If they lie it is best to disconnect. If they are selfish, flighty, display envy, jealousy, comparisons, insecurities; best not to spend time together.
Do you think any amount of jealousy is appropriate, if your partner is flirting with the waitress would you say something ? Also how would you approach that ?
@@positivel5530 I wouldn't like it at all. It would make me feel insecure and uncared for. Waitresses used to flirt with my husband but he didn't flirt with them. He was handsome and stayed neutral. It happened a few times.
I don't know. A male dating coach says it's ok to express non verbal anger when a man disrespects you but you say it's important to remain calm and cool. I don't know what to believe anymore hahahah.
@@TheNdiBabe you were probably being inauthentic when you were "cool and calm". When you did that, were you actually angry and pretending to be cool and calm? Or did you calm yourself down, get some perspective on the situation and then express yourself without actually being angry (on the inside)?
Me too. I speak calmly and expressed my emotions. No blaming or crying. Just that i was disappointed with the treatment - stood me up. Pushed him further away
You are so fierce and powerful. LOVE this message Just had a huge AHA! My conditioning of shutting down with conflict came from over reactions of father, the punishment always being so much worse that the crime and knowing I didn’t deserve that. Wow. Definitely a long line of toxicity. It’s been the gift of a lifetime to work with you to rewire these habits ❤
Real men are strong and powerful. Yes, yes, yes. Love 😍 Assuming the best of them and being in your power and heart 💗 You have the best messages. F*** are we ever lucky you’re here! 💥
Fareen this video feels so good to watch. Your embodiment allows me to visualize /picture what you suggest I.e. having boundaries and standards in a relationship an empowered way ❤❤❤
I was annoyed and told him to just block me again. His wifi was on and off too much. I called his bluff and then he kept on pursuing... every message is delivered to his phone just fine now. Show them you are NOT afraid to walk away.
For the most kind of us. Words are enough because we want to please the other person. We just have to know what it is. We don’t test the boundaries. We give the honor we would want to receive amen❤
Wao!!! so many lessons from this video Fareen, like no words ! so helpful examples on situations that we shouldn't care, simple things can be dealt so different, like an art ! Aggghhhh feeling msgs feel so baaaaad, thanks for explaimg about this I never understood what they were about! How to express, the degree, the timing SO powerful, I never knew any of this. I also relate situations with my young adult son. Thank you so much !! So enlightening!!! Loving all your videos!!! 💖💖💖🫶🫶🫶😍😍😍
Thank you for this video and your insight! I have been watching videos saying “feelings” comments on approaching men. While sometimes it has its purpose I feel it’s not authentic. I love what you said on having to tip toe around a man then he isn’t the man for me. I would love to book a session with you
❤️ Well-communicated word choices and behavior awareness, with healthy attachment levels. To me, it’s bigger than Traditional, it’s instinctual of our ancestors since the ice age to ask many of these questions and to take this stance. Thank you.
My friends and I believe that us women have a psycho gene. When we over think about things the psycho gene kicks in. Off load to your friends first. Then talk to your guy when you are calm and of sound mind lol. I am direct and blunt. But I don't do drama or bullshit. Be honest with them.
The guy I am seeing is the emotional one. I don't argue back, but I tell him what I think. When he says I have had enough leave me alone. I just say ok and he always comes back. I want him but I don't need him. Love him unconditionally and I also love my independence and solitude. If he's meant to be in my life long term he will be. If he isn't. Of course I will be sad but life goes on. I am not pushing things.
Thank you for this video Fareen:) I was wondering could you make a video on how to communicate to a man some "dark" moments/ unpleasant situations from our life that are difficult to share? Also, Im interested in your course, but not sure about the access time?
Coach says when man starts to become feminine, weak, grumpy, complaining, unhappy, unsure, woman has no other choice but becoming more masculine and protective of family, do some action, which he dislikes.......As soon as man builds up his maculinity, his confidence, become stronger better happier in his masculine energy, woman notices it and she steps back and starts to channel her feminine energy more .He noticed it with his clients as soon as he changed his energy for better, the woman suddenly became more feminine.
Hey beautiful woman, I met a guy on tinder. He's super rich and 14 years older than me. He looks older than his age still I find him kinda good looking. Anyway he lives alone he told me he's looking for a wife. So we started talking. He's a Businessman. Very busy guy. But I think he is too busy. He tells me to text him call him but he hardly initiate. We haven't met yet but we'll meet after 15 days. Can you please tell me what's going on?😢
most men want to talk to a woman and SEE HER SOFTER side. This is crucial. Because a lot of men are conditioned to supress their real feelings in life... the have to be "the stronger one no matter what". And that I hope is becoming outdated. Women deserve to be treated with respect, honesty etc. That's the way I see it.
Something is just not right about having to study what men wanr. Just to have a conversation to express what might be bothering you. I know its meant well.
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Comment: The Woman has to find the love of her life. If the man she finds has chemistry then her love life with him will rock and this too will extend to the inner world. Many women are not finding chemistry but many since 2020 have been marrying for social security and money. It's time for Women to start marrying for love even if the man is a Janitor and makes little money. She has to connect with him and he has to connect with her. Why would a woman marry for money but in the end, she can't even connect with him? Women need to be careful when choosing a husband because many men have the Rocco Siffredi syndrome. Women must seek Chemistry. Can she connect with her lover/husband/friend? Once she finds chemistry, then all else is history. April 2024. USA
19:10 Thanks Fareen! This is where I need more coaching. Boundaries getting across, once we’re past the beginning. Like at 20:05 specifically. I’m writing an email to you.
Yes pls do! You can make a purchase using the link in the description. Email me your specific situation and I will guide you on how to navigate it best ❤️
I have a question regarding what you said. If he lies, should you leave immediately (if youre engaged, lets say), or should you communicate that to him, give him an ultimatum, and wait to see if he changes?
First I so appreciate you deeply and truly, you have added to my life in a big way and I will be grateful for the next two life times...... on another note Mr. Milo needs some tuff love and discipline. LOL ! perhaps let him into the frame so he wont be so upset with you.🐶
How about if he’s being inconsistent when first dating you? Like for example if he says he’s gonna call at a certain time and doesn’t, or if he sets up dates but then cancels at last minute? Should we not express obviously not in a angrily tone but in a way that he understands that you won’t put up w him being inconsistent and a man that won’t keep his word?
Thank you Fareen. I did that with my ex boyfriend I was very mad and I said hurtful things to him(only few weeks after we me). We are still talking and I feel like he is having an hard time trusting me now. Should I give up? How to fix it ? is it possible to fix it? I’m doing the inner work
…? Respectfully, of course words matter(!). “I feel so bad when you don’t take the garbage out”…?? I don’t think this is a good example of where the “I feel” method applies. “I would appreciate you taking the garbage out” isn’t weak. The method where one would preface with “I feel” makes more sense with an example such as “I feel scared when you show up late for our get-togethers and I don’t know what’s going on”. This is when you’re supposed to use the “I feel” method”. Otherwise, you do have some valid points🙂. Also, please consider turning your phone on the horizontal📲 to get rid of those enormous black sides. And… I’m blasting my volume so that you can be audible. Please consider your mic🎤. Thank you.
Yeah you’re not blaming women. Anyone who thinks that has inner work to do. Literally exactly. Any woman who gets mad at man during the courting phase has inner work to do 100%. And any woman who wants to push him away that would be the #1 way to do it 😂
Hey beautiful woman, I met a guy on tinder. He's super rich and 14 years older than me. He looks older than his age still I find him kinda good looking. Anyway he lives alone he told me he's looking for a wife. So we started talking. He's a Businessman. Very busy guy. But I think he is too busy. He tells me to text him call him but he hardly initiate. We haven't met yet but we'll meet after 15 days. Can you please tell me what's going on?😢
