@30:24 that is sooo perfect, "okay so we already been intimate, so why do we have to be intimate again?" "You wanna be intimate all the time, i love words all the time!" 😊❤
Oh Fareen ❤❤❤ You are SO much more than a "dating coach" or something like that, what you do is on another level, and transformative!!! You're in a league of your own honey!! I learned a lot from this wonderful video! ❤ Thank you so much.. I've been struggling so long to "clean my side of the street", and it's hard but it's worth it! You gave me the essential insight i missed for a long time, INCREDIBLY precious! I think I'm a feminine woman inherently, but I'm so weak and kinda wounded and insecure, and i was forced into my masculine for years Very eye opening. I have a lot of work to do! Thank you so much dearest Fareen! I'm your lifelong fan and follower ❤😘🙏
Hearing all these things are so delicious! I recently have been experiencing interactions with a very healthy masculine man and I get so excited all the time when I experience him constantly doing things that I’ve heard from you, but never experienced myself. It feels SO safe, grounded and peaceful and exciting! I’m like… holy s*** these are all the things Fareen has taught me 🩵🩵🩵 it’s hard to put into words… it’s just so delicious 😊
I love your energy!! So knowledgeable and so soft… the flow is amazing 😍 You know your stuff!! “Be with her…” when you talked about your inner child and being with yourself and allowing, oof, I felt that. All about the inner work. This is the most important thing for me right now; becoming the most soft, loving person FOR MYSELF Beautiful 🤍 Thank you xo
I feel like I’m in a mother role with my husband right now. I’ve let go of control and I’m doing me. I feel more embodied doing the things I enjoy and detaching from him. I’m also more in tune with my desires as a result.
Not the women's fault, but, it's still our responsibility in the first place to heal and learn. Ourselves and the collective feminine as well. Great work Fareen, thank you always.
A man tried to kiss me on our first date and I let him know I didn’t want to kiss and clearly communicated the space I need. The fact that he tried (to kiss me) and wanted to be in my space felt a bit imbalanced
My beta Ex fell off the waggon when I grew more into my feminine 😊 That rel ship was sooo harmful but I learned so much from it! Thanks for your good work 🤩
This is so insightful…… the questions are so good….. and your message is so clear with the distinctions between masculine and feminine. It feels so real and authentic. Nothing feels heavy or forced. Everything you say is so natural, I relate so much to all of it. Love how you said men always been in their role, and nothing changed much for them, but women’s role changed vastly and how we became imbalance. It has caused confusion in the dynamics and now we are living in it. ❤
How to stay in feminine energy in your thirties when you want a family but your boyfriend is not ready? He is in his masculine and 34 years old. Still, I’m getting so anxious. Been together almost two years.
You need to communicate what you want, decide you're worth what you want, and love yourself enough to leave if he doesn't want the same thing - your time is more finite and therefor more valuable as a woman. Full stop
I was seeing a man but he never tried to please me or lead in the relationship. He led me on to believe we could be more until we slept together and then backtracked and said he only wanted fwb. I became attached to him bc of the sex and took on the role of leading even though I have a very feminine soul. The whole situation left me feeling worthless and unvalued. He was a doctor and very handsome so I guess he could be considered masculine. He lied to me about being sexually exclusive and slept with others. I blocked him in Jan cold turkey bc I could not take the devaluing anymore. Why would a man act like this? I still miss him…
@@lou15176 I think it is because I slept with him and became attached. And another part is I need his validation bc he never gave it to me. I am in counselling and working on it...
I've met a man who doesnt want me to cook or clean for him. This counters everything Ive learned since being a girl - that to get a man you must first and foremost cook, clean and breed. I am confused. He doesnt want me to do anything for him. How do I navigate this? What am I supposed to offer in return? Can anybody explain what is going on in here?
I love this! This is actually a really good thing :) If you want to go deeper into it, you can purchase an email question and share the dynamic with me and I’ll send you my response 🤍
I wanted to refer to what you said that men should not be spiritual. What about Christian spirituality? What about priests and pastors? If you have read the Bible, you know how masculine the Christian religion is and how many examples of real men there are in the Bible, starting with Moses. It is the Bible that shows true femininity and true masculinity. Claiming that only I can pray as a woman and a man is masculine as long as he works and is not involved in any spirituality (I mean specifically Christian, I am not interested in other spiritualities) is misleading people.
@@fareenashofficial great, thanks for pointing that out that's what I've done, from the heart. Sometimes it's confusing, but I try to lean in to my authentic being. Thank you for your answer.
My bf is very masculine but he always want me to initiate things and he is not chasing since he 'got me'. Also he is not progressing the relationship , does it mean he is wounded or feminine?
Hi my love, I would need to know more details about your specific situation to answer completely. You can purchase a call/email question above if that feels right 🙏
The reason she doesn't see healthy masculine with healthy feminine is probably because they don't need her coaching. I'm assuming she means she doesn't see it in her coaching practice
@@fareenashofficial is it a Christian God the creator of heaven and earth or just the Universe? You said that man should only work and not be spiritual. I disagree because my man prays a lot and me too
That's a private matter... do not seek to look into the windows of mens souls. You can follow your Abrahamic doctrine. That isn't even that old. And moses is Talmudic love.. You would know it as Judaism.
Such good distinctions between healthy vs toxic masculinity and femininity! 🩷🩷🩷 my ex husband was definitely more critical and controlling and it’s validating knowing that I made a good choice to leave
I like your topic - I couldn't understand some of your words no offense - you have an accent then you talk too fast for me-maybe I could get your book instead
