I'm glad you're getting in front of the camera more and giving clear level-headed advice. No gimmicks just the tools you need to live the life you want, feels more authentic.
@@realbenjaminseda I don't know how you did it but your recent videos showed your growth all these years. Back then when this channel was still uploading with animation and face reveal, those advice videos are almost complete BS, I also knew nothing about dating. Fast forward today with what I learnt, RU-vid recommended me your video out of nowhere, and it blew my mind cause I can tell those are legit advices. Most viewers probably not know enough to appreciate them, but I'm glad to see you're on the right track. Hope to see even more great quality videos from you and wishing the best for your channel
You should do a video on men’s fashion for cheap. Would be really helpful to us guys who really struggle selecting outfits and also refuse to blow thousands of dollars no matter how rich we are.
How to attract. Masculine and Feminine dynamic. Create a value illusion and comfort with the way you talk.. Magnify what she says to create a vibe like fun flirty sexual etc. Don't ask informational questions but try to make comments and get to know her personality. Escalate verbally before physically and just slow down and enjoy the slow vibe. Non verbal frame, the aura.. use that to communicate with subtlety.
FrFr I know it's just an animation and a voice actor but that dood was the one who helped guide my 180 in life. You might as well do a black screen when you post because I'm only listening
god, i wish it was that easy, i do go outside but i rely on my friend to break the ice, or my friend to make friend who have friend thjat are girls then i feel alright. but then the texting comes and i get stuck... wtf u want me to say, i can make u laugh in real life but have no clue with text, (i get bored with text like wtf can i say its alway the same)
@@reggiexp69 its not easy per say but being in person simply gives you a MASSIVE advantage, it allows you to break the touch barrier which INSTANTLY creates a connection. (I would go as far to an average guy meeting a girl in person would have more success then an attractive guy only using text.) In terms of breaking the ice to make it easier i suggest going to social events that have to do with YOUR intrests that way if you meet a girl in person you simply talk about your intrests as you know for a fact she is interested in the same things as you. From their you will gain expereince which should make it easier to break the ice anywhere. I wont sugar coat it still takes time and deliberate effort and a TON of trial, error, and PATIENCE, untill you get the results you want. Its already hard to make good freinds its that much more challenging to get a quality girlfreind.
@@xMckingwill oh i agree texting is a hit or miss.. Or we will talk random shit or there is Nothing and only am able to make a move physical Right now i struggle but i knew that i kniw the girl for a while but i never bothered to add her or talk mesage or much in real. Just joke around with her face to face and sometimes wrestle a bit having a good time. But i don't know text was fine but then it went dead could also be cause i met her tru friend and they can be anoying and since she is there alot i guess she didn't feel the need to reply. Then am often already like nvm 😂 gonna stick to o what i know not text her 😂😂😂 That is smart overal cause all girls i met are like friend of friends and they are cool but never my type.. My mom says that cause they are friend of that friend group so they will find poeple like them. I really need to go out and find people who have some sort of the same interests as me... And not rely on my friend making friend who have friends cause its always the same great people but nothing datable for me.
I worked my butt off producing film for a year. I talked to men and women alike all the time, making them laugh making them feel comfortable. But I caught myself pussying out of a conversation with a cute girl the other day, because it was none business related and flirty -.- Now that I broke my wrist slapping myself, I'm gonna apply this video TODAY!!
Crazy how little views you're getting in comparison to several years ago. Is RU-vid algorithm suppressing your videos? Your content is solid and always had been. I gave up giving advice to people and I just send them directly to your channel.
He’s an attractive guy giving advice that does not work for average or ugly men. So of course his views are going to go down because they see his advice doesn’t work.
@632dgid46f ohh come on dude, offcourse his teachings approach in all kind of men, it's just an excuse that u r giving .. his teachings r just so dammm simple and effective, I watched many dating gurus vidoes but I couldn't connect with their teachings, but BENJAMIN ' S teachings feel so authentic..by his teachings,I approached all my 5 crushes within a week..his teachings just gave me confidence and enough clearance on HOW to APPROACH.. I m glad instagram suggested me his content❤
try to avoid the word "me" or "I" if she is not absolutely in love with you. It makes all the differance in the world. Most girls don't care about your anekdotes. A lot just want to express herself and have a fun conversation. Imho
And....the framework completely changed. Zeus is gone. Benji is pimping his "dating company" in every video which, I gotta say, is very convincing. Some good advice, but man I hate it when you guys keep doing this, same with AlphaM and his products. That's why only 1% of your subscribers watch the videos. Anyway, good tips, been using them since forever.
If you get rejected, turn it into a comedy moment. Clutch your heart and fall about as if in terrible pain. She will be all like ‘oh god what’s wrong !’ and you say ‘My heart, the pain, oh no, you’ve broken it …’ and dramatically fall about like a monster attacked you and she will either laugh at you being silly funny, and maybe chat, OR, if she rolls her eyes and acts like a biatch, then you really have dodged a bullet as she has no humour. So it’s no loss.
It’s a sign of respect not making eye contact just looks like your shy or hiding some thing or insecure or all of the above. Either that or you have intense trauma on making eye contact lol
My own human experiment: I did these, result 0. I started training more seriously, dressing more fashionably; result: I didn't even have to speak, they called me, the women came to me. If you don't look good, they won't even notice. What you're talking about is important, but it's just fine-tuning.
One of the funniest larping channels I have ever seen. Of course it's a very attractive dude giving out advice how to attract women but whats more hilarious is all these people begging for him to go back to the cartoon Zeus. Like how bluepilled and fantasy land are these viewers that they need their cartoon instead of seeing a real person. I don't even blame the owner of the channel for doing more videos with face, how long can you play a role with a cartoon and not be yourself and reap the benefits being associated with your work.
