How To Become A Master In The Art of Public Speaking (Part 1 of 2) | Eric Edmeades 

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I got asked to do a 4-hour seminar/workshop at my former college at the start of the year. I reluctantly said yes. In the weeks and days leading up to it I constantly had butterflies in my stomach. Two days before it I even contemplated cancelling. But I stuck it out and did it. Actually really enjoyed it. And afterwards had a feeling like I just won the lottery. Getting out of your comfort zone and challenging yourself is hugely rewarding. Embrace the fear!

An amazing talk. So, the first thing is to never tell the audience that you are nervous, gaze slowly not stare, breathe deeply because it is a sign that you are safe, and just look at his body language. Truly, a master speaker.

1. Breath deeply 2. We gaze 3. We see it coming out beautifully 4. We never let audience see us nervous 5. We start the talk with the predictable laugh Thank y'all so much dearest 🌹 Y'all such an inspiration 🥰 Be Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈

Incredible: talked for an hour and twenty without notes or PowerPoint slides. Effortless public speaking - a masterclass. If he had been talking for that long in a language I don't even understand, I could still have learned a lot about technique - and I talk to people for a living. Bravo!

"Excitement is nervousness about something cool."

I think the best decision I've made today was clicking on this video. This is more than a great talk, it is simply a great experience!

19:02 A study found that taller, good looking people got hired for this one reason. Confidence. They didn't hire them for their looks, being taller. When you go in for an interview. Your confidence is going to land you that job.

What a brilliant talk! I had no intention to watch it this evening, I was going to save it for later, but once I started listening I couldn't stop. Terrific!

I am 12 minutes and 45 seconds in and I can give this man my approval or thumbs up. He seems genuine, he speaks well and he comes baring gifts.

I have decided to write down a kind of "OVERVIEW" of BOTH the first and second part. With overview I do not mean timestaps, rather I mean things he said (note however, that I write them down in the same order as he is telling them in his talk). All the things I am going to write are from him, some sentences word by word, some sentences changed a bit. I will divide my writing in Part 1 and Part 2, but I will not provide any timestaps. Further note, that Eric uses stories/examples to make things more clear/visual, which I do not provide in this overview. That said, I hope this will be helpful for some people. Edit: If anyone wants me to add something to the "list", please let me know :). Or just share your thoughts in the comments. If I find something particularly valuable, I will add it myself here (so that people do not have to read all the comments). ############################### PART 1 ############################### - stories make it possible for us to survive; our DNA loves stories; - speaking is one of the most powerful forces there is in our society; - being a speaker, being comfortable sharing your ideas, being influential in the way you communicate can triple or more your income; - speaking obliterates all other advantages (e. g. height, gender); it is the most powerful thing you can do for your professional life; - we were NOT born to be afraid of public speaking/communicating; - the minute you start producing cortisol and adrenaline, you step back in time in your brain; you go to the more primitive parts of your brain; the more scared you are, the more primitive you go; we become more pessimistic and we lose touch with our proper brain; - children are the toughest audience ever; - Fear of missing out (FOMO) can absolutely get in your way of creating an incredible financial future; - Today, if you want to influence people, you have to start to think about them, talk to them; - Always have really clear, strategic objectives before communication (e. g. have fun); - Never let the audience notice that you are nervous (otherwise you will not believe people; their prais & warm words are platitudes & lies); - never go overtime; - your breathing has everything to do with how safe you feel; - when we are only operating on instinct everything will look scarier than it really is, because it is safer that way; - when you breathe really full, you communicate to your DNA that your environment is safe; - Excitement is nervousness about something cool and nervousness is just excitement about something scary; _______________________________________________ - Things to make you feel better going on stage: *breathing deeply *using your eyes in a soft, gazing way *we see the presentation coming out beautifully *we never let the audience see us nervous *be predictable in that first bit of your talk; know exactly what you're going to say so that you can create a predictive response from the audience in the first 30 seconds _______________________________________________ ############################### PART 2 ############################### - The stage effect is the unfair advantage that you create for yourself by standing in front of an audience; - The quality of your presentation plus the size of the audience creates the level of attraction you create as a speaker (e. g. views on RU-vid); - nothing will create a more lasting impression than face-to-face contact, but it is not very practical; - face-to-face contact, however, is even more powerful face-to-faces; - one of the greatest tools of the introvert is learning how to be great at storytelling and standing on stage because then you don't have to go meet people; the come and meet you; _______________________________________________ - Broad spectrum appeal: deliver with broad spectrum, i. e. in a way where the audience likes what is going on even if the topic is not a direct match for them *USE STORIES (stories are the operating system of the human mind) **stories can trigger emotion; no emotion -> no memory; emotion is the glue that causes memories to stick; **remember to deliver information in story format (you don't need to know a lot of stories); **one of the important type of stories to tell are metaphorical or allegorical, where you tell a story that the audience wants to hear but that's teaching them something else; **stories are broad spectrum automatically; *USE A RANGE OF VOCAL TECHNIQUES **deliver with passion; be who you are; put heart and soul into your talk; **you should know you story so well that you can tell them with imperfections; _______________________________________________ - Communication frequencies: *VISUAL: like to talk in picture; usually quickly and loudly; *AUDITORY: more steady tone; talk with a predictable cadence; in a way that is quite pleasant to listen to for a short period of time; use words like "listen to me", "I'd like to share"; *KINESTHETIC: talk really quietly; use long pauses; give you time to process the things they've said; use words like "feeling", "warmth" and "connection"; - The spread of those type of communication frequencies within the audience is more thermostatic than discrete (i. e. 30% of that type, 40% of that, etc.); - you need to speak to the audience in the language they want to hear; _______________________________________________ - Charisma Pattern: *Start with Kinesthetic people; building rapport with them; *as you start to warm up the auditory people start to notice (the kinesthetic people still think it is a good talk eventhough it's come up; it's called pacing and leading (a term from NLP)); *finally you build up to crescendo; visual people start to notice (the kinesthetic people still like your talk because you took them there); _______________________________________________ - when stories are being told and delivered well, you create Time Warp, you create illusion; _______________________________________________ -Remember: *BREATHE PROPERLY; push your stomach out as you breathe not your chest; do two or three of those and you will feel better; *USE YOUR EYES softly and gaze out at the world; you will create a feeling of being incredibly relaxed; *NERVOUSNESS AND EXCITEMENT are effectively the same thing; if you can learn to create better pictures in your head you will transition your nervousness into excitement; *START YOUR TALK with a really predictable beginning; _______________________________________________ - you can only dream and fantasize from the position you're in right now;

Watching Eric for first time taught me a lot about myself & learning to engage with the audiences without fear.

I like the way he repeatedly asks 'Is it true?' to reinforce his point!

In One hour and 20 min talk without Um, er, ah and PowerPoint slides. This is master!

Eric is the man. These free public speaking themed talks have made me a way better public speaker. A specific plan from an expert will change your life!

“We like stories because its the primary operating system of the body” “Stories are best way to write new information in” @17:04

I have no words to describe how your talk has just changed my life. You have simplified concepts in a way I can go and apply with confidence.

I just lack patience I have never watched a complete speech vedio of more than half an hour. And I watched this talk without a single break (both the parts). Enjoyed as if it's a interesting series. With all the contents needed like moral, entertainment and what not! A complete power pack! Watching this gave a incredible lesson for life. Great thanks to Eric!

He is a pro, n he is so natural. You can only be confidence as a speaker if u know your topic in n out. His attire helps him to relax n be comfortable. Imagine if you are in your best suit. Makes you too formal n robotic. Good for speakers to dress in a comfortable manner.🙂

He taught the students how to public speak while public speaking

This was exactly what I have been looking for. The polishing I was needing. Not looking at traveling on speaking engagements, just improving in the small groups of approx 50 people a couple times a week. I'm going to guzzle everything I can find that you've done. Thank you

Eric Edmeades is a phenomenal speaker, hands down. My perception about this guy has completely changed - I clearly remember skipping those Mindvalley ads in which he talked.

BAM! Love it! This is exactly what I do to help others through hypnosis and NLP. Amazing talk, by Eric. Thank you!

I like the cigarette analogy. That's the way I quit, I just started taking a deep breath when I thought I was wanting a cigarette. I think it's about having an emotion. So I'd examine what feeling I was having, take a deep breath and let it go. So easy. So much good info here. Thanks for sharing.

Yep, breath is everything! So glad to hear this.

Starts off a little slow, but rightfully so, to get your brain to calm down and start focusing, and then it gets really really good. Lots of golden nuggets in this talk. Thanks Mindvalley for sharing! 😁

How brilliant speaker he is! I am blessed to have watched this video. He is so amazing!

I had some pending work to be completed but once i started his video I could not stop watching . I was excited by his cool dress and casual attitude of training. worth watching.

I'm always shy to speak in public, although I'm a teacher and trainer of hundreds of teachers in my country. I love to listen to his speech, becoz I get speed in his way of delivery.

All thumbs up for you Eric and all the guys in MV. Great speech and control of audience emotions and expectations! Wanna see it over and over ..and sign up for more👍

22:00 even I got nervous and... I am sitting at home !! lol

The thing he said about sigaret addiction, I swear I thought of something like that almost two years ago. Honestly I thought I wasn't making the most sense, but the way he explained it make me rethink. Absolutely love this man's brain.

This is so amazing. I can face a whole multitude now no more fears, no trembling, no horrible feeling and no nervousness.

Thanks I am so challenged by public speaking, but I am a learning. I am truly amazed by the way Eric has quite effectively presented the topic, very exciting and kept me awake throughout.

What a powerful speech! He is so comfortable with any audience! He masters the way it should be. I’ve learned so much with those part 1 and 2 videos. Thank you so much for that.

I can't believe I watched everything, i had no intention of watching it, but once I started, I couldn't stop. I learned so much from this talk. It's amazing how he had to teach for an hour without slides or notes😊😊

awesome... Really feel the passion of public speaking resurfacing in me... Thank Eric.. God bless

Great speech with energy and body language.

10 minutes into the video and I'm already sold. This is incredibly inspirational!

This is so so so powerful talk. the more I analyse, the more it's feel like I am so lucky today I land myself onto your talks. I lost my confidence for a long time about speaking in public in general, online meeting makes me scared and I know you guys must think it's something I must overacted because hell no just an online meeting scares me out? Yes. And I was completely different, I was unstoppable, I was confident, I wasn't afraid of even Vblog myself. Time passed with some sad stories, I lost myself and all of my confidence. But after this, it's just a spark of encouragement for me to walk back into the person I used to be, I just want to say thank you for saving my potentials not to drain down the trash. You are a great teacher, please keep talking! :D And please keep inspiring!

Incredible!! It doesn’t even feel like he’s working or that’s how he makes some of his money. It feels like he’s just having fun sharing insights with us. Just amazing!! Thanks much!!

I love your presentation, and I thank you for your advice and your clear way of communicating it. I study energy work and recently created my youtube channel. I hope to get on stage one day as well, and physically connect with those I teach. But I am struggling a bit with a silly fear of public speaking, as I put my focus upon the audience. Your advice was very helpful. Thanks again.

Eric is a great speaker, which makes it easy to let inaccurate statements slide. Watching this makes you realize it's possible to be a very persuasive speaker without being particularly knowledgeable.

OMG he's soooooo goooooooood, he's amazing! I didn't expect to watch the entire thing, but he's that good! Lol now my reflection paper on public speaking is going to be finished at 5 am instead of midnight. Thank you for all the tips.

Absolutely nothing against this man. He's earned his position in the public speaking world. I heard years ago that people see you before they hear you. I respectfully think he could benefit from the service of a stylist.

I am A.D.D. and this talk is very easy to listin to Thanks Eric.

i used to get so nervous on conference calls presenting for work to the point i could barely speak, i got to the point to where i was excited to do them. Ive came into a new position and i brought the skill and passion with me, but i had one call not go well, and now i have the same fear and anxiety prior to every call. Usually i do just fine, but i get that rush of anxiety every time no matter how well i did prior. Loved this talk, amazing communication skills.

you know the material is good when the time passes by and you don't notice. This speaker put me in flow!💛

Wow... I had jogging clothes and seriously planned to run! I literally watched the whole video (1 hour 18 minutes and 56 seconds!!! ) I REALLY MEAN IT!!! Awesome speech and great content!

This speech is very very very NOT boring....... Awesome guy, Awesome speech :) (Y)

just planned the best surprise party for my mom and gave the best speech i've ever given because of this video, thanks for your help sir! the best way to start progressing in life is by saving money, i promise nothing brings the confidence level up like a a good finance believe me!! i'm taking her to hawaii afterwards will tell you how the trip went

I’m really blessed watching this video and every seconds of this video counts a lot👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

I used your advise; never given a presentation in my life and a topic I wasn’t so interested in, I used stories, on each area I had to cover, it was awesome; thank you 🙏🏼

This is the second time I have listened to this presentation, and I love the manner in which it is presented as well as the meaningful, essential suggestions.

The way he engages the audience in every second is incredible.

My Goodness. This is a beautiful talk. I would have fallen off within the first five - ten minutes. So much material on RU-vid competing for my attention but can’t stop listening to him. Absolutely brilliant.

I'm a chef and I can totally relate!!! He's right beyond comprehension with that chef scenario

Thank you so much for your great speach God bless your life, your path, your mind, your share soul,your love and your family, thank you again

WOW!! well said . I can't even find the right words to describe how incredible this is . Amazing.

Its extremely important to take the first step, often times that is the toughest one. We need to be able to cross that bridge and everything else will follow.

thanks you Erik , for this awesome speech!

Starts with something relatable. Something that starts with vulnerability. A good story. Which gets your attention. Starting a talk is being prepared before walking on stage, and he just pumped up the audience by using an untrained audience to relate to this.

Yes I’m afraid of public speaking, I’m writing a self help book and i also read tarot cards and some how have to convince people I’m not crazy and my ideas have value. I know they have value I know my ideation is sound but public speaking is kicking my ass

This is one of the greatest Public speaking I watched. Heart touching and mind boggling!

So much for a topic. I loved that points are embedded subtly and I love the real flow of your presentation. Thank you for this very interesting and informative video.

Thank you for such an inspirational, entertaining talk. I laughed lots learnt lots

This video was in my bookmarks or at least a year, wish I knew how good it was, I would have watched it much sooner

This is beyond mastering the Art of speaking, his is a super power!!

Awesome speaker! Just perfect, it’s a long talk but I don’t mind, I’m hooked from the very beginning and I just don’t want it to end. He’s a very good story teller and conversationalist. I’ve learned a lot. Thanks Eric and Mindvalley. 👏

I didn't know who Eric was before watching this but, I really enjoyed his talk. I will watch pt. 2 but hopefully this opens more doors for me. In general I'm pretty quiet but, with friends I'm more open to people. I wish I could be like that with everyone. This talk is helping me with my public speaking especially at church. Thanks.

yoo keyss to my anxiety right now. from bedroom cave hobbit to needed to speak more in public. My anxiety kicks in heavily and we are still 2 weeks away from the event. This is truly a blessing💛

Just started my public speaking journey :) thank u

I didn't even realized its one hour video until it finished. Thank you sir for sharing with us your experience about the most scary place in the world "stage speaking "

I had no intention of watching this video right now and accidentally misclicked....ended up binge watching both parts. Absolutely captivating and insightful talk, thank you for this.

Eric, You have been running in my mind since i watched your these 2 parts. I am commenting this while i have just finished your this video 3rd time. I am sure i will do so great in my speaking career and i will meet you and say you Thank You for what are you doing for the world.

What I understood is : People love the "story" so market your product or whatever you want as a story and prepare for your meeting by setting a goal for your meeting or story.

Wow. The longest talk I’ve listen to but it’s worth my time. Impressive. So many points to implement. Thank you mind valley

I carefully listen the speaking of Eric Edmeades on Mindvalley Talks about the Art of public speaking made me amazing for his exceptional talent to capturing peoples mind.

I have always been fascinated with human behavior and from that I learned quite a lot, I tend to place myself in others shoes to understand their situation and I ask myself, if it were me, how would I feel, think, react? It has helped in understanding how to communicate with others. However, I have never been able to overcome this very fear of speaking in public. Great video, thank you.

really it's awesome speech and you communicate very well thanks a lot Eric for this and i am gonna share it with my friends and thanks Mindvalley Talks for this

This is an amazing video Thank You Eric Edmeades You are fantastic

You had a great time on the stage and you made me feel great listening your story Eric Edmeades . I Loved it from the beggining till the end.

thanks Eric for the great talk

Great video. "Never Split The Difference" by Chris Voss also talks about the power of no (~40min mark). It's very powerful. It's interesting how ubiquitous many of these ideas are in certain circles, but they are Only ubiquitous under the surface. How do you go below the surface - continuous learning and experimentation - like watching videos like this, reading books these enlightened souls wrote, and following their interests so you can learn how they learned.

WOW this was so valuable to me! thank you @Eric Edmeades and Mindvalley Academy. I am not going to let people know that I am nervous speaking or see me scared! thank you for the great advices! This is GOLD!! 💛💛💛

Truth been nervous without addressing the real issues of my audience but have got it here clear now thanks ERIC for this

I don’t regret watching it.I really enjoyed and grateful for the message

Erick is such a talented speaker. Quite informative.

Really enjoyed this. He is an awesome speaker! I'm happy that I stumbled across this message. Definitely helpful. Looking forward to applying these tips to my own life and profession.

Great job, learned so much and can immediately apply it

I love this content! It helps to boost confidence. Thanks for sharing!

I had a presentation last week in front of my class I was so nervous I knew I really prepared for this I was gonna do a great job I also prepared some jokes too When it was my turn I was so nervous I felt like I would faint I wanted to vomit my voice trembled alot I felt like I was gonna cry I can't control my breathing I felt like I'm screwed I can't make it., deep down I was thinking like NO this is not how I want it to be delieved I want this to be the best presentation I've ever had omg I was able to calmed down immersed in my talk I don't even see the audience anymore I didn't know how that happened but I felt some damn confidence and made the best out of my last min I felt really proud of myself even though the beginning wasn't very promising but I knw the last min was good. When I finished I kept asking myself why am I feeling nervous in front of my classmates😂

This was a great speech and his technique and ability to engage and educate the audience was very crafty and skillful. However, from some of the comments, I guess it's not for everybody.

Awesome! I'm amazed of this speech and that gives me the confidence to face my fears.

I just spent 2 hours of watching it. Big Thanks Eric!!

This is great stuff!! thanks a lot for sharing

Extremely informative, educative and entertaining

one of most impressive person in speaking art ....

“Being a speaker, Being Comfortable sharing your ideas, Being influential in the way you communicate Can triple or more your income.” “It is the most powerful thing you can do for your professional life.” @20:29

I got some great tips for speaking at my next Executive Committee meeting. Thanks!!