How to Ask Forgiveness | Be Forgiven by Someone You Hurt 

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"I'm sorry because my poor choice in action and words caused harm to you" 👍

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I made a mistake and now I might lose one of the people that I've ever loved the most💔😔

I really messed up yesterday I hurt my best friend and I'm scared that I lost her forever I gave her space and said sorry but she never said she forgave me 😔

Lowest point in my life right now, depressed, but somehow this video was right on time and I’m on the road to recovery. Thanks C for breaking things down in a way that gets to my heart.

I think repentance is the most important thing. Showing the person that you are trying to change your path or your way of behaving, that is essential because that shows that not only are you sorry but you are working to be a better person. We all need to work toward being better people, when you want someone's forgiveness, see this as an opportunity to be the better person that you know you can be. Even if the person can't forgive you, your repentance makes the world a better place.

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I ended up getting blocked through phone and social media after apologizing and wanting to talk it out. This was a good person and I handled a situation badly, but I've never experienced being completely cut off like that before. I just wanted to talk it out via phone, but never got the opportunity.

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Thats so true i fucked up to man my wife says she needs space and its destroying me but im trying to prove myself everyday and im doing that beging n begging for forgivness and reminding her i love her and how much i messed up n no amount of sorries will ever show how deeply im sorry n im praying all day and reaching out for advice n everyway i can its hard u guys but as the beatles said all u need is love we have to let go of the pain from the past n focus on the love thats there b4 its gone Kuz trust me ull never feel so dead in side wen u watch the love of ur life walk away and the pain n anger make her not even look back

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I thought I was doing the right thing by “exposing” my bestie for always lying to me but after when everyone turned on me I had to focus on myself and I found out why my bestie always lies to me it’s cuz I don’t give him a choice at all I was being selfish I hope this works 😭 Edit: he forgives me but he doesn’t wanna be my friend 😭😭

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Thank you for this video. I'm about to write a very important letter to an ex-friend, whom I can only hope won't be an ex for much longer. We will see.

Such a very intelligent person. The best on RU-vid for asking how to say I'm sorry. I totally agree with every word you're saying. Because I'm the one wrong. I broke my daughter trust. I don't know how to ask my daughter to forgive me. Yes indeed I have to give her space. Thank you. Thank you.

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thank you so much, this such an amazing video. I'm subscribing your channel cause I truly loved everything you explained. thank you again, I'm going to ask for an apology to my mom soon...

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I did my ex so wrong and I really needed this. Thank you.

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Well asking forgiveness is so hard especialy if your not the one at fault but this vedios shows that weather your at fault or not for the peace of every hurtful words you said ask and lower down pride to be forgiven.

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A employee wrote me an apology letter--before a near-death experience. It was horrible. I’m a high-ranking chef at a university and I was told by a student employee that her coworker (let’s call him Terry) had been touching crew members too much. Not _that_ type of touch, just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. He was always very outgoing and tactile at work. Still, I took him to my colleague’s office for a chat and told him he shouldn't touch anyone without consent. Just handshakes. I said we needed the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, that he pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school. How he shouldn't tell his stories because they may be inappropriate to some degree to the other workers; funny to him only. I think he’s about 25, give or take. He seemed pretty quiet and uncomfortable during my speech. Answered a question or two with a nod and headshake. The only question he had for me was if anyone reported his touching; I said, "It doesn't matter." Maybe that was a bit rude. That day after work, I saw some woman injure him in specific ways I just can't write. Two men grabbed her in time to save Terry's life. As we all came to Terry's need and called an ambulance, Terry, in his weak state, told me he was sorry before closing his eyes. The paramedics found a letter addressed to me in his pocket. He wrote that he was so sorry for making his coworkers uncomfortable and that he never meant to. That he wouldn't have if he had known. That he wanted to make things right and redeem himself. He also explained that he had ASD and sometimes acted socially flawed, inappropriately jocular, and unfiltered. He said he felt so bad about that and that whenever he got the impression someone didn't like him, he would be quiet around them to avoid provoking them. He also wanted the person he discomforted to know he was sorry. This letter broke my heart, especially when Terry's heart almost ended. According to the news, the woman tried to kiII him because she hated his personality and jokes. She even told him people would be better off without him so that he knew he was getting what he "deserved." Thankfully he was treated in time. But...what if he wasn't? What if my last moment with him was in the office? I realized where I went wrong. Yeah, I was right about how his filter and touches were a little out of bounds, but come on; just because someone makes a mistake, doesn't mean you gotta reprimand them, especially when they're truly conscientious. I should _not_ have spoken to him the way I did. I should _not_ have said to his boss (who was in the room with us too), “is there anything you want to add?” That was insensitive. I should _not_ have restricted him to handshakes and work/school conversations only. All or nothing isn't fair. I should _not_ have taken him to the office for a formal lecture. He didn't deserve that. He probably felt like a criminal in an interrogation room. He only meant to fun with his coworkers. I should’ve been more patient and sensitive and only given him a very brief and gentle talk in the hall---just me. Besides, it's perfectly natural to causally touch or tap people *without* it being creepy; maybe Terry deserved a right like that, within reason and limits so he didn't go over them and discomfort anyone. I'm gonna tell him I'm sorry for being kinda tough on him. That I mishandled the situation and could've done better.

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Thank you for your words of wisdom. I hurt someone I Love very much. I am hoping in the way I phrase my apology will make him truly see that I am very sorry for my actions. That just saying sorry I hurt you again is not enough. And he will always be in my prayers

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Today in school, I sweared to someone because I was furious about something about my parents, and yet one of the teachers heard it and took me to the manager of the school. She told me to ask for forgiveness and I'm suppose to do it on Monday the thing I want them to know is that I really didn't mean to swear and I am bad at controlling my emotions, and my parents act like I'm going to get kicked from the school (hopefully I wont because I want to become successful in life). Hopefully they can understand and forgive me.

Such great advice. Didn't work for me but I'm sure it is the best way to go about things.

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Hello, thanks for this video. I really messed up earlier this year; it is almost two months the incident happened. My stupid action really hurt the most important person in my life😭(she is my role model). I will be honest my life has taken a positive turn ever since I met this woman. I have apologized twice and she has also invited me for an open conversation. I still want to make things right between us but I am really scared. The last time I spoke to her, ahe said 'she is less angry at me and less hurt' but I don't know what this means. She has been silent and the worst thing that would happen is if she tells me to stay away😭😭...I really love and care about her a lot and I don't know how to show her that I deeply regret what I did 😭😭😭

You can't really know if he would forgive you until you ask. U might be amazed to find out that he has been expecting you to ask

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Mam literally your video has opened my eyes. I have learnt a lot. Please do pray for me that my man forgives me because I have genuinely wronged him and I have hurt him with my words. I have realised every word that had hurt him now Im repenting I’m apologising please pray for me that my man find forgiveness for me and forgive me for what I did and returns to me with all the love. I know it’s not that easy for him but I pray that I get him back . I’ll keep on trying

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I'm sad bc I messed up my friendship between my best freind he litterly would not forgive me and I even cried and begged for forgiveness and he Didnt even say anything he left and I got blocked on everything I wish I can change the past and fix what I did wrong but I can't

It's very true with others but also with God. Thanks

Hey I’m looking for some advice on how to apologize right now. I have been having a stressful time recently and I’ve been spending a lot of time at my friend’s house to avoid my home. My friend has told me he likes having me over and his family seemed to like having me over too, but I would show up every day. My friend’s mom has been annoyed with me being there everyday and they do have a new edition to their family. My friend’s sister is also annoyed and says I never stop talking. The mom had told me a few days ago that I should probably go home since a storm was coming. I didn’t want to go home so I told her I would be ok and I stayed till it was time to go about an hour later. She got a little annoyed with me for that though, all this is coming from my friend and I need advice on what the best way to apologize to the mom and sister. My friend has told me they don’t hate me or anything but thinks I should apologize in person. Any advice would be appreciated in the next day or so since I’m out of town right now and want to apologize appropriately when I come back on Sunday or Monday.

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Thank you ao much miss this helps me forgive someone i hurt

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A guy back in high school had a crush on me and later told me how he felt about me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes but I lied to him because I only liked him as a friend back then. Later, I disappeared from his life and never give him an explanation to why I lied to him and disappeared and been distant to him. I met my boyfriend Amador in high school 5 years ago and a semester later in 2016, I moved to another school but I still kept in touch with him until I decided it was best for him never to call me or see me ever again. Now, I regret it. I want to fix this because I feel very guilty and I want to say how sorry I am. I also been experiencing feelings for him for real. What should I do? Should I ask him for a second chance?