She said that she completed "semester long study" and that these points are from there. Maybe its chruch that made a cource for schools to have which makes wifes so mad it leads to divorce so these people will remarry with someone else = profit.
When you are in a relationship both parties should be equal that's why its called a partnership. Each person should sacrifice something and embrace something about eachother. My partner and i are complete opposites and he does ask the house work i pay the bills and we take turns doing everything. And I've been with my partner for 11 years and we have known eachother 21 years. Yeah he would like me to look more traditional native American( like long hair natural color) but he said ad long as I'm happy he's happy.
She'll be crying at the therapist office when she realizes she's a flaming codependent. Whoever raised her is in for a big shock when she stopped talking to them.
Why does it seem like all of these "godly" women look dead in the eyes. They are smiling with their mouths but their eyes have no life at all. It's creepy.
The main thing that irks me is whenever any of these people get on and start talking about being a "godly wife," it's not for the wife and god, it's for the husband and god. It's not even godly. It's for the husband, and at the expense of the wife
Shout out to Jaclyn"s husband--whose name I do not know--for being a great sport and obviously enjoying her humor and personality fully. I wish you both the best success.
"Dress modestly for your husband." OK, so most men I've dated liked it when I dressed sexy, the only one who didn't was controlling, and didn't like other men thinking I was cute. So yeah, what is up with these husbands. Lol.
That sounds terrible. Unfortunately, all bases get covered. I have experienced the opposite, where they like there sexiness and what not for attention while in a relationship. Words say one thing and actions say another
I'm on the fence when it comes to my boyfriend. He says he worries about me if I show too much because he's scared of me being kidnapped/assaulted. I don't think he's being controlling, just misguided.
@@subscribee9792 You're missing the point. If he's telling me he doesn't like it when I dress sexy because of what other men will be seeing, no matter how kindly, it means we have a massive difference in values. Compromise is about who does the taxes, or even where we live. But this has to do with the way he views women, sexuality and relationships. I can't compromise on that.
It really creeps me out that they teach women to be their husbands' mothers. I wouldn't want to be married to my child or my mother. And at the same time they say "listen to your oversized child and do anything he tells you to do". What backwards logic.
I always found it odd that women in the church felt the need to constantly coddle and praise men like this. It's demeaning to both men and women. I watch more atheists on RU-vid than Christians cause of all this type of shit.
Same. I'm a Christian in that I believe in God and try to follow the example Jesus set for us, but don't identify with most "Christians". I'm very much "live and let live" type. I have a feeling we're way more Christ-like than the types we try to avoid.
@@godbearxd Honestly. I’m also pissed that Christians like this are giving the rest of us a bad name (she seems very sweet, but other people? Not so much..). I literally don’t know a SINGLE person who thinks like this yet the media only seems to portray us as either brainwashed or homophobes😕😒
This isn’t really the best representation of all Christian women. I am one and she seems kinda boring and like she can’t think for herself…I can’t relate to her much.
This has to be the saddest and most idiotic comment I have heard. Lol, try learning about the topic before commenting on it. That term that you were using very loosely is something that you are too naive to understand. D
the worst part abt these vids is that even when there’s valuable advice she means it in a completely one sided way like “listen to your husband! ask him when he needs support!” which sounds great except it’s just for the husband he doesn’t have to do that for his wife
This is one of the funniest videos you have posted in a while. I could not stop laughing at you bothering David with your over-the-top compliments. Love it!! 😂😂
My grandmother is attracted to woman and feels guilty for that fact because of her religion. It hurts my heart to see her break down to my dad about how she failed him religiously, even when that very religious makes her feel so, just, guilty. Like period. It makes me so sad. 💔
@@Jaclyn I'm also an atheist....but I'm not an alcoholic that can't set down my wine whilst filming for the entirety of a RU-vid video....have you reviewed your drinking habits, you seem to have a problem..
I feel like modesty in Christianity is pretty stupid and hypocritical, it’s like they do it to show off, hair done in a certain way, clothes worn in a certain way and you should NEVER go out of that lane. I swear I know they have certain nail colors that are modest and others that are not And also if someone covering their hair passes by them it wouldn’t be modesty anymore, tables be turning real quick 😂😂
I feel like these “Christian” channels give a really bad rap to anyone who is moderately religious or spiritual. Like my husband and I went to the same church growing up and we are filthy degenerates who watch anime and play video games and I sure as hell don’t dress modestly. I have a healthy relationship with my cleavage and my husband supports me feeling good in my skin.
How the hell does she look 12? She's 31. Almost 32. I think. Her 30th birthday vlog was definitely over a year go and just before Covid she did a vlog for her Sister's 21st (they have a 10 year age gap) I mean spending less than 2 minutes on her channel to set her videos oldest first shows she's been on RU-vid 8 years like she said in the video. And the last 2 years have shown her relationship with David. And the relationship with her ex. Mainly on her Vlog Channel. She isn't exactly a small channel ethier. So I really don't understand your confusion on her age. When I first started watching Jaclyn 5 years ago I misjudged her age by around 7-10 years. Which was fair. Misjudging by 20 and thinking she is a child makes no sense.
Imagine how insecure the husband must be if he actually wants thr wife to dress modestly. Deep down he knows he'll lose her at the first opportunity so he snuffs those opportunities instead of actually being worth staying with.
@@NirielWinx That's true. Basicly any man who get insecure or jellous of his wifes/girlfriends interaction with other men are an extremly weak and tiny person. As long as she's not cheating on him or doing things just to get him angry what's the harm? We are living in 2021 after all.... Maby I'm one of the few men who feel happy when my lady show some skinn in public....
@@theblackgoatofthewoods > I don't even ask my gf not to have sex with others. Sex is a hobby like any other. We've been together ten years, she's had a couple of lovers on the side, so did I, whatever. We're still together because that's what we both want. I know she's with me because she wants to, because she's totally free.
@@theblackgoatofthewoods This is so true. I knew a girl years back who was a model. She met a guy, started dating and within s few months he was telling her to not wear makeup in public, not dress so fashionable, etc. When she wanted an explanation, he tried at first to tell her it was so other men "wouldn't harass her," which of course was BS. Naturally she didn't buy it. Eventually he admitted that she was super beautiful and he didn't want other men to notice, in case they'd try to take her from him. So he thought if she "toned it down," he'd not have to worry so much about losing her. 🤔 I'm still confused as to why she stayed with him, as she did everything in the relationship, but that's just me.
I know Christianity likes to say“wives submit to your husband“ I think that’s wrong! If I get married, I don’t want my wife to submit to me; we are married we should be equal smh
@@LK-gp9yv submitting your freedom for respect isn't a fair trade, and highly imbalanced :/ I think if you can make it work for your relationship and it is not being used as a power imbalance to be abusive or toxic, cool! But the word "submission" just has a manipulative and demeaning connotation in comparison to "Honor and Cherish". To the og commentor, nice!
@@CClovemcraft It's not giving up your freedom. At no point does it say that you're supposed to give up your freedoms. Part of the "respect" is to take the wives opinions and thoughts, her wants and needs into his decisions. To listen to her and to work with her to get through a situation. I'm a Christian. These things are meant to be something that sets them as equal. It does say to submit to the husband yes, but submitting does not mean roll over like a dog and let him kick you and do whatever he wants while you sit to the side and just stay quiet.
That is not what the scripture means .. wife is equal to her husband. Just because she submit to a husband as he is the head of the house it does mens she is not equal plus yen husband is called to love her unconditionally . I hope one day you will understand the meaning of that passage! Be blessed and encouraged in Jesus name !!
Yeah, that girl. 🤦🏻♀️ when she mentioned being subservient to her husband, that body language didn’t suggest that she was even buying it. I’ll go ahead and skip commenting on the insincerity of it all because I can’t stop thinking about how embarrassing her video is, not only for her but for her husband! She is talking about him like he is a pet and how to care for a pet properly. I don’t know, super cringe. Now Jaclyn, on the other hand, she gave me a code to Adam and Eve because she is genuine and actually cares about me and wants to make my life better. 😁💕
@gonootropics ooooo…someone’s having a fun Friday night on RU-vid comments! That’s So exciting! I bet you have a lot of people in you’re life who are super proud of you.
As my husband as said many times, "guys are simple, where whatever you want to wear because most likely we are not noticing your outfit unless you point it out to us."
So sad that women want to sit here judging other women. if you want to dress however then do. why don't you make your own video dressing however instead of jumping on her video to criticize. She is doing her. You do you.
I live in apartments where I see muslim women in full garb and the men get to wear whatever they want. I saw a 6 year old struggle with all the clothing covering her body from head to toe while her 7 year old brother wore shorts and a t-shirt. I was so saddened that they use religion to suppress women while the men bare no responsibility. Especially at such a young, impressionable age... I dont get it. So sad.
Her whole video looks like she was being held hostage and forced to read this stuff off a script. Her whole body language and forced smile screams “I don’t want this!”
It’s bad to bully someone but we’re doing it out of mental trauma, and others bc they don’t want people to be brainwashed, and maybe others bc they want a good laugh but anyways I totally get why most of us want to bully them
@@vil4038 I do it because religion caused my whole country to actively attack the LGBTQ community :) If my existence is a crime, then I might as well completely lean into this new villain persona they made for me.
me to my ex: I really need your emotional support through this hard time. my ex: ugh, can't you just, like, just ask me to open a jar or something? Anything more than that is too much...
Ok but seriously, she looks like she's 16 and with all that 'catholic schoolgirl' vibe, talking about marriage.. it gives me some serious culty-minory-grooming vibes and I don't like it.. oO
As a Christian woman I have my own outlook on being a Godly Wife/Partner. And that is: remain faithful to your SO no matter what. If they cheat on you or abuse them, leave the relationship.
Thank you, Mother Jaclyn. 🙏🤣 I haaaate these types of views because it's one way ticket to abuse. You are allowed to have your own opinions and dress however you want. If your partner don't like it, the door is right there....they better not let it hit 'em on the way out! 😉
I find it very disturbing from millions of people that suffer from porn addiction an industry that thrives on exploitation of minors and sex trafficking but god delivered me from that
I was lucky I got out of Christianity when I was young and I was lucky my catholic dad wasn’t intent at all to make me be religious. My mom is an atheist so that always helped me too- but the school I was in was so toxic and it shoved me out of Christianity on its own.
@@amandalindwurmvlogs8700 it is. I remember how afraid I was all of the time because my mom was an atheist and I always told her how scared I was about her not coming to heaven with me. No religion should instill so much fear in a child
Preach. I personally love dressing "modestly" because it legitimately makes me feel comfortable. I like the feeling of fabric on my skin. But it has nothing to do with what other people want me to wear, wtf.
Thank you, Mother Jaclyn for embracing the transfolk in your flock. I had depression and dysphoria for many years because I was taught all of these messages.
I'm a very independent person. I always have been. I've made it clear to my fiance that I can take care of myself. But I do sometimes let him open jars for me because I can tell that it makes him happy to be able to help me out with something. So I wouldn't say that's always a bad thing
Well, as long as he doesn't insist on trying to take the jar out of my hands when I already have the butter knife out and looking for good spots to use the knife to break the seal. That's annoying as f.
Until God shows himself and jots down his instruction manual on life and how to live there is no such thing as being a godly anything because god never told you, some random dude a thousand years ago who wrote a book did.
@@Mikael22-18 what makes you think you have the right to say that when you don't even know who wrote the book or what it really means? You have no proof or evidence to backup your opinion, so you're just like everyone else... A ruthless know-it-all who doesn't like to play by the rules and wants to do whatever they want, even when they shouldn't be. That's why you are calling the book stupid. That's exactly why, because you want to avoid the fact that, that is the book that people believe we should live by.. because the thought of not following God's word and not caring to be judged by him scares you, so you want to call anything related to it stupid. That is exactly why you are saying that. I've seen too many people like you... Far too many people who talk on subjects that they just don't understand. And they don't even have a reason to talk.
@@subscribee9792 The history of religious bigotry is pretty well known mate. If you've an issue with people criticising your religion then you should steer clear of an atheists channel that in large part exists to call out religion.
@@Mikael22-18 it's either that it's a part of your religion, or it's just that you're a hateful and judgmental loser who likes to act like they know everything. Everyone believes something different, so you saying bad things and acting confident when you make points on things that you're not even really certain of, is really pointless. Cocky and egotistical. If that's what your religions about then I hate it that much more. Who wants to be in a religion where you judge other people with different beliefs than you because you think that you're better and above everyone else for believing the right thing? You think that's okay? That's sick. If you don't want to believe in the bible, then don't. But don't talk about the Bible like it's some random book as if you are stating something factual and true, because that is beyond wrong. A real man will respect other people's religions, beliefs, and practices without tearing them down.. but a boy, will do the opposite and think that it's okay.
Her husband made a video on how to be a godly husband and how to make your wife happy. It was actually really good. It was all about serving your wife and protecting her. Nothing toxic or condescending .
Breaking away from religion is one of the best things I’ve ever done. I was that Sunday school teaching, modesty preaching, Bible thumping confused girl that was constantly questioning herself thinking I was broken or possessed. Even now, I’m condemned for being atheist. Rhetoric like this is dangerous. The men and women that are still stuck in this way of thinking are dangerous. Ughh I’m preaching to the choir here but Jesus this type of content the godly wife is spreading is disheartening.
One thing I absolutely love about the relationship you have is even though you both have different belief systems (atheist and Jewish) you never see either one of you rolling your eyes or talking down upon the others beliefs. I hope that doesn’t sound weird. I 100000% agree, you can have a different belief system and still have an amazing relationship.
She is just a kid. Naive. She will change when the real world hits. Be ready to always "submit" to your husbands wishes, and remain "quiet" and dress modestly in church. She really has no idea what is coming. She better be very careful who she marries, cause she is vulnerable for abuse. Barbie doll needs Ken.
I’m a woman in her 40’s that has spent the last 10 years feeling insanely guilty for being too disabled to be the woman in that video. I’m out of the church now but that shit got super ingrained in me over those 35 years I was deep in it. Thanks for doing these videos!
I don't trust girls who appear that "happy"....no one is like that. No one. It's dangerous. Something is off. I just found you recently, Jacqueline...you are so much like me it's really fun to watch you haha. Your sense of humor 🤣 I also hear your thought processes on morally controversial topics and feel I'm always thinking the same. You feel so familiar!
Jaclyn, your acoustics are awful on the ears. Please put in some rugs, curtains, acoustic foam, just fix it please! Thank you. PS. not having a go, this is the definition of constructive criticism!
2021 and there's still women that live this way, completly devoted to their husbands because religion brainwashed them... It's sad. I dated a MEGA Christian once...didn't end well. People like this live inside a bubble. Love your videos Jaclyn! You're awesome
I support you as a person and want you to be happy and get your bag but I don’t like these videos because you wouldn’t DARE make these videos about Muslim women. No one thinks they are better or holier and if they do, they aren’t a true Christian.
Before I would make any comments on Jaclyn, or the the girl in video, I would prefer to actually get to know them first. The girl in the video may have a husband that does the same for her. And in that case, maybe they have a 50 year marriage. And in this day in age, that is certainly a miracle. For Jaclyn, maybe she and her husband actually do similar things for each, without the big smiles (or saying it is "godly", and maybe they have a 50 year marriage. Truly, I am all for whatever it takes as partners, to get through this difficult life together.
I was force-fed Christianity since I was born. My mom and I would have screaming matches every Sunday morning because she would try to force me to go. When I turned 18 my dad finally made her stop. I said was going to leave the church and she smirked and said you were confirmed so you can't. When I (athiest) moved out and in with my now fiancé (Christian) I was worried because he knew I was not about to do anything religious. He has been so wonderful and although he believes, he doesn't attend church and he has many doubts I have. I have ALWAYS dressed very Christian like with little skin showing. I hate that I have a hard time breaking out of it. One time in goodwill I found a really cute shirt but I was scared to try it on because it was one with the shoulders cut out semi sleeveless but a hanging "sleeve" below the shoulder. My fiancé was fine with it and convinced me to get it if I liked it. He has always told me to dress and act how I like and to be myself. It would be unfair of him AS A CHRISTIAN MAN to tell me how to live my life. I love him so much and what this woman is going through is horrible. I wouldn't ever want to go back to that. Plus my fiancé literally says he doesn't think god gives a damn what we wear to cover ourselves.
Not gonna lie, I hate being told people will pray for me. It always feels condescending. Perhaps if a person needs help, you should actually do something instead of just praying to your imaginary friend. 😒
Well 10 years later and here I am back on this channel. The first time I was die hard Christian and had made a comment that went “how you disrespect the sun of God” ... not my biggest flex. After removing myself from that cult like Christian school I finally got a better look on life and although I believe in something out there I was able to learn how to respect others choices and beliefs. It’s crazy how you go from a strange 8 year old to a calm 18 year old lmao
