How to Get an Instant Date (in 2 Minutes or Less)

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@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

How do you guys like these more detailed breakdowns? Let me know! If you wanna learn my formula for instant dates, watch my free video: benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=yt-vid-instadate

@brockfuller2074 8 месяцев назад

This series inspired me to approach 2 women yesterday. Got both instagrams & I’m having dinner with one of them tomorrow night. Approaching is extremely fun & addicting, appreciate you for the inspiration!

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Great job!

@morm2173 8 месяцев назад

Did you have to play alot of numbers game before that or successful first two approaches?

@brockfuller2074 8 месяцев назад

@@morm2173 I was 2/2

@Layman927 8 месяцев назад

That’s so awesome bro I’m happy for you!

@dawitsco9283 8 месяцев назад

Addicting,i agree with this😅😅

@NoLimitsFunGarage 8 месяцев назад

I'm 6/30 approaches myself for the month of Jan, roockie numbers ik, but you've definitely been an inspiration with the constant uploads. Let's make approaching great again

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Keep going!

@GØDÇØDE-xox 8 месяцев назад

Dude ur a real chad u have given the confidence to successfully cold approach

@Matthew_Scan 8 месяцев назад

He is a Chad who had depressed me more I wish could do that I don’t have the looks or confidence

@Mranonymous9 8 месяцев назад

@@Matthew_Scan always nice to victimise urself..

@lukasj.3096 8 месяцев назад

@@Matthew_Scan c'mon man, you can do it. I am just at the same spot. Just try it and we will find out. Someday hopefully

@Pendion036 2 месяца назад

@@Matthew_Scan excuse, just do it

@Matthew_Scan 2 месяца назад

@@Pendion036 not an excuse it’s fact

@caiusaccardo409 8 месяцев назад

super underrated videos. you're pretty well spoken and I like how you don't do these in a cringy pua way and are just vibing. I've have had pretty good success with dating apps but this makes me want to shoot my shot with girls in person too. like you said it's a social skill that isn't only about girls and I want to develop that

@SimplyPops 8 месяцев назад

Make a video on what to do after you get the Instagram/number. How to text what to say

@AestheticMuscless 8 месяцев назад

Fuck dating apps, cold approach is the way to go. Besides of that focus on your goals, don't make women your number 1 priority, the will subconsciously notice that and it's not attractiv3

@dillydilly2260 8 месяцев назад

Couldn't said it better.

@Sonic2977 8 месяцев назад

Gotta thank you for inspiring me with this challenge. I already got a date because of it and she wants to see me again! Cold approaching will always be the best way to meeting women.

@theultimateartist4153 8 месяцев назад

I like the fact that you mentioned Empathy this is something NO PUA mentions, you need to be emotionally open when you talk to people to get good chemistry. The focus should never be on the number but on the chemistry that may or may not lead to the number

@brockfuller2074 8 месяцев назад

90% of PUA & red pill advice is garbage straight up wrong. Benjamin is one of the very few out there whose advice is legitimate & normal

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

That’s because I’m not a PÚA 😎🫡

@theultimateartist4153 8 месяцев назад

@@realbenjaminseda I fully embrace you now, that you reject the term PUA because I do not like it either. They remind of me of evangelical pastors who make flashy promises of miracles and it's all showmanship with zero substance. A grift machine. Talking to people should just be that, talking to people

@terraflow__bryanburdo4547 8 месяцев назад

@realbenjaminseda PUAs were mostly weird, but at least they put in the effort. Kind of like a yappy little dog chasing passing cars.

@SavvasTzouras 8 месяцев назад

This challenge is so inspirational... i did 11 approaches in 3 days this week..Keep it up Benjamin !!

@pedkai-mu6084 7 месяцев назад

I’ve been watching a couple of Ben’s Revolutionary series, and I saw this video pops up about instant date. I didn’t watch it but I’m thinking to myself that getting an instant date would be quite unlikely. But today I just did my first cold approach at an event , not only we had more than an hour of talking but also a dinner date at that event (It really is possible guys). IT IS GREAT. Then after watching this video, from Ben’s explanation it gives me perspective of what happened in my own case and what leads to me getting instant date. All in all really good video man 😊

@dojocho1894 2 месяца назад

I meet girls all the time what men have to remember is girls today are nervous just for the fact that they themselves dont get hit on all the time like say our moms or grandmas..... they are nervous too. I had girls come back and met me after they flaked and admitted they were so nervous and just freaked out from nerves..then we went out on dates.

@anon_527 8 месяцев назад

People are trying to hook me up with an asexual chick from my past, how in hell can you live with a partner who doesn't have the concept of sexuality?

@HandyManny_69 8 месяцев назад

Platonic romance??

@samiyi4896 8 месяцев назад

*Im approaching more woman as well in past month, confidence is rising but also im learning to pick up social cues fast, also approaching is fun now and not a mental block anymore, keep inspiring man ❤🎉 !*

@greenstar32 8 месяцев назад

so wtf happened Benny, come on!?? tell us what happened with the girl dude! you smoke alotta pot don't you bro. she had to push you to invite her, lol

@patguy7454 8 месяцев назад

Do a video compilation of your rejections brutal and friendly rejections.

@AzzVipa 8 месяцев назад

Litteral approached 4 women in 2 days, inspired by Benjamin. Thanks so much bro. Your really helping us out here by showing that these things are possible as long as we try and dont take things personal.

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

Fantastic!

@Clear256 8 месяцев назад

Most informative video from this series yet. Great stuff

@Boe3 8 месяцев назад

Weird interaction I had this week. I started it with a “hey can talk to you real quick?” “What’s your name” Her: why? (That was rude btw😂) Me: I wanna get to know you Her: sorry (and turned away from me) Idk if I was wrong as I usually do this and it goes well 😂

@unexpected8166 8 месяцев назад

The "can I talk to you" seems a bit needy (or even like you want to sell her something) which already establishes the wrong frame. Even I as a dude would (think) "why", might not say it but thinking it is enough. You can definitely optimize the opening. Other than that, even with a perfect opening there will be chicks who don't even say a single word and walk away

@Boe3 8 месяцев назад

@@unexpected8166 yeah I remembered some content creator but I forgot who, he said don’t ask questions when you’re gonna do something, like “can I talk to you?” or “can I hit?” or “can I kiss you” just gotta do instead of asking.

@Boe3 8 месяцев назад

@@unexpected8166 I’ll just stick to my other starter line “hey how are you doing? What you got going on for today?”

@imadityaanand 8 месяцев назад

Missing report day 7: I did it. Finally!

@SavvasTzouras 8 месяцев назад

I suggestet an instant date to a simillar scenario.She was from germany and her father was working here so he took her with him. The convo was nice overall but she rejected my offer because she had work to do 😢 Thats ok though onto the next one;) nice work Benjamin 😉

@mejason4 7 месяцев назад

Looks matter. You can open in a weird way and still pull it off if you are tall and good looking

@trenthargrove5048 8 месяцев назад

Go to the gym

@Housestationlive 5 месяцев назад

also, hand shaking is NOT what humans do anymore in 2024 😂 it's a risky move 🤣

@mrtrump-pf1nx 8 месяцев назад

Make a video on how you made so much money

@Housestationlive 5 месяцев назад

you're always coming from behind, others coaches are recommending this too, but i hate that so much.

@jadeeld27d 8 месяцев назад

because of you now I'm getting contact daily at everyday I'm out and I'm setting date when I want it's great how these series will help everybody increase his confidence with women guys thanks man

@Layman927 8 месяцев назад

Ben what are your thoughts of asking a woman out while she’s working? Like you met her when she was serving you or she rang you out at a retail store? I’ve noticed a few girls that I would have liked to ask out but I talked myself out of the approach because I didn’t want to make them awkward at work.

@Raphael-qe7rs 2 месяца назад

whats the name of the music on the beginning pls

@NoahTahiliani 8 месяцев назад

Hype bro

@krka5707 8 месяцев назад

Because it’s tourist bro , she has nothing to do and looking for someone to show around and etc

@realbenjaminseda 8 месяцев назад

I posted another instadate with a local a few days ago

@ron357 5 месяцев назад

Dude i fw you because of based zeus but lost me around 10:20 wtf is all this nerdy bullcrap lmaooo

@sarthakmehetre5710 8 месяцев назад

Try doing this in india

@kristianslavov9120 8 месяцев назад

I appreciate the work but those conversation starters are always about destinations and in my case the city I live in is not international at all. What is another good conversation starter?