@@coreystenson2010 It certainly isn’t absurd!! In my grandparents generation most families were BLESSED to have from 7 to 14 children. Sadly child mortality rates were high back then, and pre-antibiotics, when many still lived on farms far from a hospital, most families lost a few to childhood illnesses and injuries. My mother was one of 7 who lived, after 2 died. My father is one of 3, and several died. Each child was welcomed as a very precious gift from God! I still know many Families today who gladly welcome as many children as God will send them!
La'nae Even able-bodied people should take time to KNOW each other. Being both caregiver and wife/mother means your life is often put ON hold for your loved ones. If YOU get sick, what will your loved ones do? And who will take care of YOU AND the babies?
The way y’all look at each other 😍 true love! My daughter has cerebral palsy, she’s only 6....but I hope she finds genuine true love when she grows up like this!!!
Cole an Charisma, I don't even know how I stumbled across your channel, but I'm so delighted that I did. I love you two sweet babies; you really make me smile. Cole, I'm praying for a medical science miracle to come through for you in the near future. And Charisma, your mom could not have chosen a better name for you - suits you perfectly, my darling. And let me tell you how happy it makes me to hear that your families are loving, supportive, and accepting of your relationship. Wishing you two all the very best that life has to offer.
They truly are a sweet couple. And I truly wish them all the very best. By the way, I'm old school - what does btfl mean? My adult children would find my asking this question quite comical because I once had the audacity to ask them what smh meant. lol
Darline Romain If they have a baby soon how can she juggle Masters degree school studies, a limited-abilities husband and a new baby at the same time? TOO MUCH STRESS. TOO MUCH STRESS. SHE will probably crash or harbor resentments. They are only human.
Man I started watching y'all today from his 2hr morning routine... On some real....I wanna be more like Cole when it comes to showing my women care. We've been rocky and Cole literally just made me see how much I'm not doing.. Let me go hug on my girl
Cole is a funny dude...did he say little mixed triplets ...hahahahahaaa. You guys are so my very favorite couple for sure. So uplifting positive and loving. Wowwwwwwwwwwwww so much smiling and happiness such a joy.
I can't get my head around people that disapprove of interracial relationships,colour has no boundaries,well,it shouldn't,we all bleed the same colour blood.
I love the way he looks at her 😩. He looks at her like she hung the moon and she looks at him the exact same way. You guys are such a beautiful couple ❤️.
Cole, love hearing about squashing negative comments. Haters gonna hate. Ain’t nobody got time for that. I’m in an interracial marriage. In December, we will be celebrating 17 years married (and 21 years together). Y’all are amazing together. Blessings .
rose968 calm down. They were just replying to the statement made. And let's be real, no ALL babies aren't cute lol but that doesn't have a thing to do with race or ethnicity LOL. Some just aren't traditional looking.
ThatLadyDray I’m calm, chill out. I’m just saying many people talk about how mixed babies are better than other babies just because they’re mixed. My niece who’s 7 told her mom she’s ugly and wished she was lighter like her sisters because of the things people told her at school. People need to stop holding mixed race babies to a higher level.
Spooning is cute in the beginning. I don’t know what couple spoons after the first year. You cannot sleep comfortably like that and I need my beauty rest. We can meet again in the morning!
I was paralyzed on my left side 6 years ago in a car accident. I received Amniotic Stem Cells (3 sets which is 3 teaspoons) that were injected into my Spinal Nerves. They gave me back 85% feeling, sensation in my left leg. I also have a Spinal Cord Stimulator that helps with my constant pain.... But God. I'm now "the nurse with a cane" WHO WORKED WITH SCI AND TBI PATIENTS AND BECAME 1 HERSELF! I reunited with my high school Sweetheart who had No clue what I'd gone through and that I was Cane Dependent..... And even on my WORST DAYS/NIGHTS.....HE LOVES EVERY OUNCE OF ME- EVEN THE EXTRA 70 POUNDS ADDED FROM STEROIDS WHICH KEPT THE PARALYSIS FROM SPREADING. KEEP PUSHING!
*I'm so thankful that you are treating her like a love mate versus a caregiver. I used to date a quadriplegic (had Parkinson's. Experimental brain surgery left him that way), but I couldn't juggle both roles. The line was blurred and I felt frustrated with it. Killed our relationship! So praise God you keep her your woman*
@@jacquelinefisher5637 hey Jacqueline🍀💎 Thank you for watching my videos..lol..im just a nosey goober😄 But heeeey...its super cool we share the same taste in subjects.. Great minds think alike😉😉 I hope you're having a wonderful Sunday! 🌹💓
This is such an insightful comment, and I'm sure it can't have been easy to speak this truth in public. Thank you so much. It certainly makes their relationship even more special, when we look at it through your lens. :)
I love this! My daughter went to school in Oahu, Hawaii and instead of making handicap kids feel self conscious, the school allowed our kids to assist them in their wheelchairs to show them how to treat everyone. It became so normal that our kids didn't look at their classmates as disabled people. It actually became a fight for them to have that privilege.
The way she looks at him when he’s talking😍 This is my first time watching and just looking at Charisma I just feel so bright and happy...Charisma u are the definition of “amazing aura”....ur aura is so strong and bright You guys are AMAZING ❤️🙌🏼
Wow mom is great, too! Now we see Cole where you get some good traits from. She really sounded like a third party person you didn’t know till the end. “We gonna have triplets some mixed babies 👶 they see their future and that’s great! She is so beautiful, sweet and supportive. She allows Cole to be the man and not like she’s just feeling sorry. She also blushed on that baby news and feel right in line. 2-3 would be great! Keep praying as a family and Cole keep working hard. Mom you are very special and adorable! Cole you are so blessed as you have two special ladies! :)
Gender role bullshit. And it would be really selfish of him to say that he thinks that they are going to have several Children when she is the one having to take care of them and him!
@@rrksk she actually said 10 kids he said that's to many. Gender roles. He is the man and she is the woman. She shines in her relationship because he is the head. You can tell they respect each other.
This is proof that good people are still out there. You guys may not know it but you’re paving the way for people with disabilities and giving them hope. All love!❤️
I just found your channel and LOVE you guys; and wish you the best in everything. My dad is in a wheelchair and so I've been open to an inter-able relationship, although have never had one. I know it isn't easy but I love that you are showing people that the person is still who he/she is, there's just some extra planning or things to think about but it's still love and still give and take, and mutual attraction. Enjoy your journey with each other! And yes, those "mixed babies" (I am one! lol)
I pray you guys know our Lord! (Jesus) charisma you are one of a kind. May God bless you double . Cole you are a trouper 💕👐🏾💕I love watching you guys. God blessed ❤️
Y’all are a nice looking couple! You look great together. May the most high bless you both. My spine is broken in 2 places and my wife and I are of two different tones of skin. But that only makes it better in my eyes. I definitely subscribed to yalls channel. It’s nice to see y’all really. ✌️
I wish you two all the best!! I have been rollin' for 40 years and have the same level injury due to a diving accident, too. I was in an interracial marriage for 34 years. I dont live too far from you all. Im in VA Beach. Keep the vids coming. Young people with an SCI need to see that relationships post injury DO happen and they are still desireable.
@@queenbee2447as for a disabled person living in England , I think interviewers ask some STUPID questions , OF COURSE Cole would love to walk again after his accident , so would I ( I was born with Spina Bifida / hydrocephalus ) I USED be able to walk but HAVE'NT been able to since 201 due to a fall , I know he gets Phisio Therepy wheas I unfortunatly dont
shame on me, shame on me for complaining about life. These two inspire me, and remind to to take each day at a time amd laugh, love and be meloy even when I feel low we got this you two. YOU ARE LOVED
Charisma and Cole! I stumbled into your video few hours ago and l am so loving every moment of it. You're both an inspiration. You're like many other interracial couples my husband and l included are a living proof that true love do not dictate color. Love is love. ❤🌷💖
Barcoft bought me. But y'all made me stay. Most adorable, positive couple ever. Even the way you guys look at each other is beautiful 😍. Plus he's hilarious 🤣😂
I am so glad I found yall!! I can just feel the love you have for one another and its refreshing to see!! The question about showering was funny cause looking at newer videos she is helping you now lol anyways loving you both!!
I think you both are amazing, inspirational and adorable. So many people will be helped by you sharing your journey with them. Never say never! And Mum, you are a great support for your boy, I can see where Cole gets his strength and humour from
Randomly clicked on your video as this was the first time RU-vid presented as a "reccomendation" ... so glad I did:-) You two are like a breath of fresh air ... 2 puzzle pieces that fit together perfectly. Hope your Tahiti future plans become reality, inclusive of marriage and babies. Good luck and best wishes to you both!!
I wish you a happily ever after life... you deserve it!! Beautiful couple!! I saw a few of your videos for the first time today. I can see only GREAT things coming your way. Regardless of the physical limitations, you obviously have what it takes to living a satisfying life. Everyone of us is actually handicap in one way or another.
You guys are so inspiring! I was in healthcare 25+ years, I loved taking care of people! I was in a car accident, in disabled now! I can relate to you guys! I pray nothing but blessings and God's Mighty hand over you both! Such positive people, can't wIt to watch the next video. 💗
Y’all are so upbeat and inspirational. The love just shines all around the both of you! I’ll just go sit over here and wait for the babies to arrive...... 😃❤️💙❤️
Please keep posting. I love you guys!! I let my sister watch you two so she can have some positive motivation she has muscle atrophy and can’t use her arms legs she can’t walk set up and I’ve been really happy that she gets excited when I show her your videos thank you so much for the encouragement.
Love have no description as in who you choose as your love ones, continue to love him for who he is Charisma and Cole you do the same, we don't have any control over our destiny, hold on to what you got, stay firm as we say in Jamaica one love
I like that you both want triplets! It’s definitely a possibility - my husband and I have been blessed with 4 children, a son who is now 19, and triplets (2 girls and a boy) who are 16. My husband was paralyzed in a car accident when he was 21. I wish you success in your journey together!
Cole and Charisma and mom and did you know that moms just won the right to use the male hemp plant with cbd oil, no thc eplisey or nerves neurological . Charisma mentioned spasms in morning, this could help. The hemp plant has been around for a long time used for many things. (Don’t be confused with the female MJ plant with THC. Check it out the state now allows the pure cbd oil in VA. Research maybe it could help! Here is a video from Today Show about this! It is his nerverous system and the kids had spasms, but after being on Hemp cbd oil they stopped. Check out www.today.com/video/parents-fight-to-continue-cbd-oil-treatment-for-daughter-with-seizures-1215435331553. Research these issues
Hey guys, new sub here. You guys are adorable and I have to say that was so cute when he said you would have a baby bump with triplets, he said little mixed babies. That was the sweetest thing, he is so in love with you and you can tell he is gonna he a great dad. And you are a natural caregiver. Your gonna be an awesome mom. I hope you guys have a great Christmas!
Oh look at these BABIES! I don’t know why I’m just getting this suggested to me and I sure did watch it all 😅 I would love to hear about the transition from family caregiving to partner. I’m currently in that situation and i know that his parents are nervous about passing the baton over to me ❤
It's so irrating to see comments like if Cole wasn't in the wheel chair, he wouldn't be with her because she's black. I just would like to know how you psychics know? She said she's dated interracial before but he hasn't and now is. Doesn't mean he would not had been open before the accident that happened to him at 16 yrs old. No one does, so how about leaving the what ifs, may haves and would ifs out and appreciate where they are now. No need to waste time speculating on what did not happen. Even in our fully abled lives there are certain things which connected us to others.
Charisma I can see why You love him so much I pray you two Have A Pregnancy Real soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cole your so Blessed I hope to see you guys when U get Old! 😆🤣🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
