Sadhguru replied to the questionnaire when she asked that she is not able to cope with her mother’s death and no spiritually is working #sadhguru #sadhgurulatest #life #motivation #death #spirituality @sadhgurugrace
I am 29 and lost my mother a month ago. It has really given me some peace. My mother has done everything for me , so this is my responsibility to make myself happy for her atleast. Love you Mummy ...will always cherish what you taught me . Thank you for being my mother in this life and wish to be your daughter for every life.
Lost my mother 6 mths back. The pain at times is immense. Probably she could have lived for a few more years, but Im happy she was always there for me. I still talk to her and pray to her. Im sure we will meet our loved ones in the other Realm after we complete our journey. I too wish to be her son in every life.
Yes everything people see on social media. They just wanna relate. They act as if bad things only happen to themselves and until they see on social media they think it doesnt happen to any1 else.😂
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
The lady is in pain. She said spiritual learnings are not working. Thats the key you don't learn anything spiritual you only realize, untill you realize no amount of learning can help. No guru on this earth can touch ones head and permanently instantaneously make anyone at peace when facing inevitable facts of life. A guru can only guide with realization and thats what Sadhguru can do as well. I hope and prey she finds peace soon.
LOL at you! Wow you don’t know what you are talking about! If a Guru can “guide” you then that means you have plenty to “learn”! Understand me? You have to know something and learn about things before you can realize it….go back to school….you are embarrassing yourself….Sadhguru spent two previous lifetimes failing to experience what He wanted….and so, He had to learn how to “get there”….
Our body is a temporary garage for our soul....after death the soul is free....it takes a new body later on....depending on one's Karma in previous life. Got it? Some realized souls who have achieved enlightenment do not take rebirth but are united with the infinite. They achieve the heavenly abode.
I must be amongst very few lucky ones, like Sadhguru explained, my mother lovingly made me understand that her death should not pain me and I should accept it as normal course of life, she also reminded me that sooner or later I will also die and so will next generation, so it’s a cycle which is not be worried about. She also explained me that I should recognize my role then as a daughter but now myself a mother , she said I must move on from identifying myself not just as her girl but another child’s mother . Last thing she reminded me is that she lost her mother in her teens and I was in my thirtys which itself is blessing . Such great soul she was that knowing she was dying and that I should be steady , she gave this wonderful lesson when she was still alive . When she passed away I did not cry at all, there was some sort of peace in heart, I thank her each day for it, I do miss her a lot, her touch , her smell of her sarees , all her wise words teachings practically everything she gave me to make who I am today I understand the value of her teachings today a step more after listening to Sadhguru and I have been teaching this to my teenage kids as well I want them to have that wisdom when I pass away Namaskaram
I COMPLETELY hear the girl. I lost my ever dearest mom 9 years ago. I always have this flash in my mind. People say time will heal but no one defines the time you see. I am just waiting for the day when I can reunite both my Mom and dad. I count my years to fully be there for my kids/ grandkids if needed and just can’t wait for the day to meet my dearest parents again who sacrificed so much for their children. ❤️
I lost my mom 3 days ago, she was the resemblance of the position of dad because she did everything for me and my brother and also she has helped so many of people....when she was alive I don't know the value of her and I was like a spendthrift and irresponsible but after she died now I realised Everything. One thing I would like to say to all, please do love and spend a time with your mom and dad , take care of them when they're with you🖤🙂.... I love you Mom you're my queen and you're my inspiration 👸🔥🥺 love you forever 🕯️Lourdes Marie🕯️
Having lost my Mother recently, I have been in the same state of mind as that lady. Suffering from the guilt that I could have done more for her, and why she left so soon. This message from Sadhguru has given me peace of mind. My heartfelt gratitude to you Sadhguru 🙏
I lost my real brother just a few months back that too infront of my eyes in a terrible accident , I was sitting behind him in bike. Some people are finding Sadhguru's this message harsh. But let me tell there should be atleast someone that can tell you things brutally honestly otherwise you won't get anything out of just listening solace. I am thankful he said the way he said it helped me a lot in coping with my brother's demise.
@@anuragnathyal5889I'm so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences to you. I pray you and your family have the strength to go through these times.
I am going through this..on the verge of losing my mom and its depressing and tearful and the spiritual lessons don't work, and somewhere I feel the pain she is also going through 😢
I lost my Mom 22 years back.. I am sorry, I blasted out crying loud when I heard her cry. Nothing works.. But yes, time heals to a certain extent dear.. Just pray for her that she gets a better family to take rebirth. Pray 🙌🙌for her. Bouts of loneliness will be occasional. Stick to your spiritual pursuits and also friends!
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
This question was like a test for sadguru in my inner conscience .Message was good but wished a better spiritual answer . I lost my mother 8 years back . At class 10 . after her lost , i joined college . No one to guide , no one to restrict . Now, After 8 years . self realizing and seeking spiritual growth .
I lost my mother too, she was my mother, friend, comfort, love, support, caring, strong and everything u can think of, She was no less than a God to me, I am just grateful that I got to walk and share the same space in this life. Noone will love me more than her....I am sure I will meet her one day. Stay strong, you never know your mother might be watching over u.
I'm 29, my mother died when i was 10, my father died when i was 21. Untill the middle of this video , i really felt terrible due to that, not 24x7 but yes, I do think that, my life is at this state due to their absence, but by the time the video ends, i really feel free. Letting go has happened. Thanks Sadhguru ❤❤🙏
I lost my Maasi 3 days back and I loved her dearly. She passed away early at the age of just 39years due to cancer. She lead a difficult life and I hope she’s now in a happier abode. I really miss her so much and it’s difficult to cope with this loss. Please pray for her soul 😞
I lost my mother 2 months back and still grieve as though it happened just yesterday. I felt Sadhguru was directly talking to me as I am an only daughter of my loving parents too! Jai Shri Sadhguruji!🙏🙏
I lost my mother last month. I wish I could talk to this sister and make her understand that when your loved ones die their suffering ends and yours begin, you feel unbearable emotional pain, you miss the support and love they have provided to you in your most darkest time only to keep you happy and keep moving in life. So their prime agenda was to see you happy and keep moving. All you need is to fullfill the void because of their demise by being the same loving and supportive person for rest of your family.
I lost my beloved father to covid... n it was sudden, most unexpected n has left a huge scar in my existence. There's deep emotional pain n constant feeling of hopelessness. Noone can replicate that affection. Im single n its just me n my mother now.... ther's constant fear n insecurity.
I lost both my parents back to back on 13 months of gap. 2021 and 2022. Depression and Anxiety slowly started to grow in me, I started listening to all Sivan songs and Mantras which was in my language Tamil. Started to listen Sadguru’s video, Mangayarkarasi videos and some other positive videos. I overcame depression but this anxiety is still being with me(but I am better now not fully ok) Even this minute I was thinking about my parents and got this video while suffering, it is really really hard to overcome. And I Am the only daughter 😢 To all of us who lost our parents I wish we get to heal sooner.
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
dear sister, The way you overcome this hard time, is a inspiration to all of us. Now you become the light to so many people. GOD BLESS YOU with lots of love , courage, and peace, be HAPPY forever.
@@sparrowsadhanarajkumar3836: Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
I lost my mother not too long ago. Lost any and all connection to my family other than my sister, wasn't expecting that. She was always there for me. It has been difficult making loyal friends who I can trust or find a girlfriend who is genuine. Now I am so completely alone. The loneliness and darkness are so vast that it has become like a sentient companion. Pray for me for I am truly lost.
So sorry for your loss. Please go out into the world and meet people, make friends and begin to enjoy life. Life is a special gift given to us. Good Luck.
it's hard truly just lost my mother last month, really painful, left alone, may be we both sailing with the same situation, but the universe will take care of us
Even though i haven't lost my mother, I lost people who were too important. For the past 1.5 yes, i have been in absolute terror off & on. I have met death. I have had a huge spiritual surgery. I have been alone. It's been cruel but I have discovered something beautiful too. Thankfully my parents have been there with me through all this in the background. Now I'm scared about losing my parents. That makes me feel empty & a sense of terror again.
LAMA ZOPA RINPOCHE - "You are not alone because all the time there are numberless buddhas and bodhisattvas surrounding you, everywhere loving you, guiding you, that is what they do."
@Pendragon981 You got my prayers, hope you are doing better and have some peace, You are here on this planet to enjoy life, love and be loved and not only suffer, so please never let the Hope die, I wish you healing right from my heart's center, I wish you love and true joy in every breath you take!!! ❤
It is exactly one year I lost my mom..I feel thr is no coping... All the videos tat talks about being a mommy's boy, having no skill to move on, this life is a small happening, etc etc... Let them all say whatever... Its like i lost my Shakthi, my sole energy and I feel all am running on is just some dark energy...i just live to complete my obligation to exist and take care of the souls who depend on me... Just one day at a time
You put my feelings into words exactly. I too have lost my Shakti and raison d'etre . I'm existing because others depend on me. Sending you lots of love and hugs. May God comfort and heal you.
I lost my father last 21 september 2023. I can feel her pain. We need to accept that those persons with whom we have sweetest and selfless memories of our life will go.
@@gaaanaaa that's so mean of you to reply this way. I am not begging for sympathy. I don't want any sympathy from anyone. if you don't want to read the comment then don't read.
I am feeling like he is talking to me too. My heart really goes out to this woman as I too lost my mother a month ago and I am fallen apart . Thank you so much Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏
Come December 7th, it would be 4 years since I lost my mother to cancer. I still have nightmares, feel lack of breath and guilty thinking I couldn’t save her… The pain I get is terrible. My heart goes for this lady and I literally can feel her pain. But really, wonderful message and a blessing from Sadguru. From this moment on, I too will try and change my perspective on this subject 🙌🙏🏻
Same here.even i have nightmares lack of breath sometimes .fearing the loss of my mother to cancer since past 6 months. Feeling i could have saved her .tried a little more.Gurudev plz help me bless me..
My mom was 92 when she passed away.. She did not live a worthy life what she deserved to be!! Last3-4 years was miserable.. Till today I was worrying about her and her miserable life.. making me cry and mentally down!! Today I want to become strong to cherish only her good memories she has left and kindly bless me for that Sadguru 🙏🙏🙏 I have become mentally depressed too seeing her last day’s ( year’s) suffering.. visiting psychiatrists and taking anti depressants.. not worried for she died.. but worried for the amount of displeasure she carried with her.. till her death .. only we could understand.. bless me to over come all these guruji..she was a precious woman than a mother!!🙏🙏🙏
Mother is most precious posession in every one's life So as sadguru said we need to cherish and enlive her dreams and not be sad which any mother doesn't wish for her child Again each person suffering is the result of karma from previous births there is no other reason I think
This happened to a friend .. n she was so worried abt her Mom esp her afterlife.. whether she is safe 'up' there.. she did a lot of remedies n rituals One day in her meditation she appeared to her n said she is fine .. it's her sadness that's actually making it heavy for them up there.. Ever since she moved on
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
I lost my mother two days ago because she was suffering from cancer, she was everything to me, I can't even imagine my life without her, she was always with me every moment, I loved her very much, Now he is not with me, it feels like there is complete darkness all around me, I don't know what to do to help me cope... I am also happy that his suffering is over She went because she was in extreme pain... I pray to God that her soul rests in peace. I will try my best to live with her memories, she will always be in my heart, I pray to God that in the next life I am born from my mother's womb and she and I live together for a long time. Jai Shri Krishna
I always say this when people ask me how I never went to a funeral in 30 years. I don't go to funerals. Instead of crying because they died, I cherish their lives ❤️🙏☀️
I lost my Mom a month ago. Happened unexpectedly. Heart attack. In the Japanese culture they say nobody ever leaves you. They are still with you. You just have to look for the signs. And this video randomly popped up on my YT feed 😢
Recently my mother left her body, and as sadguru said, I will cherish the sweetest memories I have with my mom, ofcourse miss her calling me with that much love, none can call me with such love in their words, but I remember her beautiful and sweet smile and will honor her with her joyous smile she always have on her face, shall pass on on mine
I lost my mom on 24th March 2024, its been like 20 Days. I feel life is meaningless.. I did not get even chance to meet her for the last time. She was everything to me. My mother has done everything to me. She was world to me. She was my Best Friend , My Everything.. I just dont know.. How i will be able to live without her. Everyday seems like Hell , Time does not pass quickly. I just wish wherever my mother is she should be happy and in peace. My mother always told me to be strong, I have younger brother and sister. I miss you Mummy at lot.. !!
I lost my mother last year February. I still not recovered. I am living alone. I don't know how many more days for me on earth. Everyday passing a day has become challenge to me. I will cry for mother and pray to God to send her back and I realize that what foolish thing am asking to God but still this mind wants my mother. Amma come back.
I have lost my mother Shakar Khanu and my father as well Dr. Abdul Rasool and I am so depressed, I am now 56 years of age and Iam going to die too but I remember every second of my breath. May Almighty Allah rest their soul in eternal peace. Ameen
That was most beautiful, and I will cherish all the memories of my Mother, to honour her, and I will be joyful, and thankful. Much love from her fills my heart so sweetly. Thank you for your very wise words!!!!
Had I seen this video 4 years back when I lost my father... I would have managed myself / my life in better way. This is truly an eye opener for all who lost their parents.
if you replace "cope" with "acceptance"? to cope is to overcome a problem or difficulties. and that feeling generates resistance. the reality is we all leave this place. and to accept with gratefulness the natural way of life brings peace in the heart. may you find love and peace in your heart.
My mother died in Dec 21, i was shattered along with family in nursing her to relatively quick death. I am not religious or even spiritual but i was just broken day after day but i started listening to Sadguru and I was able to move forward with his really mind opening talks, certainly recommend it for anyone. My mum lives in my mind quietly to cherish her memories…..
Thank you Sadhguru for this eye opening session. Lost my mom in sep 2023. Cried enough in all these three years I pray for her well being wherever she is. Mummy I know you too will Miss me. Love and hugs my dear Mom forever in my memory
I lost my mum 22nd March 2024 I feel so much for her , i watched an interview of Andrew Garfield talking about losing his mum, and he said "Grief is unexpressed love". I love the way he put it
Lost my mother, it’s two months since she left me. Two months ago at this time she was alive, with me and I did not have the slightly clue that by evening my whole world would come crashing down. I go on with life like a robot. I can’t sleep, I don’t have the same kind of faith in god anymore. I did all the rituals because my mother believed in it. I don’t think I’ll ever recover. I’m the only child and she was all I had. I go on with the hope that I’ll meet her in the afterlife and I try to live because she worked really hard to make something of me. I’ve come so close to giving up but I go on because I have to. Whoever has lost someone dear to you, I hope you find the strength to go on.
I lost my father 10 months back. Still not able to overcome it. I always need to distract myself to forget the fact that this is never going to be fixed .People said to me, time heals everything .Give it time.The hollowness would never be healed.
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
Thank you so much Sadhguru ji you explain so nicely a burden on my heart is also minimise by some way ..I always remember those happy moments with my mother ...love u maa ...forever❤❤❤❤❤
I lost my mom too I can understand.. gradually I realised everyone is in our life for a reason or a season but when you do things to honour her she’ll get a cold breeze in whatever form she is right now
Sadguru i lost my mother 20 years back but she lives on in my heart ❤always. I have so many memories to keep me going.. Every relation is love based .. they leave you but they never go away. ❤
I lost maa 3 months back all of a sudden. Her only wish was to leave when she was on her feet and not bed ridden with sm disease n dats wat exactly she was granted. But last 5 days she suffered. I couldnt sleep for many nights remebering the sight when she wss in pain. When I think from her angle, I feel its better for her, her body was giving up she was exhausted n tired of living life. She had a miserable one. But then when I think selfishly I feel she shdnt hav gone leaving me alone in this cruel world.
Same here.even i lost my mom 5 months ago.she was tired of living inthis cruel world.she passed of cancer at the age of 70.yes she was in pain last two years.unable to walk.she has gone leaving me alone in this selfish world..
Sadguru ji, i have heard you only on youtube. Many of your talk i could never comprehend, but here i get a sense of something for which i was looking for an answer many many year My humble heartfelt gratitude to your simplified words of wisdom 🙏🙏🙏.
i lost my mom 3 days back and I still feel she talks to me everyday , guides me , she is in me. Since I am the elder child I have taken all the responsibilities on me, and I’m scared, anxious everyday I get multiple panic attacks every day and this feels like a never ending pain and suffering
What a great, knowledgeable man. He also seems so humble. Which takes so much strength while being someone who people look up to. I pray that woman has found more peace. I hope she will see her mother again one day.
This was comforting to me as i am incredibly sad. I lost my mom on April 21, 2024. I am 53 years old, so i am fortunate for all that time. However, like Sadhguru said, would twenty more years or one hundred more have been enough? No. I have to think of the natural order of life, and it was her time.
Thank you for this video! After loosing a pair of twins, my parents, and my grand-parents-mother’s side, I felt empty and lost in this life. The same feeling as the meditator’s question on this video, but, Sadhguru’s explanation helped me understand and decide to honor them. Thank you!🙏
Today I was feeling down at the loss of a friend, but I knew that Sadhguru would have insight into how to cope. My search brought me here and now I have peace. Sometimes I don't know where Sadhguru is going with his message and it seems as if he goes off some other direction, but he always returns to the question with an answer and wonderful insight.
I'd like to think of our loved ones as treasures or gifts from life. When they are gone, the thought that other fortunate beings will be able to receive such a gift, and also the thought that I will meet them one day in a different way, might help a bit to move on... love and hugs and prayers to you all❤
My god I share this ladies pain. Like deep deep pain. I haven’t been myself since I lost my best friend. My mom died February 1, 2021 and I have been in deep pain and unrecognizable for the last 3 years. Idk how so many years have gone by but this one message helps me to change my thinking. Having joy doesn’t mean I forget about my mother or leave her behind, it’s carrying her with me in everything because that’s what she’d want, as cliche as that sounds. Thank you thank you thank you for this message..
