@@MMPGAMMING It’s a preference dude, no need to get bent about it. It’s human nature to want someone that seems like they can protect you and that’s tall men.
@@ethanheinen8589 I’d argue there’s more dudes out there that like fat girls than girls that like absurdly short men. There’s quite literally a porn category for “BBWs” I highly doubt there’s girls searching up “short men” on the hub” if you think fat girls get more pissed off than someone 5’3 you’re terribly mistaken. They’re both preferences, nobody should sympathize for you if you get rejected for being too short or being too fat. Just deal with it, you’ll end up finding someone in the end.
@@mummyyjuice5413 nah it’s called double standards. They can ridicule men for things out of their control yet when a man say his preference is women that aren’t overweight (something 150% in your control) he’s a sexist bigot…
Wtf 7’8?! I’m not trying to have a real life version of Sophie and the giant hahah but hey if someone wants that that’s their choice . Personally I think the 6’ foot range would suit me just fine haha
Agreed. Like how do you go through life not knowing your height. Her friend confidently knows she's 5'9, and there's absolutely no way there's only 3 inches between them two 🤣
T do you get girls? Girls are supposed to be short. Femininity if you’re not attracted to it move along. I just don’t think she has a reason to lie about height?? We enjoy being petite and feminine
Imagine if men went around saying that women had to have double cupped breast sizes🤣🤣. Women would not like that and understand how bitchy they sound if men started doing this😂
@@chrismarcello7690 I mean, thanks for informing me! 👍. Where you trying to prove a point by any chance? ( I'm clueless, I'm just wondering lol 😅) . I mean. Yeah good point but I'm not really trying to get my wife pregnant all the time so that she can have bigger BBS 😅😂.
It’s totally understandable for a girl that’s 5’9 to want a 6’0+ guy, it’s the ones that are like 5’2 demanding they have to be over 6’3 are the dumb ones
From my experience most girls who focus on height are the short ones...tall girls usually rarely care much and don't mind even dating shorter guys....its logical, shes already tall so height doesnt impress her much...yes they would prefer taller but they wouldn't deny a great guy for height..im 5'11, my wife is 6 foot and never cared
@MedamineSlasla-su6mv Tall girls also have many fewer options if they require their partners to be taller. Short men also have fewer options if they only go for short women. Statistics play a significant role
I completely understand the girl who is 5’9-5’10 to want someone tall 6ft+ What’s funny is seeing alot of those girls who are 5’0-5’2 wanting only 6’1+ guys 😂
I am 6’ 2” An ex was 6’ - nice not to break your neck. Tall guys need to set standards. The 5’ 9” girl was endearing; they were all down to Earth and sweet with fair standards.
@@blacklyfe5543 1. We are not talking about survival, we are talking about the fact that you won't have a girlfriend and you'd die single. Unless you're gay. 2. Let's say you survive, but in the end you're just a mortal who will eventually die. And also childless. After that, bye bye humanity. 3. Though the extinction of humans is probably for the best. The earth is suffering because of us.
I'm 5'7 and preferably I would like a guy that is taller than me so 5'8 and up, but if I really like the person it shouldn't really matter. I don't think there's anything wrong with having an ideal type weather it be age, height, weight, wealth, personality, etc... But people also shouldn't look down on people who are not their types. Shallow check lists are just guides to your ideal partner it shouldn't be a rule.
Yes. But just one thing. You cannot prefere something that is naturally wired in you. You can't "prefer" a tall guy (it's like saying I préfer pretty girls over ugly ones)
In Mexico womans are even shorter (most are like 5'1'') and still want a guy 5'11'', but once we claim for "no fat girls" all the rage falls over you 😂😂😂😂
People who want what they want it's about what they actually get most people don't get that because high is not really a point of contention at the end of the day it's Negotiable
@@myrongaines6022 In Mexico the average height it's around 5'4" for men so is a "bigger deal" than the same height in USA. Yeah in USA isn't so far away from average but here is tall.
@John Haney Why do incels and red pillers keep talking as if people don't have fully functioning brains that can think and analyse everything and are fated and scripted into a fixed path ? Sure let me get my popcorn i will keep watching the scripted NPC men and women follow their " DNA " and have relationships based on looks and height that turn out in a wonderful divorce and broken families every time ! Couldn't give a single shit tho iam already in a long term relationship , Just taking the piss out of robots who will keep falling into the same goddamn traps because mUh dNa then they go cry on forums about having relationship trust issues or trauma and whatever other BS
i respect their answers. for one, they are all relatively tall, so the heights they mentioned werent crazy. but also they said preference; everyone has a preference. if they said “oh the guy has to be so and so height or they are not attractive” then thats a hard red flag
im 5’3 and i like guys 6ft+, not saying i wouldn’t date anyone below that height but i find tall men really attractive. Its absolutely fine if a guy doesn’t find my height or my “weight” (im about 103 pounds) attractive because everyone has theirs preferences, i do too. The problem starts when people treat other people who dont fit into their “standards” in a disrespectful manner. I also think it’s shallow to not give them a chance if they don’t fit into your beauty standards however aesthetics do play a role in attraction so its not that deep either.
agreed, i also dislike promiscuous women, it's a complete turnoff. i think most men will agree, so if we can't get mad about height you can't get mad about that either.
@John Haney I hear what you’re saying but it’s still irrelevant to my point. My point still stands that you’re biased. You would never bring up all this stuff about biological and evolutionary essentialism if you yourself were disadvantaged by it. You’re only a “realist” because you’re biased.
If your in the 5’8 and up range as woman I can understand wanting someone in the 6ft range. As a 5’10 man I personally am not attracted to women over my height. So I can never get made at the preference. However, the 5’6 chick is wild to me. Like miss most men are taller than you but 6ft is preferred? That’s like me wanting to date a 5’3 - 5 foot chick because I prefer shorter women…Smh 🤦🏽♂️
Even when a man who has every line item requirement met or exceeded, they do what they always do... lose the *FEELING* and say "I just don't *FEEL* like you love me anymore."
everyone in the comment theorizing how tall should a man be for his woman or vice versa but can yall just shut the hell up and keep this in YOUR preferences? not everyone sees height as a huge thing in relationships
Im 178cm, met a girl that claimed she was 5'10. When she showed us in centimetres that she was 185cm, we realised the failure that is the British education system
I'm 6'4, 280 pounds of mostly muscle but not freakishly big.. And I don't really date.. Damn, I'm going out more often.. But right now I'm going for my perfect body..
@@missandry2669 Women are tables? I will give you a chance to rephrase that. I can already see your shaming language showing, you need to do better, it'sembarrasing. Perhaps expand your vision, look at Japan, China, realise women, are really not that important. After all why would you base your whole reality on a creature that bases its reality on something as fragile and changing as emotions? It is insanity. So, knowledge is more important. You want to know what's also important? Self awarness, if you know what that is.
@@rudy2978 Women ARE the table and you men know it. Where are the women approaching men on a daily basis? How come men overfill dating apps? How come men constantly whine that women don’t want them? Women are the table you men know it! How come have to flee the west to go to foreign countries to get women? Men know women are the table
@@missandry2669 I think this is a Ego problem. Are you familiar with the term self-centered? Well, men don't flee, they are choosing someone who isn't you. It's like taking nice flowers and bringing them back into the rotten garden to perhaps remake it into something better, with time, tic tac. Women have many options, for sex sure. When it comes to serious commitment, men decide. Which is why the man proposes, not the woman. Why do men outnumber women on dating apps? Good question, why are women on dating apps if they are such good "tables"?
@@AKA_CYCLONE that is a tall height for 13 I was also that tall when I was 13 all you need to do now is be as healthy as possible to maximize your growth there are plenty of videos to search for that will tell you about the healthy habits but to start you off get to bed before 10pm tcuz this is the only period of time through out the night that growth hormone is released, eat unprocessed foods I'm talking about having a high protein diet with a very diverse organic balance remember your body needs way more than just protein to grow your body needs as many different fruits, vegetables and healthy protein sources as possible remember protein can be found in many different plant it's not really ideal to get protein from animals because of the health effects and because truly we are not made to eat red meat also something very important is daily exercise this boosts and encourages way more than just growth hormones but don't start lifting heavy weight you at 13 years old should only be focused of body weight exercises because lifting heavy weight before puberty stunts growth however body weight training elongates your limbs increases blood flow and oxygen throughout your body and boosts growth hormones. My absolute favorite person to listen to about health is Barbra O'Neal you can find her videos on a channel called amazing discoveries you will notice she isn't very popular within the mainstream health community's that's because she is exposing the lies about the health and medical industries and showing us normal people that we can be extremely healthy and not have to pay an arm and a leg. Goodluck bud and remember you will grow tall regardless if you just have the genetics like me and it sounds like you do have the genetics just like me I for example still grew to 6,4 and Iv had some unhealthy years between 15 to 19 and so genetics will have the biggest role all of these health tips will maximize your potential. 👍
Personality matters most yall, of course looks are important to a certain extent. Don't feel insecure because of your height guys! ❤ Be kind to yourself and be kind to people, you'll find the right person someday:) If someone won't even want to get to know you based of your height it's their loss.
I actually find it sad that women (and men too) are wanting guys or girls of a particular height or weight. You know those type of people are just looking for some type of gain. It should be based on height or weight, it should be based on how people treat others with equality and respect.
Yeah, it was pretty obvious that he wanted to try to force these women to lower their standards & even with all that trying, the chicks were like NOPE!
They’re the most reasonable girls I’ve ever seen. They are tall and they got reasonable standards. There are also dwarfs out here wanting a Shaquille O’Neal 💀
Im 6’4” and I wish I could find a girl 6’, but I feel like most tall guys go for super short girls and I don’t get it. If I have to sit down to kiss you, it’s not gonna work. I don’t think that’s shallow that’s just too extreme.
Nah, I don't want tall children, just [tall] boys. I know the logistics around that, but still and I don't want my woman towering over people. I like 'em small.
I wish to be like a few inches taller than my peers. It can be crazy stressful to be short or an “average height” when it comes to siblings. Now let me tell you there is time to grow and not everyone’s the same so be different and grateful from the rest! Try not to make your height as an insecurity like myself. Rather focus on what’s important for yourself instead! I don’t really know what to tell you because after all height is mainly genetic.
6ft dudes like tiny girls that’s why u can’t date one. I’m 5’8 and I hate myself because of it my science teacher told me I wasn’t normal in middle school because of my height. That’s why I never dated really even in high school cuz guys would be like yeah she’s pretty but she too tall for me. And they all were like 5’5. So that completely crushed my soul.
Men don't give a shit about a womens height even if they're taller. Theres not enough of the men you girls want. Percentile of men 6'3" or taller: 1.27%. Percentile of people in the US earning $200,000 or more: ~4%. Combine that 0.05% Do you want him to be not fat? cut that in half 0.025% because 50% of Americans are overweight. That includes gay men also. And we haven't even touched what does he look like, is he handsome, is he funny, is he charismatic, is he masculine.
172 cm isn't _too_ bad. Though, I _will_ confirm that they're better short. 175 [5'7] is my personal limit. Anything taller than that, and I won't even look your way. I can't have Jack and the Beanstork children.
@@sussyricky 😄I can't be shorter than my woman, though. _Nah._ I have to be taller, and by a good lot or at the bare minimum, _just_ enough, by a few centimeters. I can't be looking up to her.
My problem comes when they just want a man that’s 6 foot to be able to say they’re dating a guys that’s 6 foot, basically for validation and shallow reasons. I don’t see any problem with girls wanting someone who’s taller than them. I think guys who do are bugging🤷♂️
I am 5’8” and actually I am okay with every height (understanding each other is important for me) but generally the guys who are equal to me or shorter or slightly taller than me feel uncomfortable when they are around me idk it depends on if he is okay with my height because I am okay with every height
@@JonJones9111 Yes and there will be lots of people who will be okay with you. Because love has nothing to do with physical appearance, if it has then it’s not true love.
@@belgo0o Although, you're a *_very_* sweet girl (what you said honestly surprised me), love _does_ have to do with appearance, more than less of the time. Most can't love someone they're not attracted to and there's nothing particularly wrong with this. Love is often attached to an image, _though_ it should *never* only be attached to that image. The heart has to get you more than the hardware.
I’m 5’8 & a short king. i’m not limiting my self to girls my height or shorter than me. just because a girl is taller than me that’s not gonna stop me from shooting my shot 😳
@Hue Wong 14% of US population is taller than 6ft, if you want him to be good looking cut that in half. If you want him to be a nice person as well cut that in half. I'm not hating on women in general u nerd, if a guy had unrealistic standards I'd say the exact same thing. It's also not the same when talking about shape because you can actually change that aspect which indicates some level of control and non-fat people are more common than guys taller than 6ft. A 5'6 girl wanting a guy taller than 6ft is nothing more than media-induced desires, there should be nothing wrong with a 5'11 or 5'10 guy in her ideal view because she won't notice the difference anyway (refer to vid). 6ft cut off is just arbitrary Once again, go eat a cat or something and get off youtube.
@Hue Wong I already told you why having a desire to meet a partner who's taller than 6ft is unrealistic in a general sense, yeah you can dream, but ppl can also call it out when it doesn't rhyme with reality in most cases. Read my earlier comment, I already told you I don't have a vendetta against women. If a fat guy stated he'd prefer a fit chick who spent most of her time in the gym, I'd call that fatass out as well. I genuinely don't understand why you won't get this concept, are you always this stupid in daily life or only in youtube comment sections? Honest question :) I'm not even gonna entertain your last paragraph because it's filled with ridiculous assumptions. Go eat a cat or something and relax, if you don't like cats you can always go for dogs.
Damn... I'm 4'11" and have been hating it ever since but as soon as I got into the dating scene... shocks! It's like I never run out of options! I'm stoked because males be taller than me which shweeeeet 😂 Idc at all whether you're 6ft or 5'2", baby boy, it's gonna work out either way! 🥴 Realized that this is actually a blessing in disguise. For the longest time ever, I've hated my height but now, I've gotten comfortable and confident with it.
You do realize that this video is showing how short guys are stigmatized because girls have these ridiculous standards right? You should have no reason to be self-conscious about your height because not a single guy in all of human history has ever told a girl "I can't date you because you're too short"...
@@raymondpatrick430 Howdy! You do realize that I was just expressing my own experience here? Can't I be thrilled for myself now without sharing it to strangers online? Especially after watching this video that I happen to relate with. Damn, so mean :(( I hope today's treating you well.
@@marikayela his jusr bitter and angry you go girl❤️❤️ Im so glad everythings started to work out for you. Im very happy you've started to become comfortable with your height. Im 5'9 guy or 176cm And I've been insecure about my height lately. Its gotten way better but i still notice it when tall guys are around me and honestly i feel a little bit intimidated. However my confidence has grown tremendously and i actually have a beautiful woman who loves me and were gonna get married. I love her so much and am so glad God blessed me with her, her name is Mella. She accepts me 100% for who i am. She's 5'3 btw but honestly i didn't fell in love with her body i fell in love with her character even tho she is beautiful. Anyways no point in this im just sharing my thoughts, Glad you made it out of that dark place where you felt insecure about your height. God bless❤️
@@marikayela you think I'm being mean because I stated the obvious? What do you think of people when they tell you you're not special in any way whatsoever because you're the same clump of decaying matter as everyone and everything else? Does that make you hyperventilate and have a nervous breakdown? Good God get some thicker skin.
@@Yalborza and as for you... A "guy" who uses heart emojis. I'm not angry or bitter and if that is what you got from what I said I can only say that for the sake of the human race you should invest in a vasectomy.
I'm 5,8 so 5,10 and above is 👌 However, I wouldn't mind dating someone who's 5,8/5, 9 but often guys that are my height feels intimidated by me. Hence why I go for minimum 2 inch above me.
When I was a kid it would completely astound me how there is a place in the world where you can have an entire conversation over a single number and for it to be perfectly normal.
Woman : "I want a tall man who is at least 6ft" Other women : "You go girl!" 👏🏽 Man : "I want a slim woman who is at most 8st" Women : "Misogynistic pig!" 🖕🏽
Correct when he stated a preference he gets slated as a mygnostic whilst a woman wouldn’t even bat an eyelid and trying to be Cardi B make it more sense people.
As guy who’s 5’10 their answers are literally fine. “Preferably” they’d like their men to be tall and that’s a perfectly fair answer. When they meet a guy who’s not, but also have a lot going for them then as long as he’s taller than them they’ll go for it. I’ll take that.
@@spanishvideo2922 no. You’re clearly embittered and think others are just as biased. You can’t see past something. Rewatch the video. “Preferably” I want my women to have black hair, “preferably” I want my women to be beautiful and intelligent, “preferably” I want my women to like the same things I do, so the same things I do, can cook, ten million million other things. If I’m god and in the lab and creating some girlfriend like a damn Barbie doll then “preferably” I can have whatever preference I want. He asked about a fantasy, and they answered with theirs. There’s nothing wrong with their answers, and I’m tired of incel men pretending like there is. All you gotta be is taller than her - is that so hard for you?
I am Japanese and only 5′9″ tall, but even this is a little taller than average in my country. The average height of women is about 5′3″. There is some height controversy in my country, but the hurdle is low, and usually around 5.6ft is enough to meet the dating requirements. Western men who are treated unfairly based on their height should come to Japan 😂. Also, there are many people in Southeast Asia and South America who have a much shorter average height. There is nothing wrong with you, I hope you know the world and live proudly.
Then we want a girl with a body count under 10, she has to be an 8 in looks (these girls are 5's), be in shape, feminine, and agreeable. Pretty sure these 304s are out of the running. Men please have standards and enforce boundaries. You aren't "insecure", these 304s just want to be able to run around you.
@@ajr0047 according to the statistics, 5’10 is above average, but that’s too short for women. And the average woman is 5’4, so being 6 inches taller isn’t good enough. I don’t get it
@@joeyprice5224 women just like seeing height in men, and thats fine. Tall guys, biologically, are more attractive and better suited for survival. Its just like how guys want a slimmer woman, biology. These girls certainly wouldn’t drop a 5’8, athletic, handsome guy, but they would certainly choose a 6’2, athletic, handsome guy.
I’m a 5’10 skinny girl. It kinda pisses me off whenever I hear like a 4’11-5’5 girl complain about guys not being 6’0+. Like what, do you want him to be over a foot taller than you or something? I’m realistic so I’d go for a guy who’s like even a little bit taller than me. Save the tall guys for us tall girls lol
