How To Charm People & Make Them Feel Incredible

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In today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert.
We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language
- Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact.
- A Duchenne Smile.
- Speaking Through A Smile.
- Expansive Gestures.
1:34 - #2: Capture attention
- A Pre-Story Laugh.
- A One Line Hook.
2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you
- Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke.
- Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment.
- Be Universally Kind.
- Playful Teasing.
6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall
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@reshpeck 10 месяцев назад

The best thing about this channel's advice is the way it emphasizes how being kind and making others feel good cannot be manipulative but genuine. The general message is that to be likeable you actually need to be a good person.

@ChutneyRomero 10 месяцев назад

Great comment!

@conforzo 10 месяцев назад

The worst thing about this channel is how it's always the super-celebrities which are used as examples.

@sambhavjain8422 10 месяцев назад

But you need to learn some manipulation tips also for backup 💯

@skaylingop9673 10 месяцев назад

@@conforzoif this video was about me doing those things, you wouldn’t have clicked on it

@mariamkettani 9 месяцев назад

@@sambhavjain8422 I ain't gonna manipulate nobody

@__m__a__x__ 10 месяцев назад

Finally one for us introverts

@vinzenzs2805 10 месяцев назад

Yeah, i only need to learn to laugh like a human and not like an awkward darf

@Dabaiko 10 месяцев назад

All of these videos on how to temporarily impersonate fictional characters are for 'introverts' (and more specifically people who are carrying a lot of baggage, not just introverts). People who are sane are simply themselves, no need to copy phrases or attitudes or any of that insane bs...

@deleted01 10 месяцев назад

Just be handsome bro

@ciroelim 10 месяцев назад

This channel made me realise being an “introvert” or just avoiding people and claiming to be one is just a lazy excuse for not being a nice sociable person. I’m an introvert and been watching this channel for years and made me realise that I can be an “extrovert” and still retreat to my room at the end of a long day and be alone to recharge … got a way better job that pays x3 times better than I was doing menial office work avoiding people which I had before.

@Rise876 10 месяцев назад

@Davi2010jk Most people are carrying a lot of baggage. That's part of life and part of being human.

@darss10 2 месяца назад

I hate that this is simply a tutorial on how to be a human being, and yet I still needed it 💀

@Cen-estpaslameraboire Месяц назад

😭😭😭

@PinupSticknerd 16 дней назад

What is 'human' in this context is just learned behavior. -secound chance😢😊 I appreciate you 👍

@OArchivesX 7 дней назад

You don't have to do any of these things.. look at Eminem for examples. He's loved, and hes awkward and barely talks, never smiles. All this stuff is BS and for fake people. The point is just be yourself, be interested and listen to other people, And don't lie.

@hipnhappenin 10 месяцев назад

I'm glad you made that caveat: Not everyone you go out of your way for will stay in your life. BUT it shouldn't stop you from continuing to be kind and generous. Don't do favors for people expecting a certain response.

@marijajanicijevic8211 9 месяцев назад

This should be a common sense. People like their relationships to feel genuine, and that rule aplies to people who tend to be fakers too, so you should not expect that every kindness needs to be out of some favour, because people will notice and noone will actually want to associate. However, it's true that not all the people deserve kindness, but that's where the rule of never chasing after people comes. If you feel you have to force the relationship (romantic and friendly), than give it up, it's dead already.

@CorruptDemocratsJ6 4 месяца назад

females always pick the wrong ones and hurt the good ones

@skubi7 10 месяцев назад

Just want to say, I love myself more because of your videos and little things I changed in my behavior. When I am at work, with friends, girlfriend, with just one person or group of people, I am a more approachable and make better connections. Also I feel like I am respected more. It is hard to sum it up in one comment here. I never did any of your paid courses, but just from your free videos here on this channel I changed my life to better.

@thecoffeecurator 10 месяцев назад

no, thank you for posting this dude i whole heartedly agree, i realize now i have been watchin their videos since i was in high school. truly they helped me grow into myself and for not a dime off my back

@goldiegolderman1842 10 месяцев назад

You done deepthroating him?

@dannymarchiori4289 10 месяцев назад

@@thecoffeecurator I've had the same experience. I've got a ton of value out of the podcast as well (which is also free)

@the21stsergeant 10 месяцев назад

Brad Pitt has always seemed like the nicest dude you could meet.

@matthewjohansson9159 10 месяцев назад

I've watched almost all of the videos released by Charisma on Command, and here's one of the big self-corrections I had to make on my journey of putting these tips into practice: Many of their videos give the guidance to make others feel comfortable around you, by 1) Complimenting 2) Playful teasting I've found that when I watched these videos, I often forgot the 1st and tried to capitalize on the 2nd. Because I've focused so much on how to get a laugh through teasing, I eventually lost what natural skill I had in complimenting others. And it's shown. So to anybody with a similar experience, go back to the first point, and be free in your conpliments to others. Thank you Charisma on Command for the awesome video!

@1936840 10 месяцев назад

This channel but this video specifically is so amazing. They really teach you emotional intelligence and act quick with social ques and make yourself memorable in the best way. Being a genuine human being. Just fantastic. I’ve been watching for years now and have made such drastic changes in my life.

@egb8728 7 месяцев назад

I used to do these things naturally. But life happens. I’m really appreciative for these examples and insights. They serve as reminders to be your best self.

@HeroicKhalid 15 дней назад

Same here.. used to be the #1 in the room.. now totally different due to live changes. Now i want bring back my old self

@armorykittington 10 месяцев назад

Man, I feel so emotionally dumb watching this, lol, but it's like every time I talk I forget there's this whole world outside my head. Sometimes I knock and there's nobody there. This video sets me back in place. Much love!! ^__^

@FeliciaSandiego 10 месяцев назад

thank you for the summary at the end! that really helps. I have today a big group event and feel uncomfortable talking (or just even being there: social anxiety), but I will try some of these tips. 🤞

@sparklepugtea 10 месяцев назад

Brads really just a great guy. Period 😂

@danielfdez4140 9 месяцев назад

This channel should be at the top of RU-vid, amazing content, congrats.

@marcob5549 10 месяцев назад

It is spot on that when you say "fake laugh", a clip of Jimmy Phallus briefly appears.

@ebarr9476 10 месяцев назад

The quiet types don't gossip and that's a plus

@MeatCatCheesyBlaster 10 месяцев назад

We have nobody to gossip to

@COLOMBIASXE 10 месяцев назад

You’re my favorite channel ever. Thank you for your work. 😍

@SabrinaConstance 10 месяцев назад

You're videos are amazing. Keep on rockin'!

@noblepolygon8694 10 месяцев назад

@3:52 I find watching comedy has taught me to make quips about different situations on the fly and making others around me laugh

@witch-kx8oe 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for the re-cap! 😊

@adilbek.ermekov 10 месяцев назад

We need more of these videos for our fellow introverts

@moviewryter1985 10 месяцев назад

I love your correct placement of Jimmy Fallon when you talk about a forced laugh.

@pandurangacr7863 9 месяцев назад

Your creative skills are awe inspiring❤

@ChristianSoschner 9 месяцев назад

This channel is awesome. Thanks for the content

@JohnVandivier 10 месяцев назад

Wish I had a curated short list of the best content from this channel

@chai_lattes 10 месяцев назад

Can you do a video on how to engage other people to ask you questions back? I feel like conversations with people I'm still getting to know never really go anywhere. I'm curious about them, but I'd also like to be shown that same curiosity. Anyone else having this problem?

@hipnhappenin 10 месяцев назад

Maybe start off with talking about you first. Like, "I recently started getting into x hobby. Have you heard of x or what is your experience with x?" I don't think you should worry about being self-absorbed. Odds are they don't mind you giving some information about yourself, they're just too clueless to ask

@chai_lattes 10 месяцев назад

@@hipnhappenin I've tried that before, but whenever I share something about myself that could be used as a jumping off point to further conversation, the response is so dull. Like they don't really respond one way or another. Not much interest or reaction, definitely no follow up question. So I'm just like...?😂 It's really strange because even if I like the person, the interaction feels a little lopsided and perplexing, and I walk away feeling kind of lonely for a couple days. I do think it's mainly an issue of people not knowing how to, so I'm trying not to think so deeply on it and focus on what does work for me within the friendship.

@c.s2193 10 месяцев назад

@@chai_lattesThere’s also the possibility that the person you’re trying to talk to has no interest and is just being nice about it. I’ve been on both sides, it’s frustrating

@NA-hz6ic 10 месяцев назад

This is a tip from one of their other recent videos about Chris Pratt: "Learn having fun with yourself." Then, when you are out or in a conversation, look for ways you could have some fun. This time you are not in the conversation to learn something about someone else or getting yourself noticed. You are simply trying to have some fun for yourself. Side effect: People will find you interesting, but you won't even care anymore ;) If you try it out, please let me know how it went

@chai_lattes 10 месяцев назад

@@c.s2193 There's a possibility😂 It's definitely an insecurity that comes up for me. 1) The awkwardness and difference in communication style makes me feel lonely, and 2) Do they even like me??? Sometimes the beginnings of friendship can be awkward and clunky. I really appreciate that these friends make an effort to message me and make plans that we actually follow through on. Hopefully, we can break down the wall of awkwardness together.

@js2sgamer951 10 месяцев назад

You should make a video about the tv show 'would I lie to you" It shows really good examples of charismatic and funny people, great story telling, good and poorly executed banter. I would love to know how the hosts of the show are seemingly effortlessly funny and why when other guests sometimes attempt to make a joke it doesnt get received as well.

@Sudeshsspanchal 10 месяцев назад

Love your content ❤️❤️❤️

@itachiuchiwa6875 6 месяцев назад

I already smile like this while talking, but instead of this confidence it’s that nervous smile

@Werdxp 10 месяцев назад

Another great video Ben

@baneinvestment917 10 месяцев назад

Do one just in brad Pitt. I know people only see his face but I think they are attracted to his personality over his looks.

@tobiaseaton200 6 месяцев назад

if he only had the face he'd be another high fashion stonefaced model. but theres a reason he was the leading hollywood man in 80s and 90s

@ericswinton8742 10 месяцев назад

I love how you still have to be an extrovert for this

@rae5954 10 месяцев назад

You should do a breakdown of Barney about his charisma and charm! (from how I met your mother) It would be a super helpful video

@TheHumanRanger 10 месяцев назад

Be your best self!

@homiekeen23 9 месяцев назад

We need more womens examples 🥲

@BD-or5yh 9 месяцев назад

Was a huge Brad Pitt fan before and now I’m a even bigger fan!

@nahorletap 10 месяцев назад

I recommend for you guys to make a video on Jon Zherka. Dude is so charismatic, yes he says some crazy stuff but every podcast he's on and every video I've seen him on, he's always the star of the show. I watched both his podcasts with Bradley Martyn, I watched them both, start to finish.

@itismeanttobe 10 месяцев назад

i already do these things thanks to your videos . PHEW that's a relief. I find myself overthinking it sometimes but i realized these tips are just guidelines for your inner self everybody has a unique strength of expression

@Fwransen 10 месяцев назад

nice, simply what i need

@pandeni4512 4 месяца назад

This is my favorite yet coz I have a similar personality

@J0yB0mbad1l 10 месяцев назад

Gwyneth Poltrow's story about BP is so cool🔥

@Ubi22 6 месяцев назад

Good stuff thank u

@Iksiksinski. 17 дней назад

This is my one of Favorites stories / i never Forget

@etylenodiamina 9 месяцев назад

Hi guys, 3rd season of The Morning Show is out now. Please do Cory Elisson!

@abaker4692 10 месяцев назад

Smile, always. Move with confidence. Know your worth.

@josephrosati9921 8 месяцев назад

Best video you've made :)

@joegreat98 10 месяцев назад

i was at a party and i tried to strike a conversation with a group of guys i never met and found myself in an awkward situation not adding anything to the conversation. they were busy speaking about somebody I didn't know. how to have a good conversation finding yourself in the situation i hust described?

@egb8728 7 месяцев назад

Ask them how they know one another. Wait for the moment you have something in common. That’s you’re in.

@ethanbrunt7755 5 месяцев назад

A Duchenne smile is not just wrinkles around the eyes, they have to come in at an angle to be a genuine smile

@vonunterberg4313 10 месяцев назад

I have a problem that people like me on the first day, but get more distant when we continue to meet. Why is that?

@MusicAutomation 10 месяцев назад

Be extremely attractive

@Tropdop Месяц назад

This one hit different.

@Bekbolot-mw1gb 10 месяцев назад

I would like to see an analysis of Damon Salvatore's charisma from the Vampire Diaries

@iamapat 7 месяцев назад

I love how the video cuts to Jimmy Fallon laughing as he says you don't have to force the laugh

@Lyf-3276 10 месяцев назад

I do feel that status and looks naturally help though

@CygnusX-11 9 месяцев назад

the problem is that most people will mistake your kindness for weakness

@yuvaldemayo0 10 месяцев назад

love it, thank you

@sarkakulova5071 10 месяцев назад

More for introverts please

@kevinsims2876 3 месяца назад

4:15 I was one of those guys that said "girls don't like nice guys" and it was painful of the idea to think nice guys finish last but the problem is I didn't have insight. If there was a grizzly bear in the group I wouldn't nearly give her the attention as a 10. Just let things happen and be in the flow of the moment and give props to people where you see fit without it becoming nauseating 💁🏽‍♂️

@jgprice9990 10 месяцев назад

The advice in this video is really good but why do i feel like it never works irl for me.

@axtonjcranston1064 10 месяцев назад

Your advice is great and all, I've seen many of them, but you use professionally trained actors in so many examples, they are in situations and have natural skill to use these tricks, it's not really transferrable to normal daily life for the rest of us. You should use broadcasters, interviewers, or ted talks or even student demo reels of what works and what doesn't. Anything to make it more realistic for 99.9% of the population.

@jeffzest8393 10 месяцев назад

Valid point. Actors can make articial appear genuine. Further, actors generally have great upturned symmetrical smiles to go with good looks. Advice may have merit, just more difficult for most to execute.

@pawelp9219 9 месяцев назад

Fully agree.

@TheSodaShop 9 месяцев назад

But on the other side, wouldn't you want to learn these skills from the best of the best?? The guys are so good wouldn't you want to observe them??

@itsabdelg 10 месяцев назад

bradd pitt starring this youtube video too be like 😂

@MarkRayner1998 10 месяцев назад

Has anyone done the program? Is it worth it?

@liljoe3378 10 месяцев назад

can you make a Channing Tatum charisma video? it would be nice

@andriyzolotov 10 месяцев назад

Guys, you're the best

@jackthefrog80085 3 месяца назад

Thank you, now i am good at humaning

@user-ff9rx7kq2g Месяц назад

I would say I love this video and thank you, but I'm an introvert

@PumperPanda95 10 месяцев назад

How do I do that Duchenne Smile?

@homiekeen23 9 месяцев назад

My problem is I am quiet + awkward + insecure + not physically attractive 🙃🙃 I need to be remade completely 😂

@godloveskaren 10 месяцев назад

Summary of the tips is at 8:10.

@facubeitches1144 10 месяцев назад

How to be extremely likable using 7 words.... um, ok. "I have free cocaine for everyone here!"

@conor2079 10 месяцев назад

Next video on Michael Scofield from prison break. Pleaseeee Btw nyc video

@TheGreatGYROFLUFF 7 месяцев назад

Does anyone know how to prevent the resentment response that people often have later down the line after you help them in a time of need? It's not an uncommon occurrence when people feel an immeasurable dept to someone who helped them for them to turn it into resentment to free them from the cognitive dissoance.

@TonySoprano007 10 месяцев назад

Please do Tony Soprano

@sp-uf6tx 8 месяцев назад

Great video! But I personally dispise the pre-scentence laugh, it annoys me a lot when people to it

@mattnguyen1672 10 месяцев назад

Can you make one about aragorn

@isaisa967 10 месяцев назад

I feel like I am naturally charming. But I still get rude glances and people treat me like I’m nothing. I go to Uni here in Texas and I attended a frat event and literally everytime I was speaking theses people would roll their eyes

@scientiaorbis 10 месяцев назад

So maybe you might not be as "naturally charming" as you think?

@sancho608 9 месяцев назад

You’re probably just very cringe and socially unaware ngl

@TheRealHerbaSchmurba 10 месяцев назад

@oyeeHunter 10 месяцев назад

Does it Mean Brad pitt is an Introvert 😮😮❤❤❤

@captaindusk8097 10 месяцев назад

that random soprano clip 😂

@MommaOsoIrish67 4 месяца назад

I'm now in my 50s. I've owned my own custom built home, I've been homeless, and everything ib between. I recently didca luttle self reflection on my dreams..what they used to be, and what they are now. I used to dream of being married, the big house on land, 2.5 kids, the shining new car, "white picket fence" life. Now, my dream is to have a safe, sound roof over my head with a comfortable bed, a reliable vehicle,and enough mobey to pay my bills without worry, pay for my medical needs and to keep healthy food in the fridge. I don't NEED designer clothes. I don't NEED flashy jewelry or the newest tech. Would it be nice to be able to travel and see new places? Yes. Would it be fun to be able to purchase something i see just because I want it? Yes. But I don't NEED to have enough money for those kinds of things in order to be at peace, to be happy.

@peted2757 10 месяцев назад

Do a video on asap rocky

@dowhatnow3560 5 месяцев назад

Adam Sandler was starstruck in that interview with Brad

@davidfariello3972 10 месяцев назад

Be really good looking if you are quiet is the message.

@imomuganda 10 месяцев назад

This channel in a nutshell: Be kind.

@matthewthomas9189 7 месяцев назад

Man, in addition to being that handsome, Brad Pitt is also charismatic AF.

@lamborghinicentenario2497 10 месяцев назад

how do you have relaxed eye contact though I always look intense and angry

@LollieVox 10 месяцев назад

Lol that’s funny! A Mona Lisa smile helps

@ry_an. 10 месяцев назад

Practice your eye contact looking at people on screen

@colinmoras2385 10 месяцев назад

Press your tongue to the roof of your mouth. The rest of your face will relax.

@Lemon-Aid_01 3 месяца назад

Him:- "Watch something you know will make you laugh before you go out" me: who sees my brother's face right after he wakes up everyday:

@AmerigoGadsden 10 месяцев назад

I'm a hard-spoken introvert.

@EscapeRealityMedia 5 месяцев назад

what if your smile scares people asking for a friend

@carpediemearth 25 дней назад

Despite Brad Pitt being widely considered one of the most attractive men in the history of famous people, notice how the comments aren't all "be attractive", as they are in the videos highlighting women. When 90% of Brad's fame and supposed charm was from his attractiveness.

@thecommonsensecapricorn 10 месяцев назад

How do any women get over Brad Pitt? The most basic thing about me is that I absolutely love him.

@cezreycor 3 месяца назад

The lifekind. Perchance.

@sentientAl 10 месяцев назад

aww I had no idea brad Pitt had a sweet personality

@DMTandSHROOMS 10 месяцев назад

God, I’ve been killing it for 33 years. Not in a good way.😅

@user-vt4yg9nu3m 9 месяцев назад

I dont know how to use these tips in real life on people. Any Advice?

@vigil3429 7 месяцев назад

This is basically what you do when you're engaged in any normal conversation and they're situational, most social skills are situational and you need to pay attention to the person, understand and empathize, you can learn the ideas of how to socialize, but, what you say and do will depend on the person who's at your side, how they feel and the conversion, you can't apply these things as a step by step manual. For example, if you talk with a person that never makes jokes, you can laugh at their jokes, no situation for that. You could still help them, be friendly, make them engage in an anecdote you want to tell them. If you're in a restaurant, you could treat well to your friends or date while also treating well to the waiter/tress, showing you're kind with everybody, what you'll tell them it again depends on the situation, "thanks, good service", that could be said in almost every instance, "you brought my order so fast, thanks", that'd be situational.

@United_Wings 10 месяцев назад

Amazing

@mamodokod4613 8 месяцев назад

Man remember when skipping ads ment skipping both ads😢

@user-nk4zo4do4h 9 месяцев назад

great video but for anyone interested in the gwenyth paltrow bit: " Angelina Jolie says she and ex-husband Brad Pitt 'fought' about him working with Harvey Weinstein. The three-time Golden Globe winner, 46, addressed the alleged abuse she faced during the 1998 Weinstein-produced film Playing by Heart, in which she starred at age 21, noting in an interview with The Guardian's Weekend magazine that she downplayed the encounter at the time. 'If you get yourself out of the room, you think he attempted, but didn't, right? The truth is that the attempt and the experience of the attempt is an assault,' Jolie said, adding: 'It was beyond a pass, it was something I had to escape.'" Sounds like he's not really there for people who need him, he's just a bit possessive.

@WilliamJonesChess 10 месяцев назад

Top Moments. For each key moment, I have put a heading for me to refer back to. [square brackets are own thoughts] Smile 0:48 speak through a smile Hook 2:12 use a one line hook which captivates a listener. This is my favourite Adam Sandler story. [This also increases respect from person who you are complimenting] 2:37 another one line hook is 'I will never forget.' Funny 3:22 you have a shootable face [When you laugh at other's jokes, you appreciate their skill level. I am certain the actor now really likes Brad as we saw Brad burst out laughing !!] Do not do this 4:22 selective kindness. Do not do it as it appears not nice. Shared Joy [This is Mudita. A big idea mentioned in the book 'Think like a Monk' by Jay Shetty] 5:05 Eevate others. Hence people will love being around you. Defend others. Be there for them. 6:36 be a shield in their shield wall 7:30 He leveraged his fame and power to defend me at a time when I had no fame yet. He is a good person. Summary 8:38 all key points written out Thank you for this video Charisma !!