*Become good at what u do and if ur not good already then just embrace the process and know that eventually u will be good anyway. Nobody is good at the beginning* 🙏
My takeaway is that it's very important to love yourself and believe in yourself! Also to think you can do something even if no one else does. I want to be a public speaker and reach thousands of people with my videos. I know I don't have the natural talent for it, but I still believe that I can do it!
Too many coaches try to coach every athlete the same way! But you have to coach each one individually to have success. Same with parenting, in business, and leading in any way.
The thing about lying to yourself really impacted me. I think its key how knowledgeable you are about a certain thing. The more you learn about something the more you can legitimately convince your subconscious mind. If the path of learning leads to a different outcome than you want, stop the learning process in that area once you reach a desirable state. So I guess the problem with self talk is to much, or to little information. Thanks for the awesome content!
Inside suffering is the seed of change. Came across this quote recently as it resonates with my current situation. Wish all the best of luck to all those affected by the pandemic. May God be with you.
Love the rainy day notes. And ohhh boy, listening to my intuition. Confidence has been the thing that derailed me in life. AND perfectionism! BUT what happens when others place so much emphasis on perfection? I’ve lost jobs because companies didn’t understand the process - especially marketing. If you screw up while trying things and get fired? How do you interpret that for another opportunity? Do you tell them what you learned and you were let go?
Energy tools deeply change ingrained beliefs & patterns. I loved seeing the beginnings of using energy by questioning & muscle testing at 49:31-51:51 (you don't have to push that hard when testing)! Now if you use energy tools to do the rest of the releasing, magic & miracles happen!
Dreams are real and exist now in other dimensions. Focus your awareness of what you want and you will find yourself in your dream here and now as your present reality.
Your comments regarding NEGATIVE feedback versus CRITICAL feedback were most helpful. Feedback is vital to personal development and growth, but narrowing the flow of feedback to only that which is helpful and healthy is key. Thank you for sharing your expertise with us.
The most valuable video in the whole internet. Selfconfidence is a key to everything and i mean it. Im workin on Self confidence with my psychologist plus im lookin for more about it on internet and in the books and in 3 months from Little shy boy that never spoke with girls to grown as man ''beast" im hitin to girls on the streets havin fun, no fears no doubt about myself. Family and friends in the work askin me "what happend". Im reborn like no joke.
The Different is mind set of people and different ❤️ of people...good and bad is different . .hates and respect is different Bcoz its a gift to learner's how to Respect to other's in this born this way who u are and who we are!
I am happy I watched this interview. I struggle a lot with negative self-talk and ruminating on problems rather than opportunities. So the #1 thing I learned from this is how important it is to center yourself, stop accept that no one is perfect and use positive affirmations to recalibrate and focus on your goals.
Great interview! I really struggled with the whole "lying to yourself" issue. No matter how I adjusted my self talk, there were certain things I just couldn't believe about myself or convince myself were true about me. What changed? Jesus. I met Jesus.. for real, for real. Not some Church version of Jesus. I met the God of the universe, who shows up and speaks back. It was a slow process, but over the better part of a decade I was able to take Jesus' word (the Bible, the Truth).. and meditate on that until I began to believe it for ME. I saw huge shifts in myself. Completely defeating fear in my life. Destroying 99.99% of anxiety. Becoming a risk taker. Comfortable in uncomfortableness. Thriving on confrontation. And so much more. Maybe I was weak. Maybe my self-awareness wouldn't let me "go there.." but I had to find truth, THE Truth, before my heart would allow me to begin to believe it. I'm still, by most worldly standards "a nobody." But inside I feel like an absolute GIANT. And there WILL be a day when I step into my purpose and destiny on this plant. It's no longer if or I hope or when ... it's only a matter of time 😁⚡️Much love. Thanks for this interview! Great stuff! God bless
@Ivan Joseph Leadership Yes of course absolutely, my pleasure in doing so☆ I know You will be interviewed by Oprah Winfrey Eventually if You haven't already been☆☆☆☆☆
i loved this.. it is so true the people that hurt us the most teaches us the most if we willing to reflect.. I written on my wall I got this as it always a battle to continue to believe in yourself yet get out of your comfort zone and try new things
Realizing some people need to get into a different headspace is eye opening. Like some get too hyped up and can’t perform. so they need something calming and vice versa. I’m going to think about this for myself! Let’s get it. Thanks
Wow! Wow! I’m a month late to the party but never the less I’m truly inspired. I came here as a result of Ted talk and I’ve taken so much nuggets to use to develop and maintain my self confidence. Thanks Lewis for making this happen. Much appreciated Dr Ivan Joseph for the invaluable nuggets. Please can you advise the exact code to input for the discount on your book you got this. I used Lewis Howes but it’s came up with error message that it’s not recognised
As a special ed teacher I've learned that if I give my students immediate verbal gratification for the smallest completed task they are motivated to continue learning no matter how challenging the work is.
Happiness is a byproduct of finding and following your north star. What lights you up? What shuts you down? What is the best decision you took during the last 18 months? And why? These two questions unveil your north star. This is my take on this powerful interview #Lewis.
For reference guys and girls, the arm pushing that Ivan is using, is called muscle testing, and it has waaay more and deeper implications, than what is just being discussed in the interview. I would recommend everybody, to look up Dr. David R. Hawkins works and read Power vs Force and The Art of Letting Go for more information.
Remember! U don't need to compared or compares the 1 harder different difficult species bcoz we are not same same wats incorrectly information beliefs wat is in mindset because it's showing up you not opened minded and you disrespectful the color and gender personality that i belong in this world because I am alive!
Confidence is a very stupid thing. If you have clarity you will find your way through many things. If you have confidence without clarity you'll blunder your way through many things. "Confidence Without Clarity Is A Disaster".
Maladaptive self-loathing is powerful quicksand created by your parents and/or caretakers. Like the quick sand in nature, you cannot escape without professional help.
I can't speak for Bezos, but I don't think he actually thought he was lying to himself when he thought of creating a trillion dollar company. He was pretty serious.
This endless universe is like the human body, and… all its parts are connected one with another and are linked together in the utmost perfection. That is, in the same way that the parts, members and organs of the human body are interconnected, and that they mutually assist, reinforce and influence each other, so too are the parts and members of this endless universe connected with, and spiritually and materially influenced by, one another. - Abdu’l-Baha
