No they were all afraid to acknowledge Matt for fear of later being labeled as extreme, my opinion is they all were sheep and scared shitless to cheer at points you know they agreed with.
Im 29 and have had ADHD for as long as i can remember. Don’t need medication. I’ve used it to my advantage. I’ll outwork pretty much everyone around me because i don’t get tired. I need to learn by doing instead of being taught but its never hindered me. I’ve studied history and absolutely love learning new skills. The medication aspect is bullshit. I felt like a zombie on adderal. Just let me get my shit done. Guarantee ill do it faster and better than most in the job market.
Note. This comes with some downfalls. an addictive personality, especially to alcohol and tobacco. It also comes with a difficulty in falling asleep which is why i personally drink heavily after work. However, there are healthier ways than the ones I’ve chosen to counteract these.
I love hearing this. 20yr veteran high school health teacher. You can likely benefit from other natural herbs that work synergistically with your biology. Lemon balm, holy basil/ tulsi, aand CBD oil. Especially before bed. I have two former students who developed opioid addictions who use cbd and are no longer using drugs OR alcohol.
That need to learn by doing, not by formal teaching? Oh, yeah, I hear you, I'm absolutely the same way. Leave me alone please, let me get my stuff done.
I am not shocked. I remember saying I was a boy when I was about 5, I didn't know I was describing feeling different from how I usually felt. I didn't know what it felt like to be a boy because I am a girl. I grew out of it. And I am thankful for my grandma reminding me I was a girl.
I remember being a child who was diagnosed with ADHD, then I hit puberty and experienced extreme highs and extreme lows. Thought I was bipolar. Grew out of both.
@@PricelessBinkey1337 The biggest problem in the Medical Industry is that Big Pharma "pays" doctors to use their drugs. Of course they will prescribe it again and again as often as they can. You go to a small town and see a traditional Family doctor then go see a Doctor from a large city. With same symptoms you will get two different treatment plan. The "City" doctor will prescribe you one pill or another 100% of the time. Their pocket book depends on it.
@@ghost7519 um this video was streamed two hours ago and it is an hour long. I commented 54 minutes ago. Did you want me to time travel to earlier today????
Jeremy Menning wait u can time travel?!?!?! Jk lol Yea when i first clicked on the video it shows ur comment was posted 12 minutes prior so i decided to make a joke (not the best might i admit but still)
How did I not know that International Men's Day was yesterday but I know that today is International Transgender Day of Remembrance? This world is fucked.
@@TheAntManChannel teachers teach knowledge. Priests teach how to give a blowjob and that there is a fake sky dictator thats looking down on them even while they sleep. go back down your ant hill until you have some worth while argument for me.
@@kylevogelgesang9996perverted female teachers are sleeping with underage boys all the time. Brainwashing children with silly fairy tales of evolution and fake history. Looks like it worked on you.
@@Toodream i attack all religion. its all man made bullshit with no evidence to back itself up with. keep it private and in your own home where it belongs.
My husband grew up without a father and has become an exemplary father to my two boys 22 and 16 and a great husband to me. I can not express enough the relevance of having a model at home to affirm them and support us. I'm not going to lie. it's opening my eyes to appreciate manhood in its entirely. Please keep being a healthy influence on this generation.
I think i knocked up a chick. Should i reach out tobher or not? I have no money amd do not wamt to work normal jobs. My plan is to hide til i get a career oor make enough passively
Fen Groves women use their sex to gain favors, meals use it to use men, only women have the benefit of murder. Women benefit in divorce, custody and welfare. Preferred placement at University’s fire department’s, police department’s, military and more.
that lady needs to reread judges and the lead up to noah. the bible constantly has the theme "the people did what was right in their own eyes" followed by "and this is how it ended horribly"
I would classify myself as a libertarian, perhaps a conservative libertarian or a Christian libertarian. All laws are moral laws, or infer a moral principle. I am for only laws that can be inferred from the scriptures. So not doing what is right in our own eyes.
Daniel Mann sorry im not a native speaker but how i learnt in school: moral = Moral and custom = Sitte wich are two different things in Right (courts, whatever) google it
My 4 year old plays with every girl he sees at the park and will run by me as he chases them yelling, "I love girls". I just asked him "what is a girl" and he said " I don't know" A very honest answer from a little boy. He doesn't know what a girl is, he just knows he loves them lol.
Haha, that's wonderful, I loved reading your comment... I know what a girl is, a juvenile lady, who will mature as a woman, adult human female... It's a bloody mystery as to what they "are" though... 😁😆👍
Matt Walsh has become a major speaker and frankly, a Christian, intellectual, take-no-prisoners force of nature when it comes to speaking on major social issues. One of the biggest roadblocks to remedying the emasculation problem is that - in great part due to the abysmal diseducation policies in teaching Matt spoke of - each successive generation of men has fewer fathers properly able to exhibit and teach those masculine skills.
Boys were treated just like Boys at my school. The teacher knew they were rowdy, some fought at recess, they weren't scolded for being Boys only how to listen and obey the teachers. Yes we were spanked in school, said pledge of aledgence, the Lord's Prayer and all knew they were either a boy or a girl. We knew nothing about gender identity and no suicides. No ADHD or medication for that existed. The spanking normally fixed that for months
Yep. We have to look at the root of this too. Lack morals are great part of it. Lack of morals perpetuates among generations till someone opens and breaks it. Other wise this becomes normal.
Yeah a failed shock jock striking gold selling hate, well done 👍🏻 Typical religious person, tell u what u want to hear. The fact that he has no specialized education or experience within the topics he speaks on should warn u that his opinions r as valid as any random person at the mall. I assume u see a plumber to get ur teeth cleaned?? Do urself a favor & seek information from people who have put in the time & completed the work.
Hey that guy Colin Kaepernick that talks/acts like he's from a tough neighborhood in Atlanta is from a nice loving home with white parents in Milwaukee
I hate it so much it’s liberal white ppl like him tht get racial sensitive black ppl to fight for THIER causes. Kap is an idiot if and the new puppet for the liberal/ Democrats who have been literally rapping black ppl for yrs. black ppl have been voting democratic for decades and all of the cities tht are democratic have the same damn things a slave plantation have. Black ppl need to wake up and see the fucking dems for what they are lying mfs tht use ppl for their own gain and Kap is assisting them with tht smh ou have to do your own research.
I taught middle school boys chorus for 20 years. The boys were 11-13. They were so crazy!!!! I was always channeling their energy. I found a way to teach this class well and the boys loved it. They sang well, they performed well. I let them be themselves. The second they were done singing a song, they would all just explode with energy. People would ask me how i did this? How did i teach this class? I just said I taught it with the natural flow of their energy. I added movement to some songs when appropriate. I let them act the way they acted. The boys were not disrespectful...just energetic! Elementary school needs 2 recesses per day, middleschool needs one. Boys are rambunctious! Let them be. It's in their hard drive!
Thank you for talking about the masculinity onslaught of men. I have a son whom I’m raising alone. I worry about the poisonous ideologies lurking online and potentially in public classrooms. I have allowed my 9 year old son to hear these talks. I want him to be informed in advance so he can stand up for himself and defend his identity.
Learn what Fashism and Bigotry each are so you dont fall prey to them. RU-vidr Some More News has good understandable Defnition-Summary of both, but of course Trans-RU-vidrs are also worth listening to. Wasnt there recently a 4 Hour Essay made?
@@loturzelrestaurant thanks for the suggestions. I am familiar with fascism and bigotry. I am also familiar with the hypersensitivity in which any expression of thoughts or opinions trigger reactionary name calling (bigots, fascists, racists, etc) Hence, my indifference of such. I’ve listened to transgenders and transgenders who Have de transitioned and now turned against by the very same community they were part of. Baffling are the labels transgenders place on anti transgenders and those who detransitioned while paying no attention to the planks in their own eyes. In addition, there is nothing liberating for the children being introduced to these ideologies, identities, etcetera, as children are young, vulnerable, and incapable of understanding their choices regarding their sexual orientation and gender identities. Shame on the Adults who push their viewpoints onto the vulnerable children in the name of democracy.
You are doing well in showing him what logic and common sense look like. The attack on masculinity makes no sense whatsoever, since it is that very natural essence of men that built this society. The Agenda’s first order of business was to target men, reduce their roles in society, and within their families. Men “and” women need to align, not be at odds. It is exactly what the divide intends to accomplish.
"Leave the boys alone"! I've been saying that for years. Dammit, just leave the boys alone. The sorry plight of boys in our society is probably the only thing I would agree with Matt Walsh on, but, oh, he speaks well on it!
@Fen Groves Why not just have only boys' schools, with mostly male teachers, leaving the boys alone, and crazy male-hating feminists, who can't do anything but think about men could just fuck off?
@Fen Groves I can't imagine what level of delusion you have reached to believe your fallacious anecdotal statement has any degree of validity. Also, if all these theoretical young men are having sexual relations and the theoretical girls aren't because of their theoretically controlling families, who are the guys having sex with? Is every theoretical young person theoretically gay?
@Fen Grovesfrom the way your stating and phrasing thing you seem like you were taught in an all girls academy it's how it seems but putting 50 5years olds in a box and punishing them for something out of their control for something that may or may not happen just for a possibility I have a nephew who's in first grade he only has other boys in the classroom because the school believe it's too dangerous for boys and girls to interact with one another because the possibility for boys to learn compassion to dangerous for them they have a male teacher that is viewed by 5 people behind 2 way mirror to record interaction and response
War on reality? Like the happy clappy Christians and their imaginary friend? I find it rich matt parades his morality then gets destroyed by his own religion on eco sins of his PEDOPHILE CATHOLIC CHURCH This hypocrite is the reason why the left laughs at us.
Hes just a guy with no specialized training or education regarding anything he speaks on. I find it asinine to bring a speaker with absolutely no valid experience to a place of education & have them speak to students. Why not have a random dad or grandma?? Walsh was a failed shock jock prior to selling hate.
@@georgewashington938 No u do not. What u claim is ‘happening right in front of ur face’ is misleading. What most of us r seeing is nothing but some people reacting to disinformation intentionally put out as propaganda to promote an underlying agenda. Matt Walsh wants monetary success, so he is fishing for views, clicks, & book sales. If u want to understand the fact of life that existed long before the recent right wing propagated attacks against these minorities (trans & gay people) then u must use the same basic process as to hire a contractor or plumber or to choose a doctor or mechanic. The ole saying dont see a plumber for a toothache. The only way a person can possibly feel more educated by listening to Walsh or media or their neighbor, etc in place of a gender expert (some one who has specialized education & experience working in that field) the only way that can happen is to have a person carry a bias, a preferred narrative, in place of maintaining an open mind to the facts supported by objective evidence. We saw this during covid, in anti-vax rhetoric, & then the 2020 election. Gay people have always existed, so have trans people. If u hope to understand why u r hearing more about this, I offer 2 activities. First, study up in ur preferred medium (read or listen to or watch information put forth by gender experts who have committed their education & careers to this subject long before the recent debates) Second, turn off right wing or conservative media for 30 days & see how much ur personal life actually intersects with any of this. If u dont want to see PRIDE clothes at Target, nothing will help u….as u r already allowing ignorance to form bigotry against the gay community. But if u r afraid that people r attempting to turn ur grand kids or children or neighbors trans or gay, Im quite confident u will hear crickets for that month. Civil rights did not turn people black & gay/trans rights as well cannot turn any previously straight person….including kids…..gay or trans. Hoping for acceptance ushered in through education is not grooming nor is it a threat to masculinity. If u believe Walsh to b a ‘real man’ based on his own parameters, I suggest u research his background. I am blue collar in the midwest. We know that being a man is about integrity & dependability, accepting responsibility. Its not about how a person dresses or wether they have a beard or wear a flannel shirt. When I hear anyone label an entire group of people as broad stereotypes without evidence of said behavior while ignoring other groups (such as walsh claiming to b a Catholic while not confronting their sexual misconduct against children) or having ‘selective outrage’ I hear nothing but a bully &/or a grifter. Don’t believe everything u read or view, but if u feel the need to do so, at least b sure they r experts……just as u do with, lets say by expecting the pilot of ur commercial airplane to b someone more than a random person with opinions about flying.
@@friedricengravy6646apparently by your logic, it was amazing that we were mandated masks, experimental shots, and devastated the economy because "educated" people said so? genius
Schools have been trying to have my 10 yr old brother diagnosed with adhd for quite some time now and get him into medication. Not happening, not on my watch.
Tony Azeredo I mean did you get a professional’s opinion and did some tests to see if he literally has ADHD? If he has ADHD and it’s being ignored, you are harming your brothers chances at success in life. Knowing you have ADHD can better prepare someone for their future
@@deepgill8610 I don't think Adderall will prepare him for a better future. I think that would do more harm than good actually. As far as I know there is no "test" that gives you a definitive positive or negative result. It's all based on behavior, such as being high energy and acting like a boy.
@@tonyazeredo5489 I'm with you. I've had the same situation with my son...I laughed in the pediatrician's face and told her to stick with treating his physical health and leave everything else to me. He's a well adjusted kid who needs a little extra exercise to burn his energy off. Doctors are so quick to diagnose and throw pills at normal rambunctious boys. It's disgusting. My sister in law, on the other hand, gave her son the pills (and still does)... he's a good kid but a pain in the ass. The adderall made him intolerable to be around, he's rail thin, the dry mouth side effect is rotting his teeth and a conversation with him is enough to drive you crazy. My heart breaks for him daily. What can you do though?
That ending was honestly beautiful and it is a perfect conclusion to the speech. If we don't guide our young boys, they're going to turn out a way we don't like, and it's going to be entirely our fault.
Great talk!!!! I went through this with my two boys and it was very harmful to them. What is the most diagnosed with ADHD? It’s a very long story, but I bought my boys a trampoline never bought them a video game. One of them can fix anything the other one unfortunately went into the military and came back with post traumatic stress syndrome, they’re both still alive. Have jobs, but are unable to talk about their feelings. This is a wonderful wonderful talk that you’re doing Matt! I applaud you.
As a girl that grew up with brothers and didn't have that many female role models, im in the same boat rn. There are a lot of things I am relearning to embrace my femininity rn and its been a journey, what sort of things did you change and what resources have you used?
@@timothycushing5473Well the term tomboy has been around a long time and has nothing to do with a girl becoming a boy. But this is a much broader subject in that a girl who likes playing more physical games with boys or a boy who seems quieter and not so rambunctious isn’t becoming a girl. This is all part of growing up and it ignites personal past situations and stories.
Yeah... Who told you to speak? This response (of timothycushing) is telling. This video is part of a broader effort to push back on changes in society for the better, it is a reaction to people (typically white men) being held accountable for their actions, being restricted in what they can do and say to others. The irony is that they talk about manhood by being pussies about it. No one is saying that as a boy you can't climb a tree anymore or wrestle with your peers. That's not what this is about. It is about folks not being happy that bullying minorities and women is no longer socially acceptable. I am a white male by the way who does not feel threatened by progressive culture shifts. I welcome them. I do take issue with reactionary movements trying to take us back a century. That is what this is. There is money behind it, it is not just this video, it is a deliberate campaign and the end goal is very dark.
@@MartinMaat Well another mark-sist bug heard from. I pray to god that you have no children that you can force to get their endocrine systems destroyed and bodies mutilated because you want to display your leftist virtue. You believe that all White people are oppressors and others are perpetual victims. Tell us why you think that young White children should be taught that they are evil from birth. And, by the way, the big $$ as well as the demented medical establishment AND Madison Avenue advertisers and main stream media are all behind this atrocity. You are incredibly ignorant of what’s happening.
Amazing speech! This has really struck a cord in my life and opened my eyes. I have a three year-old son, a two year-old son, and a two year-old daughter. Just the other day, my 2 y/o son was running around crazy and couldn't stand still for a nanosecond. I literally said to him, "What is wrong with you? Do you see how well-behaved and still your sister is?" So I now understand that I was looking at the situation through the lenses of a woman. You are 100% right! I can't tell you how much this speech has now changed my outlook. I don't want to hinder my sons' masculinity. Extremely helpful. Thank you! I really wish that there are schools that were tailored to teaching our sons that allows them to be boys. Hint, hint Matt & Daily Wire...
Happy to see your comment. Many women, mainly single mothers don’t understand boys are made to be aggressive and very active. Bless you for seeing this! Now spread what you’ve learned to other mothers who have boys. Another thing to teach is team sports if possible mainly because they learn teamwork, discipline, and commitment. We always insisted our sons keep commitments when they were stressed or worried about failing. They thank us often for never letting them quit and for teaching them how to work. They were also taught to respect their mother and they respect their wives today. I was fortunate to have a great husband.
I feel like many men are hurt by society. The mental health issues on a broad scale are quite scary. It's a tough day in age to be a tough man. I wish I had listened more to my parents and less to the school system or peer pressure. But my mistakes will help me become a better man in society and hopefully lead other men to become great. Loved the speech Mr. Matt.
I was expelled from the 6th grade for “mis behaving” my parents told the principle “ you can’t expel my son” This was late 60’s I therefore spent 6th grade in the office. I can relate to this guy Did graduate university And now realize who i was and why
When I was maybe 8 or so years old, my one year younger cousin and I were playing “He-Man” in the backyard (toxic, I know… how could my parents allow it). Since there were two of us and only one He-Man, he played he man and I played she-ra. After a little while, we switched. According to modern society, my cousin and I should have both been immediately “affirmed” and transitioned. This is insanity.
Magnificent! Thank you so much, Matt -- this is a message that is sooo long overdue. _Please_ keep bringing it to as many people as you can. God bless you.
I’m an educator of 27 years and I endorse this message. ... Our classrooms are not set up to cater to the physiological difference that exists between the learning styles and disposition of boys and girls.
I'm in highschool, and I just have a field day counting how many times people say "like" when they answer a question (highest I've counted is 15 times in a single sentence).
@@thatmetaldude3325 I've made it clear, sometimes, that I'm counting and they look perplexed. I think it would be fun to carry one of those 'lap counters' which is mechanical and push the button each time. Here's a sad story. I sell to the public and there have been times when I have asked someone who is maybe 10 or 12 to stop and ask me their question without saying "LIKE". They CAN'T DO IT. Within 5 seconds of beginning to speak, the word "LIKE" will have come out of their mouth, and they cannot stop it.
@@Bubba-zu6yr Yeah, but nothing beats "LIKE" as a linguistic epidemic. I've counted over a few minutes before. The average is about once every FOUR SECONDS. I once asked a student about his overuse and, in denying it, he said "LIKE" twice in the first 5 seconds, and didn't even know he had said it.
FANTASTIC! As a young boy I was almost saddled with the ADHDRPQST(whatever) lable, but it didn't exist then (My 3rd Grade teacher tried to attach the nickname "Johnny Jump Up" to me but fortunately it didn't stick! I would have had to hurt her, and I liked her) but my "ability" to juggle 5 mental balls in the air at the same time, proved to be a total asset later in my life (As a retail salesperson for Radio Shack I could keep 5 or more customers under my "control" on the floor of the store). This speech needs to be played at every PTA/PTO meeting in this country, at every SCHOOL BOARD (BORED) MEETING as well! Keep up the good work Matt!
Feminism's misandy has weaponized relationships, schools, politics and everything it touches. This form of hate destroys the core family, leads to addictions, self-harm and suicide.
@Fen Groves Thank you for proving my point. Hate in any form is bad for the family unit and some people make hate happen and others let it happen. Either way the family unit suffers and the cycle is repeated again and again untill someone accepts responsibility and takes steps to end the pattern and begins the healing process. A good book for anyone to understand the organized assault on the family is Saul Alinsky's "Rules for Radicals" . Alinsky's community organizing has been weaponized by the social scientists to get rid of mothers and fathers or making them ineffective. It only takes one or two generations of ignorance, dogma, addiction, both parents working, violence or sexual assault to destroy an otherwise strong family. The media, social services, schools, religion, nihilism, the economy and the justice system are used effectively in this war against the family. The "troops" used in this war against the family (society) are called Social Justice Warriors. Some of these SJWs know exactly what the goal is but most are "useful idiots" and are just "doing their jobs".
@Fen Groves #metoo has been used as a political, women's supremacist weapon to silence innocent men and deviated from the original mission (that is supporting real victims). Points proven that misandry really happens (men are told to man it up iwhile women are accountable-free) which is blatantly apparent in your post. I'll just say what about the BOYS and MEN who were sexually assaulted and/or raped by WOMEN? WILL YOU DEFEND the victim just LIKE YOU DEFEND women (who usually lies [false rape case])? Should it be treated seriously ONLY to GIRLS (which what you wrote)? However, with this current climate where innocent men are put to jail, and get his life destroyed and ruined by false allegations of rape/sexual assault case without any evidence and women can get away without any accountability and responsibility whatsoever... It makes what should constitute justice and equality be thrown out to the garbage. All those women movement will and lose their values. Until women's movement and feminism supports men's and boys' problems just like what is beautifully presented in this speech, there will be always a big rift and divide on society. And feminism WILL always blame men for any PROBLEMS they create themselves (which is partly true, especially simp men who let guilty women get away without any responsibility and accountability by guilt-tripping their men all the time).
@@Cuticatie I can just tell you’re all for sexual assault because you don’t see women as people who are affected by it. Most women don’t come out with false allegations, and it’s dangerous to think that way because there’s no way of proving they’re telling the truth, but it is the truth 9.999 times out of ten. Me too is a movement to stop entitled people (who happen to mostly be men because of the patriarchy) feeling as though and brought up to think that women are their sources of pleasure and should be used as such without regard for their choice in the matter or their mental problems afterwards. Of course it’s conservatives who come out and say women should like being sexually harassed and anyone who’s against it is just a feminist man hater. You’re probably just an insecure virgin at the end of the day, who’s upset that their ways, that have been driven into their head by their superiors, have been called out which results in the type of anger that lead to your comment. Grow up, I hate how far modern feminists go but the far right is just as bad. Fuck, I can’t find anyone in the middle ground with me. Everyone is so extreme in their views, and this world is much more black and white than people think
Matt I’m watching your speech with a heavy heart. my young son has fallen in to this gender confusion and my ex has encouraged it.please keep up the good work may god bless you.
You didn't prepare him for public school. There is a lot of spell binding to reverse here. Good luck and be careful from now on what in the world you expose him to. It dangerous put there
Why are Fuentes and his trolls spending so much time and energy going after arguable the most conservative member of the daily wire crew? Gorka is the only person who said he should be de-platformed and was wrong for that, but then Fuentes proceeds to lash out like a sperg at almost half of big name conservatives. Including Donald jr who he claims to love so much. Does he seriously not expect to be shit on after that? Especially when he says so much edgy shit and it’s almost impossible to tell whether or not he’s serious. At best he’s really not good at satire, at worst he’s an actual bigot. Dude looks like a lunatic with no self control. Definitely not the person I would want leading the charge against the left... if that’s what he’s even interested in.
Why did the entire daily wire crew attack Michelle Malkin for sticking up for kids asking questions at Q and As? Why cant daily wire just answer questions about demographic change and the impending death of the Republican party? Really makes you think.
Bob. It’s my understanding that Malkin claimed the daily wire guys were preventing people from asking questions. I have not yet seen definitive evidence that that is true. I think under those circumstances getting mad at Malkin is reasonable. As far as immigration goes every single one of the daily wire guys is for building the wall, the deportation of most illegal immigrants, limiting immigrant access to social services, pushing for social consensus around immigrant assimilation, and reforming legal immigration to prevent the mass influx of low skill workers. Shapiro and loaves are a little more loose with that than Matt and knowles, but it’s still a huge step in the right direction. Y’all appear to be pissed that they arnt saying no black or Hispanic people allowed.
@@alank8703 No she just stuck up for kids asking about questions at Q and As and the whole daily wire crew then participated in a coordinated smear campaign against Malkin calling her a white supremacist. Despite the fact that she's married to a Jewish man and is phillipino. Now please be honest and ask yourself why Michelle also wants these questions asked. Ask yourself why Fuentes who is part Mexican is so concerned about these questions. Why does daily wire feel the need to gatekeep these kids so hard? I mean Ben should be able to just answer the questions and it would have been no big deal.
Great lecture I’m 75 + years old my wife and I raised 2 children a girl and a boy. The girl was as energetic as her brother there are 7 years different in age but each have been a blessing as the girl is a science teacher a graduate of a university the boy would not go to college but is an engineer assistant and both have done very well. We never tried to change either one of them. My wife was a supervisor over police records, I was a salesman and business owner and neither one of us graduated from college, in fact I liked 12 hours to have a college degree. My wife was not aggressive but climbed the ladder of success. Both of us were raised on a farm. My wife was a child of a family of 7 children and I was a child of 4 and all were boys. The world of education has. changed for the worse and it’s basically because of government intervention. Children should be educated but not given the stupid liberation of the progressive education. Women and girls have a role to play in society the same as men and boys to be educated by their parents as to their roles in society not by the government school mandates. American have become so sick that most are really lazy today on raising their children.
Great comments Matt. We're so glad we homeschooled our boys. One now is a MD and the other a Medical technition. They were born in the early 90's so we didn't have to deal with the insanity of today's crazy and confused culture!
This is All common sense. How did this insanity take over???? Thank you Matt for standing up for all the children. We as a society need to reestablish normalcy.
When my brother was a boy, we were looking for his name on the ball team roster, which was in last name, first name order. But he wasn't listed under 'M' for Mitchell. He was at the bottom as 'Wild Willie'. We laughed because it was so true, and we wouldn't want him any other way. So glad he went to school during a time when this behavior in boys was still considered normal, and even celebrated!
One of your best lectures Matt... I agree with 99% of what you’ve stated. Thank you for standing up for men. Men need an ally.. they’ve found one in you. ❤️🇺🇸❤️🇺🇸
Why do we need one? We’re not being attacked? Women speaking out on issues that have gone ignored for so long isn’t an attack, just because you’re finally being called out for your toxic masculinity it makes you feel threatened that your tiny little fragile box has been opened.
Curious what the 1% is that you disagree with . I understand completely not being in lockstep with someone in their speeches, I just curious about that 1% that you disagreed with on this issue?
Matt, you absolutely nailed it! Society has changed so very much in the last 60+decades. In part because the pendulum was very much weighted in the opposite direction in the 40's & 50's. Then, Family mattered especially after the horrific WW1 & WW2. The biggest influence as far as I can verifiably put forward apart from TV and Movies, was predominantly the advent of the birth control pill for young females which, by removing the threat of imminent parenthood, probably ushered in an explosion of underage/teenage sexual relationships. Many other factors coincidental such as , for America, the Vietnam war, breakdown of close family units and ultimately children, especially boys being raised without a father in a 'one parent' family, as was so aptly explained by Matt!
I'm so grateful that I grew up at a time before ADHD diagnoses weren't the standard diagnosis for kids like me who couldn't sit still in class and were easily bored.
Why?? His opinion is no more valid than any random person on the street. No specialized education or training or experience within any of the topics. It says a lot that they couldn’t find at least a counselor (let alone a doctor) to provide this side of the story. Theres a very good reason why: his opinions come from nothing but his own personal reaction to hearsay. Basically, hes a failed shock jock who struck gold selling hate.
He described my issues with school perfectly. I hated boring school but I love learning and am even getting another degree in biotech. I think we are moving albeit slowly away from rote memorization and towards conceptual and hands on learning.
It's actually medicines, mostly contraceptives, that get washed into the streams and waterways by people flushing "out of date" medicines. There are a ton of ways that crap gets into the water. And yes, it turns the frogs "gay" lol.
To be fair, boys did just fine for decades with the traditional school system, and were able to sit still at desks and learn just as well as girls. What changed? Not humans. In my opinion, what changed is 1. the number of distractions humans deal with on a daily basis, and 2. diet. Kids are raised with smart phones, Internet, computers, television, video games, ect. There are literally dozens of things at all times demanding any one person's attention, and that's not even counting family, jobs, and responsibilities. For diet, everything we eat is loaded with sugar and caffeine. Both of these grew worse with the rise of ADHD in children.
Wow this was powerful, when matt was talking about his son i felt like he was describing me as a child, we dont not all laern the same way. School was toture having to sit and copy from a board and it has to be quite and you have to learn from a boring book rather then actually doin whats in the book i hope matt talks more on changing the school system learning system.
Great points especially about the ADHD for boys . Our education system has not catered to all types of humans and as you say a boy needs heaps of energy to prepare for real work in the fields or forest, whereas other boys will be a different class of the studious brahmin class who prefers to learn .
As a father of a very energetic 4 year old boy it makes me so happy to hear another dad talk about this subject. I have always said that he is just an active boy and there is nothing wrong with him. However when people including nursery staff started throwing words like ADHD around you start to doubt yourself. We live in the UK and spoke to our health visitor a professional who works for the NHS and helps parents raising young children with support and advice. She quickly disregarded these comments and helped us address some areas of his behaviour. It is a cliche, but "boys will be boys". As a dad I view my roll to that similar to a bumper on a bowling lane. My son will roll along in the direction that life takes him, I am just here to guide him and keep him out of the gutter.
Great and timely talk. I suggest that if you can find it, read Warren Farrell's excellent book, The Myth of Male Power, which helped me to see through the Feminist ideology I had so unconsciously, and in delusion, subscribed to for decades.
I was a mediocre student all through school. C average. However, as a senior in high school there were no classes that were required. All of them were electives. That year I made the Deans List.
52:13 Damn right, and it's nice to hear him acknowledge that. I've been a teacher in the public schools, and the fact is you just don't have the resources or the ability to do things the way you want to, except to a very limited extent. You can have the best intentions, but you have to jump through a million hoops, you're underfunded, you're under pressure to do things in certain prescribed ways and not cause controversy, the administration only has your back in certain limited ways... It really isn't teachers' fault. They are set up to fail.
I was told by a divorced woman that all her female, acquaintances told her: " Take his house, take his house." She would not. I told her she was 1 in a million." She "wanted her husband to have a place to visit with her kids.".
I absolutely agreed with Matt about ADHD.. the key word being AGREED.. because when I separated from my husband he took our son to the doctor to be diagnosed with ADHD.. and I was FURIOUS because to me he was just a rambunctious boy.. BUT, one day while my son and I were at the bowling alley, and nobody was beside us.. and he was fine.. when a family started playing next to us, my son started to behave like a crazy person.. his eyes glazed over.. and I watched him and thought this isn’t normal.. the extent of his behaviour was worrying at the least. So I found a specialist who DIDNT AUTOMATICALLY DIAGNOSE ADHD.. and preferred to diagnose kids after extended tests and interactions with kids, which cost THOUSANDS.. and my son is on the low spectrum of autism with ADHD.. BUT.. as an adult.. and after I bought him a business.. he is sensational.. his work ethic is second to none and although he hasn’t made many friends yet.. he is succeeding.. BUT I DEFINITELY KNOW MOST KIDS DO NOT HAVE ADHD.. when my son was at school I volunteered a lot and one kid who was on medication DID NOT HAVE ADHD and I told the parents.. and advised them to move schools, for a few reasons, which they did and they haven’t stopped thanking me.. because their son is a doctor now..
Problem: just what *is* "masculinity" -- or "femininity", for that matter. The definitions can vary wildly depending on culture. I've noticed that when Matt talks about "society", he means modern mainstream (American, European and Asian) cultures. Looking wider might give him a better sense of perspective. We would do better to decide on the characteristics and behavior of "adulthood" as versus childishness. One good tactic for dealing with male rambunctiousness in school is to start the day by marching the kids (yes, the girls too) out into the hallway and make them *exercise* -- do calisthenics until they're tired enough to want to sit down and study. BTW, if you think girls aren't energetic too, you've never seen a nine-year-old girl determinedly skipping rope (or bouncing on a pogo stick) trying to make it to 100.
masculinity is active feminity is pasive. And yes, it is arbitrary, but it is harmonius. Ying and Yang. A man can be femenine and a woman masculine , both are good and both are bad on excess.
I’m sure getting the perspective of a society in Papua New Guinea will help Matt transform USA society just as you might get a wider perspective on girlhood by studying Saudi Arabia
I’m Australian, grew up in Sydney. I was a straight A’s student from about age 5 to 18. Years 5 and 6 I was sent to a school with an “Opportunity Class” for gifted kids, and went to a Selective High School where entry was merit based again. Most schools here are not co-Ed, my high school was all boys. Our school moto was “Manners Maketh Man”. We were Expected to do well, both academically and in sports, drama, pretty much everything. I never ever heard the term ADHD. Years later when I heard the term I looked back and still didn’t know anyone like that. I was very good at school, always in A classes, but I was the school “bad boy”, always in trouble for talking in class. Discipline was strict, the punishment for playing up was meted out by the Deputy Principal. I t involved “6 of the best”, being flogged across the hand, held palm up at shoulder height by a cane, 3 feet long and about the thickness of your thumb. It hurt like hell for hours afterwards. It had zero effect tbh. In fact not crying about it was a mark that I’d won. What it did teach me was that actions have consequences and that sometimes they are unpleasant, but crying about won’t do anything, you have to be a man, take your licks and be strong.
I was dismissed from my job as a tenured professor at Acadia University for having questioned leftist ideology. For example, I was labelled as transphobic for having stated that there are only 2 genders and explaining the biological basis for this. I was also accused of condoning rape because I showed a video from the Independent Women's Forum that featured a discussion between Camille Paglia and Christina Hoff Sommers; the issue of contention was that Camille said that it's important for women to stand up for themselves in the workplace rather than say nothing and then accuse someone of harassment months after the fact.
I think there's a reason I watch a full 12 hour lecture compilation of the fundamentals of Quantum Physics while doing other things as an adolescent male. thanks Matt, for helping me realize that I can learn a lot better when also releasing my 'ADHD' energy doing something else.
I appreciate Mr. Walsh's admission that he is more about raising problems than finding solutions. He indeed shouts loudly about a problem for which he does not have a solution. He views humans as either female or male - period and unchangeable. Mr. Walsh argues that females and males must behave in certain ways and when they do not behave "the right way", they should be corrected - until - they - do. Thus, because of your sex, you had better act - this or that way; or else [bad things]. Why does Mr. Walsh think that? Because he is Catholic? Because he is Christian? Because he believes in the Bible? Because he knows better than people who actually work with people who do not meet his expectation? Well, how far should those - "bad things" go? What should we be willing to do to a person, "to make them", into who we think they should be rather than who they think they should be? What freedoms? What liberties? What happiness should be withheld from them as they consistently insist on who - they - really - are? Should we expect them to demand liberty or death? Because they do! Mr. Walsh discounts the many families, who have children, who do not behave as expected for their sex. He speaks as if discipline is all that is needed. As if punishment, or education, or extra time would somehow fix this child. BUT IT DOES NOT! Mr. Walsh offers no solutions because he has no solution that does not conflict with what he wants to make us believe. This is the same logic that caused Galileo to be condemned for correctly stating the Earth revolves around the Sun. Like his predecessors, Mr. Walsh is all to willing to throw another brick on the backs of already overloaded families. He is all too willing to hammer another nail in the crucifix of another, deceased child, who did not meet his expectations for their sex. It is disappointing to see so many otherwise good people, speak so coldly with no alternative solutions.Edit - added reference: (See Gavin Grim v. Gloucester County School District, Brief for Amicus Curiae InterACT: Advocates for intersex youth, at URL: www.aclu.org/legal-document/grimm-v-gloucester-county-brief-interact-advocates-intersex-youth ).
Trans activists enforce sex stereotypes adamantly. They expect us to use the wrong gender pronouns to address them and then get violent when we refuse. Stop blaming others for your psychosis.
This is why I homeschool my boys. My oldest is 5 and reads at a 4th grade level and learns every topic, plus geography, agriculture, botany, music, boxing, animal husbandry, etc., and about one plant, animal or fungus every day. He will never learn about CRT or gender theory, and that's all 3 hours per day, 4 days a week, plus the sports, music, BJJ and boxing.
Let me answer the lady!! I'll answer her!! I'm a christian too. When we say "everyone knows what's right vs wrong intrinsically, you are ignoring the enemy confusing, tempting and the word that says "time will come when it will be call the bad "good" and the good "bad". The best way for the enemy to do this is through influence. In other words, making you feel good about something that is bad. Eliminating laws and saying things can be legal, you are eliminating that extra layer of safety given to humans to re-enforce what is good vs bad. For example, the very controversial marihuana. We all know scientifically its bad to your neurons when used in the way most people use it. It also puts you in a high, non cognitive state. Nothing about that can be good. However, the enemy is telling everyone that it is good. That its fun, and it cures illnesses, etc. The enemy don't discuss the manipulations the plant undergoes to be used as treatment. The enemy does not separate the bad from the good because he wants you to do the bad. Having the law, helps control people that are confused, that are listening to the enemy, specially non-christians, to avoid a catastrophe. To avoid affecting their lives dramatically and potentially escalating to worse drugs. When you remove the law and the drug is now legal everywhere, it becomes the next alcohol, which most people abuse and everyone around them is affected. As a libertarian, you may want to say "its their life, its their body, its their problem". But that's not true. We are all affected. An alcohol addict cannot function properly at work, affecting coworkers and his potential professional future. In that case, we may end up maintaining them thriugh welfare. An alcoholic cannot function as a dad or husband, potentially (and very oftentime) becoming abusive at home or absent affecting the spouse and children. Alcohol and drugs is one of the main causes of car accidents. Affecting other people's life and potential deaths. Not to say that we all as tax payers are affected by the amount of our money used to pay for more police resources, security gadgets, laws and politicians to control alcohol abuse, government propaganda, government programs, and hospital bills for all of those dependent on government paid (tax payer paid) healthcare. Laws are important to maintain values as good and immorality as bad.
As a female who was not at a school “tailored to her” I disagree with this. I was classed as the “thick child”, I wasn’t helped in school, I wasn’t loud or bouncy, I was quiet and I couldn’t concentrate and I couldn’t bring my grades up no matter how hard I tried and I was punished because I wasn’t able to do so. I cried out for help because I was desperately struggling and no one listened to me. I didn’t get help, I went through so much pain, confusion and bullying because I knew I wasn’t thick but I couldn’t change the way I was. I am now 32 and I’m on my way to being diagnosed ADHD and I am also dyslexic and I have Dyscalculia. I would have been so happy if someone had taken the time to listen to me instead of ignoring me because I was a female.
"was quiet and I couldn’t concentrate and I couldn’t bring my grades up no matter how hard I tried and I was punished because I wasn’t able to do so." Well sorry but thats not bad, you werent punished for "not beeing able to sit" you actually were punished with bad grades because you didnt get good grades... That's a good thing, that means somthing is wrong (and later you discovered you were dislexic) Am i wrong to say that if you coudlnt be quiet and sit down would been even worse?
