How to Be Feminine With a BIG Personality 

thank you!! He doesn’t like being on camera but I know you all want to see him more, so today we just have a small clip. 😌🥰

it was so cute

He should make videos about being more masculine haha

Everything's Embarassing yes! Help us turn the boys of this generation around

i guess I am kinda randomly asking but do anyone know a good website to stream new tv shows online?

Ikr hopefully she does a tutorial+!

Princess yesss! Even though we aren’t the same skin tone I still wanna know the products she uses. I think really naturally makeup like this looks very pure and youthful!

Omg I’m so happy there is another POC who wants to be more feminine and watches her videos. I think it’s really important for us to learn to embrace our inner femininity since our society is obsessed with ig baddies etc. 💗💗💗💗

Jojo BEAN! Hey girl!!! Nice to see you here! And I totally agree. I’m so tired of either seeing Ig baddies or the ratchet bonnet and pajamas outside looks.

@@jojobean9465 yay omg I feel valid lmao

Hannah Pocock oh my daysss!! Yes this is most definitely needed, especially with this generation of teens...

Correct me if I'm wrong, but your picture says "God made me." Right? Are you a Christian? ❤

My first tip would be to keep things as private as possible. Wheather you're in the right or wrong, you don't want to be the topic of gossip in school. It's not classy to have a reputation of always being "catty/ trashy" bc you fight all the time.

FaithWisdom She is a Christian.

Hannah Pocock Sometimes you don’t need to react right away. Take time to process. If someone is directly confronting you, I would calmly say..”I love your passion and I want to take time to give you a well deserved response. I take longer to process.” Sometimes I take a few days to respond to someone. If it’s a group or random conversation, maybe be more agreeable or passive. I believe we should pick our battles and I avoid confrontation when I can. Remember there is a difference between having a healthy debate and interacting with someone who is just being aggressive. Learn to pay attention to these different types of people and only engage in healthy interactions. If you start practicing healthy communication and actively pursue people who communicate healthy as well, you will grow into a lovely woman. Good luck !

Yes! This is how I feel too 🤣 😊

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Be you and apply honing in on the qualities of both into a feminine nurturing way :]

that's so mee

Charlo Walliset I feel the same way!

Why do you think that your masculinity (or a woman's feminity) is based on your partner? You can have no partner and still be a masculine man/ a feminine woman. You can have a feminine partner and still be feminine yourself. You can have a masculine partner and still be masculine. What about quiet, thoughtful men who are sweet and caring? Are they not masculine if they are with a bold woman? Or, the opposite: Are sweet and quiet (generally feminine) women suddenly not feminine anymore if they are with a sweet and gentle man? One really doesn't have much to do with the other!

Marina m our culture in general celebrates domineering people male or female

I think this is also a problem for males trying to be more masculine but constantly are told to curb the testosterone 🤷‍♀️

I am very much the same way. I am more introverted, as well as reserved, and when I look back at my friendship history through my life, I tended to both look for and naturally attract more dominant personalities who liked to be in charge, and those relationships have largely been unhealthy and manipulative, like you mentioned. As a result, now in my late 20s I still very much have to work on building community around me, as I am almost calculating to a fault with who I allow myself to become friends with. Unfortunately, other women have hurt me a lot in the past, and it had me put myself into that cliché, “I get along better with men, women are too catty” mentality. Because of this, now as a late 20’s, married woman, I can easily allow myself to become isolated. It can be difficult to branch out and develop communities of healthy, feminine women around you! I have found myself gravitating towards women who are much older than me that I feel are more stable, secure, and maybe even more traditional.

Rachel Jane this is something I have struggled with myself as well, it feels as if you took the words out of my mouth, even to seeking older women as friends. They are so wise and thoughtful! The friends I have the most meaningful conversations with that are of my peers however are definitely more introverted. These I love to go to coffee shops and spa days or do something creative with. I loved hearing your perspective, this may be something I’ll share in a video soon🌹

Thanks lol we often worry if we're doing too much lol

I have definitely experienced the big personality women and at times they become too aggressive

I do think women need to learn to trade or some useful employment in case of something like what you mentioned happens but I still think, for those women, they made the right choice for themselves and their families. There's always a risk. That's life.

@@sandypuentes866 well said i agree completely!

A lot of women will start nagging the man. Pretty soon darned if he does or not. He feels he can’t win. Then he starts finding other women. So I bet it’s a little more involved because of them staying home. If you make your man happy then you’ll get that in return.

@@melstyle7619 a naggy wife is no reason to break vows u made in front of your family m, friends and if you're religous, God.

@@melstyle7619 I agree with In Es below. I don't know if it's a great path to go down if people start blaming the wife for her husband cheating on her...

Free Spirited Dreams Oh my goodness! I am an ENFP as well and just noticed this in myself thanks to your input. I've always wondered if I was an ambivert and confused about being an ENFP because I range from feeling extroverted to liking my space and feeling shy. That's why I've watched this video lol because I think I range somewhere between?

I am like this as well! And for awhile I have lacked self trust and wanting to fit into a box so that I can feel accepted because I don’t accept myself but that shit is OVER!

Oh my goodness was legit thinking the same thing. Like we are influential, but also very eccentric and need our space. Also, does mrs midwest say what her mbti personality type is? And if so is it in one of her vids or a blog post? Would be interested what she thinks about it

Mind if I share some youtube channels with you?

Asia K I get what you mean. Sometimes less is more. Rhetorically, there’s a bit of circular reasoning & lots of repetition happening in this video which makes it hard to follow at points. Usually you’re quite structured, though, Cait! Just a suggestion to improve even more. I watch every video with lots of joy and gratitude to you 💓

Some of us need and want repetition. I feel so relieved after watching this video. It answered what I needed to hear. Moses also was repetitive and God used him in a mighty way. After all, she’s the one with 55,000 subs.

We are always early lol😂

My favorite crew! 🥰😘

@@itsneomie 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋‍♀️ This is us lol

@@MrsMidwest Yay! Have a lovely day and God bless you.

Parps I would like this as well! I got a bunch of tattoos and piercings when I was 18, and now it isn’t really my style anymore (go figure, lol), but doesn’t really leave much option other than to try and still be, and feel, feminine while having those tattoos and piercings. Though I regret it personally (I recognize others do not and that’s great!) I want to learn to allow them to add to my femininity somehow.

Parps I think you can still be feminine with tattoos and piercings. It’s more of an energy for me. Women have piercing for ages and it was always seen as feminine

Wouldn’t tattoos go against this Christian position she holds?

On her Instagram she mentioned she's an enfp 😊 not sure about her husband I'm very curious as well

She commented on one video that she is an ENFP/INFP and her husband is an ENTJ.

What makes you believe you're stupid? 💗

@@faithwisdom788 I don't have social skills..I grew up with mostly boys around so I had nobody to hang out with except one girl later on who was a few years older than me and she left after a couple of years I've been in HS since last year and I made no proper friend because I can't fit in and don't know how if I can I was bullied for most of my life,l,I especially remember once in 2016 my class CRUSHED me for a week,I uploaded a video (which I wont get in detail what it is but it's just a fun non harmful video with my class in it with less than 100 views) and my class told my teacher and said she'd tell my parents and they made fun of me for an entire week and was in anxiety,stress and tears all that time and in 2015 on Twitter and Instagram I was constantly made fun of even by those I considered friends..I was literally just a dumb 12 year old and they were years and years older than me,they did get their karma later in 2016 or so, I haven't heard from any of them since as I said I'm hot tempered and I get annoyed and boggled easily and rage things out like a crazy and can even become 'sassy'' maybe I'd love to help everyone and give money to those in need but I detest doing it in front of them,I can't give a homeless person money on the street because of my shyness and also annoyance of their non stop'''God bless you'' (even though I am religious and love God) I'd rather send from afar

@@faithwisdom788 I don't really look at the bullying as smth traumatizing but it can remind me of my stupidity,I often do things that I later on make me realize I am a mess of a person Whenever I remembe rwhat happened on instagram and twitter,I feel so awkward and just embarassed of my own self..I KNOW that the bullying was caused because of the way I behaved for the MOSt part..Even though..I wasn't harmful or insultive at leats from what I remember :/ I for example literally made the dumbest joke ever.. They call the PC gaming community the ''PC master race'' And I said ''those who don't think games/MKX should not be on PC are racist'' something like that,I can't recall the exact sentence

@@xxgamergirlxx7917 www.nytimes.com/interactive/2016/02/12/science/when-albert-einstein-was-wrong.html

@@xxgamergirlxx7917 We have weaknesses and strengths. You're not so dull are you that you miss the fact that your social skills are lacking if they are 🙂. You're seeking wisdom I presume? Just by being on this video one could guess so. There's some that do not seek to learn. Remember that.

Insomnia Really? I actually love this color on her.

I love that color

Insomnia i love how sweet you were with your opinion and how thoughtful you were with how you said it ❤️

Insomnia that was an arkward ass/backhanded compliment. That same lipstick color landed her a husband ok. And as a *big* *personality* woman, that's all that matters💯

@@AprilHarmony9 uhhh...an opinion and advice on what colors suit her isn't an insult. A comment about lipstick is hardly considered an insult. 😂😂

Debojyoti Ghosh hello fellow indian

All the love for you too my dear! 😌😘

Yes it is! :)

I studied philosophy in school, and learned many theological arguments, with readings from the Quran, Talmud, and Bible. I was raised without any church. And have not found any religion or spiritualism for me. Many of the justifications based on god or gender seemed platitudinous and simplistic. And many of the qualities you list as feminine are not unique to women.