with whom we've always been close) from us and others. He has become very confused and has been fed lies about his dad and I. It is heartbreaking, we love them both and before we understood what we were dealing with we tried to encourage and show nothing but love towards her but she has twisted it and distorted it and has my son believing it and even infected our daughter. We have been Declaring God's Word over them and the situation. Our son is a prodigal and we know he will return Home. We know the power of prayer and declarations and continue to stand against this evil narcissistic spirit. In Jesus Name
A Narcissist controls family by dividing and conquering them. They want to create wedges, bitterness and hatred. All fruit of the enemy. They take a little truth and twist it! They are victims, persecutors then become rescuers. It's all so subtle like Satan in the Garden of Eden with Eve. And the minute you confront them with the truth it's like cutting off the head of a snake! Their body just squirms and flails. It's crazy!
Amen, I can relate. Recently had an experience with a Narcissist. Everything she shared about a narcissist was on point, saw it in that person. Initially I responded from a place of anger and hurt. Later I had to repent and I spoke with a different tone. Humbled myself and I put my trust in God to do and say what I can’t . Now I’m in the phase of being silent and allowing God to take control. It cost me something but I will be still and trust God to intervene on my behalf. The narcissist has a deceptive spirit. They will even act like a victim. Thanks for this word.
@livenow397 you’re not alone! It’s been almost 2 months since I broke up with my bf who is a covert narcissist which is still hard to say. I thought it was love but it was trauma bond. Through this person though, I reconnected with Christ. I reacted in anger too when I kept getting lied to, gaslit, criticized, neglected. My therapist confirmed it’s reactive abuse. I want to say don’t feel guilty/bad for responding in anger when they pushed/provoked you there. It’s their manipulative tactics but yes repent for how you fell short. I pray Lord You keep healing your precious daughter from that relationship and keep her eyes on You Jesus. In your precious name. Amen❤
I so appreciate your biblical explanation regarding narcissism. I have been married to a narcissist for 44 years, but only last year finally understand what has been going on! I never knew about narcissists and could not see through all of the chaos and confusion that he created in our lives constantly. Our two adult kids are out of the home, but still struggle, due to growing up in such an abusive environment. I am in my 60's and am praying about what to do now. Thank you for such a powerful teaching!
When leaving a narcissistic relationship in a situation where both names are on the bank account, the first thing you should do before leaving is KEEP QUIET Next, make sure you have a private way to get to the bank undetected.... Take your ATM card and withdrawal as much cash as possible for your new start in life If the card and account aren't locked, then make sure you get what you absolutely need to start over, but don't tell the narc you're leaving, JUST DO IT Make sure when leaving that you have somewhere safe to go, that's where you're going to need to secretly make arrangements That's why it's vital to make sure you get your share of the money from the joint account, unless you plan to clean it out Personally I'd take the narc to the cleaners after all they put you through You can go to the bank and start yourself a new account with your share of the money Never smart to put anyone else on your account unless you know you can trust them to live up to whatever rules you put in place If you put someone on your bank account and set some rules, make sure to discuss with that person if you plan to change them in the near future Best yet though, these days you probably shouldn't put anyone else on your bank account If you do though, choose WISELY
The power of prayer of your children. The power of the blood of Jesus over your children ❤ they are under a promise as you draw near to God they will be impacted and influenced by the Holy Spirit himself through you the vessel and instrument in Gods hands :):) amen
@@SuperMetalyricsIt is a good point. Even when You care about them they can be Used like flyig monkeys. Narcissts are specialists in playing víctim and collect information in the name of love, or faking worry about Your health-money or whatever that they figure out that helps to collect info about You. They will not stop on asking to your friends, family, neighbours, co-workers, Even the places You use to go that could be considered like almost unknown people but that could give them Even casual info.
Your video on narcissism popped up on my feed this morning, right after my narcissistic ex husband that I’ve had no contact with for 7 months messaged me. I knew when I saw your video the Lord wanted me to see it. I Love the Lord so much, and I’m so grateful he always looks out for me and for all his children. The Lord has definitely let me know to ignore my exhusband. Thank you sister in Christ for your obedience to the Lord making this video. I got a lot out of it, and it registered with me how you described narcissism from a biblical standpoint. God bless you.
Thank you for this message, praise Jesus… I was bullied badly and betrayed but leaving it to God and going to pursue my relationship with Jesus my friend
This is the BEST teaching on narcissism that I've heard on RU-vid and I've listened to literally near a hundred of them, which none of them gave me peace of heart because they were filled with mere human solutions. You presented what Jesus did and how God sees. Thank you!
Yup it's Satans will on the sheeple! Rise above the evilness, forever stay with GOD! It is LOVE of GOD and being with GOD that prevails and protects us from evil! All glory be GOD and in our Lord Jesus Christ! AMEN! 🙏🏻 ❤😊
Please pray for me I’ve been going through a battle just because I decided to give my life to christ Jesus it’s been really hard has been getting a lot attacked from the enemy please pray for my protection in Jesus name amen.🙏🏾 and thanks to everyone God bless
God is with you & does not want you to give up! Heavenly Father please bless him with your Holy Spirit and protect him and even when he encounters struggles, may he be reminded of your presence through faith. May he open up his Bible and read your good word to grow closer to you and strengthen his faith so the attacks will not affect him. I pray in this in your God and in your only begotten son , Jesus Christ . Amen 🙏🏽
When your enemies come after you remember what Jesus said : I am the truth, the way, and the life. The way to life is through Jesus Christ, and only through him, and that is the truth, and the only truth.
I really needed to hear this. My heart has been Ripped out of me. He has done so much damage to me . I pray for the strength That I need to heal my soul & heart. I pray Amen 💞💞💞✨️✨️✨️🙏🙏🙏
Just watched this video and it was great. However, just wanted to point out a few things. I am 54 and figured out at the age of 48, why my entire life had been plagued with toxic men, friends, workmates, clients etc. It took waking up to the fact that I was raised by a narcissistic mother and father, to understand why my life was as it was. Your point not to dine with, interact with, fight with or take gifts from narcissist is bang on, however, having studied narcissism for the last six years…,you don’t know, until you know! Part of the grooming from a narcissist, especially a parent to a young child, is to not question anything firstly. Secondly, the demon in them blinds you to everything so you don’t know you’ve married one, or befriended on or been raised by one, until God wakes you up to it. So many people dine with, befriend , marry or live with narcissists, not out of disobedience to God, but because they have been attacked by the worst form (in my opinion) of abuse and it can take many years for a person to even understand what they have been through. Just my two cents….
Thank you for sharing - I agree with you on all of it. I have gotten confirmation from God, but I am not quite certain yet exactly what case my consistently attracting narcissistic men. This is my 4th marriage, and I specifically strengthened myself with the authors of a marriage book, over the phone - they have a healed marriage & marriage ministry with 100% success rate!! I gave my then-boyfriend the book, early in the relationship to let him know I what Id been thru, how I found this book/ministry, and asked him to please be honest if he didn’t agree with the pure, godly principles presented about healthy Christian relationships and that we part before it became too difficult if he didn’t agree. I was SO honest. He said he read, agreed, was” perfect” … until about 4-5 months into our marriage. 16 years later, I already was living with chronic illness, but it crushed me causing me to have to quit working. That was in 2017. Never have I had support, only criticism, which has caused even more issues, and I’m unable to even focus long enough to learn a skill to support myself. It’s tragic - I do understand, and see - but the thought of leaving grips me in terror and such unbearable heartache! I suppose that’s the trauma bond, so I feel stuck. Anyone reading this - please pray for me that I can, with Gods help, separate. Even writing that hurts. It makes me sick. Anyway - I am seeking God for the favor to have courage and find a source of income. Sorry so long - I can’t even write things like this without crying. God bless anyone dealing in any way with a covert narcissist. I will pray that anyone seeing this video or my post will be healed and set free! ❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️ Amanda (this is a shared account under his name)
Sister, you have spoken the best Biblical truth about dealing with narcissists. I’ve been trying very hard to keep my narcissistic mother away. She has even tried to physically harm me. She has slandered me to my friends and family. Everything you spoke applies to my mother’s behavior. She is also a witch so please pray for her to get Saved and throw away her witchcraft idols.
Prayers for protection from the narrsscist. In Jesus' name, expose all of them 🙏 and send back the attacks on my life from him back to the sender. In Jesus' name 🙏
Yesterday I gave in to the narcissist being multiple people attacking me I lost control and lashed out not speaking words of love. It’s been bothering me all day, I felt so guilty and I wanted clarity and guidance so badly and your message has reached me. Please forgive me FATHER for I did not walk with love or control my emotions. I promise to handle those people and situations differently from now on and make LOVE WHICH IS YOU A PRIORITY. Please forgive me FATHER for my ultimate mission is to serve you. Thank you for your guidance and clarity, I will not allow myself to make the same mistake again. Thank you for loving me so much and showing me the way of righteousness. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MY FATHER AND THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING YOU DO FOR US. THANK YOU FOR NEVER ABANDONING ME 💛
I have lived my hole life thinking that I is not OK to make mistakes. I am beginning to understand now that God doesn't expect us to be perfect. You are OK in God's eyes just as you are. You will make mistakes. He forgives you.
Young lady this is one of the most anointed teachings and understandings I have heard on scripture. Thank you first for hearing then acting in obedience to do the research and lastly to bring this to the hurting - I won’t give the details of my 22 years marriage to a narcissist but it has been hell to say the least. I know and believe I have been given clear instructions on how to proceed and will get in that secret place with fasting to receive the confirmation. Thank you and may Adonai continue to bless you and use your voice!
Incredible word! Thank you for breaking this down 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻 I was with a Narcissist for just a couple of months shy of starting an 8th year with him. He is a classic text book Narcissist, as though written about him. As the victim of this narcissistic abuse, you have no idea it is happening…like a serpent. But, after time you are left in a heap to rebuild yourself alone. The damage is grave to mind body and soul. With GOD, healing ❤️🩹 occurs, it takes time, But, GOD gets you through.
I love this. I needed this word this morning. I am dealing with so many narcissistic people. Jesus was loving, but he didn’t play when it came to the truth.
You are 100% correct- At the end of the day, it's what God says about us that matters. Not other people. Stay close to the Lord. We are not alone, ever! Humans abandon us, but God is always with us. Call out to him, Pray! He hears our cries and responds to us. The Good Shepard goes after the one little sheep that wanders off. He is ALWAYS here for us. ! In Jesus's mighty name, Amen! Thank you, Heavenly Father.
A true prophet doesn’t say they are a prophet. Love! Jesus didn’t walk around announcing himself as almighty God either! He asked the disciples who they thought he was. They had to decide based on the humble man they spent time with. I love this, thank you so much!
Speak the whole gospel truth, even though you know that stones are going to be thrown at you, but don't stay long enough for them to hit you.. I love that, thank you Jesus.
To anyone reading this. The one I love is facing dark days. She is facing threats from mafia and those who wish to harm her. Please pray for her with me that she is delivered from this scenario. That she is protected and saved 🙏 I truly love her and want nothing more than her happiness and safety 🙏 please God hear my prayer
This was good- confirmation on my experiences “…But you have neglected the more important matters of the law-justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former.” Matthew 23:23
Thank you, Jackie. I needed this. The narcissist is my dad. So sad, I finally confronted him today, and things took turn exactly like you said. It was rebuked with love. My mental is going through the valley of death. Pray for me y'all.
I already commented at the beginning. But God says, listen to the end. I have been blessed.. 'you don't need to defend yourself, God will defend you' thank you. Thank you Lord. It's hard, but l now know GOD HAS HEARD MY PRAYERS. ' BE still & know that l am God'. ❤. Don't stay long enough to get hit.. I'm encouraged.
A fellow elder told me not to be a "push-over" Christian. The Lord showed me that I was being meek, but not by The Holy Spirit. Thanks for the word Little Sister. Be blessed! :)
@@ca6248 Thanks for asking. I will go back and talk with him about it. I know for me The Lord showed me I was manufacturing meekness in my flesh, and not by His Spirit, so at least some of what I was doing was inappropriate and fruitless.
Being a pushover comes from childhood programming, a fear of not being accepted or fitting in, or not being liked etc etc and especially being a people pleaser is a fawning response to our own childhood trauma or emotional neglect. So listening to that inner child self and giving her or him what she needs, is how we create our lives from the inside out, in much healthier ways than we were programmed as children❤
We must put our own oxygen mask on First and offer ourself unconditional self-love and recognize value and worth from within first, otherwise we can never offer anything to another authentically and genuinely,@@ca6248, because there was nothing we should be seeking in the external world, people cannot give us what they do not have either, and most parents are pretty messed up from their own childhood and their own neglect and not having their emotional needs met, especially the Baby Boomers unfortunately. They were destroyed pretty badly, not seen and heard, validated acknowledged or allowed to be individuals and stand out, or be any authentic self, they had to follow along..... and that gets carried on down the lineage because they have no idea they had inner child healing to do.😢
Im on week 3 of. A divorce. Before this happened i was praying for my husband and said forgive him lord for he.knows not what he does. LORD SAID YES HE DOES KNOW I was shocked. Stunned. Like uhh so what do I pray now?.. when you mention that part it came right up to me. Had to share my testimony
Beautiful message Jackie🙏🏼❤️ And perfect timing as well❣️❣️❣️ I've been stuck in a neverending loop of trauma after seeing my grandkids being abused by a borderline mother and narcissistic father. They have since separated and reside with their mom, but not much has changed. I pray and God tells me he will handle it but I go through stages of doubt and want to call CPS on her. I hate child abusers and how this fleshy life goes. As adults, we have the option to walk away from these toxic people but our children are forced to be abused by them. It's really sad and sick to think about. I pray God gets justice for all of the children of abuse- young and old 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️
Been waiting for you to drop this one for a while!! Definitely a HOLY GHOST REVELATION!! One of your best yet. The Pharisees were NARCISSISTS. This reveals a lot of the behavior of narcissists! Great job exposing them, Babe! This is going to help millions of people, I know this for sure! Love you 😊❤️
Please pray for me! I tried to leave the earth because of narcissistic abuse. Thank you - I never ask or say to admit - I’ve kept it all to myself I’m a rookie so to speak.. God has healed me taking me off drugs street and medical. All in a day! Amen! Now I am looking to him for direction I am scared and not scared at all.
The number 1 thing to help with narcissistic behaviour is constantly checking whether you are prideful or humble, it’s always also very important to FEAR GOD and not men because this will cause you to walk in the footsteps of Jesus because if you don’t act like Jesus would act then you would be straying from the Lord causing death in your life
Think of it like this, if you feel pride within your heart then you will dig your own grave but if you humble yourself before God then you will be exhalted so be very honest with yourself
I was a narcissist too. The only thing I can tell you that helped me to go through a real healing was stopping to use people. That's the very step you can do to start changing yourself. If not it's just words.
@shadiamondmcintyre9032 At least you can admit it. That's the first step. Now seek God and therapy, and your life will transform. I wish you the best.
There are so many speaking on this, but not from a spiritual perspective, which is what we need. About 6 months ago the Lord also had me to read about the Pharisees, but I didn't make the connection as you did. I thank you so much. I've dealt with this for far too long, it's been one of the most hurtful times of my life. I NOW fully understand why I must move on.
This is AMAZING truth!!! Thank you, thank you. Early July, of last year I began a fast... praying and asking God for answers to my troubled relationship. Within 4 days... The flood gates opened wide, and God showed me who this individual was, who he truly was!!! That was all I needed to see! I had tried so hard... I left The same day and never turned back. It's been one year since going no-contact with the narcissist... And I'm so grateful the Lord opened my eyes to the truth. I experienced everything you spoke on, and the personality of the individual is SPOT ON, just like the Pharisees! The Revelation God gave you in Scripture is eye-opening in how we should deal with these type of people. God bless you for your beautiful gift of discernment. 🙏 💜
My father is a narcissist as well as an amazing cook. MIND BLOWING YOU MENTIONED THE FOOD THING. He manipulates and brags over the food he makes. He is controlling about it as well. I have always despised it. I have confronted him about his behavior with no change from him. He is abusive. He drinks in excess. There is always an excuse. My mother left him because of his abuse. I wanted to see the good in him, but I can’t be around him anymore. I’ve told him the truth of what is coming if he continues living this way. It has affected how I see love and the types of relationships I choose - I could never figure out the pattern of why I kept attracting these narc types. Now I can see it clearly. That is how “love” was modeled to me. I have to turn to God and let him teach me what love really means. It’s time for me to get out of the way, so I’m not hit by those stones. Thank you for this confirmation.
Amen 🙏🏻 I dealt with one first hand. Felt like I was involved with a devil in the flesh .. the Lord delivered me and I am eternally grateful. You have beautiful eyes btw.
This message was right on time. Divorcing a covert narcissist who is using our children as pawns and financial abuse/slander. Praise God for He is the perfect and wonderful teacher. The Alpha and the Omega. Thank you for your obedience to His word.
Wooow💯🔥 I’m currently dealing with a narcissist. Everything you have said was so accurate in what I’ve been dealing with! My ex husband always tries to buy me food , spending money on me and I’ll admit it’s worked for a long time. Like when God’s people grumbled about wanting to return to Egypt because they had food. I kept going back to my Egypt. But this has given me strength!! Girl, this word!! Praise the lord , thank you Jesus 😭
You should definitely close the door completely to all narcissistic relationships. I have had relationships with narcissistic women, and these spirits are destructive !
After 5 years of being with my girlfriend, i decide i am leaving her for not wanting to help with my problems, she showed me her true colors time and time again, she will never change for me.
Thank you so much, dealing with a mother narcissist all my life and just yesterday had to deal with gilt and rejection again, in the morning.. my rest of the day was in my heart sad. You came this morning in my feed. Thank you for this video 🙏and thank you Jesus 🙏🙏💕
This just opened my eyes to a lot of people that have hurt me and I was blind thinking oh they aren’t really that bad of people but looking back I can now see their envy that has been towards me for a long time😦
Both my parents were narccist and I've suffered and survived to say this I'm 53 but I am a ordained minister..God has made me great but I still have much emptiness hyper vigilant and nervous from screaming parents ..thanks .. the verse that God gave me that changed my life was when my mother and father forsake me the Lord will take me in and he took me in at 8 years old when I gave my life to Christ and he's done so many miracles in and with me I'm so thankful someone in the body of Christ could speak on this I've been in therapy for 23 years and it seems sometimes to get harder before it gets easier but at least it's being talked about by of someone that is a believer thank you so much for this it resonated with me
One was a narcissist. The other was destroyed by the narcissist. A narcissist can't get any supply from another narcissist. They frame the other parent as the villain from day 0 GBY 🙏
Thank you so much for this word! I have been married to a narcissist for almost 40 years. I just thought he was self-centered and selfish but this year I learned what a narcissist really was and realized it described him to a tee! I began divorce proceedings now because after years of praying for change, constantly pointing out the positives to all his negatives I gave up. Although I still love him as a human being and hope someday he will realize his mistakes I can no longer subject my soul to his abuse!
I pray God strengthens you on this difficult step. One thing about a narcissist is that they actually enjoy and feed off negativity and other people’s suffering, they don’t want to fix the relationship…
Hallelujah!!!!!!! Absolutely! I know them by the fruits. Fruits are rotten and I don't want nothing to do with rotten fruit. The fruits are not fruiting. They're tricking you to stay fruiting if that makes sense
Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was Buried and he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you All
Just recently went through this. Rebuked my friend. Who's a narc. She's been confronted before, many times. But she does not change. I finally walked away. In love. But told her I love her enough and care for her soul enough to speak the truth
I PRAY FOR ALL AND EVERYBODY. THANK YOU ALL TOO, YOU ALL ARE SO, SO PRECIOUS AND HONEST AND HUMBLE, AND HUNGRY TRUTH SEEKERS, I AM SO IN LOVE WITH YOU ALL THROUGH THE EYES OF OUR KING JESUS OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR, OUR LOVING ABBA, I AM SPEECHLESS IN AWESOME WONDER OF HOW YOU FIGHT YOUR BATTLES WITH SUCH GRACE. MAY OUR CREATOR GID BLESS US WITH HEALTH AND PEACE IN THE SUPREME WORTHY MIGHTY NAME OFJESUS CHRIST AMEN 🙏❤️🔥🕊️💎💖❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
Jackie, when I had just come out of a toxic relationship, it was SO hard and SO painful..but that's exactly when I found your videos...your videos have encouraged me to go to God and cry out with the specifics I needed in order NOT to go running back. Your videos have given me the strength to be able to trust God to help me through the most sad, gut wrenching pain I've ever gone through. Your videos have given me the confidence and confirmation that I was doing the right thing by leaving and your videos have helped answer the many questions I know will never be answered by my ex. Your videos speak truth, and you are helping others like myself, to move forward in life every day!! God bless you and Thank you for your help and for answering and being obedient to your calling 💜
Yes, this the words in this video is definitely true. I have been in relationships with narcissistic women, and these evil spirits are definitely destructive spirits ! No more of that !
I can’t tell you how much I enjoyed this video. I am still traumatised after a very narcissistic relationship but to God be the glory He brought me back to light. Your comment about the food is correct. I went on fasting one time and for some reason I wanted to taste some food and I soon as I picked it up to put it in my mouth I heard this voice say ‘you are feeding demons’ It was strange but since then every time I eat a bit too much or just fill myself I start being sad and have weird thoughts. I pray to the Lord to give you wisdom on His word so you can make more videos like this one!
Absolutely the Lord. Led me here.... Through a narcissistic daughter and sister who are using each other for supplies because narcissistic need narcissistic and the enemy can't stand the Holy, they're evil
Hallelujah! I so agree with this commentary. God knows the heart of men. You will know them by their fruits. You can go go to church, walk out after service, and not as much get a smile from someone who just came out of the same service! 🤯 Makes you think, wow! Did we just walk out of the same service? Where is the fruit of kindness through a smile? It's the heart! God knows it and sees it! Well said! Blessings to you!
There’s so many videos that make the narcissist look unbeatable but you Jackie were the first video I seen with power !! Good stuff I have a whole situation in my family with narcissists !
I have been looking for the answer for almost two years now. I knew that I was going thru what Jesus went thru but your video testifies that again. Thank God and Jesus. Thank you for making this video. It’s such a privilege to go thru these trials because we learn who we are fights against. Now our lord is building up his soldiers to fight our enemy for the end time. Not everyone can hear his voice, and not everyone can actually follow him to the end. But those who sincerely loves God with all their hearts, all the doors are opened before them, and our mighty Lord make everything possible. Narcissistic people are children of Satan. That’s why now they are increasing in numbers and becoming more evil. I know see that.
Thank you for shedding light on the subject on sharing food. Food was my Mom's love language and I adopted that I guess. I'm a guy and I forgot about how true breaking bread with others is very sacred. I had a narcissistic brother and girlfriend. Both caused me much pain. I'm still working through forgiveness. Be blessed in Jesus name dear lady.
I feel the Lord telling me to not say anything to my religious hypocrite mother inlaw. She keeps asking my husband why I ignored her texts, he told her not to worry about it we are doing fine. She doesn't believe him. I keep hearing to be silent and pray. Be silent and let God deal with her asI keep quiet. Like the scripture that says " they threatened Him, and HE answered Not." I'm going the silent POWER route.
Hmm I never knew those verses before. Had to go and look them up for myself. Sure enough, I found it several places = psalm 18:41, 1 Samuel 14:37 and 2 Samuel 22:42. Wow.
