I'd like to add that once you do create a passion, you DO NOT have to build a career doing it. It's absolutely okay to work a regular day job to fund your passions in your free time, and for some people it's better. I've worked several jobs doing things I was very passionate about, and the constant grind to improve and produce at someone elses pace instead of my own completely bled me dry of my love for those activities. Remember to always follow your path FOR YOU first.
Saw a TikTok recently that simply said "Don't try to figure out your passion in your 20s, just practice getting good at something. Build the process of going from bad to good into your bones. By the time you're 30 you'll be great at getting good at stuff."
The idea that we can have multiple passions has just exploded my mind. I've been feeling guilty for indulging in several hobbies instead of following one
Another piece of advice I have is that when you do realize you are passionate about something, it doesn't mean you have to start capitalizing on it or that you have to be the very best. This can lead to feeling drained, trying to people please, unhealthy comparisons or even losing your passion! We live in a society that values achievements more than inner peace. As a creative person I've many times been encouraged to drop everything else and pursue music. I am young and figuring everything out and I'm very passionate about science and biology too which is what I'm studying in school. It's ok to pursue multiple things and focus on daily life :)
I never realized how inaction was actually worse than taking the wrong action. Any action is good since you're moving towards something. Thanks for making these videos - they always arrive at the right moment, often when I'm doubting myself or feel down about my work, and I feel so much more confident afterwards.
Listening to him motivated me to actually do something for future self. Even if that's a wrong path i took, then at least i'll know that it's a wrong path and will start another one on my list. Now every time I doubt my lifes choices I just turn Struthless in the background and replay his magic videos :D
I've wasted 3 years of highschool, 2 years of college, currently studying a wrong major which means 2 more years will be wasted, just finding my passion. In all those 5 years, all I've ever been told, wherever i seek to, are all those "follow your passion, don't waste your life" craps. To me, they're empty, valueless, nonsense bullcraps that helps nothing but makes me more confused and hate myself, and they waste my time. This is the first time I got to know actual ways to find, or build my own path in life. Idk if it will work out for me yet, but it gives me hope. So thank you for your amazing video.
Aye we kinda in the same boat, I feel like I’ve been wasting time like crazy, in college and haven’t even decided on a major cuz I don’t know which to choose, but I agree; this video is amazing. Good luck to you!! 🤠🤠👾👾
Tell me about it, a high school, 3 years, two vocational schools (IT, 4 years, business school, 3 years) and a few months on university (IT)... Now considering going back to school but hoping this time it's gonna be the right choice lol. Working on new hobby to become a real passion and school helping with turning that into an income.
I'm 19 and so confused about my life. Everytime i feel stuck I always watch your videos and they are so reassuring and I always learn something new and helpful. Thank you for making these videos.
Don't be too hard on yourself. There is no reason to expect a 19 year old to have any idea what is going on or what they want to do. Just try to do things that are positive for you. Hang out with good people who are actively working to get better and don't spend time around losers, even if they are nice.
I have a great deal of anxiety, and a lot of it is around my lack of passion for anything, and trying to find a career that makes me happy. The panic attacks are real. This video has really helped put things in perspective and given me a new tool that might actually help me. Choosing from a list does make me anxious, but I think i can do it. Thank you very much. Subscribed.
hey ^^ i'm just a random stranger on the Internet but .. How are you doing? I hope you have found a passion and if not, I hope this comment serves as a reminder to keep trying :)
Totally can relate, but picking any direction is the right direction. Small steps and challenges to find some peace have started to pay off for me. Rooting for you and hoping you find passion in just being you :)
I'm right there with you. I have a lot of interests, but there really hasn't been one in my adult life that felt like my one passion. Which also made it hard for me to make a decision about what career to transition into after being very unhappy in my current one for years. As I thought more about passion I realized that there doesn't have a to be one thing (it's certainly fine if there is only one thing though). Why can't I have several passions? Or better yet, why do I need to define it as a passion at all? I have lots of things I enjoy doing. Does the fact that I don't define them as my passion reduce the pleasure I get out of doing them? No at all. I finally just made a list a couple of years ago and decided to choose something from it and start working toward it. And I'm getting close to being ready to transition to a new career and feeling really good. Is this thing my passion? No. Do I enjoy it? Usually :) But as I get better at it, I enjoy it more. Ultimately, I may decide to transition my career again later on down the road. But for now, I'm feeling better about the direction I'm going. And I think that has a lot more to do with just taking some action than the specific thing I picked. Cheers and good luck on your journey. You can do this!
Sometimes I do nothing because I get stuck in my own head, trying to think through what would be the optimal life, and in the process take no actions at all. I agree that trying something is better than nothing. Experience will give you new insights and direction you couldn't have figured out with thinking alone.
Optimal life..... i know what you mean. I wanted to optimize my future/life by thinking what would be perfect. I wasted a lot of time thinking.... still do... thinking does not lead to results, action is what leads to results, go for excellenct not perfect!
It is crazy to think that at a young age your somewhat expected to know what you want to do for the rest of your life when in reality there is just so much more out there. The curiosity and possibilities of closed doors that can be open but we're to stuck on trying to find the "right one" and make sure "we don't waste any time" mindset blows my mind. It's the fact that I've somewhat known what he's explained in the back of my head but actually hearing it and knowing that this individual relates and understands made me realize that there are others indeed that feel the same and not only that but better yet just like he stated " starting is more than enough than remaining stagnate". Thank you for this, truly means alot. c:
I am almost crying with relief at how much stress this video has lifted off of my shoulders. I'm a chronic perfectionist and won't stick with a hobby or habit if I'm not immediately good at it, but these actionable steps are already helping my brain get off the crazy hampster wheel and take a big sigh of relief. Thank you so much for this structure!!
It took me until nearly 30 to figure out my passion beyond "creating stuff." It honestly caused me so much anxiety but after a couple of months of soul searching and habit building, I finally feel like I'm on the right track. To anyone that needs to hear it - you'll definitely get there. Experiment until you find something you're excited to get back to.
Even if you don't like your first option never think about it as a waste of time, you learnt something new, gained a new view on life, discovered something new about yourself. As an example Apple is so popular because the CEO took courses in a bunch of different unrelated stuff, like calligraphy, art, etc! You are just becoming a richer person!
I just wanna say, HUGE shout out for always saying "I don't have a chronic illness" etc in your videos. You're the first "productivity/life hack" youtuber that I've ever seen acknowledge their privilege in this way. I have multiple issues like ADHD and a disability that make it so much harder for me in life than others but I still get a lot from these videos, and it feels great every time you mention this stuff 🌻
i have ADHD too and i also have undignosed tic's and dyslexia so some passions of mine can be very hard like voice acting and writing. i love how he doesn't ignore that people like us exist and knows it can be harder for us to do things that he can!
@@cooky614 I'm glad you don't sound like you entirely cast those options aside just because you might have some extra challenges, too. There can be surprising ways to work through difficulties that wouldn't even cross your mind from the sidelines, until you are faced directly with the challenge itself.
Just watched this with my six year old and not only did we both enjoy it, we learned that you have to give yourself time before you can know whether you're good at something and/or whether you're gonna like it 🙂
When he acknowledged that the audience could have nothing they are drawn to I had to pause the video... All I ever see are people who seem to be killing it and I'm sitting here like "But...I don't know what I want..or what I'm good at, am I good at anything??" Honestly, thank you for shouting out people like me...it's been pretty rough.
This is why I rly don't like ppl saying "I haven't found my passion yet" when they don't do anything to discover it. It took me cooking, classical guitar, elec guitar, cello, writing novel, composing, 3D modeling, making figures etc to find my actual passion in drawing which I am sticking to and happy about. Ppl waste their time playing games, watching TV or youtube when they could be finding their passion.
I think one part of the problem is that finding the passion requires conscious effort. Playing games, watching TV/YT/streaming services is not only way easier but also addictive. Hard to break the cycle. I'm currently working on that. Btw, I used to like to draw when younger but then I realized how much effort and time it would take to get really good (I'm drawn to realistic looking stuff) and I just don't have enough drive for that.
As of right now being a 20 year old feeling they’ve chosen the wrong path/degree to pursue because I had no direction when I finished Highschool, finding your videos and seeing someone relatable with a similar history and outlook (my tats approve of your sick ink and style) talk about these things is really helping me. I’m about to write my last exam today for second year and I need to figure out what I’m going to do next year so I’ll probably have watched all your videos by then. Keep on doing what you’re doing
Hey! I hope this doesn't come off as too invasive, but I'm interested to know how you're doing right now. I'm in the same situation you just explained (a year ago but still). 20, chose a degree that I'm not completely satisfied with and not knowing where to go. Do you have any advice after you've experienced this as well? Any new accomplishments through that?
me: "ah, nothing's of interest these days, i'm in such a funk, bleh" you: "we're journaling, baby" me: heart beats faster ... "oh, yeah, i'm interested in journaling!"
"The Latin root of passion means to suffer" 👀 At it's core, passion is a pain that desires to be quenched. Action, consistency, & curiosity can be the antidote to indecision. Amazing video!!! Sending this to my clients.
I kept thinking: "that's great, that's so clever" in every line you were saying xaxaxxa But the like button was hit in my favorite phrase: "grab a blank bit of paper and some pen" - the simplest, yet more effective way to catch floating ideas.
I think what makes your advices and tricks work for me is because you deliver it with a friendly way. Not in a way a master teach a noob, with too far of a _gap_ between them-literally and metaphorically. You are a different person-have gone through different trials and errors and successes, therefore you have something to say to the ones whom are still struggling to be where you are now-yet at the same time you are just like us, somehow. And the way you connect yourself to us is just so genuine and chill and fun and it's a really good point no master in the highest mountains could ever achieve. And therefore makes your messages and empathy to reach more hearts, more deeply. God bless you, my dude. Always thank you for everything you've done, and I'm going to be here, always, to witness and follow the great things you're going to do and achieve in the future. 🔥🔥🔥
"Continue to do nothing and feel guilty about it." Yep, been there, dona that. So many years wasted on doing nothing because of fear of failure. Took me until the age of 27 to reach this insight. I'm still afraid to try new things, but screw that. Better late than never!
Same, I'll be 26 soon, wasted so much time worrying about making the wrong decision that I pretty much did nothing. Still got lots of fears but more willing to just try something. We got this!
Amazing how you make more intelligent and relatable statements than people who are "supposed" to make sense, i.e. because they're business leaders, or psychologists, etc, etc.
I instantly felt so validated when you explored the side of the coin of having no interests/passions. Life’s hard enough not knowing what to do with my time, compounded with not finding joy in things I used to
dude dude DUDE! you're a life saver 🔥 I've watched dozens of these "find your passion" videos and went to pursue a career path afterwards only to stop because it didn't "light a fire inside of me" which led me to feeling down again and "passion-less". and this cycle continued for 3 years and I feel like a loser, only now that I discovered that passion comes with commitment and hard work not the opposite 😅 you're the Big Brother I've never had 💜 whatever you do, I wish you the best of luck KEEP GOING
Yea, I also recommend you and everyone else to watch Haikyuu!!, a volleyball anime that goes deep about passion and hunger for something... and how it's not already inside of you but you accidentally stumbled upon it and work hard for it and grow to be better at not only volleynall, but everything that related to it like connecting to people, being aware of your surroundings, and how to keep yourself healthy so you could play volleyball for a longer time, and all those things naturally becomes you. just... really, a beautiful and inspiring story that has changed so many lives and views about passion. Haikyuu was the first thing that came to my mind watching this video!
I gave a speech in High School about how it is not just about your passion. Sometimes the industry is dying, and a little less passion for a lot more money is a calculated move. Of course, I would not choose something that I despise either.
This is pure gold go my ears 😭 I always struggle with myself thinking “I can only choose one interest/passion” and that’s what my mindset has been struggling with for the past couple of years now 🥲 I haven’t been in school since the pandemic hit and I have been having the existential crisis of what career path I wanted to take. That’s what kinda sucks about college/school in general. Kinda like we’ve been conditioned to think “you can only chose one”. I have so many interests I want to try and honestly hearing this helps so so much! I love your videos so so much I can’t even thank you enough for your words of wisdom dude! I truly appreciate and love your content! It helps people like me in so many ways than you can possibly think! Thank you so so much again! ❤️
Finally, some real advice on the "follow your passion" thing that actually gives me something to work on rather than waiting for something to get me somewhere.
This whole process takes the idea of a far off bucket list and makes it a doing now list with no pressure which is something someone with a crippling fear of failure like me can get behind lol! Also I would've forgotten to put painting murals as an interest on my list, but u reminded me that are ways to still do those things without it being career shattering change. Just fun small changes which I think we all need anyway
By watching this video I discovered that I already have a lot of thing I want to do, but never tried. I also discovered that I'm scared of both failure and taking action. I'll be 28 years old in September, and I've wanted to write a book, be good at guitar and ukulele, and good at drawing, since at least high school, maybe even younger. I have began somewhat, but never committed for more than two days. I already know music is part of my life and me, so what am I scared of? The drawing is more difficult, but that's probably me being hard on myself. Also, I do like making up stories 😅 I also finished the movie Soul an hour ago (I really do recommend it), and my thought prosess about "what have I accomplished" and "am I enjoying life" started ... Found this video, and yes. I just sit on my but waiting for my passion to come flying out of nowhere 😅Tomorrow I will commit at least five minutes of my time learning something on the guitar 🤩 Thank you for making this video ✨
Thank you. I just wanted to say how helpful your videos are. You have a nice vibe - you don't give off the stereotypical intense unattainable self-help guru feel that a lot of others do - you come off as just a chill, relatable dude who's been through what we're going through and is just sharing what worked for him. I find your videos both comforting in how laidback and non-judgemental they feel, yet also practical & useful; subbed.
Something that helped me with the whole 'finding your passion' thing, was seeing a video where the creator talked about doing things that energise & excite you. You can work hard at a project/hobby/thingy & feel tired due to long hours or intense bouts of focus. But if it's leaving you feeling *drained* that's a sign that maybe it's not for you.
I'm doing some research about this. So far i have found out i do things that cost focus and energy but i feal good about them or afterwards. Is this the secret to what gives you energy? I was not encouraged in what i liked doing so i have troubles with finding direction in life. I'm starting to believe that possitive goals make me feel good, so i imagine how i would feel doing something. Do i make sense?
@@davek1728 just don't get caught up in the trap of thinking 'this benefits others so it's what I should be doing'. The positive impact your actions have should not outweigh whether you truly want to do them. Otherwise you end up living a life for others, who may not fully appreciate your efforts, or even appreciate them at all. And this can send you into a hole of resentment.
@@44BlueFoxes i agree. Some people are rigged like that, i'm not. However i do feel pretty good or usefull when i can help someone, but i'm carefull about not being used. I don't want to be a giver, someone who lives for others and has no own life...in the end you will be left empty, that is for sure!
How to stop becoming intensely depressed at the prospect of pursuing interests? The thought of a 9-5 job, the anxiety of failure and the inability to cope with learning curves despite being aware of all these tricks and tactics mentioned in the video.
I totally understand your struggle. Growing up, i was told I was a “gifted kid”, so things were expected to come easy to me. Fast forward a few years and I can’t cope with failure and if I’m not good at something instantly, I drop it. Unfortunately, at least in my personal experience, there aren’t any special “tricks” that can make it easier. The only cure to inaction is action. You could spend your whole life *thinking* about doing something, but never actually do it. You don’t want to get trapped in that cycle. Everyone has to be bad at something before they can be good at it. You can’t avoid failure, it’s a part of life that everyone has to go through, and there’s no shame in it. One quote that’s helped me is this quote from the show Bojack Horseman “It gets easier. Everyday it gets a little easier. But you gotta do it everyday. That’d the hard part,” I’m sorry if none of this helps, but I wish the best for you
i don't know if this is helpful, but in case it is: not everything needs to be a 9-5, lots of people work better other ways. also, if you ever played a video game you probably improved over time - at several points in what is now one of my favourite games, i very nearly gave up because the learning curve felt IMPOSSIBLE. When someone more experienced than i watched how i was getting stuck and gave me some guidance it was extremely frustrating, but seemed a bit more doable. i still haven't beaten the final boss, but i probably will one day. what i'm trying to say is: stuff's harder when you're not used to it, most of us need help along the way & fear of failure / anxiety are sometimes due to [understandable but inaccurate] belief that the only way is mainstream and we have to contort ourselves to fit into existing ways, rather than adjusting them to fit more people or creating new ones.
try doing the hobby for set period of time (if possible), and try to focus on the process of that hobby.... and enjoying that process, and you dont need to be amazing at your hobby.... but i have a literal sea of unfinished projects and stuff, so im not fixed :p
I discovered this video when I took a career break to access the way forward and it was intimidating. Every path seemed good and as i even began to pick on the feedback loop of fear would force me to go back to square one. This advice of action (any Action) leading to making better decisions is absolutely amazing. Right now, I am starting again and am on a path again and I can feel progress. The biggest takeaway from this video was "There are only two options in life, starting and stopping" Thank you mate
"Picking any direction is the right direction." Love this. Great video! I love your lighthearted and friendly demeanor. This is one of the best breakdowns on following your passion that I've seen. I landed on a similar mindset after spending a few years just trying to "figure out my one passion". But finally realized that, like everyone, I'm multifaceted, and there really isn't just one thing. I adopted more of an approach like you mention in the video of just picking something that seems interesting to me and started working toward it and see where it leads. Fast forward a few months and I'm getting close to graduating and starting the job search in a new career. And that feels SO much better than just taking no action. Cheers.
"Indecision is not a vantage point from which you can assess your options." A sailboat tiller can be jogged back and forth, but until the sails are up and it's moving forward, the tiller is pretty much useless. That's our brain when it's indecisive.
I’ve watched loads of videos with similar titles and I’ve never actually felt better after watching one before. Thank you so much! I’ve spent the last five years since finishing school going back and forth between trying out different jobs, courses and berating myself for still not knowing what I wanting to do and for quitting everything I started. This totally changed my perspective.
You are amazing, the way you described the "I'm drawn but I'm not passionate" brought so much relief to me, the fact that there is multiple passions also was huge, this is one of the best videos I've seen this year because of how hugely educational it is, I subbed
"picking any direction is the right direction" - thanks, i really needed this. i'm still not sure of what direction i'll go, but at least i know what to work on
One thing I learned recently is the value of giving up. There's this weird idea, especially in American culture, that the worst thing you could ever do is give up on something. But that's bullshit, if you're doing the wrong thing, at a certain point it's just a waste of energy. If you can never step back and think about whether or not your time is better spent doing something else, you'll waste a lot of time. Unless you get incredibly lucky and pick the right thing on your first go. This happened to me with cooking. My first job was at a pizza place. I had to answer phones, work the register, wash dishes, drive delivery, and cook. The part I liked best about that job was the cooking. So I got a job as a dedicated cook and did that for about five years. I moved up in the industry and became a competent cook at a very well respected restaurant. But because of the pandemic, I decided to quit. I beat myself up for this for a very long time. It felt wrong to have 'given up', and I felt like I failed for not sticking around in a chaotic and dying industry. But when I realized that giving up can be a good thing, as long as your taking another action instead, I realized I actually had made a really good choice for myself. Don't give up and then do nothing, but also don't be afraid to give up to try something new.
I am only two minutes in and can relate to every single word of this. Came at a time when I needed it most. Thank you so much for taking the time to make content like this :D
Woah. “Indecision is not a vantage point from which you can assess your options… it’s just another option on your list” Damn. I never saw it that way… you literally just changed the way I thought about life….
literally the best video on this topic. you brought your own example and took the viewer by the hand adressing all pains. wow. may Allah bless you brother.
This is the most nuanced take on the whole "find your passion" thing I've heard thus far; most people go left or right on this one. Either they go full in on "follow your passion, or realize (somewhat correctly) that doesn't work, but then say "don't follow your passion," neither of which considers consider the oversimplicity of either belief. This actually gave me hope that making a livelihood off of a passion is still possible.
This is amazing, and should be played before any and every motivational speaker who goes all in on "follow your passion." If I ever meet you IRL, I'm going to ask for a hug homie.
I had an interest … actively pursued it by moving countries, got a career in it after 9 years of work and have been doing it for over 7 years now … realized it’s not my passion. Now I’m trying to get into a new career. And that’s ok 👍
Im 47 and since hitting 40 ish thought I cant do my current job for the rest of my life. I took the plunge last year and started an evening art class. I came across you videos and they make so much sense and have been a real inspiration and guide. One of your previous vids about just picking one thing and starting helped me down the path and the ideas started flowing. Thankyou .
Wow, that Gary Veynerchuck energy is sooooo pre-COVID 🤣 love the guy, but it’s hard to feel that intense about anything when your daily uniform has become loungewear and slippers ✌🏼💪 and I’m okay with that! I love your content!
This is an amazing video. After college, I was in a cycle of inaction, where I didn't do anything and I didn't build anything because I wasn't doing anything. I realized later that any action is better than inaction. Hearing you eloquently express these ideas has given me so much to think about in terms of my current decisions.
Kinda reminds me of this great article (turned into short book) is "The Crossroads of Should and Must"! Basically, how it's ok to have a passion, but you must go about it practically.
Absolutely Right! I was drawn to music when i was younger. I work at it, learned it, got great at it and applied it to life! I now dont play music, slacked and stopped pursuing it, but once I choose to pursue it again, I'm back at it and love it! It's a choice to work at whatever it is you choose. Currently Im choosing writing and film. Love it Work it and Make It Happen! Work It!
This is great advice! I wrote about all of the different ways I pursued my grandmother’s passions thinking I’d be innately successful at things like playing piano or sewing. Epic fails. I finally found what makes me tick and I still think I would’ve make Granny proud ☺️
So I’ve been told about the importance of action vs inaction by my therapist but holy shit I really love this. I never framed it as doing the “wrong” thing is actually making progress. THANK YOU
I've spent 15 years of my life in leadership classes, conferences, and many many books... Your RU-vid is the most effective hands on *life map/action/betterment* advice I've ever received. Thank you for sharing 🔥
I've started journaling after watching one of your previous vids. It's so new to me, it's going very shaky. This topic of passion is literally something that I journaled about today. Being stuck doing nothing because I fear doing something. I'll definitely try this and see where it leads me.
Oldie but a goldie. Thought I'd comment here since it's probably from around the time I started watching your videos. Really appreciate them. I've been in accounting for most of my 20s, despite having a safety net and support network who would encourage me to take more risks, tap into my artistic/entrepreneurial side, I never did. Last year I did quit my job with no back up because I was just about burned out. I took six months off, went through a dark but quick phase that was necessary, and started looking forward. Now I'm 30, sought help and am now working with a great coach, got your book for Christmas since my partner new I watched your videos, and I'll be becoming a dad later this year - just a few months after you it would seem. I always thought I had to take risks before becoming a parent when you have responsibilities, but now I am at a stage where I can't imagine being the kind of example for my kid who doesn't follow his 'passions' (took me a long time to work through what that means, despite your video ;) ). Now I'm at a stage where I've got so many ideas about what I can realistically work towards, things that I would enjoy doing and give me some sense of purpose I never had in accounting. Best of luck with the baby, I am sure you and Felicity will be great parents in the best imperfect way possible. Cheers!
Inaction was literally the struggle of my life right now.. So much needed to be done that I just stopped… Im not naturally drawn to creating stufff… I love to invent and imagine stuff but putting it into action, making real and tangible.. that’s not something I’m good at yet.. which just means, there’s room for improvemen. Gotta actively start working now. Why? I dunno..just do it.. try it out.. Thank you for everything you’ve done on this channel..you like actually inspire me and that is not something that someone can do easily
I just started beauty school at Aveda Institute and their newest slogan is "Passion into Purpose". It's beautiful and inspiring. And it's funny how all the points you're making tear that apart and simultaneously build it back up :) I love watching your videos, especially when I'm feeling sad and stuck, artistically. I can watch all the tutorials I want... But nothing really makes me feel validated and ready to create like your videos, even just watching you draw "x thing in 9 styles".
Why the hell does this not have millions of views? You just summed up what some guru would sell in a 5-installment book series. And you have know idea what you just did for and to me. Thank you
FINALLY !! A RU-vid channel that isn't just judging and trying to say "go workout go workout" or "how to become popular or rich" There's truth leading to how to do it with a nice schematic, I love the concept !
"Passion is no inherently a good thing, the word is related with suffer" Thanks!! I love art and I love drawing, but exactly for that feelings I think I couldn't work happily as an artist. A job requires some detachment, some coldness, and is really difficult/painful/almost impossible to relate that things with my creations. I still don't know if I will get a common job and just making art on my free time, but honestly that sounds better than drawing most of the time, but been deeply sad, unsatisfied and probably with insomnia lol (also winning less money, eating wrong stuff and so on)
I have the exact same problem of going "oh this isn't worth my time tbh and I'll regret it later" and because I did nothing I'm left with even more regret had I started. I wonder how struthless knows all this so well! It's like he's in my head 😂 great video dude gonna brag about the corridor principle to my friends now
I've only watched two of your videos until now. Your content is so original, refreshingly original. As a person in my late twenties, these genuine guides and honest sharing of your experiences really helps. Thank you for the transparency, for keeping it real and for the amazing content. I've subscribed and I absolutely love this channel already!! sharing it with my younger sis too!
You freakin' rock so much!!! Thank you for sharing what you have learned. I feel like you speak to those of us who have had a messier life and are motivated to figure it out and move on. It helps more than we can say.
Maybe you don't have to choose, you can do the 10 things and realize that some of them are not like what you imagined. And you will finally find a way that you can't think ahead.
This has been insanely helpful, you're so understanding and empathetic that it makes me feel like I'm talking to an older wiser version of myself. So nice to see from the comments how many others you're helping too, hope you're really proud of yourself.
i'm at a point in life where i'm just standing still, but i'll be taking your advice to heart and creating content more frequently. thank you for always making the right videos at the exact moment i need them.
"Indecision is not a vantage point from which you can assess your options." Damn, speaking the truth. I've been indecisive on a variety of topics. This is deeply true, and a lesson I seem to be learning over and over again. Thank you for putting that into words.
I am so grateful for your channel. I always come here when I’m feeling in a funk and you always give the right level of advice but cutting through the BS. Thank you.
