How Men And Women Really Feel About Modern Feminism. 

That girl with purple hair is in psychology? With those opinions? Lord help her future patients.

Them calling men trash is something I find offensive. My father was a wonderful man. He shared all the housework with my mother. My husband was a wonderful man that fully treated me as his equal. I lost him to a heart attack after 24 years not marriage. I miss him desperately

As a man who has been living my entire life in Southeast Asia, the Western society looks more and more like a big horror movie for me.

My wife is quite traditional and nothing makes me feel more powerful than my wife. As the head of my household my wife is the neck. As in she helps me with direction and support. You can't have a coin with one side.

I'm a woman (born female, complete with female chromosomes) and I declare that men are most certainly NOT "trash." It's a horrible thing to say about a person, or a group. It's abuse, it's bigotry to say horrible things like that, against any person or any group.

What scares me is the fact that these women exist and as a man I’m showing respect for everyone on the daily bases while being hated simply for being a “straight, white, male” is sad.

I was recently at Disneyworld with my brothers and dad. In the monorail my dad sat, he’s 67. My brothers and I stood to leave seats for anyone who may need it more than we do. There was one seat left and my brother was standing next to it. No one really needed the seat so I told my brother to sit, but there was a girl in her 20s and he offered it to her. She completely ignored the courtesy and instead told the guy she was with to sit down because “nobody wanted to sit in it”, which isn’t true we were just being courteous and considerate. Some men are trying to be gentleman but you get offended v and just throw it back at their face, because, well, feminism.

“Men are able and allowed to wear whatever they want and still stand strong” ~ said the purple-haired belly-button&lip pierced girl wearing a crop top🤣

If you ever feel bad about yourself just remember that some people actually call themselves feminists.

Feminism has become so radical in the last 5 years that’s it has alienated the majority of people. Most women I know don’t call themselves feminists and this gives me a lot of hope for society.

I think it’s very rare to see a female content creator with such high male engagement, who isn’t posting soft core porn every other day. It’s a breath of fresh air to see your videos. In my opinion, most girls that get lots of male attention get it because of their sex appeal. You, however, show us that there are still more “traditional” type women out there. The types of girls who I don’t have to worry about cheating or lying or gold digging. Thanks for keeping my faith in women and family values alive. I hope many young men can watch your videos and learn what a smart, beautiful, modest woman is like.

I'm glad you mentioned "this current wave" of extreme feminism that is NOT the mild feminism of my generation that helped women without stepping on men.

Jk Rowling is a good example of green goblin’s quote: “in spite of everything you’ve done for them eventually they’ll hate you.”

There’s a girl in my high school who I went on a school sponsored trip to Spain with just over spring break recently. She started crying at dinner because they didn’t have a vegan option. And complained to the chaperones constantly about things like how her hotel bed wasn’t soft enough, and the water in the sinks wasn’t getting warm fast enough. Low and behold, she shows up on the school instagram page saying that she is going to college and majoring in psychology. I’m honestly afraid for the future.

I literally started crying from happiness because she is so based. I’ve never heard anyone say anything so wise. Thank you.

It's good to see others especially younger folks understand. Now we just need the right people like you Brett and this man, to not be silenced and continue speaking. What I'd give to live in a logical society. Thank you Brett for another great video.

“Men are trash” is such a disgusting statement, and completely rejected by women like me. Could you imagine if people said “women are trash” and were celebrated for it? Quit being a victim, thank your father/grandfather/etc for everything they’ve ever done for you, and understand that men and women are different.

A wise man once said. Sticks and stones may break my bones but there will always be words to offend a feminist 😂

I love how Brett shakes her hand at the beginning of all videos! She is awesome! I love her confidence!!!

Thank you Brett for being a voice of reason in an insane world! There is hope with people like you. I love your show.

I'm nearly 29 years old, and have been single since 2012. Many people have asked me "why have you been single for so long?" This video explains it all. This country has so many women like the ones in this video and not enough women like Brett.

As a man, and just so happenstance that im black, I don't feel protected at all walking down the street. Trust no one but yourself in public.

Recently found your channel, and happy to see you discuss things like this!

Brett out here spitting straight facts. We need more people like her, no seriously, we NEED more people like her.

I'm happy to know there's not only women but people in general like you who run on the truth.

The girl with the purple hair gets cat-called every time she goes to the gas station. That really makes me wonder: a) What type of gas station is she going to? b) Why is she going back to that gas station?

I somehow came across your channel on RU-vid. I have no clue how. However I’m totally here for it.

Thank you for a moderate and reasonable take on a topic that just seems to have a lot of extreme viewpoints on both sides.

As a military veteran, and seeing what our society is becoming, I made sure my son did NOT follow in my footsteps. He’s taking care of himself and will be successful, but our family won’t be sacrificing for this insanity anymore. Let the freaks go to the frontlines next time. You ‘don’t need no man’ - great! Have fun 👍

The high black dude is spot on. Yeah, shit sucks for everyone but it could be so much worse. Be grateful for what you have.

Brett, While I have to say that after 40+ years of life I have always refused to mash a Sub/Like button. I just binged about 5 of your vids and can't bring myself to not support you. Especially after this vid and the Joey vid. So congrats and thank-you for breaking that habit for me. I am aware that more and more people are also becoming aware of the modern feminism toxicity and how it effects men, but I appreciate you and your support in recognizing it and trying to help. That said I do consider myself pro feminist, but in the sense of rights, balance and the general concept of we need to take care of one another. I honestly feel the problem is with the term Equality... no two people are equal (Excluding rights obviously), but honestly I feel that is a good thing. When I am weak someone else in my life is strong and vice versa. I wish people would just accept and embrace themselves for who they are instead of blaming others for who they are not. We are stronger when we are different and I am proud to have men and women in my life who make me both a better person and a stronger man. Anyway sorry for the novel and really do appreciate you and what you are trying to do. Thanks most sincerely.

Couldn't agree more with you, its crazy! I get that yes, there are still many dangers to women in this world, but it shouldnt be about being better than others, because in the end you need both parts to grow stronger as a society. And that kind of thinking, the extreme type is what creates a divided society, where people cant work together, where you create more suffering for both parties because this goes both ways and its really sad

As a twenty-year-old woman, I can assure you that men are not the enemy. My dad and brother are some of the most wonderful people I know. The real threat is modern feminists who are sewing hate and encouraging women to live promiscuous lives that ultimately lead to unhappiness.

It's Quite refreshing seeing a sensible women like Brett and nowadays it's pretty hard to find a women like her 😐

Keep making these videos! Nice to actually hear some truth.

I just stumbled on this channel.. And I love it here.

I am a male, I would just like to regurgitate an 8th grade memory I have, not because it hurt me, just because it was shocking. So there I was in my history class sitting on a table with two liberal girls, I enjoyed talking to them about non political stuff and enjoyed not participating but just being generally shocked by their takes on things such as abortion, but there is a memory that has been literally tattooed to my brain. I was learning about some war started by (heaven forbid) a strait white male. The table was relatively quiet until suddenly one of the girls whispers something along the lines of, "Almost all problems would be fixed if strait white males died". I was in utter shock, here I was a strait white male, and she said that to my face, I gathered myself and just politely laughed not knowing what to do, then she looked me in the eyes, realized the magnitude of what she just said and caught herself saying, (I kid you not) "not you though, your fine". I did not tell anyone and was honestly just confused, I did not know that people like that even existed. Not offended, just concerned, my solution to many problems, is don't let kids have a phone until 13, and don't let kids be on social media until age 18, that is my story, thanks for reading.

Largest shoutout to my brotha at 7:22 for speaking the largest set of FACTS ever. It's hard having this mindset sometimes as a black person cause everybody wanna be a victim all the damn time. Even worse when woke ass white people try to victimize my whole race. People in videos like this restore my faith in humanity. Big shoutout to Brett for always keeping it real and based, even in this climate and at a young age ✊

Love your videos Brett, thanks for this

Im so glad you are encouraging people to use common sense , and actually use their brains to think! Thank you!!!

The argument that men can walk down the street and not women always confused me. When I walk down the street, I'm a small skinny cancer survivor, I'm always scanning my surroundings to make sure I stay safe.

In my school, I have a History/Geography teacher who is a real mean feminist (like some in this video), which loves only yelling at the male students. We're only young teenagers, the head of the school does not care about what we can say about her so she always treats my classmates (boys only) like piece of sh!t. One day, I forgot why but we talked about the abortion and when she asked if we agree or not about it, I said that I'm not okay with it because in my opinion a fetus is a human, so she kicked me out of the classroom. When I was in the director's office, I explained to him the situation and he didn't punish me but now I'm this teacher least favorite student (as a woman). But obviously, this woman is still a teacher in my private school, my parents always ask to the direction to fire her but they don't care. With this little anecdote, I just want that you know that there are some people who teach to young girls to be bad with guys only because they're men.

I typically steer clear of such subjects, fearing it might ruffle feathers. Most people lean towards opinions, not openness. However, your video gripped me for the entire 18:26. Impressive work - consider me a new subscriber!

You speak the truth, it´s good to know there´s women like you

Working with other military members. I can't tell you how many stories of raped, abused & mistreated men I've met along the years. Most do not report because men aren't seen as your typical victims or stigma of reporting.

toxic feminism has been a HUGE thing in Korea for years now. Girls in colleges are literally being bullied and outcasted for putting on makeup, wearing skirts, doing anything "feminine". it's ridiculous. i had no idea about this stuff a few years ago. I pointed out some things that didn't make sense to me in a VERY FRIENDLY way out of pure curiosity to my so called "friends". I was outcasted since that moment exactly. they unfollowed and blocked me on all platforms lol and blatantly ignored me. I was pretty hurt and angry then, but now I'm glad our friendship didn't last long. p.s. they were mad I was getting married to (gasp!) a man, and I didn't agree that our workplace was unfair to women.

Hi Brett, i luv ur insights into this topic and the fact u actually identify the reality of situations and the practical solutions to solve them instead of just all this rhetoric doled out by these women whos goal seems to be to make men hate themselves for no other reason but for being men..Men and Women have enough actual real world obstacles in life to overcome already...

As someone who saw these things coming from years ago, it's good to finally see people are coming to their senses with videos like this, this and others Gen's videos and Amir's "My Concerns With The LGBTQ Community". But, yeah, I'm a white guy, so it didn't count, even though I'm a half black latino. On footnote: it's funny to see toxic activists, like that purple-haired girl, trying to not be hateful when you point out they're being hateful, giving excuses to try to justify what they said and dismiss it as ok, but then acting all hateful again once the debate move on. Oh, the hypocrisy lol

The fact that men can't openly say "women are trash" without getting dragged (rightfully so) is all the answer we need on the double standards that feminism promotes..equality isn't a "pick the benefits" buffet with none of the responsibilities.

I love Brett, she holds woman accountable, we can't change anything by screaming in the streets but we can change things personally by being aware of our surroundings. Some "feminists" have lost their minds.

Man said "Im Cooked!" 😂😂

I like this lady, she's got a good head on her shoulders. Rational approach with everything she says. First time on this channel. Also at 10:42 "you young person" got a chuckle from me.

Here in South Africa, not even MEN walk alone at night...not even the toughest man. If it's dangerous, it's dangerous. No matter your gender. Desperation and depravity doesn't see gender...

That rat paradise problem is scaring the absolute crap out of me. The sense of helplessness in watching this go downhill so quickly in just my working memory without being able to do a damn thing about it alone is downright oppressive.

As a mother of two wonderful young men, no, men are not trash. When ive needed protection, support (financially, emotionally, physically) its nearly always been men who were there for me.

I love that these two are in the same video

It feels good to be defended and represented by a women, it truly help to see that people in the other gender understand and wanna help us

Current feminism needs to be renamed male oppression. It makes me sad. I’ve had nothing but healthy friendships with girls my whole life. My sisters included. It makes me sad to see how angry people are at others when the anger lives nowhere but inside them.

You know something I just subscribed to your channel when I reached minute 3:25. Thanks for that explanation 😊

This guy always makes great videos.

As an adult human female, I am SO grateful for the MEN in my life from my husband, to my father and brothers, pastors and elders in my church - everywhere I look there are amazing men who are the pillars of strength in their families and communities.

As a teen and a young adult, I held pretty much the same views as Brett on most topics. Then I went to college to study and I started having more of a liberal approach to everything. But now I am back to my true self and can reason again. I swear universities poison the mind nowadays. Great video loved it !!!

Yo Brett just wanna say I love you, love your channel ❤🤘🏽👌🏽

If the laws of journalism was a person, it would be this guy staying respectful, creating something influential well also not pertaining to your own bias huge respect to this guy

"It's 70, its sunny, chill the f@!# out." Words to live by.

It's a shame that the "man bashing" feminists hate men mostly because of a trend or what they're taught, or unrealistic expectations, etc. Men are so different from women and if they can learn to appreciate and admire the qualities that our men hold, they would truly see how fantastic men really are!!🌞👍

From what I recall in my Philosophy of Ethics class, the "Feminist" approach to ethics (which, admittedly, isn't exactly the same, but I reckon they're intended to share the same root and heart) is to be a voice for those without one -- the ones in society who have been overlooked and are at risk of becoming disenfranchised altogether. It was termed "Feminist" only because it was the Feminist Movement that stood for women's rights at a time when they were severely overlooked and undervalued as contributing humans that make up an important part of our society. But if you listen to its heart, it's not meant to actually represent a gender -- it is only in recognition of the important value it brought to the fore: that all humans are valuable and deserve some level of representation, not oppression. This means that Feminism stands to remind us that people of all races matter, that people of all ages (even children and seniors) matter, that people who face physical and mental challenges matter -- by virtue of them being human. This is what I think is beautiful. What Feminism has BECOME is now to elevate one at the expense of the other, and it is an over-correction of the wrong that existed before. And an overcorrection is no correction at all -- it is only the same mistake from before manifest in another form. The vast majority is now held hostage to the minority, sentenced to pay impossible dues to make up for wrongs that have already been repented of. In sum, Feminism in its proper form is meant to elevate the lowly that we may together move forward and build upward. But this Neo-Feminism has instead decided to tear down what stood strong -- and in the end, all are brought crashing to the ground.

We as a society have decided we need as many reasons as possible to be divided when all we really have to do is support and care for one another…

I built a rule in my head that every woman that dyes her hair blue,pink,orange or green is brain dead. I still haven't lost

Every feminist I’ve ever met has been cat-called countless times, but I’ve never been cat-called once. Men must have this uncanny ability to determine when someone is a feminist and then they must cat-call them so they can just be yelled at.

Wow, I'm a little surprised you don't hold anything back do you I like that keep it raw keep it real

Amen to this guy, spreading truth

What happened to “treat people the way you want to be treated” I AM SO OVER THIS “MODERN FEMINISM.” They want “equality” but it is NOT THAT. They want to be better than everyone else. It’s disgusting.

I'm a natural born women, married to a great MAN, a mother of two boy's and also blessed with other great men in my life including my father. These modern day feminist's have been nothing but a detriment to women and society as a whole. I pray they wake up to the ignorance and lies they've been taught before it's to late and they find themselves miserable and alone except for their excessive amount of cats to keep them company.

Thanks you

Amazing video

I am 60 and we I was growing up, feminism meant something totally different than today's morphed feminism. My generation worked on equal rights for women. To be able to have better pay for a job well done and not because we were female. I still today admire a man that will open a door for me, say can I help you, carry a bag for me or even lets me open a door for them to show I appreciate them. The world is what you make. I prefer to enjoy being a strong woman that appreciates the men that work hard and provide the things I can't. I don't mind asking a man for help when I need it.

"men do this better this is is exactly why we need feminism" is the definition of the first girl, she's not even naming rights she is just naming things guys r better at💀

We need a movement towards harmony

I know this is an old post, but I wanted to say Thank you

The purple haired woman uses a lot of words to say nothing. I was shocked, shocked I say, when she said she was a psychology major. Also, really funny that her top example of misogyny was being cat called at a gas station.

I’m my school there was an special program you could join, the program only allowed 21 people in the class and it was a trades program, i made it in and so did every other girl that applied, I made it in over guys who I seen grow up to do trades, who had already been passionate about it and I wasn’t passionate, I just wanted to join because it gave you extra credits, I was thinking about being a mechanic because I used to work on cars with my papa and I really enjoyed it, that program would have 100% gotten me jobs but I found out halfway through the program that I loved animals and I wanted to work with them, I quit the program and i realized I was just a quotient, they needed to have girls join even if it meant someone who would could have really used the program didn’t get to, most of the girls didn’t end up getting into trades, I think one girl ended up going into nursing school, the rest of them went to cosmetology school or something like that. I’m frustrated and sad for the people I took opportunity away from, my current boyfriend tried to get in and didn’t get in, he’s now in collage to be a carpenter, and didn’t get in that class.

It's people like that man and Brett who give me hope in this sick society.

1:58 Dudes rocking the double-buns teeny-bopper Tik Tok hairdo 😂

I used to be a lot like those “all men” girls. And I didn’t truly believe what I was spewing online or in front of my Mom, in laws, or anyone else I wanted to defy or spite. And it was exactly out of spite the reason I acted and spoke like that. I used to be addicted to the feeling acting out of spite gave me. And I think that’s what’s going on with a lot of these people. We are a society addicted to spite. It’s all bumper sticker politics, whatever the other side hates, whatever will get a rise out of the “enemy,” you must yell about it. Even if you don’t fully believe or better yet fully understand it.

I'm a 6'1 dude, not exactly small... I wouldn't feel safe walking the streets of Seattle at night alone. That's a recipe for me getting mugged.

Im sorry the anchor man memes are stealling my concentration 🤣🤣🤣

you should have @GEN on!

Also, I was encouraged to be whatever I wanted when I came of age in the late 70's. I took all the math and science courses available at my high school. There was no discrimination in the classroom. Our teachers did not call on the girls less often, as has been claimed. I got a BS Education in Chemistry, and my parents were disappointed I didn't try to get a PhD to teach at the college level. And they were very traditional people.

“Women can’t wear what they want but men can” Usually when women make that argument, it’s because they enjoy playing the game of how nude can they get away with. Women can literally show up to a restaurant and get served in a bra and jean short-shorts. If a man showed up without a shirt. He wouldn’t even make it pass the hostess. Places are telling men what to wear ALL the time.

OMFG I just spill my coffee loling hard 2:01 🤣

i love her way of explaining.

I'm glad that you are reviewing Gen's channel, SERIOUSLY underrated. Great video!!!

and I emphasize on 'some'

Why of course they are!

I just discovered GEN earlier today. That guy deserves more subs.

I’m glad GEN is getting more exposure. He’s been doing a great job with interviews

"You high as shit right now?" "bro I'm cooooked"

the times have turned

I am a woman who is good at math and STEM stuff. I have a career in a STEM field which tends to be more male-dominated. I am of the opinion that if women are good at this sort of thing, they will gravitate to it. They don't need to be 'encouraged' into the STEM field. And men will be respectful to a woman in the science/tech workspace if she is qualified for the work. You can't do the job if you don't know how to do it. I have a son and he's absolutely brilliant with his knowledge of history. He blows me out of the water with his passion and interest in all things historical. It is that sort of passion that makes a person good at something. You can encourage a woman to go into STEM, but you cannot necessarily generate that sort of passion and deep interest in a topic. Over the years, for example, I encountered plenty of people who went into software development because it was lucrative, but they didn't actually LIKE it. Since they didn't actually LIKE it, they weren't particularly GOOD at it. I could tell they struggled with certain things that were 2nd nature to me. I'm not saying that you should be gate-kept from a lucrative field... absolutely not, but I don't necessarily think incentives and encouragement to study make for passionate GOOD workers.