I actually incorporated all of these in the starting of 2024 and I have been committed to these goals and let me tell you I am doing sooo much better than last year. So thank you so much Tam 💗. But I am here again to watch this video because I have definitely not doing enough like I know I can do so much more. Also while rewatching it the failure part resonated with me so much as I am a student and I have had setbacks, some of them I have conquered and some I will. So yeah I wanted to again set some goals because I have learned a lot in these 5 months and see some stuffs in a different light now. Sometimes when I read my journal entries from last year I wonder wtf was going on with myself because honestly the person I am rn would never think like that or act like that, so thank you sooo much 💗 ✨️. You mean a lot
unpopular opinion : you can be very serious about your goals and still enjoy life and go out with your friends, party etc. this is not slacking off. in fact, my dream life is about being able to live fully, make many experiences, thanks to my goals. I work VERY hard but I enjoy and party just as much, because happiness comes from balance 🥰 y'all can do both. plus working too hard without any reward or rest only leads to burnout and depression. I learned it the hard way.
no so real, since i shifted my mindset so that i see uni as a means to achieve my goals i’m able to keep on top of all my assignments with minimal stress and still have free time at the end of the week
they're both two sides of the same coin. Intense work like what tam speaks also is very important, so is taking time with yourself and working for and with your happiness
Let’s keep growing together! I also have a self improvement channel looking to grow a community of like minded people to support and grow to be our best selves:)
1:22 planning 1:50 #1 act in a way that your future self would right now 5:36 #2 hobbies n happiness 5:58 #3 leisure 10:40 mindset shifts 10:54 #1 11:12 #2 12:23 #3 13:54 #4 15:05 #5 16:38 #6 17:26 #7 18:36 #8 19:24 #9 20:11 #10 21:01 action, routine, habits 21:22 #1 morning routine 21:45 #2 incorporate all of your goals into your new daily lifestyle 23:17 #3 get serious about your inspiration 23:36 #4 make sure you curate your social media feed 24:41 #5 build a timeline 25:22 #6 don't skimp on rest 26:57 #7 goals are to be chased 28:06 homework
let me just say, this kicked me right out of my victim narrative and slapped me *hard* across the face, in the nicest way possible, and I couldn't be more grateful for this video!!!
Let’s keep growing together! I also have a self improvement channel looking to grow a community of like minded people to support and grow to be our best selves:)
Hello, Tam! I just wanted to tell you that 2 weeks ago, I hit a rock bottom with my mental health, and I consciously gathered the motivation to refuse to continue living in a depressive spiral. Day one, scrolling youtube for motivation, your video on overthinking came up, and I can not emphasize this enough, YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE. In so many ways. For example, I took myself on a solo date yesterday and bought two self help books (one you recommended, All About Love) and I was halfway through it before I went to sleep. Thank you for your hard work and I am so grateful to the universe that your content was put in my path at EXACTLY the right time. Wishing you all the best on your journey and to anyone reading this! ❤
Let’s keep growing together! I also have a self improvement channel looking to grow a community of like minded people to support and grow to be our best selves:)
OMG ! I am coming back to this video after 8 months and i realize i have achieved selection in Phd, lost 5 kg, got an amazing love relationship i always wanted and I am watching it again to achieve more.
This is probably the first time I'm commenting on your vid. I'm a silent viewer. Your videos have been helping me a lot lately. Especially this one slapped me HARD! I've took so many notes from this vid and ACTUALLY wrote them down on my diary. All I wanna say is THANK YOU SO MUCH for inspiring me and guiding me to the right path. I'm truly grateful.
A big thanks to you! I have been in depression since a year. You gave a great impact in my life. Within a month of watching your videos daily. My mental health has healed a lot and m like out of depression now. I have clear idea about what I want to do in life and I believe i ll acheive it. I am lucky I got to know you. Thanks again sis!!!❣❣
Let’s keep growing together! I also have a self improvement channel looking to grow a community of like minded people to support and grow to be our best selves:)
tam! you are just aazing you know i have been postponing to watch this video for a while but today as i finally sat down with my dairy ( whenever i see your video i have my dairy cause you are like a fountain sprouting knowledge for my dream life ) i have almost 6 pages of notes that i made from this video .... and and and tam how do you always somehow come to the point with something i am struggling with , i felt like you are always with me when you said let them do the party let them enjoy this time i felt like something in my heart was aching so bad for such a long tme has been pulled out . i felt like tears in my eyes . thank you so much big sis for this guidance . i promise you i will be so succesful one day and would come to meet you from india .love you from my bottom of my heart pls keep making video , you are creating a 18 year old a women of wisdom and power >
I started my journey 2 months before without planning without thinking what would I do with it i just had the mindset i will and started the action I don't have the answer Wheather im going right or not and now after this video i realised I'm going right BELIEVE ME before 2 months I feel bad for me but now I actually feel good there's peace in working for yourself guys
Don’t make the mistake of falling back into the patterns of your past self because a toxic person projected their insecurities onto you. I became an identity that wasn’t even true to myself. I would hate to see my friends being held back by false assumptions.Thank you so much for your support and insights!
Okay i jst turned 16 today and honestly this is the best advice i could ever get I reallly2 love u sister Fr social media was kinda ruining me and literally drained me out plus caring abt other PPL's opinion has literally had me wasting my time I'm jsttt so frkin grateful i found ur channel and it has helped me alot Thanyouu so muchhh Sister
Hi, Tam! I'm a guy but I just wanna say your content is sooooo inspiring! The aesthetic, the drive, the energy in your voice and the details you go into is just amazing! I grew up in a small town in South Africa and I'm currently finishing my bachelor's in molecular biology at uni. I'm doing Honours next year and I just love watching your videos to motivate me when I'm feeling down. Please please don't stop posting! I think your consistency is the secret sauce and why you inspire us so much! The moment I see you posted a new vid I immediately get motivated lmao so yeah anyways I hope you have a lovely day ! Much love :) ❤
Hey ! I read your comment, and I hope everything will going to falls into place, especially for your bachelor. Take care of you :) And btw, you are right. She is sooooo inspiring !
HEY GIRL I WOULD REALLY LOVE IT IF YOU MADE A VIDEO ON DEALING WITH TOXIC PARENTS/FAMILY MEMBERS kinda been dealing a lot with that. it’d be really helpful if it were possible for you to do thank you so much ❤
The mindset shift on failure is so inspiring almost made me cry and I never cry. You are so wise and amazing love you so much. Thank you for your videos and believing in yourself
What are their friends like ? What is their relationship like with their friends ? Can you sleep over at each other's house all the time ? Is it more low maintenance relationship ? House / Apartment /Living / City you are living in What does it look like ? What does it feel like ? What do you gain from it ? Is it some kind of escape for you ? How many rooms do you have in there ? Hobbies : Leisure : How does this person spend their weekends ? Is it cozy at home watching Netflix, is it traveling the whole world,is it spending time in your home library ? What do their mornings look like ? What do they eat ? What is their diet ? What kind of exercises do they do ?
Let’s keep growing together! I also have a self improvement channel looking to grow a community of like minded people to support and grow to be our best selves:)
Hi Tam! I’m going into high school soon and really wanted to get off my but and really develop myself before school, because I’ve always been someone with big dreams but no ambition, but I’m glad at say, I started buying the more unique clothes I would have been to shy to wear, started doing little work outs which has done WONDERS for my mental health and depression, I’ve also gone out for choir and made it in! And I’m glad to say I think this year I really will go for making new friends and being that friendly girl, and I can’t express how thankful I am to have someone who inspires me to finally get up and achieve the things I wanted ❤️🙏🙏
I find myself pausing at numerous time during the video just to appreciate how AMAZING you are Tam ❤ your a absolute star for putting out such insightful, relevant, motivational content. Im so grateful I discovered your channel this year it's been such an aid in my healing journey ❤❤ thank you!!!
"Hi Tam, I just wanted to let you know that I watched this video about a month ago and it has helped me in becoming a better version of myself. In just a month, I have come closer to achieving my highest potential. I am really grateful to you, Tam. You are like a big sister to me and I wish to express my gratitude by giving you a tight hug. Thank you so much!"
Hi, I've been watching your videos for a while and they help me a lot. But this one in particular, while you were talking about the mindset step, you said things that gave me chills...Why am I going to live like a normal person if I have something more than normal? why do I compare my life to that of my friends without big dreams? you really opened my eyes to it, thank you for being like this I love you with all my heart. From a 14yo girl in belgium
I spent a couple of hours this week making a document with the information from this video in my native language, now it feels like a reading for when I need it. You don't understand how much I loove you and how much you have helped me. Wish you the best
The reason why I love Tam Kaur is that everything she says will happen in her life actually ends up happening, I watched this video after watching the empty apartment tour vid and NYC diaries on Tam Kaur Vlogs... her life is literal proof of her lessons and I take her videos so seriously because of that. She makes me believe that I can get everything that I want.💗💗💗💗💗
I've been watching Tam for a while and I can't even believe that half of the stuff she's talking about, I already do. i learn it from her other videos and ACTUALLY implemented it???? thank you sm! I'm so grateful for this
Tam ♡, you have no idea of how much your words have enriched in my life, your words are always comforting and full of wisdom. THANK YOU so much, love you 🩷🫂✨️ and I wish you the best of best in life 🫶
Every time i watch you videos i feep the energy on the top can't wait to continue my dream life that i started and stop those exuses of " we need money, it's early as 13 years old.... It's realy the right time ❤😊🎀👏🏻
I am a boy that is watching this and I’ve got to say you have ways with words and I’ve seen that in all your videos and you are the only person so far that actually has good tips and tricks and information from ALL the people I’ve researched
i understand exactly what you are saying but when it comes to your health its so much harder to get to your goals because your health prevents you from doing things you otherwise would be able to do much easily
Being here and hearing about other people's struggles and knowing that there are a lotta people who are going throgh the same thing is such a feeling of sympathy. I don't know what you guys are going through، but pleeease...take your time. GIVE YOURSELF TIME! and you will figure it out Specially if you are a teenager and don't know your purppse. you donthave to be in a rush
Let’s keep growing together! I also have a self improvement channel looking to grow a community of like minded people to support and grow to be our best selves:)
I've officially entered my TAM ERA and this year I'm committing to myself. thankyouu tam litreally all your videos are on loop on my account youree amazingg
1k likes in 2 hours! 🎉I’m very excited about that for you Tam😊 I love how you always give actionable steps to take towards our goals; it’s very inspiring ❤❤
girl milanote is gonna change my life i already know it!! just yesterday i said to myself i was looking for something like canvas but better for organization and notes and stuff and this is IT! thanks so much for the recommendation, and glad you got this partnership :)
hi Tam, idk if you’ll see this. but i just want to say thank you. I’m fighting with my inner self daily but this is me trying to go for a change. thank you for putting this out
i needed this today! "if u are the person who plans for years and is afraid of failling" ahahah yes im listening . the ideia of going to tiktok and only look at saved videos of motivation incredible
when you said 'what are you right now' at the start of the video, that made me feel guilty because i started getting more relax and i've been skipping gym, not studying my classes scrolling on my phone all day for a while...
See I'm definitely more of a country girl, would never live in the city, I don't like busy places. I love the idea of waking up in the morning, looking out the window to be greeted by fields or woods. Especially in the Autumn time when the leaves change. I haven't got where yet, just probably around where I currently live now. I want a reno or self build. Walk in wardrobe, bathroom with a bath infront of a big window overlooking the woods, big walk in shower, master bedroom, office, small gym which is connected by a little path from the house, etc. But I'm going to listen to this again and start witting out my plan
20:01 exact mindset I'm having rn.. people around me scoring higher and I didn't even reached that desired score bt I have faith in me that I can do this if I want.. and I'M WORKING ON IT
I was so skeptical of this video and I LOVED it! There are so many videos with similar ideas, but I can tell you truly have a passion for helping other people get the lives we are all dreaming about. Thank you!
this really open-minded me 🤯❤️ today I have an interview to a program that I really like to take but I have been rejected last year so today I feel I'm a different person and even if I will get rejected again its fine because I already feel I start taking my first step towards my future version ✨️ YOU ARE THE BEST
wow, i feel like you just pulled me out of my depression due to my failure, and i am not even haft way in the video. Dude thanks, i am going to start again. love you, new subscribers xxx
Goshh Tam! I was looking for an organizing tool just y'day and you came in to help! 😭 This video is a blessing and a wake-up call. You motivate us so well, and as a 22 y/o myself, you're my inspiration ❤🔥❤🔥Much love!!
I love the fact that even on the days when I don't feel okay or I am not motivated I always watch your videos you are just like a big sister to me Keep growing 💗 and keep loving ❤
i actually lost a friend recently, my only friend that i was attached to the hip by all high school. At first I was confused to why she suddenly stopped talking to me and then other stuff happened in my life during that too that made me incredibly emotional, sad, lonely, sick, a lot of negative emotions basically. The whole week I spent wondering why she decided to stop communicating and i felt lonely without her, but there was always a part of me that knew we wouldn't be friends after high school anyways so why pursue a friendship with someone who has left me out and made me sad a lot throughout our friendship. My family also never liked her because she seemed really fake to them, which is true in some ways, but defended her anyways. There are so many things that she has done or said that reveals her true colors, at least i have seen, despite her being known as kind, bubbly, and easy-going to everyone, acting like their friend, but the things she told me about them just showed me how fake she is and I should know since I was basically her "best friend" (i think). My brother even told me that I was becoming like her in a bad way, personality wise. Which is true! Things that I never thought of as 'wrong' or something to mad about, even now, just because she found it 'wrong' or she gets annoyed or mad about it, I started to have the same perspective as her when it wasn't even a bad thing. Like our friend hanging out with her boyfriend, he was nice and chill, he was basically the 4th wheel in our group, but whenever they had their own private conversations when we're together, she got weirdly jealous and said that she felt 'uncomfortable' with them. Then with our other friend we started hanging out with, I started thinking the same way as her when our friend got a boyfriend and stopped hanging out with us, I was thinking "oh she's hanging out too much with her boyfriend" and she would be like "i don't know, she looks happy". You didn't think the same way with our other friend and you felt 'uncomfortable' when he is one of the nicest guys in our school. What? That is one scenario. She ditched her other best friend who she always hung out with in elementary until freshman year of high school, so I'm not surprised that she also did that to me. I realized that ending that friendship was for the best. Especially when I know I didn't do anything to her to stop talking to me. I do admit that I sometimes feel sad to think that we aren't friends anymore since she was the one person in school that I had the most in common with, but I know that i'll eventually meet those who genuinely like me and want to be my friend and better things will come to me soon.
Omg your story is almost like mine, except that I chose to cut that person off without an explanation. We were friends throughout our lives for over 10 years, but I realized it was always about her, suiting her needs and doing what she wants. She would get very jealous and say mean things whenever I got better things or did better than her in school. Everything was always to her convenience, she was extremely self-centred and lack consideration for others or empathy. My family did not like her too, my brother even described her as a poison to my well-being. She was always trying hard to be popular and to fit in, whereas I would always want to better and improve myself. We weren't friends for years because we were close or besties, but because I didn't have the courage to cut her off. Things got so much better after she's out of my life, and I feel like I can finally flourish and be the best version of myself.
@@clarissaywy i’m glad it was a positive thing for you and your wellbeing. its been over a year since i last talked to that “friend” and honestly, it felt like the end of the world at the time, but now i feel much better without her. i’m in the processing of forgiving her because part of me still holds a grudge from past actions and i don’t want to anymore. She’ll always be someone i’ll remember since this was one of my worst friendship breakups ever and it affected me on a deeper level, so I know I can’t just erase her from my memories. Even with that, I don’t want to be a hateful person. I don’t hate her, but I don’t particularly like her right now either. Hopefully it’ll get better as time goes on.
@@titaniakr I'm sure it will, and I hope you meet and have a group of supportive girlfriends who will make you realize you didn't need that 'friend' in the first place amd deserve so much better. As for me it can be awkward because we live near eachother and I will still bump into her from time to time ......
hi guys, please pray for me i’m just going through some rounds for my apprenticeships and i’m affirming i get offers by October 9th because i’m tired, i’ve been doing this for 7 months now but i’m strong. i’m so strong. i’m going to have about 6 streams of income this year and whenever i have time i’m always using that time to better myself, so i know that my success will come into fruition very soon ❤️
I wish I could personally meet you, have a deep talk with you and say thank you. Thank you for all these relatable talks and advices. Have a great day 🤍
Tam you are so inspiring!! Your content is seriously life changing, the amount of advice you gave that actually worked is amazing 🙌🏼 I’m so grateful for your content thank you!
Wow this video came to me at the moment I needed it the most. I am struggling to find a job after graduating and I just keep seeing people around me having success, having a car, getting their life together while I don’t have that. I really have to change my mindset on my life and push myself towards what I dream about being all the time. I do dream about my future self but I never push myself to be that version of myself because I am scared to leave my child mindset. I’m going to take what I learned from this video and use it to become the person I want to be. 😊
1. Too much planning can be a waste of time. 2. How does your ideal self is like . Everything about her describe in detail. A. About yourself. Your personality . Your brain . B. Money C. Career and oppurtunity D. Friends and Family E. Romantic relationship F. Hobbies and happiness G. Leisure/how spends free time H. Workouts etc. . House/living 3. Break down in weekly schedule. 4. Mindset A. You saw those dreams because you were meant to. Those are your dreams grab them B. Visualize your ideal self. C. Failure is a part of your success D. Don't be desperate for anything. Just do your work. E. Others living a normal life doesn't mean you have to live an average life. Work for your dreams . F. Get off your damn phone G. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop giving reasons for why it's not for you. Just stop it. Whenever you think why me say what's it's teaching me. H. Stop thinking about what others are doing. Everyone's life is different . I. Have a look at your self talk. 5. Morning routine 6. Daily goals 7. Vision board 8. Stop caring about the drama . How would your ideal self react. Just work for your dreams.
Can you pleaseee make a video on FOMO and more like these? I love your content so much. This is the only channel that really makes me want to work on myself❤❤❤
I really love how you share the action plans and homework. Your videos have really helped me upgrade my mindset and habits. I am a completely different version of myself and love it. Thanks for sharing your journey. You are my inspiration. 😍😍
She just ALWAYS knows what I need rn. Have written down everything I needed to hear. THANK YOU SO MUCH. Have never commented on YT before. Thats how much you inspire me.
Tam, i watched the first video you ever posted, which was a review of 2020 or 2021. even then you were talking about love, but you're so different from back then, and so much more confident and radiant now. i'm proud of your progress. love your videos. no matter i'll keep watching your content and supporting you. it's only up from here
Hey Tam, can you please make a video on victim mindset.. i feel like i've been in that kinda mindset for so long and i really wanna get rid of that and shift my mindset but don't know how..
I'm in my throw-out stage 24/7, lol. I can't exist without seeing the potential of having or not having things, people, habits, etc; I live as a merciless declutter of whatever doesn't serve me.
This is one of the best video I had ever seen❤❤ thankyou for all your knowledge and guidance I really appreciate your work ...thankyou for your existence 😊
Sad to admit this but my throw out stage needs my parents to be away from me, keep them at a distance cause unfortunately they drain my energy. Since i cant do that I will focus on working on moving out and build a dream life for myself. I am grateful I have the resources to work towards that and thank you for this video. I realised I am already doing/thought of doing things that you said it in the video (I'm carrying out my morning routine of gym as i text), gotta get my ass up and do all the shit i need to. 💪
What you said about clothes is very important thing to understand. ❤️I also faced problem in looking best but how because revealing girls attract more but now i find they attract low vibrational people and so much trash. Modest looks are best and respected if you know about styling and maintaining your body. You will attract the people of high vibration first change yourself. Don't chase anyone. Confidence, modesty, selfcare is the key of many good things.
Tam i freaking love you soooo much 😭❤️❤️!! You're literally my mentor, my older sister, my inspiration and role model. Thank you so much for doing what you do ! You have no idea how much you've helped me change myself for the better! Only a week ago I was a messed up girl thinking about a ugly asf rat, not studying procrastinating all the time watching shitty memes. Now I push myself and study hard in order to get straight A+'s, Im over that ugly rat idc abt him anymore, I'm more organized, my life is organised. And I'm soooo much more confident about myself !! Again thank you soo much for everything Tam ❤️ We all freakin love you gurl!
Tan you post your videos at perfect timing I swear like currently I feel comfortable in myself but in the process I’m forgetting my dreams but I still want to achieve them and fill the gap and this is perfect
i needed this so bad i've been feeling really lost recently and this is just what i needed thank you i love your videos so much you're one of the best content creators out there you're such a source of inspiration
You are working to push out ourself from our comfort zone. You are amazing, hats off. I mean you are the live saviour, I always finding these kind of videos. I've saw a lot of videos especially for 6 months challenge, in which they tell what to do in these months but not in that detail as you I mean thats the reason why can't put my efforts to becomey best version , like you 've tell everything that I want. This video is very very relatable, I don't know why but I feel very comfortable and familiar while watching your video. You are queen. I m very thankful towards universe that it send me an angel like u. I can't express my feelings right now in words. You' ve help inamy field of life where I was stuck and become better even I m best version of myself that's why I'm trying to changing my self as thos video os very helpful. Love u Tam from Bharat 🇮🇳🇮🇳. Well I will definitely tell my updates💜. You have another subscriber. Edit: ignore if there is error iny sentences bcz I m learning English, just try to understand my feelings not words or sentences.
I love love your channel. The way you present information is just so on point and you have some of the best advice out there fr. As someone who is queer, not in school, and working a full time service industry job (super early in the morning), sometimes your channel can come off sort of privileged or narrow-minded, but your overall vibe and advice is worth the slight feeling that I’m not considered. I do wish it came off a bit more inclusive though, sometimes your content feels very targeted towards middle class straight women. Just some input from a genuine fan
Hi Tam, Could you make a video on effective goal planning, including monthly, weekly, and daily action plans? I know what I want to achieve and have many ideas, but I struggle with implementing them. I often find my plans either incomplete, too numerous, or too large to finish on time. Your videos are great, but I need a comprehensive guide to transform my life over several months with structured systems, habits, and plans. This would be immensely helpful for me and others facing similar challenges. Thank you!😊🤩😇
