How Punjab women get into 'contract marriages' for foreign education, later abandon their husbands 

Kudos to you for telling the truth! Going to Canada, Australia and New Zealand (USA, UK and Europe are difficult to get into) is a disease that the Punjab has got and the average price that people are willing to pay to go abroad is around Rs 50 lakhs. Imagine if they invest that money in India for some business how much they would be earning? Instead they go to a freezing country, do menial jobs, live with 20 people in a 2 rooms, live in their ghettos, are exploited miserably by their own community people to become bonded labour, drug peddlers, money launderers etc, don't visit home for ages and never talk to a white Canadian!

Indian Canadian? Nobody cares, you could just have said what you were saying with the pointless mentions. You say it as you feel it elevates you above Indians in India , del hater

One of the so called ethos is being sexually active before marriage and having bastard kids. Perhaps that's acceptable to you if your son or daughter does that?

Yea same thing by all indian. Haryana,gujarat,kerala,up,uk,mp all Indians are same in canada

Not true. No other communities are involved in crime, prostitution and bad behaviours like Punjabi community. Just follow the news about car thefts, assaults etc. other communities are at least making an attempt to integrate

And u totally forgot about women, this trend against men has Started only resently but women have been facing same problems since 90s.

@@clashoflands I didn't forget about them. But their victimisation has been reported and condemned, rightly so. Men's victimisation is often ignored these days, ir worse justified. How many films, web series are there, where a woman's wrongdoing is justified. Check for yourself.

National commission for men and idiots

@@shankargopalakrishnan1478 why get so offended because I'm appreciating a news report without gender bias. Because this bias is found very often in news channels. A crime should be condemned regardless of gender of criminal or victim.

@@RY-xk7wp the Lucknow girl got so much attention whereas the same day a woman was killed by her husband in public in Delhi because she wanted to do a job it didn't even receive half of the attention. And no number of movies have made Indian women's lives better. There are more item songs, patriarchal movies than those so called "feminist" movies

pretty much!

True

Best advice ever 🤣👍👍

Yes

Here we go again with CHEATING EAST INDIANS who not only CHEAT when they are in Canada for years, but also figure out how to CHEAT to get other EAST INDIANS into Canada faster ....using fake documents rather than gain entry with proper documents. Canada is now full of CHEATING EAST INDIANS who don't care about CANADA ....don't care about CANADIANS ....and don't care about any CANADIAN LAWS OR RULES. Most recently, in British Columbia, the "trucking" industry has several companies that are owned by EAST INDIANS. "Driving" a truck is NOT an occupation that requires ANY education OR intelligence. So long as a person knows how to start a truck, fuel it, and drive it on a roadway, these trucking companies will hire ANYONE. Over the period of several years recently, there have been more collisions with bridges/overpasses by trucks that have had loads HIGHER than the HEIGHT CLEARANCES CLEARLY SHOWN ON EACH BRIDGE/OVERPASS. Prior to 2015, a trucking load hitting a bridge/overpass had fundamentally never been hear of before. In the past TWO YEARS, there have been a couple of dozen "bridge collisions" by ONE TRUCKING COMPANY OWNED BY CHOHAL TRUCKING.....AN EAST INDIAN OWNED TRUCKING COMPANY. The B.C. provincial government finally decided to suspend the B.C. company because this CHOHAL company did not appear to care about this record of collisions which was costing the B.C. taxpayers a lot of money in performing the repairs. Then this CHOHAL company brought in trucks from Alberta. The son of the father, CHOHAL, runs the "ALBERTA DIVISION" OF CHOHAL TRUCKING, AND THE ALBERTA DIVISION WAS NOT SUSPENDED ......SO THESE CHEATING EAST INDIANS DECIDED TO USE THEIR ALBERTA TRUCKS!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU CALL CHEATING ......AND IT GIVES THE ENTIRE EAST INDIAN CULTURE THAT LABEL ......CHEATERS. I won't bother explaining both the gangland shootings in the EAST INDIAN CULTURE THAT HAS EAST INDIANS SHOOTING AND KILLING EAST INDIANS IN BROAD DAYLIGHT IN POPULACE AREAS .........NOR WILL I GO INTO AN EXPLANATION OF EAST INDIANS ....IN INDIA .....NOW EXTORTING EAST INDIAN BUSINESS OWNERS IN EASTERN AND WESTERN CANADA. SO IT APPEARS THIS IS THE EAST INDIAN CULTURE THAT IS NOW PRESENT IN CANADA, WHO IGNORE THE LAWS OF CANADA, PROMOTE ILLEGAL DRUGS IN CANADA, AND THREATEN BUSINESSES IN CANADA. MAYBE IT IS TIME TO CONSIDER DEPORTING ALL EAST INDIANS WHO HAVE COME TO CANADA IN THE LAST TEN YEARS .....OR LONGER. CHEATING CAN NOW BE EXPECTED ANY TIME A PERSON IS DEALING WITH AN EAST INDIAN. MIGHT AS WELL ADD FRAUD AND CORRUPTION. .

Wow that’s insightful

That girl would be washing dishes in some Indian restaurant. She no only bears the guilt of this man's death, but her broken conscience.

Well said.

The first questions in arrange marriage is salary, bonus, house l, car. Indian society is scummy at best.

The most sensible comment.

Covered by Sudhir Chaudhary 6 months back. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-W9ULY-dAW8g.html That too with pie charts, ground analysis, numbers, and graphs. Completely fact-based.

Lol how is this an investigative journalism Kuch bhi likhdo English mtlb sb shi lagega logo ko

hey Srini. nice to see you here!

Yes but not the only one who report this. But good that they don’t sensationalise

@@mastrammeena328 yes this isn’t investigative journalism, just reporting

If true, totally messed up

Ewww

Wow thats not just disgusting but also too desperate.

They must have paid immigration officers off. Because in Florida they do watch for fraud marriages

They immigration was definitely paid off.

No value of sex

WTF as a keralite living in Canada this is not right.

@@JMian north india il ഉള്ളവരുടെ കാര്യം ആണ് bro

Tell that to the Indian laws which keep supporting women regardless of the situation.

Indian judiciary brain washed by feminism

This Indian woman will cheat on you

@@bobbyben6134 cheating comes from both sides. It's just that men have low immunity against such mishaps as compared to women.

It is pathetic as well. Earn your living people. Don't cheat.

@@tonikpun9955 what?

Easy for you to say. Cheating in exams and applying for something is common and secretly accepted in some cultures.

She was part of the family - people fund their families

Marriage these days has been reduced to business transaction.

@@ranjankumarsingh4601 It's lesser of business transaction these days. It was way more of business transaction longer ago atleast that's what I observe around where I'm from.

Ri8.. 💯

@@GadgetMuhsin5000 I feel the exact opposite. Earlier, couples would try their best to save their marriage despite being arrange married. Nowadays, most women are happy to leave the relationship at the smallest sign of differences as they get money. Remove the money, alimony and all protections and marriage will be back to not being a transaction. Totally ironic considering love marriages are on the rise.

ew

Such incidents create bad reputation for the community and should be discouraged.

@@pujarissunil well not really... Fraud in immigration happens from all over the world . Even mexicans do this. Most middle class indians send their kids abroad who can easily afford education and living provisions but even poor Mexicans will make it to these countries with no money, fake papers, or some con they pulled. Many mexicans take money from family and friends saying they'll invest it in their business and pay them back with exorbitant interest, they take that money and run away.

Because Canada wants people

This kind of things creates a bad reputation and causes hurdles for people who are genuine

Yes, it almost seems as if the tables are turning. All I have ever heard, regarding the social ills of India, is how women have been terribly abused. This is the first I've heard of something like this happening to an Indian male.

@@crystalblueocean search for "Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj" and you will know further details regarding cases like these. It's not new.

@@crystalblueocean most of the rape,dowry & domestic violance cases are fake in india.. apporx 98% .. check stats

@@itsmeagain0 Hey, I appreciate you responding.... I checked out Deepika Narayan. This issue rings deep with me particularly because my wife and I helped a Punjabi woman, here in Toronto, get away from an extremely abusive Punjabi husband. It was an arranged marriage which happened in England when she was 22 years old. She didn't know, love or like the man, but she knew she had to marry and Indian. She held out as long as she could but finally gave in. She told me, her exact words, that if she had a choice, she would have married a blond-haired, blue-eyed Englishman. It was particularly hard for to give in and marry the man her parents forced her to because, despite the fact that she is Punjabi, she's really English in her mind and way of thinking. She's physically beautiful and beautiful on the inside, she's witty, has a charming British accent, and has that amazing sense of humor that most British people have. And the guy she had to marry was dull, antisocial, possessive, controlling, distrustful of people, contemptuous of other people and other races, etc, etc, etc, the complete opposite of her. She used to laugh at him in her mind, and knew that he was a joke, but she had no choice but to stay with him. She made a comment that Indian girls are even pressured into remaining virgins for horrible men like this, men who would never be able to get a woman on their own even if their lives depended on it. Her words. The moment they were married, he used her British passport to get himself officially documented and then he moved her away from her family to the United States where he used his IT training to get a job. They eventually moved here to Canada. Anyway, what he did to her was horrible, so horrible in fact that it still affects me to this day, after all these years. I didn't put any of the details in the comments, initially, because I didn't want to receive a bunch of hate mail, and people would probably not even believe me. It was the saddest, most unfair thing I had ever seen done to another human being. She received no help or support from her in-laws, and, get this guys..... her own parents blamed her!!! One of her brothers', knew that the man was not a good person, and wouldn't even let him in his house when they were still in England, but he couldn't do anything to support his sister because he lived so far away. So, after 18 and half years with this man, and giving him two children, he got rid of her, basically kicking her out of the house. The few friends that she had at that time begged her to not move out of the house, but she was terrified of the guy, so she allowed him to move her out. She had no idea of what the family assets were, what the value of the house was, nothing. She had no idea of how much money they had. Anyway, long story short, we ended up helping her get into a shelter and then into the social assistance program, and it was very sad to watch. During my time with her, I got to know the various institutions here in Toronto that are set up to help women in situations like this, so I got to know some of the stories of the other Indian women who were being helped by these institutions and it's pretty sad, guys. These Indian women are left with nothing and often zero support from their families. Their families often make them feel like they've betrayed the families and culture by reporting the abuse. My Punjabi friend is smart, she's practical, she has that Punjabi business sense, but doesn't know how to use it because she was never taught. She has no sense of individuality and has no concept of personal rights. She knew from the time she was young, taught by her parents, that all she had to learn was to obey, to make good chapatis and moong dal, and clean the house. In some ways, she has the mind and emotional development of a fifteen year old. I mean, even when we visit with her now, I still see no real growth with her, but I understand it because she doesn't understand how the world works and was never taught to be an individual. She was never taught to plan for herself, for her life. I've never seen a more deserving human being, but she is completely incapacitated now by her lack of understanding of the world and of people and, frankly, I think, even though she's only 55 years of age, she just may be too damaged to learn any new skills. Her two daughters, now married and with children of their own, are living the high life, while this poor woman is on social assistance and working like a slave cleaning other people's houses. So, I don't know, guys.... I don't like to see anyone kill themselves, that's true, but if Indian women, or any women, are figuring out a way to get out of that kind of soul-killing life like my Punjabi friend has endured, then I'm with the Indian women on this one. I know the issue is much more complex, but I choose to side with the Indian women. However, people who left comments here- Shivan Unitholl, Abhisek Das, and Harikrishnan D, have summarized it pretty well. Marriage seems to be a business, in India, and the women seem to be the ones who get the short end of the stick, either way.

@Thunder Boom dude...indian males are lucky that they have indian women and arranged marriages, otherwise no other woman would even touch them.

time to expose them. i have exposed one such girls emails on my instagram.

When the laws are being made do protecting women, men should also be given the same protections as women.

What about f*****g farm lawa

How about Law to make sure you dont cheat a foreign govt if you are incompetent for a VISA ?

Who says there are no laws for this, your lawyers aren’t educated enough

Marriage has both sides. Contract marriage has only one dark side. And btw, men and women, both suffer.

@@muskmelon2430 yo kid what solution do you want? What if I say arranged marriages suck. And for a man who's not financially stable, what if I say marriage isn't an option for him at this point in time?

@@pallavisharma1649 the entire idea of marriage is nothing more than a contract. The only difference between a "contract marriage" and other forms of "marriage" is that contract marriage have a clarification on the time limit whereas other marriages don't (and couples mostly don't divorce and continue pretending to "live together happily ever after" coz divorce is like a black spot on their personal profile)

Couldn't agree more...arranged marriages are a joke and filthy deals...all this for a facade or perfection where the relations are decayed inside

Are you one of the dude who got scammed

Well said

Well said. Both sides are equally involved in this

Just that if it was the other way around, the man would be booked for dowry since accepting money, fees etc count as dowry. It is time to get gender neutral laws.

F marriage

Women have been doing this for ages . Marrying up is what women always do 6ft, 6 digit salary , car and house their offer :shitty personality and 10L in dowry which they will use against you in any court proceedings.

And Hardworking without greedy is also screwed. I am saying for myself. I become contented even without any job, salary or money. I'm happy. That's a screwed thing. And I've appeared in 25 government job exams (qualified some of them but couldn't appear in final list unfortunately) , have graduation from a good University, have 7.5 score in IELTS. But still I think it's okay. Money is not important 😅

Thats just stupid to pay .

Well it's his fault that he trusted that BITCH and he could have spent time with a women rather ! Lesson for all men in society as you can see that this is how a "WOMEN" by birth, when grown up turns into a "BITCH"

@@sys9208 some of the marriages were legal like the one above of lovpreet that suicide later, probably because she wasn't replying much back but do after a week or something but people of pind were taunting him n make him take that step, all are same

@@singhtalks2256 That guy sounds like a drama queen. Most of these families aren't buying houses in Canada. She has to work to support herself. Possibly for the first time in her life. And this dude is getting dramatic that his calls are not being answered/returned. And HER family is supporting HIM in the argument. She's also JUST realizing that she has options for her future beyond this clingy dude. Is it any surprise that she's ghosting him?

Marriage Is Exactly that though..a contract. Paper work etc..its a contract. Families marrying off a young daughter to a often times a man shes never met..yeah contract.

I was thinking the same,as a man I feel really ashamed that men think that they ride on success of their partners. Every human being regardless of gender should put in the hard work on their own.

@@clashoflands You know nothing about the man that died, so feel ashamed that you are close minded and quick to jump to conclusions.

The man was a farmer that worked in the fields to make money, his criminal wife used the money he earned while working to learn skills and go abroad. If he is at home learning English and preparing for exams who is going to work the field and earn.

Everybody is notborn with golden spoon at the same time nobody is born genius or have same learning capabilities.

@@mohit13reddy farmers in Punjab are not poor most of them can afford luxury of spending money on their children,u must be thinking of farmers from Maharashtra.

@@mviv6339 exactly

@@mviv6339 as someone who's Punjabi friend has immigrated to Canada, I completely agree. Friend or his parents never prioritised education and always chased quick money.

Probably because of the sad state of affairs of punjab.all thanks to these politicians

@@navneetdhal5986 even bihar up has poor education system and corrupt bureaucrats

@@trainman6615 but most of them r still in india

Double standards!

I am so sorry. You deserve better.

​@@thewonderkid1652 All women

​@gokuvegeta9500, not all women. Those women have no sympathy, selfish, mindless and immature.

Thank you for bringing awareness about foreign “education” gold diggers

I am terribly sorry for your loss, Sir...

Mainstream media be like : "so this is the place where Anushka and Virat gonna marry....."

Zeenews also showed news about contract marriages in punjab 9 months ago...not in detail but they showed...

Ur filthy mindset will come out when someone you love dies. Remember those who give advices or get happy on someone's death are not far away from it.

@@drakkar7860 the boy killed himself. suicide is a personal choice. it was because he couldn't cheat a foreign country so even the reason was a dishonest one. im not happy. im embarassed at the level our culture and education system has fallen where young people kill themselves for failing to commit an unethical act.

@@priyojitchatterjee6164 Well said bro, its sad to see any state accept this heinous culture of men who remain uneducated but dream big of living on their wife's success. Who knows the girl must have been forcefully married too, to this uneducated fool. I am glad she got her independence. Hope the Canadian govt protects her right to live free.

@@priyojitchatterjee6164 I did not see anything in your original comment in regards to what you said now. In your original comment it was straight up victim bashing.

​@@drakkar7860 that's your problem. im talking about the entire video and the mentality that is depicted by the people who claim to be cheated not the individual boy. i never commented on the suicide

They lack human emotions

because they dont value life. They actually tell women to commit suicide

no soul

Everyone is not same. There are many true love stories also. But you are also right. İ live near punjab and trust me , now New Zealand is not in the list for Punjabis immigration. Now, Canada, US, Australia, England. These four countries are on Radar

Yes as an Aussie we have the same problem here, I have no sympathy for them.

@@Philosophy824don’t come to Australia people on a surface level will appear friendly but in reality, that isn't the case. Only come here if you are filling a role in demand like aged care or medicine. The market is oversaturated with Indian men applying for IT roles and guess what it is always the one person with the white name and fewer qualifications that gets the role, why? Because they stand out in the sea of overqualified Indian applicants.

You are not rude. This is a fact that everyone should know....some states people of India are just annoying. No one should entertain them

These punjabi man r doing this even in Korea and Japan and some others Asian countries. They r desperate to leave punjab but once get settle in other countries they r dying to go back there. And mostly their married punjab girl as wife. Disgusting this community

Dude i m living in punjab and i have done Company Secretary course, LL.B(Hons), B.com and working in a company as Company Secretary & Compliance officer but the salary is not even close to least satisfaction level, so how can u expect a bright future. there is no scope for highly qualified professionals too. Companies just exploit their employees. Thats why i decided to move to Canada.My file is already in the pool in express entry for Canada.

@@SonuSharma-ys3jr And, that is why it's a tragedy.

@@SonuSharma-ys3jr you'll realize Canada is also turning into a sh1t with all the immigration. There were guys in chaddi playing kabaddi in a park in Surrey lol and bullying and crimes are very high. Indian population areas like Brampton and Surrey are considered low. Standard is dropping pretty fast

@@teedee2894 So Kabbadi is played in Canada too, it's turned into international game with UK, Australia , Canada and India and many more playing it

@@SonuSharma-ys3jr Just being highly educated doesn't mean you will get a high salary. There are many factors involved like your collg, your skill level and your working experience or how much your work is in demand in that particular area.

Not only punjab, you tell anyone, there is opportunity, and they will fly next day. Can you blame them ?

@@binilc6238 no, I can't, well then let them suffer! 😂 according to ur logic! Why cry then! Send ur wife's,,, then she will send u to death 💀⚰ bed

@Mother Earth yes usa has a separate craze among telugus. Iam an employee at infosys joined in 2020. My salary is 4lpa currently and if I shift the company I can easily earn 9 lpa but guess what I am going to usa for fall 2022.

@@binilc6238 Someone thinking they may settle abroad doesnt mean obsession. Punjabi people in general just have the huge obsession to settle abroad.

@Mother Earth wish you the same

And peculiar to Punjab. They have glamourised Canada so much seriously.

Well said, Abhisek. Very true. There is no one single person to blame. Also, one of the other commenters wisely pointed out that we don't know the full story

@@crystalblueocean i would blame the boys who cant even pass the required IELTS and the other exams to go overseas. Why do they have to depend on the girls . They should be more responsible and independent make their own way overseas. Why pay the girls fees when they can study on their own

@@niamaaha...4141 or make their way in their own country. Everyone can't just go and work in Canada. It's so ridiculous this attitude of "Have to get to US or Canada at any cost". It's destructive.

well said bro

can you specify?

@@SDFNI3894YR true, both parties wanted to take advantage of each other, that's all.

You got a GOOD mother, not a greedy one, not one who goes with the group mentality not an immoral one.... THANK THE MOTHER!!! Do not say we have money!! For a greedy person no money is enough!!! So THANK the MOTHER

Salute your mother !!

Because you are not a Jatt, khatri or patel. These three communities are mad for moving abroad.

You have a mother of impeccable character. Inculcate it yourself & pass it on to your daughters & sons. Singular Money-Mindedness is a 'prost*tute mentality'.

Salute to your mom :)

but times have changed anyone could be victim , acknowledge the past but be in present.

Woman's Card ( Victim Card )

@@ultra8142 Well it only takes a turn in anyone's fate to become a Victim ? Men can be victims too - like in an accident. For such rudeness i pray that you experience it to know how it feels - its not at all a game but about one's life.

@@bharamas1 dowry also earned by men .....girls father Not girls earned and give to his husband

Download was never a old tradition learn more you what le game is stuoid

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So true ! 👏👏👏👏

Blaming Indian culture is the only thing that you do. What do you know about Indian culture first of all. If some apples are bad does it mean that all apples are bad . Indian culture does not promote any misogyny. I don't know when will some dumb foreigners will understand this. It is the society not the culture. Look at your abrahamic faiths and culture how they treat women and other faiths . People belonging to abrahamic faiths don't have eyes to see any thing good in India.

And who will be the actors?

@@parvadhami980 Daljeet hoga toh log maan jayenge

I guess Namaste england is a movie which is very much based on this plot.

Akshay kumari plays the girl

@@ST0ICSAGE Abe yr 😂

please watch the whole thing before commenting and dont forget how women ends up in the brothels in india.

@@arunhm5326 I've watched and we're not comparing the suffering, we're talking about justice here, women who do crimes get less attention and punishment than men.

Well said. And it's nothing to do with Punjab, happens everywhere. In fact, even in the US, wives may slog to put husbands through medical school or law school only to have them run off with a younger woman after they graduate.

@Meta that's not the point, American ethics isn't the guiding image for the world. The problem is that these kind of things are new to India, doesn't matter if they are already prevalent in thr west

@@Vajrapani108 With poor conditions in country, people take desperate steps. When mexicans can travels 100s of kms on bare foot to enter US, illegally whats this leaving husband? Its a very small thing. Besides, in India Hubby is suppose to take care of wife, not the other way around. If this guy dreamt about living in Canada, he should have studied and worked hard, got the VISA himself, being a farmer boy, they dream of remaining married to a highly educated girl? Sounds recipe for a disaster.

@@Vajrapani108 I just pointed out an example in the US, it has nothing to do with ethics or morality of Americans or any other group. Human nature is human nature, all this didn't start now - its been the case for ever, think about it.

If it is nothing about genders more about human tendency...then make these laws of desertion and other such woman biased laws gender neutral

Not unemployment. There are massive vacancies in India. This is pure characterlessness & greed.

​@@SodiumSyndicate "massive vacancies" Lol

True 👌

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One more couple from Punjab. He brought his wife to Europe after getting Residence card. But, he left his wife n 2 big kids n went to Germany to live with his GF. Without telling his wife n family he just eloped from home. Wife has filed a missing case. 🙄🙄

​@@AliceMuitofeliz_01 You're a woman so you're only highlighting the cases of men Women do it way more

@@gokuvegeta9500 I know them personally. Thy were my neighbors. That's y mentioned Abt their stories. 🙄🙄 🤦🤦

@@AliceMuitofeliz_01 Fair enough

I agree. And many young Punjabi are trying to move abroad on student visas with the goal of actually working and not studying abroad. They find illegal jobs that are very low-paying jobs with which they cant even pay their school fees and living expenses.

Why don’t they try moving to another state? Why Canada? They’re not going into IT so will they do farming in Canada or what?

This is not about Indian law. They are talking about Canadian law. Indian law can't do much in this case

@@GoofyChaiLoverGirl i am not saying anything about this case it's general statement that indian law doesn't recognize the gender based violence against men. Is their any law for men'? No ri8.

@@aaibhagwati8450 nope.. somebody need to raise the case, nobody wants to fight for men's right

@@GoofyChaiLoverGirl ya i guess .. hopefully someone will do this.

@@aaibhagwati8450 search for mens day out.. they started fighting

It is funny but really sad at the same time.

@@gunjitkumar yep

We are indians, we will come up with innovations in unethical crimes too. Lol

It happens more with women though. Men take dowries from the brides family and abandon their wives by going abroad. Suddenly a few women do what men have been doing.... And It's big news worth a social outcry??? Where was this energy when thousands of women were victimised.

@@starsfalldown1234567 lol

Good luck to those family as well who have live the rest of thier lives by Killing or oppressing women in the name of caste or religion so every coin has two sides why not we hold ourselves accountable as an individual men and women and change it....have a great day man

@@swarinkeshmayankdas9612 it's not a competition of who did what you're saying as if all men are evil and it's their fault that his wife ghosted him

@@aniketrana1609 you didn't read my whole comment he was selectively commenting on a single issue and I just highlighted the other side and there is no black and white... Hope it clarifies my standpoint

@@swarinkeshmayankdas9612 you are pathetic

@@swarinkeshmayankdas9612 we've talked about men being the culprits and women being the victims for so long, it's high time the atrocities done to many men out there by women is outed and told about to the world! Women can be equally selfish, abusing and cruel as men, depending on the person! So stop the victimisation and focus on the individuals!

Because only men are culprits. Women are always innocent, they can not commit any crime. That's how legal system works in India.

Ohh great so here comes the hypocrisy so are we really talking about the 🤞gender equality 🤞in punjabi family bro girls in our families are treated like some absolute trash , a trash for the day we are born our so called family members tell us this is not your home bullshit on the other hand our brothers get are the wealth properties where our basic education nd necessities are treated as a expense so fair right👎 so the thing is each coin have two sides these families treat those girls as a investment offcourse these marriages are not less than any deal everybody knows very well. Dowry is unethical either it's on a male. But dont ignore facts.

Both are wrong but who’s to say

Sa? I'd say its embarrassing that Punjab has accepted this model of giving birth to duds who want to live on their wife's success. embarrassing.

@@salmanbinahmed8253 many women live on their husbands wealth, what's wrong if the opposite happens.?

@@wingsoffreedom4292 Nothing wrong if something like that happens, but to actively ask YOUR wife to do the hard work, while you try to mooch on her, is a problem for me. Is not for you? Would you happily mooch off of your wife's hard earnings?

Well he wasn't living on her earnings he was going to earn for himself and sponsored her education in the first place

@@nishiltanwani241 he wanted to mooch off of his wife. His wife is the real one who could go to Canada to begin with. His wife is the one who could legally Earn over there, what will a villager do in canada, you think he could work legally over there? Have you been there? Do you know its rules?

Bhai pr private me bhi to shoshan hai. Delhi me 16 hazar rent aur 15 hazar salary h. Naukari 10 ghnte ki. Admi ko ghis deto h private company.

@@aanchalfinwoman life sucks karti han India main :( I should say in most countries in Asia only some countries r close to heaven those r western countries, I was also :( dying to move out of India because life completely sucks to death here, but now I feel there is no hope for me because I m not highly skilled educated nor have rich parents, sometimes I feel like maybe in Next life :(

@@aanchalfinwoman Delhi me 16k rent nhi hai unless kaafi high locality me le rhe ho And ab salaries bhi 15k se zyaada hai But major problem is our population itni population me utni opportunities create krna is seriously tough.

show some empathy you piece of dung

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They invest on their daughter in law because parents know that his son do not have the capability to qualify ielts.

@@vishal6kumar Who asked their sons to qualify IELTS. Can their sons not just join a Open University or a Online course for software development, or Bcom, Ba economics, Physics, Statistics,Actuarial Science, Maths. Engineering. These not not expensive courses. Kid can also do CA. Then ask them to sit and study everyday till they can get into premiere institutes in India or apply for internships. A computer and wifi will cost them less than educating anyone abroad. Their kid can then get any job of their liking. They can then afford their PG courses or even get scholarships for abroad. Now this route will never be taken by them as it seems hard but it's better than sulking over being defrauded by a daughter in law.

@Thunder Boom Nope. Because it was a contractual marriage, like a business deal. Many times it happen like someone cheats in a business deal. Similar thing had happened here. A cheater could be disguised as anyone whether a man or women. One should have spend few yrs with their spouse in their country to get to know each other and make a emotional connection to each otherwise it is just a business deal.

THERE ARE NO FACTORIES IN PUNJAB, GOVT JOBS ARE LTD....AND THE CORPORATE SECTOR IS MISSING, HENCE THE FIXATION FOR GOING ABROAD.

sex retio is poor in punjab , so male wanted white women so they go to abroad

That's because u don't like progress and want to be stupid farmers.. Just blaming on govt always..

Punjabi jatt worship white women

India is a filthy corrupt country. I’m British Punjabi Sikh and everything is corrupt about india. We can’t even sell our property because some people have stolen our land and the courts can’t be bothered to look into the case. This will NEVER happen here in the UK or Canada . The big cities which have jobs are polluted, crowded, unsafe and unhygienic. My cousin who works in Delhi has blue eyes and gets stared at by random men. So many men have acted inappropriately towards her and her boss doesn’t care. It’s absolutely deplorable. India will never be a superpower because of this. Too many social peoples and too many ignorant patriots.

yes, indeed. I have a close friend who also wants to go through a similar path of settling in Canada. He too says that my wife is convent educated, also have 8 years of experience in IT field, so she will clear IELTS and get all the required points and i will go along with her on spouse base, meanwhile i will take care of all her expenses starting from IELTS exam fees to PR process fees.

Yes, and ironic :)

I am not really amazed by your reaction. But it definitely shows how you think. A lot of people are like you instead of thinking a human being has a problem it's all about he's a man she's a woman.

@@user-th4ch4ky3g Hard truth

@@kashutosh9132 yeah unfortunately.

Patriarchy backfiring at men

She is making excuses for characterless girls. Typical irresponsible & unaccountable female. No different from those men who pin the blame of r*pe on the victim with excuses of clothing etc etc etc

yes, that is also very true. A lot of Punjabi men have done this, which is condemnable

It is bad in both cases, but it is rare to hear a news story about men being abandoned.

I am Muslim Punjabi US citizen and I dated a Indian sikh Punjabi women who came as teacher visa to US ..later on I came to know she is married way back and has kids ...I felt so so bad for his husband and guided that women back to her family and stopped relationship with her ( women can be so wicked )

gold diggin h0es like you are why men kept women under their thumb... i'm not shocked...

Somehow you made yourself victim here too. No concept of accountability in a woman empty head

Majority west up is dependent on agriculture. We are not a very wealthu state as well. But here u will not see much desire to settle in foreign country from lower middle class family. May be it depends on surroundings.

Exactly!

That's the issue ..most of them don't even know what hard work , competition and survival is..all they know is mid way illegal approach...So moral of the story as you sow so shall you reap.

this is the dumbest comment so far

this is victim blaming.

I was also :( dying to move out of India because life completely sucks to death here, but now I feel there is no hope for me because I m not highly skilled educated nor have rich parents, sometimes I feel like maybe in Next life :(

So true! Women suffer in this backwardly world. They cant live a life they deserve. I wholefully support any woman that tries To escape this hell. Good for them

Don't blame patriarchy. These women are scamming these men

Precisely. My point. Also mind there must be fewer marriage ready females in Punjab than men

this woman was just selfish and vindictive. i dont knkw about other cases, but this is just brutal. she planned this all out and was lucky she got such a tolerant guy. if anh husband did this to her, she would eat her parents/siblibgs/friends ear off complaining. yet he stayed quiet anf stead fast. i domt care abkut other cases. she didnt need to be cruel. i dont know how u can prioritise gettint an education or going abroad, ovr a human life. she literally also destroyed his parents lives. her freedom accounts for shit if its at the expense of others. its better to live a normal life as a good person, than to live a free life as a selfish person. shes just as bad as all those who oppress women. she oppressed another human being. thats what should count. man or woman, dont be a shit person. edit/ grammar

btw, she went alone. no one questioned sending her alone. ffs.

probably you are some of indian origin liviong in west disattached to reality

@@manansharma6348 Agree, not associated with your reality.

@@sdsingh8713 Well, they disrupted the train operations for more than a year in Punjab not long ago. Not just Punjabi Sikhs, everyone wants to have better standard of living irrespective of the state in which he resides. But you won't find the obsession of immigration in other states as in Punjab. Highly skilled and ultra rich people all across India migrate to rich countries but not poor households or those not able to sustain themselves abroad. There are lot of sad stories of young people from Punjab trapped due to illegal border trafficking and some ending up with even bad situations midway.

@@sdsingh8713 so they are willing to risk their lives by crossing Mexico USA border illegally and they are so poor that they pay 25-30 lakh rupees to the agents for this ,the truth is you guys don’t focus on education and are ready to do blue collar jobs in Canada USA and then show off here in Punjab ,whereas people from Delhi ,west up and other states focus on education and hence go to USA as doctors engineers and earn millions of dollars ,my Friends family has 3 sons ,one of them is in USA as an engineer ,other one in Paris as consultant ,and 3rd one in Canada as a store manager .You guys Accept any work just to escape Punjab .

@MR SINGH "hindi media only highlights Sikhs because they hate them" Bro are you out of your mind???? Where did you see that Hindi media or other people hate sikhs? This type of allegation is really dangerous and pathetic.

I am a Sikh and I see sense in your comments. Sadly, the Sikhs who have commented here are just doing cover ups and are not ready to accept the reality. Someone blames “hindi” media and some bimaru states. Another one brings up theory of recent uproar in UP & Bihar over Railway jobs (totally unrelated issue), someone is like Canada is so great then why wouldn’t anyone go that’s like super insane. But no one accepts that Sikhs and our sociological order is failing so fast, what are the Gurudwaras and Sikh intellectuals doing here? It is the moral responsibility of Religious leaders to show the way if their is so much of confusion and misguidance among youth. No one is against going abroad but then getting so desperate to go abroad even when you don’t have education, skills makes absolutely no sense. Sikh intellectuals are busy accusing Hindu organisations, RSS for everything instead of addressing so many issues like these. Don’t be surprised that tomorrow they will declare this culprit wife was an rss agent who took life of a ‘Sikh’ gentleman and term it as planned conspiracy to harm Sikhs. But in the end only Sikhs and people of Punjab will loose.

@@singhjasbeer5216 Yes, absolutely. I don't think anyone wants people in Punjab to suffer. But if there is a mess as people think, then it our job to clean it up. Why burden Canadians with our problems? I don't know what Canadians feel about immigration. It has been a sore point in the West lately.

Akshay kumar

Well, being a doctor, IAS is definitely not an option. You see, there's again very few percentage of people getting into these professions. So, there always be huge number of people left distressed. So, there is a need to industrialize the economy of Punjab so that a lot of Private sector can establish and give them a job.

@Los Blancos The classic playing the reservation card. Got to give you that.

Ias officer banna easy nahi hai

@@nehalulla2764 ye apka asli naam hai kya "Neha Lulla" 🤔🧐

women always support women no matter what. women come out in support of even Sunny Leone.

@@TheBigDaddyClub What bad has Sunny Leone done to anyone? She leads an honest life, her profession was her own choice and not to be judged by anyone.

@@FictitiousMe True her profession is her own choice but so is the right of others to pass judgement. Sunny or any other "star" who build themselves up by selling sex are idiots if they expect society to treat them with respect. The only reason they get paid so much is bcz it's not respected. The day sex work becomes "normal", every woman will try to engage in it and thier prices will collapse. There's a phrase in Hindi which explains it " Randi Rona"

@@azankhan88 wether you like or not most of sex workers are the reason which most of married women are living more comfortably , as far as dignity they are not selling any country or they do religious inspired killing of others , they sell their own body which they have right for , as fast judgemental mindset we need to change it

Yes, its a MAN's duty to take care of his house. Its not a Women's job to take care of her hubby. Dont embarrass yourself by coming up with these foreign cultures about gender equality and BS.

They are themselves BHAIYAS in Canada and elsewhere.

I have to say while bimaru is understood as a category by economists, there is no reason for the rest of the country to not learn good things from them. The same way the bimaru states should learn from other states. I am not against regionalism everything in moderation is necessity. But with the kind of anger, fear and division this pandemic has resulted in all we see is people blaming each other. If anyone says anything bad about any state they are like us state ko dekho, ye kyun nahi pooch rahe. We are back to being kekadas.

The situation in Punjab is worsening year after year . I am afraid after 10 15 years . What will be it's consequences .

@yamete kudasai Earlier I thought the same, but then I met some exceptionally smart and hardworking people from both UP and Bihar.

@yamete kudasai If we only keep only smart people in the country. They won't be smart anymore and the offsprings would be the same as the people we've now. Maybe in a short run the area could see tremendous growth but in the longer run it is not feasible at all.

lol

Just like pro Hindhutva vadis wants to migrate to Europe or US.

@@Battlebunny07 They also want to follow their economic system too. Unlike the hypocrisy of kisam andolan walas

@@Battlebunny07 we don't have any issue with capitalism

Spot on!!!! Super Manish...!!

Congress is destroying punjab on a daily basis. They are only interested in their own welfare not that of punjab. Only the BJP is bringing real progress and development to India. Congress & AAP are just high on gimmicry and small freebies to fool citizens.

@@Jayantimaharaj alkali / BJP were the party of Punjab for the past 20 years !!! Congress have only come into power recently !!! The problems go back to BJP/ akali governments !!!!. The judicial system for Punjab and Haryana is in Chandigarh which is directly controlled by the central government !!!. Chandigarh is a union territory. !!!! The police of Punjab and Haryana are controlled by central government !!!!

Punjab missed the "Reforms driven industrialization/growth in device sector in 1991 due to insurgency.

And I recall an incident from punjab during farm bills protest, they destroyed Jio towers. Which company in their right mind would set-up in an area where its local can destroy it? No company would

@@goldenbrown3283only the police of the union territory comes under the central government not the whole state.

It’s stealing and deceiving. Leave the cultural inflicted shame out of it. If society didn’t shame the victims it would be a smaller problem