'How To Break Up (Tales of Mere Existence)' Dir: Lev / USA / 2007 Life's dating ritual... in 64 east steps. See more from Lev: / agentxpq www.ingredientx... talesofmereexis...
A classic...when I first saw it in my Subs page I was kind annoyed that he was re-uploaded it. Then I noticed it was Future Shorts...Awesome more exposure to Lev is really great. Every video/story he makes is awesome. Everyone should check out his channel.
this is soooo true !! and omg .... it's so nice to see all the steps of your life in just one video O_O. 5/5 great job ! Ps : I am proud of been a subscriber ^_^
If you didn't know one of the definitions for the word "promote" is to support or encourage something. The guy WAS surporting marriage by saying how positive it is AND he WAS encoraging marriage by telling us that in order to obtain true love you need to get married and that being married makes you an adult. Unless we're both speaking a different language, the guy was promoting marriage by definition.
No, I meant you have to make sure you "can" spend that time together and still get along, not get bored/annoyed with eachother, etc. Then you should get married, not before that. Basically what I'm saying is live with your girlfriend/boyfriend for a while and Then decide whether or not you make a good enough couple to have a successful marriage. Don't just marry random people only to have a divorce 2 months later once you get to know the other person.
This feels so old now, I used to watch it years and years ago and it seemed like it was just fun content. Watching it now, it's almost like a play by play of my previous mess. Weird how something can be soo irrelevant at one time.
"No one forced my grandparents to marry, nor anyone in their family. They lasted because they kept to their vows and they were glad they did." It wasn't because of the vows they made that kept them together but because they make a good partnership that kept them togther. And I never said everyone who gets married are forced. But people where in the past, that is fact.
"That most marriages end in divorce says as much about the attitude of the people of today" Yes, it shows that people should pick their partners bettere before getting married.
THAT'S the reason why i just can't imagine even starting a relationship.. it's so depressive that being just a young girl i've always been able to see THIS reality so clearly.. wish i didn't though...:(
I just love the way the movie is made using a transparent paper on which the artist just draws backwards instead of using stop motion, as I would have expected. If you look closely, you start seeing the shape of the drawing hand behind the paper instead of the cartoon. (does this comment show I watched the video more than 10 times in a row? Does watching it obsessively mean anything?)
(ignore the "their no in love they have...") ...they don't love each other, they have just grown accustom to each other. Either way, it's still treating woman as baby-making machines (happy or not), which I would generaly consider to be a negative thing.
...Or gain some self awareness and understanding of others, reflect on & grow from your experiences, whilst learning to love one's self (don't confuse that with being 'ok' with solitude) - and skip the cycle altogether. Mind you, its easier said than done.
I think you're missing the point. By your logic, people could go up to a complete stranger, marry them that same day and have the same chance of having a long-lasting marriage as a couple who've known eachother for many years, got to know eachother, made sure they have LOTS of things in common and made sure they could spend 7 days a week together for months or years and still get along and love eachother. "Pick someone better" means make sure you make the right choice by getting to know them.
It's far easier to never look for girl/boyfriend, never think about being with someone forever and just enjoy every hour of your life with true friends.
Not sure how old you are....but I didn't get my first real girlfriend till I was 21. It didn't take me 21 years because I was bad or anything....it was either cause I personally didn't like the girls who had a crush on me or the girls I liked were always taken.....be thankful you were able to find a girl that was single. The best way to win a girl's heart is to improve yourself. Whether looks, style of clothes, or simply working out to get a nice body. Treat your future girl like an angel always
If there's one thing that can really mess with an otherwise good relationship it's being at complete odds with eachother when it comes to music, to the point that they think your music is dumb or shallow. If I can't enjoy my music with them, what's the point?
Also, I think if you look back of the thousands of years we have been having marriage ceremonies I think you will find that during those thousands years (until recently) women had VERY little say in anything, espcially who they get married to.
Yes is does " diminish any virtues marriage may once have had" because the virtues that weddings hold are ones saying that once have had marriage you will stay together "to have and to hold, in sickness in and in health etc," and obviously thats not true at all because people get divorced and do not say with each other "to have and to hold, in sickness and in health etc."
People who spend their entire lives together do so because they love each other, not because they got married. If marriage didn't exist they would still be together, because how feel towards each other. And the majority of people who get married useually break up some time or another and it is true that some don't (but the majority does). But the was who stay together do so not because they got married, it's because they love each other.
I'm not dismissing all marriages all marriages in the past are were bad. I'm simply pointing out that a lot of the marriages didn't occur because the people were in love. True, some people who get into a marriage that they didn't have a say in do have a happy relationship...BUT, I think they would most likely be having a loving relationship if they chose to marry someone they love. If they married and lived with someone they didn't really like and stayed with them, their no in love they have...
And you seem to think that I believe that everybody in the past were treated badly. Notice where I said: " I'm not dismissing all marriages all marriages in the past are were bad." And don't think that all marriages today end in tatters. But it's a fact that today MOST marriages do end in divorce, sorry but that is a fact. Which shows that it's not the marriage that dictates whether people stay together for ever or not, but the people being married.
