How to Create a Sexual Spark With a Woman - Examples 

This is all so true! i love it when guys tease me. too nice is boring

oh the irony. in order to up your chances of not getting rejected, you have to stop caring if you get rejected

information gathering convos =friend zone. creating emotional spikes where she isnt sure that you like her or not = attraction

A girl once told me she didn't get bullied in school so I asked if _she_ was the bully. 😅😊

This is so true. Having a confident sense of humour while talking to a girl is one of the best ways to seduce them. What's also worked for me is just being confident in the moment aka being self-assured. It's amazing how easy it is for a girl to get turned on by that. The ladies are wired differently to us gents.

Definitely works. Show them youre already having fun and just felt like talking to her. They wanna see your personality, not really have a normal conversation. A way not to feel like theyre just talking to a nice stranger is bringing in what you're about.

In addition to generating a more playful exchange to make the lady feel relaxed I normally like to asked an open end question to find out what her interests are. Many guys try too hard to impress the lady by talking about themselves too much. I learned to get the lady comfortable enough to do most of the talking.

I’ve tried telling men this. Falls on deaf ears. Wish women themselves would articulate this to men, but, they don’t. They don’t seem to understand, or have any idea what they’re attracted to, or at least never communicate it!

I did this back in the 80s and i got hundreds of women and so did alot of my friends. And none of us are good looking. Im 51 now and i playfully tease women all the time and even young women want me. They tell me they love mature men but they actually love what Dan is talking about

Holy Toledo I just realized how badly I totally blew it just two days ago by asking a woman I'd just met whether men are intimidated by her being a highly paid professional in the medical field. I thought I was giving her a subtle compliment that was not tied to her mind-blowing physical beauty, but now I see I instantly killed off whatever attraction there might have been right at the onset. Drat and double drat! I wish I'd watched this video clip just 48 hours earlier. I feel like a trophy marlin just broke the leader and swam off. I could kick myself for being such a moron. She ghosted me quick and I had no idea what the heck I said wrong, until now. I just set the bell to ring, Dan, so I'll be quick to listen in when next you post more wisdom here. I feel so freaking bad right now.

100% Gamechanger... All the tips work like magic! All girls I talk to smile,enjoy speak to me. And after 3-4 times I start to believe in my self 10x than before.. Highly recommend to all men 👍Thank you Dan, you are the GOAT in this industry 🤩🤩🤩

Dan, I've been watching you for years. You're indeed the older brother most of us never had.

Bringing home the bacon once again

I read the flow years ago and i didnt realize it helped me have a positive effect and interaction with 22 women. I didnt know it helped me out that much until i just counted. Since then i have regressed tho so im thinking about reading it again. It sucks that confidence is not like a bike where you can just hop back on without having 2 learn how to ride all over again.

Im 40, I've been in a relationship since I was 19.. Dating and talking to women feels so foreign. My strategy right now is to just get used to rejection lol.. Real world advice like this is awesome! Time to practice lol

I'm glad I watched this one to the end.. Good summary, mate. Cheers

Bro. The amount of truth you spilled on this video is insane. It’s insane to think this knowledge is free. Thanks buddy 🙏🏾

Dan, the GOAT of dating and relationships is BACK!!!

Best coach ever 🔥🔥🔥💪🏿 Thanks Dan

Currently in a relationship, but still enjoying your content! Good stuff, brotha

Recently i buy your book "the flow" but im not put this information in practice yet. In the last two months im begin to learn english because this information is not be able in spanish (my native language). In my personal experience, i have confidence in social interactions but im has been too neutral in my interactions with girls. Your information is amazing and im feel glad for find it when im still young (26), thank you brother

First time here: definitely a solid take/lesson explained very well with no unnecessary fluff. Will definitely be checking out more of your stuff.

Great video Dan, do make a sequel to this !

YOU SAVED MY LIFE. I CANT EXPLAIN BUT THIS VIDEO SAVED ME. THANK YOU DAN BEACON.

I've never had a problem dating attractive women but this information would take me to the next level once I've mastered it. I want to date women like you post in your videos. They're amazing.

Very interesting video! Thank you.

Great as always. Quito-Ecuador 🇪🇨 2023

If all men want attractive women but attractive women are not that many then a lot of men are going to be left out

Great tips. Thank you for posting.

I just realiEd that the pictures of women responding to the good and bad responses actually help simulate the situation and can give you some confidence. Efore you even leave the house. Im gonna use this video for this in the future.

Dude, your videos are gold.

Love that you gave examples got my sub bro

This is really great! Great usable information!!

Awesome! And, I like the giggles in the background. 😄

Another great video from Dan the man!

My intuition tells me that i would acknowledge her nerdiness and ask her if she plays a lot of videogames, it would tease her but also connect because that is something i do. I could then continue to tease her about her losing to me in any game she chooses.

You make so much sense. Thank You Dan.

Appreciate it gang this the information I need to learn beacuse I ain’t got no one to learn this from but you just got a new subscriber 💯🔥🔥

Excellent information ❤

Dan the man! Your coaching skills in my head for the gym! Works thanks man.

Good content. Helpful video.

.... I just LOVE this!!

Best one yet Dan!

I have to say that you Really selected some GORGEOUS pictures... (smile)... I 'learned' from my Dad to use wit and humor to approach practically anybody... and even to use it to avoid a fight or conflict, as I went thru school. As an adult, I got into retail sales, and how to approach a client or new customer, and to put them at ease right away... But I have to be 'careful' that my easy approach does not put me in "The Friend Zone" right away. So I always find a way to let them know I am attracted to them yet to keep a bit of that signal that my interest is more than "just friends"... I like to use a lot of "Double Intendre" with words and phrases that 'can be' totally innocent or could have a more personal or even sexual meaning... "Would you like to 'come with me' and get a drink at the bar..?" Or we could do Both..." From there, you just have to be ready to go in whatever direction she takes it... play innocent and accuse her, in a fun way, of having a dirty mind, or ask which one she wants to do first.. Another point I would like to "Add" to the conversation is this... When you Complement a lady about their clothing, jewelry, or shoes, whatever... Do NOT just say "That is a pretty blouse..." but Rather, say "That Blouse looks GREAT on you! (It is not simply that the blouse is pretty...but that it is Pretty ON HER... SHE Makes the blouse look pretty..! Whatever it is... those shoes look wonderful on you! That Hat goes perfectly with your gorgeous brown hair! "SHE" makes the clothes and accessories look good. I ALWAYS get a pleasant response! And make it a 'habit' to compliment ladies that same way where ever you are... of course, be careful if they are already with a man... you may spark a protective jealousy... {You need a bit of experience pulling That off} But I compliment ladies every where I go... if for nothing more than putting a smile on their face and making them feel just a bit better about themselves... And IF you "Practice" when it does not mean anything, then you will feel more natural and relaxed when it does 'matter'...

I'm autistic and it's funny how my slightly insulting honest criticism towards women gets me dates

Great video! Give Us one for couples to keep the spark going!!

Love the content!

Great video 🔥

Nice explanation, there are still guys spend all day long at gym to get muscle and wish to get girlfriend but still couldn't.

Thank you ❤

1:53 I laughed cause that is totally me. Then I go home after the rejection and question my existence. 😂

Dan, do you think it's fair from me to ask my girlfriend to take better care of her looks, like to wear makeup, make her hair and stuff like that? I feel like we're getting along well but I see a lot of other couples on the streets where the girls/women really put in a lot of effort to take care of their looks while my girlfriend doesn't wear any makeup anymore, only very rarely. I don't know how to get to that dynamic in the relationship with my girl who loves me. She's insecure too that she could lose me so I don't know how to approach this. Also, could you possibly make more videos about the 5 relationship stages you talked in one video? Explaining further how to keep a good dynamic all the time with your woman? Thanks a lot for all the help you give and one day I can't wait to have the money to buy one of your products

Hey Dan, just a quick question , I’m 41 but look about 10 years younger, read and listened to your The Flow book and few of the other books, I can now easily talk to women without feeling too nervous as I used to be however I seem to attract and be attracted to much younger women (20s) and I still can’t shake off the negative mindset that I think “I’m too old” “she is too young” I get ‘scared’ to ask how old she is and lastly “she will freak out if I tell her my age” as most girls think I’m in my early 30s , any tips on overcoming this mindset ? Cheers , Adam

Didn’t know you still make videos. Looking good bacon!

Hey Dan how does it feel to be such a stud? Seriously man I love all your videos!

You are truly a king of the girls ...... I continue to learn from your channel

Thanks so much dan

Finally some real workable dating advice from an Aussie

Hey Dan, Do I buy the audio and the book or do I just buy 1 of them. The flow that is

Everyone plays it safe. Women like a bit of edginess and honesty when communicating with them.

Man, u’r an inspiration!

thanks, good video

Newly single and have watched hundreds of videos. This one is the best by far. I’ll watch this every time I go out now. Cheers!!

❤😊well explained ,

Some women seem to test you though. I always remember a liked and she knew. I bumped into her and was trying to talk to her but she seem disinterested and seemed preoccupied with her phone. Its like women give out "shit tests" you have to pass.

Dan changed my life❤️ respect man.

Great video thank you 🙏🏻

You are the best brother

Hii dan I am totally newbie with no skills can you recommend me the order to buy your product 1st to last.

Priceless content! 💪👑💰✈

Valuable information

Dan, you da Man.

This guy is so right guys need to step out of the comfort zone flirt throw a joke in there. Woman like masculine confident men dress nice throw a nice perfume and men dont worry there are woman like fish at sea dont be afraid of failure.

Make her love you for life is great. I'm going to get the flow here soon. Thanks for what you do. Foreal.

great video dan. cheers

I watch this sort of content at work usually for a laugh. Dating coaches, monosphere etc. This guy, isn't wrong. I'm naturally kind of a playful prick with women and it's worked really well for me. I never did it on purpose. I just am what I am. But it does work.

Open-end questions often work well.

This is good stuff Dan *grabs notebook

Bacon is back-on with a banger! ❤

Hey Dan just started watching your videos and subscribed to your channel. I also look forward to reading your book. I really found your advice to be practical. I think this is it. I am too nice and never teased a girl much, hence they I could never see the attraction I wanted or whatever was created did not last or they found another guy behind my back. I’m tired of this Dan I really am. And I want to change that. I can be a quiet person socially because I have hearing loss. I can have a hard time detecting a girl from a distance because I have low vision. Sometimes I think even if I succeed in attracting a beautiful girl, when she finds out that I cannot drive and some other guy can, she will lose attraction to me. So perhaps you can give a feedback on thar it would mean a lot. Also Dan, there is a girl in a class I’m taking. I like her so much. We are even going to be working together soon. But I think I have been nice then flirty. I still have 4 months. Is there anything you can tell me that can help me with this girl and how I can get her to go out with me?

"you're cute, smart, what's the catch?" also puts her on the spot

Fellow Aussie Legend!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love your work brother!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have a question. So I like this girl but she said her life is complicated at the moment because of her ex, the father of her child. What do I do?? Or say?

...... Dan is baaaaaaack! And he's sharing with us his chick magnet SUPERPOWER!!!!!! Thank you Dan for the video! Grazie Signore.

one things for certain,,,these women on this video are beautiful...great advice mate..

The things that are easy for me are the witty banter and the charm the hard things for me are the doninating leading and be masculine. Its uncomfortable for me to impose my will on somebody elsez damn near feels unethical st times. How do I get over this or get my confortable with that aide of things.

Dan the man . I'm the first to comment .

Dan , can you do a video about the number of ways we can meet more women than a normal man. I mean other than the bars , pubs Cheers.

These statements are so factual

Thanks for the tipps. Maybe that's the reason many women, that I wen't on a date with eventually didn't want more than friendship and many of them didn't even know why they felt that way, which was quite an unsatisfying answer for me (and I guess also for them) of course...🙈😅 I'll definitely try this strategy as well, though I would rather try sth. else than calling up on the patriarchal structures, as if a woman needed to be able to cook, I would rather prefere a woman who stands up for equality... ;)

One more question man. When flirting, what tonality should you use? A slightly playful tone of voice or you still need to project a strong voice tone which is deep?

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Its crazy that I’ve never had an issue getting a girl until i find one i want to date then i turn into a pansy apparently. girls will stay interested for so long even though I’m being an asshole and only calling them at 11 on Friday night. Then i treat a girl like a princess and boom they’re not interested guess i need to find a balance there thanks man

hey, @Dan Bacon what about if i was needy and pushed her away... we was good and i was doing good but then messed up bad. can you coach me to get her back? please and thanks man

One time I was talking to an attractive Croatian girl and said "You know it's crazy, every Croatian girl I've met has been really beautiful... until now. " She burst out laughing, and away we went. 😁

Thank you. I was wandering how can I sexualize the interaction with a girl and Thank GOD I discovered your advice

Hello Dan..It's me again, you male admirer.. I love you so much man and I really desire what you have, it's divine. Ad usual I have quite some questions 1. How do you handle women who seem to take your playfully challenging humor a bit serious? Do you tone it down a bit or you just keep doing it? Cos some people have very bad sense of humor 2. What's the best way to start a conversation then? 3. As a confident alpha male, I could say anything right? So how do I say an insecure statement like the one in the example and get away with it even though I've been making the girl feel attracted up until that point 4. Most times when I use these techniques, it goes well however the girls sometimes still act as though they are not into me or they aren't comfortable. Why is that? 5. How do I get better at flirting and being witty and also not focusing on words instead but also physical escalating too 6. Is it good to be vulnerable with women and also to tell stories?

You have a brilliant beard! I want to grow one that like that.

what if she answers that she don't know how to cook anything?

No persigas a las mujeres (eso las aleja a ellas) Las mujeres quieren un hombre de alto valor. Una vez que ella comience a creer que la valoras más de lo que ella te valora a ti, su atracción por ti se desplomará. ¿Por qué es eso? Porque las mujeres están programadas para valorar a los hombres que tienen un valor más alto que ellas mismas. Todo esto es parte del gran diseño para perpetuar la especie y evolucionar. Las mujeres quieren aparearse con el macho de mayor valor, y más dominante que puedan atraer. Del mismo modo, los hombres quieren aparearse con la mujer más hermosa, y cariñosa que puedan atraer. Todo esto es para que las mujeres, puedan dar a luz, a una descendencia fuerte y hermosa. A su vez, esa descendencia también se apareará, y dará a luz a una descendencia hermosa y fuerte; y así sucesivamente. Todo se trata de sobrevivencia de la especie nuestra, junto con nuestros genes. El único problema con todo esto es, que cuando realmente amamos a una mujer, y estamos emocionalmente apegados a ella, no es fácil dejarla ir cuando ella se aleja de ti. De hecho, puede ser francamente desgarrador. Entonces, es beneficioso entender la naturaleza de una mujer, cuando la persigues o andas atrás de ella, y cuando le debes dar el tiempo a ella, que venga lentamente hacia ti a su ritmo y velocidad.