There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.
I really get why what you're saying matters, and I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
As you always do, YOU ROCK! You always give me that fair perspective for being so open-minded in fully understanding how my current relationship’s dynamics. Everyone has his/ her flaws and imperfections. Nevertheless, we don’t need To be perfect.
She makes a good point about the female behaviors that men reward. Underlying this problem is the need of men to be taught to control their sexuality which I also relate to the problem of the lack of Initiation for men in our culture. Controlling sexual energy doesn't mean repressing, but learning how to utilize it as an asset rather than being a slave to it. It isn't easy and takes years of practice. But there are no voices in our culture trying to impart this to young men. The best we have is some influencers simply saying, 'Stop looking at porn!' But no surprise that the most powerful organic force on Earth is incredibly destructive when it isn't properly utilized.
💯 I second this to the Max. I wasn’t able to conquer my 🌽 addiction until I learned that I had to Tame the Wolf not Slay the Wolf (my motto). The sexual energy is potent and highly useful when you channel and conserve this precious natural resource especially for advanced spiritual practices Then when you want to use this energy for sexual pleasure and romantic connections you are more potent psychologically and physically. Basically you have to make peace with your sexual energy not go to war with it which is how for years how I dealt with it. This one psychological realization that came all at once did what years of effort and motivation could not.
The two comments above give me hope and encouragement for an honest, enduring and loving partnership. Thank you for your willingness to seek a higher path and a higher potential to your most evolved self and to move beyond societal conditioning. 🙌🏼
My number one quality im looking for in a partner Is someone who values integrity as I do. Someone who is very consistent in their behavior and doing the right thing.
I agree. It's wild how people get married with someone who they've never gotten into a disagreement with or have seen genuinely angry. I think it's good to be in stressful situations with your partner near the beginning of your relationship to see how they react. Do they avoid conflict or are they confrontational? Do they look for solutions or do they pout in the corner? Do they get violent and aggressive? Their reaction can be a deal breaker and can outweigh many other things in the relationship. Edit: Stress, disagreements and anger are not necessarily bad things. Everyone feels it on occasion. It's the matter of how a person expresses their anger or feelings of stress that might be incompatible with you.
@@octobersky8694 it's not at all about judging. It's the basics of getting to know the person you're in a relationship with. Of course everyone has their own paths but most people aren't willing to accept the challenges on their paths and try to avoid them. If they're OK with throwing caution to the wind and accepting what may come their way, that's their choice. If they actually want to see if they're compatible with who they want a long term relationship with, common sense and practicality does play a role in that.
You’re comparing what you would do and what others should do, as to what common sense and practicality is. There is such wide range of what could be considered common sense and practicality, again based on your or another’s experience and perspective, not to mention social, religious, moral etc. beliefs. That alone is judging another because you could never understand how someone else makes those choices because you are not them, perhaps you could come close through common upbringing, experience etc. but you’ll never have all the same information or perspective to make the same, as you say, “common sense and practical” choices.
@@coolbreeze5683I agree with you. Healthy relationships have markers and they are what you listed. Unhealthy relationships also have markers & I think there is line between judgement and discernment. Sometimes people perceive judgement when a person is actually being discerning. ❤
@@ashley5627 you hit the nail on the head! Seeing people's range of emotions are the basics of getting to truly know them. It's strange how some even try to dispute that fact nowadays.
I am always blown away by this woman's honesty and willingness to speak the truth. A couple of years ago, her blanket statements would have triggered the fuck out of me - now that I am willing to recognise myself in them, I find myself being flooded with relief and cheering her on. Sweet common sense! There is a reason why stereotypes are stereotypes. The New Cage spiritual bypassing in romantic partnerships is causing and hiding massive amounts of suffering and dysfunction in the name of "healing" and "evolution" - it's about time we got real!
I LOVE to hear that more women in their 20s arent committing to having children. We have healing to do in our lifetimes & we change constantly. Hopefully for the better! I KNEW I didnt want kids when I was very young & it was a trauma response. After 7 years of healing I would love a child now but if I had kids in my 20s, without question I would have accidentally destroyed their sense of self because i didnt have that to offer. Disagree firmly on that one. If you dont feel called to motherhood, my God don't have them just because you can or because you think they will heal you some way. They wont!
Sadia Khan have some great insights in some points but I find her still so entrenched in the 3d world, no transcendence at all. She seems oblivious of the fact that happiness and fulfillment in life does not come from others, like kids. It comes from inner work. Some people decide not to have kids for spiritual reason, but she never acknowledges that. For example, instead of being a vessel for another soul to biologically incarnate in the material world (by being a parent) why not spend this lifetime re-birthing oneself and becoming one's best version of oneself (the way you would want to ideally raise your kid if you are a conscious parent). In this way, you are ending karma/trauma and samsara or the endless cycle of death and re-birth. If we just keep on having kids (as investments or source of happiness which has a selfish agenda in it) and repeating the same patterns, how can we evolve? In this aspect, I find Sadia Khan to be limited within the box of the same old human drama. Shortsighted and no transcendence beyond the usual human condition.
Sadia has a lot of knowledge coupled with common sense and shes also very street wise. A fantastic guest, I really appreciate this conversation thank you both 🙏❤️
I trust in you Lord carry me as I struggle to provide for my children. As a single mother things can be challenging. Both of my sons are special needs yet I’m so blessed to have them they are my life. God please hear my prayers protect me and my children from homelessness. Give me Strength as I struggle to pay the bills. Bless me to be a better mother everyday.❤️
I disagree that men's sex drive doesn't decrease with age. Wise men channel more of their sex drive into creative endeavors at work, art, career, family, purpose etc. as they age. The sex drive at 15 was untammed and wild. At 27 to 65 it tends to become more skillfully managed and channeled.
Well if it doesn't, why is the "little blue pill" so popular? My ex turned 40, and suddenly he stopped wanting sex. I hear it from other women that age too, that their partners need help to get it up. Those companies make millions!
It's not that women's sex drive goes down and his goes up. Its the fact that He has been hypersexualized for thousands of years, By this patriarchal run society! Whill he gets content to look at, and places to go 247- whill shes put though an internal and external shedder--- She has the reality of knowing what ( society , and the human male) thinks of her, and how he treats her.
This man here is what is a perfect example and the epitome of a divine masculine!❤ I actually think the only problem we have, Maybe it's the massive lack and the elusiveness of divine masculine and divine feminine here-- and the only fix , is it be the "OTHER WAY AROUND"!!
I totally agree about having children. I see that with my son. Being the only child caused a sense of selfishness in him. Having a child of his own opened his heart to think outside of himself. Life is no longer about you. There's another person who depends on you.
It's easy for people to give advice when a person is comfortable with their lifestyle. People don't notice that fact you pointed out. I didn't! She makes good points though.
I disagree. I think marriage isn’t working out because people don’t focus on inner growth, self awareness, or self esteem. They marry for the wrong reasons and that’s why divorce rates are high. I’m single not because I have high standards but because I want a good connection. Lots of men lack depth, self awareness, and self esteem. I don’t want a broken guy. People do not know how to connect emotionally with others and this is becoming a problem in society.
You say you want these things but are you embodying these things yourself? - Someone who is doing the work (life time process) will attract the right person when they are ready. If its not in your reality maybe you are not ready for it........ If you have high standards - why are you not meeting someone of the same type - its not true that there are no men out there with high standards. The mirror is you - so change yourself and watch reality reflect that back
@@tileshp3762 I’ve been engaged before and proposed to twice. I’ve chosen to be single to really find that ultimate love. I don’t want to settle as most people do. I think most marry out of pressure to meet society’s goals and to have kids. I’m fortunate enough to be born into a financially stable situation where I can focus on my self growth and choose someone that matches my frequency. I’m a psychic so I have seen my soul mate and know his characteristics but it’s up to God when I meet him.
@@tileshp3762 Also, I have learned astrology and have psychic abilities. The sad truth is true love is rare. Most people never touch true love in their lifetimes bc you have to be an advanced or evolved soul to get true love in your life. It has to be in your destiny and birth chart and you have to have a certain level of self awareness and compassion to attract true love. Most people are not at this level and never get true love in their lifetimes. That is the sad reality 🙁 most will never know what love really is. People think they are in love but that true unconditional type love is only achievable when you become that type of love yourself. Most people on earth are too selfish to get love.
This has been very insightful for me. I was recently left by my gf of almost 6 years and while I’m still very sad about it, this helped me see more of our issues through a more refined lens and understand each perspective more clearly. Thank you for this wonderful podcast and for introducing me to this profound mind
Hmm...I'm actually baffled by this conversation. Transparently, I am in a long term committed relationship (11 years) and felt that what Sadia was sharing is very narrow, mundane and superficial in understanding. There's a lack of nuance in this dialogue, especially from her expert background. The other part of me is wondering if this is simply the level of maturation currently exhibited in dating scene? Honestly I was a bit disappointed due to the abundance of cliches and stereotypes vs. subtle, creative and solution-based insights like most of Andre's podcasts.
I completely agree! She doesn’t seem like she actually has a degree in psychology. I myself am and have been a therapist and have worked with couples and individuals for 20 years now. I’ve seen this guest on other peoples channels as well and every time she makes me cringe. There’s so much that she says that feels detrimental for society and for the audience to be taking in.
@@TheKittiShowshe isn’t a psychologist. She is a fraud and extremely abusive if her credentials are questioned. She will call you racist . She’s abused me and others
Men sex drive and stamina does decrease as they age. I don’t know where she gets this from. It decreases a lot. Erectile dysfunction is common in older men.
There are some men out there who are shaming women for not playing into their fantasies that are no doubt derived from watching too much porn and telling a woman she is boring if she expresses boundaries and doesn’t act like a porn star. Pressuring women into filming explicit content for their own pleasure without thinking how this can affect the woman and put her in potential danger needs to be called out.
Amazing! You two interact so nice. I am 58 years and still learn so much of Sadia. I wished she was around when I married to my ex 34 years ago. This was so good!
I disagree that it is necessary to have children. I’ve never had a strong desire to have kids because I have philanthropic goals. Everyone has different life purposes and we only feel happy or content in life when fulfilling our purposes in life.
Thank you! This was my first deep dive into Sadia's offerings, and wow I feel like she delivered to us a solid gold treasure chest of grounded practical fair advice, and clear perspective to consider. I'm taking some key gems with me into my journey towards a reality of having healthy partnership! I resonate with her message, vibe, and appreciate them a lot. May this sister be protected at all costs!
If there is One thing to Realise is that All Begins With The Self. Know They Self,Respect Your Self Value Your Self,See Your Self , Heal Your Self ,Honor Your Self in Order To Be.Then you can Truly Care 💛✨️
newsflash: SHE IS NOT A PSYCHOLOGIST. Psychologist is a protected title across the board, not just those who are in clinical practice. Her Masters is not even in Psychology, it's in Education which means she is not even eligible to do a PhD program in Psychology thus making her ineligible to acquire a license as well. SHE IS MISREPRESENTING HERSELF IN A HUGE WAY. Don't get me wrong, I can see that some of the things she's saying might make sense but please be aware that it's not a clinical judgement but rather just a mere opinion. She can talk all she wants but she needs to be honest about her qualifications and respect those who are legitimately in the practice.
"We attract what we judge, until we no longer judge what we attract" - Robert Edward Grant. I.e - what we absorb, is what we see reflections of ourselves in other people around us. A trigger is the smallest part of an armed weapon, but in order for us to get triggered, we must have at least a fraction of the explosive material within us in order to see it in others. This helps me see it within myself when I judge others
Andre' is a great interviewer. Depth of wisdom comes through. Some of Sadias points needed refinement and more research but love that Adrea was clear enough to state when he disagreed ..like the point on Monogamy and that people are bound to change in their relationships as they grow. Thanks Andrea for your channel, it's really great.
Everyone's pain and pleasure is different i believe. I've learned that: 1) Establishing realistic and logical expectation is the first thing we need to re-evaluate within ourselves before asking someone else to change. 2) Practicing patience and self-control to allow enough time before making an assumption about the partner. 3) Admiting that no spouse, partner, or child will ever think of your happiness before their own. 4) Never do things in life to impress others, allow them to see you as you really are. So, it's really a life-long battle of balancing all elements. But it would work perfect if all involved people parctice and believe the same. If any single partner has their own selfish beliefs and rules, then you're probably not going to be successful.
Am I the only one who gets the feeling that her opinions might not be complete truth? I want to know about the people who are connected to their hearts and devoted to God and living at a higher consciousness. It feels like she’s in a different reality.
I’m a therapist of 20 years and this guest gives a lot of red flags. Out of what she is sharing is not based in peer reviewed science. And a lot of what she says seems to be quite biased and sexist at that, seeming to cater to red pill men in an effort to get them as clients.
Ofc if it’s an opinion is just an opinion (not universal truth) and you can take it or leave it. I find it interesting that people are so put off when someone brings something different to their own confirmation biases that it’s just easier if they just discard it by calling it as a red flag or putting their own judgement.. I guess getting to know themselves (as Sadia was advocating for in this podcast) it’s just too much work.
We all have our own personal truths depending of our life experiences and adaptations in Society. The truth of others ( or their realities ) It doesn't mean it has to be our reality .We take what serves us depending of our own perspectives and biases. We all have biases!.. it is inevitable! We are Spirit, having a human experience !
I agree on all points except the sexuality: As a woman in upper 40s I can say women like myself can have very very strong drive up until any age! As long as they are with a man they are physically attracted to 😉 Men on the other hand might want same amount of sex but their ability is severely put down after forties and up in 50s most get nearly impotent or not able to have sex as before - why are you ignoring this fact?! I’ve been disappointed on so many men this age. After 40 they get a crisis and try their last prowesses (enter younger girls, more porn etc) until they finally can’t preform mostly after 50s and later. Severely impaired sexuality for men there. Where as women can handle it still, specially with some hormone therapy around menopause and after 🎉
Good points of Saadie as always ❤ But: Why on Earth are the RU-vid ads so damn irritating? Only repeating useless catch grades. They don’t get me trapped at any time, only irritated enough to shut down the hole thing!
I really disagree about her whole statement that you should have kids and basically use them as a test for your own personal growth. That’s exactly why lots of people have kids and that’s such a bad idea. This is a whole human not something that you use to fulfill your own unmet needs.
I so agree about the dealbreakers. I’ve dated guys who seemed so perfect in many areas, but they had this ONE dealbreaker quality I simply couldn’t live with (mostly addictive behaviors). All even said that they didn’t like this about themselves either and desired to change it, but never did, except for maybe a short spurt and they were right back to it. I so wish I would have told them that unless or until this changes, I can’t be with you in a serious relationship, because I ended up wasting my time. Not only that, but resentment built up and it ruined the relationship anyway. It wasn’t worth it at the end of the day.
It seems that when a person doesn’t have something in their life, they overly focus on getting that and think it will solve everything- e.g., if a man is not getting sex, he will become obsessed with getting it, often rushing into physical intimacy, when the real underlying desire is for genuine EMOTIONAL connection, which takes time to build. As a result, too many men find themselves having unsatisfying one-night stands, feeling empty, restless and resentful. It doesn’t help that men are often more fixated on external appearance, and as Sadia says, often setting themselves up for disappointment and bitter resentment. Meanwhile, women need to learn their own value and set appropriate boundaries around physical intimacy. (Note: many women also rush too quickly and prematurely into physical intimacy that lacks the depth and authenticity of genuine emotional intimacy, leaving them feeling empty and lonely.)
Another great podcast! Thank you. I think the trajectory of human evolution towards androgyny is sad. Somehow there is more division between the sexes than ever before creating so much mistrust and disharmony that we rather be alone. Perhaps this is a period of time where important issues once taboo or hidden in the shadows are surfacing into the light so we can address and resolve them. Idk. I do know however, the more internal "work" one does in terms of healing and alignment in turn will affect the quality of their existing relationships or new ones they attract in their life. Looking forward to the next podcast. Hint* ---Bentinho Massaro, Bashar and Billy Carson are pretty cool :)
Exactly. We're still hearing this tiresome babble about how women aren't as horny as men. No. We are. We just get tired of having sex with selfish partners. It takes many of us more time and skill to bring us to orgasm. And even if we didn't reach it, we still enjoy the activity.
I can respect that if that is your personal belief system. If it isn't then that is not a fit for people who have different value systems. You have to do what is best for your relationship and even then in either case, you cannot escape working on yourself.
The context behind why she used the word “worship” there matters. She just means you should adore one another as opposed to, per se, settling for someone you’re not attracted to or who doesn’t treat you well.
Note taken for any weird spontaneous desires that you think indicate adventurousness. Could be fatal- even if you only try it once or indulge in a taboo once. Fatal Attraction a perfect movie for what could happen with a small indiscretion.
I love all the insight Sadia brings here and how you're both able to shine a light from a masculine and feminine perspective in the subject matter. I understand it's likely outside of her focus in her work and it may not be something you experience André, but I was slightly hoping for a bit more discussion regarding polyamorous relationships. It's a huge dynamic that would probably require it's own episodes worth of discussion haha. Thank you for everything you do, m'dude 🙏🩵
Polyamory is definitely not something she discussed because Sadia is monogamous. A few times on different podcasts she spoke of polygamy, but only through the lens of her faith which is fine. You might want to look to others who are actual polyamorous folks for more content. There is poly Phillia as a good start. She has lots of content and common sense things polyamorous folks deal with on the daily. You also may want to look at Kenya and Carl Stevens who have been married 25+ years and have created tools in helping folks deal with open/polyamorous relating. They also can be found on RU-vid and Instagram. Perhaps Andre will have prominent Polyamorous folks on podcast for discussion in the future.
She is realistic and down to earth. Excellent interview. However I dont agree whrn she says having kids is good for everyone. There are too many lousy parents out there. Children deserve the best, not the bare minimum.
I’m out of my mind, listening to this about women changing and being less valuable. What about a man who does not care for himself physically mentally or spiritually a man who doesn’t have the drive to make more money have a code of ethics for caring for his family when he passes. the double standard coming from a woman makes me really upset
What about it, I don’t understand the point? If a man like that isn’t in alignment with what she desires, then they aren’t a match. Rather, a woman will often commit to a man that’s not a match, then do everything she can to change him.
My mom met her third husband when she was 50. He was 51. The woman he was dating at the time was 33. My mother clearly was what he was looking for, because he dumped the young woman for a woman his age. They were married 18 years until his death. Not all men are shallow, or think a woman expires at 35. This is Red Pill nonsense that tries to scare young women into getting hitched so incels have a chance at starting a family.
Yes…I’ve heard her in other interviews and personally am appalled by so much of what she says. Tons of logical fallacies and very “pickme”. Also I get narcissistic vibes from her. Again, have watched several interviews.
@@olivegoddess1 I completely agree with you! I have seen her on a few different shows now, on RU-vid and Podcasts, and I am also appalled by what she says. It is not based in science. I myself am a therapist of 20 years and a lot of what she is sharing is actually harmful. I also got personality disorder vibes. I also agree with you about logical fallacies and the pick me essence. It seems to me she is trying to cater to in cells and red pill men in order to get them as clients
Relationships seem to lack deep aspects, such as spiritual development and the higher dimensions of the soul. It appears that they are predominantly, if not exclusively, focused on sex.
So many people are unfaithful without changed behavior. In response to the man who giot caught texting. I'm sure it wasn't just a friendly text. I believe in taking accountabilty and showing a willingness to correct wrongs. We also dont know what other behaviors he may have displayed prior. That level of accountabilty could provide a safety net for something he truly values, his marriage. He reassures and displayed it through his agreeance to share his social. A lot of healthy partners have access to each others accounts, but may never use them. It could also be for a sorcufic tume frame. To each there own, of course.
This woman has guided me in understanding my past mistakes, healing from them, and moving forward with wiser, healthier expectations. Her practical, straightforward views on attraction and relationship dynamics are valuable perspectives often lacking in conventional sources of help. Thank you, Sadia! 🙏🏼
Thanks for having poignant guests on your show that may seem different than your usual guests. I think it's helpful to see what others may be sharing that could differ from the normal guest here. I think she has a lot of insight to offer, but I would agree with a lot of the other commentators that the info didn't resonate at large. As an Intuitive Love Guide, I can understand and agree with some of what she shares as I have worked extensively with more conservative, affluent and less spiritually-natured men. As a result of working with this demographic, I learned the horrors of what many may call the toxic masculine, but I also learned that what they deeply craved was not what they thought they were craving, sex, power, etc. It was actually a deep need to be seen and the heart deeply touched and held by the feminine and as Sadia shares, to be appreciated. They actually wanted to feel sacred, in devotion, and in love, they simply had never been taught how. Hence why I agree with so many of the other commentators as well, that the lack of positive male rites of passage and healthy male influence likely perpetuates the most horrific shadow side of men and at times woman. But I am optimistic that this work provides a pathway towards more mutually satisfying, devotional, honest and sacred ways to connect and love each other. Thanks your bringing a variety of guests to the show.
She is so real. Loved his ability to pull out all her gems but imagination and hope are strong with his outlook. Sorry but the house always wins and a gambler throwing all his chips with hope is not going to have a good day.
Awesome advice & insight from this savvy woman: 'If you know you want children, have not yet found the 'right' partner to make those babies with, & it's getting 'late' (40yrs old+) - then settle on a partner who will at least make a great co-parent.' (Paraphrased a little)
I like that she’s vulnerable and makes good points about what values people are rewarding. Nevertheless, her answers to certain basic questions about herself were very “basic” ( like how do you receive love) and show little self reflection, so that made me question her as a professional to seek advise from.
Thank you Sadia 🫶🫶🙏🏻 Thanks to the host. I love to understand the human psychology , it is so liberating , it is so useful to create better relationships and, hopefully , a better society!
Instant gratification rather than patience that’s built in gyms, wars, construction sites,hospitals. Reality and individual perspective is day and night in 2024.Neil Young said for the homeless I am Satan , I don’t feel that way . Attention on us while there’s genocide in the world , if u were born in Palestine would that be a crime ? Moderation in thoughts acts and deeds. Ms Sadia is sound . Parenthood over wonderlust and urges. Basic insticts are for basic people, the rest you have a heart . Experience from dudes that have been there and done that, look out for them , listen and try and learn. Otherwise torcher yourself for another 30 years 🎉 Buena suerte
She has smart thoughts but her view on getting kids startled me. Everyone should have kids? the only true connection you will have is the one with your kids? you should have kids because when you are old you cannot travel anymore - whoat?! The motivation to have children so you won't be lonely is one of the worst ones you could imagine and setting you off for a big failure.... Yes, having kids is one of the most strenuous experiences on earth and this is why only people who adore children and cannot wait to have the experience of being a parent should have kids. People who do not have this desire for whatever reasons, should trust their gut feeling and not have kids! It's a wise and healthy decision, preventing both parents and kids from a lot of misery.
Interesting interview but the stereotypes and generalizations held by the guest are a very limited view of the whole situation... while its tempting and easy to put people into catagorys ,there are always exceptions....People dont always fit in the box we hold in our views.
Yes! I’ve seen this guest on other peoples channels and she does this in every interview and it’s really a huge turn off and a detriment to society because she’s looked at as an authority when she does not seem to even speak as though she has a degree in psychology. I am a therapist of 20 years and I find much of what she says appalling
@@TheKittiShow It's possible that you're still subject to older paradigms - whereas we may well be entering an era which is spoken to more accurately by the likes of this lady here.
I truly do respect her opinion and her advice but you guys gotta keep in mind one of those very attractive women who deal strictly with upper class higher earning clients so her advice would be for the general masses just for the top one and that’s where everything get twisted
No one knows their full potential. Self actualization is rarely achieved throughout life, not to mention money has tilted everyones perspective. Her discredit of her own achievements is a moving of the finish line, she came, she saw, she achieved. Now she will move to the next and repeat. I would call it living in the void of infinite potentialities. There are no limits on these people but the ones they place on themself, every human is capable of the same.
Andre I usually respect the guests you have, but Sadia’s videos all over the internet have a very separatist and juvenile language when it comes to relationships, men this and women that, boxing everyone up when nobody even gave her the permission to. She once said “The high value of a man is determined by the level of the woman you get to submit to you” like what? Any man or woman of any value is a person who knows himself, their worth, their boundaries, and place in this world, while also respecting the same factors in others. Relationships are an afterthought to it, and “submission” should not even be counted in. She’s very narrow-sighted when it comes to the roles of partners inside relationships, I don’t even know what her study group has been to pull such conclusions, but I believe her own cultural background adds to it, that men should do this and women that. How does she even handle gay or lesbian couples? She might call herself a relationship psychologist, expert or whatever the hell, but she’s just a woman with too many microphones put in front of her, for whatever reason.
Coming from a therapist of 20 years, I couldn’t agree more! She is not based or granite in science or psychology, she’s full of generalizations that don’t seem to based in anything but personal opinion, and she seems to be trying to impress men who have bias against women as well, including red pill man, who I think she’s trying to solicit as clients.
@@TheKittiShow absolutely, I’ve commented in the past that she has “pick me” girl tendencies. Didn’t even bother to watch the video, just came here to leave this comment.
