Starts at 2:05 15 Answers: 1) Absolutely wonderful 2) Better than good 3) I am great 4) I recently learned 5) I've never been better 6) Nothing to complain about 7) Fantastic 8) I am happy and grateful, and you? 9) Positive and energized 10) Never felt better in a long time 11) Very well, thank you 12) My kids are happy and healthy and my husband is still trying to impress me 13) I'm better now you're with me 14) I'll feel better if you go out with me 15) Are you flirting with me?
Try answering them with a smile and say: "Happy!!" They will look at you surprised!! And if they ask why? Ask them: Is there another way of living life??? Thanks for the video Dan!!!
Pretty amazin. I woke up and realized I had two gifts. Sight in my left eye, sight in my right eye. That gives me the ability to see the miracle of life around me.
For the last 10years i have answered "AWESOME!" with energy and a smile. Different people come to me with problems all day and this answer seems to give confidence and turn the mood to positive.
I like the reaction I get when I respond, "I've never been better." People look at me with curiosity and I get the feeling they want to know what I'm up to. Others I feel are envious. It's fun to see reactions.
I remember when i had interview on my first Job. The interviewer asked me how are you? Well i said " I feel blessed today! How about you? And the interviewer smiled and we got good connection. I fully agree with this video answering how are shoul be enthusiastic! And set right positive vibes 😊 Abd offcourse I got my job after the interview ! 👀✌️
Thanks Dan! ❤ Not everyday someone would actually ask how I am... but "how am I?"... I'm blessed than I deserve. 1. Absolutely wonderful 2. Better than Good 3. I'm great 4. I recently learned... 5. I've never been better 6. Nothing to complain about 7. Fantastic 8. I'm happy and grateful 9. Positive and energized 10. Never felt better (or good) in a long time 11. Very well, thank you 12. My family is happy and healthy... 13. I'm better now that you're with me 14. I'll feel better if you go out with me 15. Are you flirting with me?
Samesies. I choose when I get up that I'm going to have a great day. That it's going to be better then the last which was amazing. Because, that's what I chose for myself. That's what I'm putting out to the world. If I'm experiencing difficulties, I'll share it in a non pity me method. In a reflective manner.
"Successful people see opportunity in every difficulty, unsuccessful people see difficulty in every opportunity!" Great words of wisdom there Dan, thanks. 💪
For sure this brilliant man it's teaching us more than just simple answers to a question. He's teaching us how to recondition our minds to focus un positivity and realism at the same time to create a better tomorrow and that's awesome. It's a powerful message in this video and I didn't expect that. Thank you so much for information and wish everyone to realise we have the power to better ourselves everyday! Life is difficult sometimes, I know, we all have fears and pressure but it's about the way we respond to it. Mostly, the pressure comes from how we will be perceived in society if we do this or say that but wait a minute, forget about that. Focus on a better you and the outside world will respond, everytime! 🙏✨ So happy everyone has at least one reason to be grateful for. ❤️
People say dan is a scam but people don't realise all this information is so important. He really changed the way I see things and his course helped me a lot to improve my English. I'm grateful for this channel
One of the best responses I ever heard after asking someone "how are you?" was an enthusiastic response of "Better than ever!". To this day that has still stuck with me and I'll be using that a lot in the future.
Thanks! I loved this video. It was very timely. My top 3 responses are: 1. I'm wonderful thanks! - A variation of absolutely wonderful that connotes being full of wonder, which I am. 2. I recently learned that... And 3. Excellent, haven't felt this good in a long time!
I once heard from one of Les Brown's videos on how a certain old lady who was battling some serious physical ailment but somehow always managed to stay positive and would respond to the how are you greeting by saying, 'Better than good and better than most'. So I decided that this was going to be my new reply to that question. I have lost count on how many people stopped in their 'tracks' and looked at me intrigued whenever I respond, ' I am better than good and better than most'. One tip, it can also serve as a great ice breaker when meeting someone for the first time.
Normally I use I fell great, wonderful, thank you. I am happy and grateful for every I have , thank you. There is nothing to complain so I am perfect and graced. I fell positive and better than ever. Always I am trying to bring my positivism with a great tonality even in not pleasant situations because as you stated Dan:'' Positive expectations lead positive outcome''. My guide is ''Be conscious and aware of yourself, growing positively strengthening your authenticity.
My friend was going thorugh really hard times in life and he always used to answer "each day better" on this question. He was saying it very positively, but you could see his pain and also you could see how strong, focused and motivated he was.
Happy and Grateful.... the way it should be... happy to be alive, to get another chance, of another day, of loved ones, and all those are also the reasons to be grateful. That's the perfect answer... you are also attracting happiness and reasons to be grateful to your life every time you stated it.... I will forever use this answer from now on... THANK YOU DAN!
In my experience, how you respond to anyone can easily let the other person pick up how is your life, energetic, effective straight to the point sometimes makes your entire day
Great advice! I have been doing this kind of thing for some years now and I feel so good answering similar to what You are sharing here. I usually answer that I am doing great or very good. Sometimes whe I ask how are you and the other person answers: I am doing good. Then I say: I once was doing good to but do you know what then happened to me? ... Then It got even better. Usually people are expecting a negative story after the "what happened next" and often I can feel the other persons mood rise.
When answering positively to this question in my experience when I in recent times don’t feel positive I’ve learned that it’s a conscious decision to feel good or not. Always be honest when answering, and i remind myself that even though I may in fact feel negative or sad or something has happen to make me feel a more somber emotion, this question immediately makes me decide how I want to feel in that moment. So when asked I answer positively and it begins the process to feel better the rest of the day.
I'm always answer : Alhamdulillah I'm great ....even that time I'm upset 😅 but always I says Great. Is like dua ( pray ) for my self. to say good things about me...feel happy, make people happy to hear that. But that's great idea Dan...I will answer "Fantastic" later hahaha....or I'm Happy or Very Well Thank You with big smile like always hahah ...sound really good 😁 when I have someone with me later...if I meet the right one...I will answer like you teach us : " I'm better now, you with me" hahaha Thanks alot Dan. 👍
I love this, I’ve had some down days but I do try to have a positive outlook. Thanks to you Dan, I’ve just started being a copywriter. When someone asks me this, I say the same thing my dad does, “you know what, I’m standing”
Thanks Dan , I learnt a lot from this. Especially , successful people see opportunity in every difficulty whilst unsuccessful people see difficulty in every opportunity. I am Fantastic Dan 👍
@Dan Lok you sound like a genuine Spirit filled born again Christian. These principles are all over the bible. Thank you for reminding us. You are amazing! God bless you
@////// u are unaware about deaf and it culture.... my ears sense is 100% loss hence i cannot hear freely, i do listen through earphone which is nearest to my ears and enjoy throughly i request you to research deaf concept and sign language as well
So basically we all need to reply on a positive manner so we release a comfortable vibe between the two people and that allows the other individual to ask more questions which can lead to a conversation......my.....mind....is.... Blown
Thank you Sifu! It felt much better saying out loud that I'm happy and grateful in my class. When asked how are you, that's the time you can take time and reflect on what you are grateful for.
I love your Videos Mr. Dan. I would like to improve my English skills. When my 3 german children will grow up a little bit more, I will let them to watch your videos always.
Thank you Dan, this brings a smile on my face and it all makes senses that enlightened me. You’re a star and a hero for all of us in all ages. I now watch four of your guidance videos and remembering it all so that I can apply them as well to my kids, family and friends. I feel lucky and blessed now listening to your words are so powerful that I can’t even express the right word of how grateful I am to get your messages through here that I feel it’s a good sign for me especially just having been through tough lessons lately. I will treasure this and will watch the rest of your video programs. Jen.
I love this content so much! I have not used "I am fine" in many moons. Instead, I also say "I'm fabulous." 😄 I will definitely use these alternatives!
Some of my two favorites are: (Good day) How are you? “Things just keep getting better “. (Bad day) How are you? “ Well I’m just having a character building day”.
About 5 years ago when I was a full time employee at a big firm, we had an IT consultant who would always answer with "Fantastic!", in a very cheery tone. I was pretty struck by this, thinking, "man, this guy is always fantastic. What a magnetic person." Now that I'm an independent consultant, when my customers ask me how I'm doing my default is now "fantastic!". Sometimes I throw in a "wonderful!" to change it up. After watching this video I'm going to mix in the "happy and grateful" or just "grateful, how are YOU doing?" Thanks Dan!
When asked how things are goin, I’ve started sayin “Livin the nightmare.” It throws em off, both of you will usually laugh or smile and it’s as sarcastic as the “livin the dream” response, but in an inverted direction of positivity, perpetuating that perception, indefinitely.
I like this one as well as a muslim! Wonderful Alhamdulillah! You acknowledge your gratitude to the One who gave u the possibility to be greateful. Btw great video Dan keep sharing positivity!
If you ask someone "how are you doing" they usually respond "good". So ask them "how are you really doing" instead and see the honest answer. Good video Dan. Love from a smaller youtuber.
I would love to go to Las Vegas on February 23-24 but I’m 14. I just Recently discovered how this world works, I hope I can learn more on this channel.Thank you for sharing your secrets.
I always stop and think several times, now never after listening to you. I just feel my ears bleeding hearing those common answer. When I paused and ponder, i am actually better than good. Thank you Shifu!