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How To Deal When Life Isn't Fair 

Alex Picot-Annand
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Do you feel like the pigeons always pick YOU to crap on?
Life isn't fair.
Maybe you were born with a head that looks like a pigeon toilet.
Rather than fight reality and despair over the unfairness of life, figure out how to work WITH your "not fair" things:
*Where DO you have control?
*What CAN you do?
*Despite the pigeon doody, how do you WANT to show up anyway?
Doing whatever we can to move forward in the face of adversity builds strength, resilience, and often connects us to others.
Not so bad for pigeon poo.
#pigeonslikeme #notfair #lifeisntfair #adversity #connection #resilience #ilooklikeshrek #whatcanyoudo #selfresponsibility #lifeadvice #empower #keepgoing #pigeonpoop
#pewpew

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@eden409
@eden409 3 года назад
When you want to die but to scared to.... There's always those cruel people who make life so unfair..
@jeanjacqueslundi3502
@jeanjacqueslundi3502 3 года назад
If others are cruel you have to be extra loving to yourself then. The only fairness in life is the love of kind souls.
@carmelasarabia1564
@carmelasarabia1564 2 года назад
Ayo good😁
@liscabio
@liscabio 7 месяцев назад
​@@jeanjacqueslundi3502no one is kind
@alrx43
@alrx43 5 лет назад
Thank you so much, I live in a very screwed up family, and watching this video helped me so much!
@aishidey2463
@aishidey2463 4 года назад
So do I...not just family in my case..it's the entire society
@Ryomen230
@Ryomen230 2 года назад
Me too 😊
@dgrhoton8584
@dgrhoton8584 6 лет назад
This is so motivational. Thank you for the great content.
@jos9559
@jos9559 4 года назад
I find this incredibly hard to swallow. If I was unfairly given a multitude of difficulties to overcome, why should it fall to me alone to deal with? Why should I be told that, whilst it is incredibly unfair that I was born with a certain handicap, I have to man up and work through it anyway? Fuck that. This shit truly is unfair, and I'm too damn jaded to give a shit about changing it. I'm in the rut and I don't see a way of getting out.
@alexpicot-annand9207
@alexpicot-annand9207 4 года назад
You're right, it IS hard to swallow. It really, really sucks when we're dealt a challenge that we didn't ask for or deserve. And I also think you're right that you shouldn't have to deal with it alone. In fact, I think it's really important to reach out to others when we're going through hard times, whether that's friends, family, or a professional. Other people can help teach us, coach us, and comfort us when we struggle. That being said, it's still OUR responsibility to own our challenges. We can choose to take steps to help ourselves, and make our lives just a little better. And there are some things that only we can do for ourselves -- no one else can do it for us. I'm sorry you're going through a rough time. I hope this helps clarify a little bit. I'm cheering you on!
@Zaina_Karim
@Zaina_Karim 4 года назад
@Roberto Murillo Hey nice word 😇
@borderlinebae4010
@borderlinebae4010 3 года назад
@@alexpicot-annand9207 what kind of BS is this? How should it be YOUR responsibility for example when you get bullied throughout your years in school, are physically/mentally abused by your parents and therefore develop mental illnesses that stop you from developing into a functioning adult, that stop you from pursuing a career because nobody wants people who can't function, that stops you from having functioning relationships, marrying, etc.? This is protecting the ones responsible for the mess and shifting the blame and responsibility to the ones having to suffer because of the action of others!
@jeanjacqueslundi3502
@jeanjacqueslundi3502 3 года назад
@@borderlinebae4010 I understand you. Alex's advice in the end isnt better than anyone elses. Its a common phrase in selfhelp. The fact of the matter is that there are things that happen to us that cannot be explained or justified or reconciled. What is also true is that the shittier your life....the more you are owed love. And since everyone else is either selfabsorbed or wounded themselves ........we either find ways to nurture ourselves and heal. ....or era are fucked. Please dont give up. Its a about emotional healing. Its truly possible....i speak from personal experinces with a lot of trauma. It takes a lot of effort. But you are worth it!
@jos9559
@jos9559 2 года назад
@@alexpicot-annand9207 I revisited this thread following some activity on it which sent me a notification. Reading what you said again, I understand now. I have been dealt challenges, and whilst it would be almost impossible to overcome without any help whatsoever, there are still individual changes which only I am capable of making to improve my life. Where I am currently is a lot more positive than when I commented previously - finding employment and working out have contributed to this, as well as an ever-developing understanding of myself. My initial comment was incredibly hostile upon reflection, and that's due to the utter hopelessness I felt day in day out. I would like to apologise, because although my outrage and discontent was justified, it does no good to take it out on someone who is clearly trying to help people in my position. I'm by no means completely satisfied, but I'm happy with my progress and I feel that I am back on track, albeit with plenty of challenges still to face. On behalf of all of those who are struggling, I would like to offer my sincere thanks to you and all those who commit themselves to improving the lives of strangers who are staring despair down the barrell.
@catatonic8313
@catatonic8313 4 года назад
you clearly have a good mindset. a positivity one, dont let it die because positive is imbalanced in this world. negativity rules over all
@memenestronedodo2313
@memenestronedodo2313 4 года назад
This made me hate life more
@neverever.8222
@neverever.8222 2 года назад
I feel you
@nord1756
@nord1756 Год назад
This Video?
@Aaron-mj9ie
@Aaron-mj9ie 4 года назад
Nikola Tesla was the western father of invention. He came to this country on a boat in 1886, and worked every day towards bettering the lives of people everywhere. He made untold thousands of discoveries and inventions related to electricity, lights, lasers, and engines. You likely owe your entire being to him and couldn't even fathom how... And he died alone in his bed, penniless, and not even receiving recognition or credit due to theft... Meanwhile, there are modern 20 year olds who have RU-vid channels about petty drama and vaping that make more in a month than you'll make in a lifetime, and then claim to ""work hard"" if you criticize it.
@supreet6331
@supreet6331 3 года назад
How much "RU-vid" as a business makes? More than these idiot dumbass kids making drama on RU-vid. Smartness wins. Everything has a value. If you're goal is money, go do dinner business. If you're goal is fame, go become a famous singer. Tesla's goal was to change the world and he did. His goal was never to become rich.
@mohilpatel8054
@mohilpatel8054 2 года назад
@@supreet6331 how do we know ...behind head he might be thinking of geting some money who knows.
@twinsoultarot473
@twinsoultarot473 2 месяца назад
If there was no money system, Nikola Tesla would be a GOD OF THE MODERN AGE.
@mounib..6160
@mounib..6160 8 дней назад
I own nobody anything
@scottayar5136
@scottayar5136 Год назад
I have autism and dyslexia it’s not fun living life with people laughing in your face but I still move forward
@projectmoonlark_hogwarts1111
@projectmoonlark_hogwarts1111 21 день назад
❤️❤️ hope your better now
@Ant-speakingfacts
@Ant-speakingfacts 2 года назад
I hate this world😡
@purplepig4747
@purplepig4747 2 года назад
somebody has everything i want right now without even trying and i have to be here after so many time without reaching anything
@haristhebosniaklion8584
@haristhebosniaklion8584 2 года назад
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan,Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ✌️✌️ Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression……
@aadilhussain1101
@aadilhussain1101 2 года назад
Good vid. Too sum up Life may not be fair to you, just do what you can to counteract and try to learn from it.
@numan1837
@numan1837 4 года назад
I guess I want to cry and then die 😔
@calebthomas.jr.3783
@calebthomas.jr.3783 4 года назад
Then just do it my god stop waiting
@ashleyjosh5876
@ashleyjosh5876 3 года назад
Me too but dont kill yourself tho 😯 l know you can do something but you just dont know it 😇
@Buglardons
@Buglardons 3 года назад
@@Jack-fw7wd that'll be 13 yr, since i'm seven that I feel this pain it just got worse now I'm 20 and I just see that my future will only be worse seeing my dream being dismantled days after days now I have in addition of that a malady I did chemeos 77times for 18 months I got one year break now it just restarted.. i see all my friend being separated by multiple year appart me due to the fact I had to redouble class because of absence. At first and during a long long time i was like that but now I don't now how the things could go better.. I see all my friend succeeding in life, starting the same passion as me that I can't do. I feel more and more hopeless I can't see how this pain could go a day when you already have regret since 7.
@BlueRGuy
@BlueRGuy 3 года назад
Guys I don't think he's here anymore...
@terrell3664
@terrell3664 3 года назад
@@calebthomas.jr.3783 stfu
@DutchPlanDerLindeFromTahiti
We humans are so arrogant, before we were born we were asked if we can handle this life and with our arrogance we thought we could handle it easily I regret everything
@cynthiacole6140
@cynthiacole6140 Год назад
Lately the universe has been teaching me that life isn’t fair.
@lovelyshawdowz7972
@lovelyshawdowz7972 4 года назад
When I know there’s people dying and suffering and the world isn’t fair and not everyone is happy I feel guilty almost like someone is pulling my shirt in the back of my head trying to tell me something, sometimes I wonder if life is actually worth the pain and time since at the end of the day everyone is gonna die and be forgotten in 100 years and these thing are sometimes pulling from me and questioning if I should do something that makes me happy and I almost feel guilty about it.
@Mo-.
@Mo-. 2 года назад
If you feel guilt for something you can’t directly change, it’s a sign you’re an empathetic and good person. If I were you, I would take pride in that, if nothing else
@guangyao8269
@guangyao8269 3 года назад
Thanks for the vid. I’m always jealous that my friend gets all the attention of my friends but when I try be with them, it just doesn’t happen
@planestranger
@planestranger 4 года назад
World is unfair, ok. But what can I do? Nothing. Ok, but where DO I have control? Nowhere, where it matters to me. Ok, but how do I wanna live my life anyway? I don't wanna live in this shitty world.
@idkusername2981
@idkusername2981 Год назад
I hope you're still living, I wish you figured something out man. I'm feeling the exact same way you were.
@ruisuarts8257
@ruisuarts8257 5 лет назад
Lucid Dreams Are The Only Way To Escape.
@Lovelessvalentine66
@Lovelessvalentine66 5 лет назад
Drrrrrruuuuuugggggsssss
@shadowxshadow7303
@shadowxshadow7303 4 года назад
I never seem to be able to lucid dream when I am asleep the only way is if I wake up at 6 am and go back to bed with the intention of lucid dreaming. But the problem is I have to be at school by 6.40 any tips
@RealMozart
@RealMozart 4 года назад
@@shadowxshadow7303 Weekends? Holidays? Thats when you should lucid dream
@defcon1africa676
@defcon1africa676 2 года назад
The narrator is part of those lucky first world citizen preaching deal what life gave you. She's comfortable herself
@somerobloxgamers426
@somerobloxgamers426 3 месяца назад
Only problem: Sometimes there is no power Sometimes life isnt fair and if we think about it, we want to die, cause it isnt fair And if you truly do good things all the time, life will be fair. But when life isnt fair, no matter how good you are, you won't be good. And if life isnt balanced, why live in it? Bad days ruin your week and year. Thinking about it makes you remember that you don't like life.
@meh1542
@meh1542 3 года назад
Whoever you are, keep going -Fellow human
@shalikui9849
@shalikui9849 4 года назад
Life isn’t fair your ether born into fortune or your born to lose
@draffeee
@draffeee 4 года назад
You right! God bless you stranger
@Perros1245
@Perros1245 6 лет назад
What if someone is stupid ugly and can't do anything in life?? What then?
@Endless20162
@Endless20162 5 лет назад
EXACTLY! Stupid, Ugly, and Poor... while some are born Rich, Famous, and beautiful.. this is why I despise life. but for some some reason the world will not function if there is no unfairness. It's like Playing Dice before you were born ( getting 1 would most likely be Stupid, Ugly, and Poor while getting 6 is born famous, rich, smart, and beautiful )
@truereligionfiend738
@truereligionfiend738 4 года назад
Endless true but someone in that position could just workout and that would increase there attractiveness,social skills (if they do a sport) and if they do a sport a scholarship can help with financial woes working out is pretty free the opportunity of running and lifting are everywhere around us
@bgsert4285
@bgsert4285 4 года назад
@@Endless20162 they're just too lucky and Im suffering
@bgsert4285
@bgsert4285 4 года назад
@@freeph78 ikr
@xrpgino6858
@xrpgino6858 3 года назад
Boo hoo
@absorbtheride
@absorbtheride 5 лет назад
Good video and it kinda reinforced my feelings on taking back power. What do you do when you order some carbon bars from Aliexpress and they send ones too small that don't fit and laugh when you ask for a refund and you lose all your money? What do you do the next day when you email the council after damaging your bike on a pothole and they blatantly ignore you and fail to take responsibility? ….Because for me, I feel like taking back that power and I feel like violently hurting a lot of people. We do live in an unfair and unjust society, I feel like going Rambo on these companies and people. It's either that or take it in the ass again and do nothing. We need to stand up to not fair, we need to take back control, society has gone soft and injustice is the result of it. There will be civil uprising with the way things are going in the world. Anyway cool video! lol :)
@titan4118
@titan4118 6 лет назад
That's like saying you have some problem with you that could potentially fuck your life up and you don't get help, and the reason is because it's their responsibility. It's a bit fucked.
@uhlersoth99
@uhlersoth99 4 года назад
OMG, you are amazing! Thank you for your presentation. I love it, Im very impressed by your videos. I m going to watch them all, I cant wait.
@winnieamar9368
@winnieamar9368 2 года назад
Stoicism can really help deal with the unfairness.
@Shadowkitty360
@Shadowkitty360 3 года назад
No one understands military life and what it's like to not be allowed to settle down anywhere even though it's what you want. Being forced to constantly move against your will your entire life is so draining, soul crushing, and isolating.
@projectmoonlark_hogwarts1111
@projectmoonlark_hogwarts1111 21 день назад
im sorry 💔
@Shadowkitty360
@Shadowkitty360 21 день назад
@projectmoonlark_hogwarts1111 Thank you. I've made peace with the scars that my past has left on me. I will never live a normal life, and I will always have shortcomings due to my upbringing. I've taken time to mourn all I've lost. At the same time, I also don't put that much pressure on myself to meet societal expectations anymore. F*ck em. All you can really do in life is do the best you can with what you have. Life does get better.
@jen2-v7z
@jen2-v7z 3 года назад
Thank you for the great video :) I hope you are happy and motivated just like me after watching this!
@twinsoultarot473
@twinsoultarot473 2 месяца назад
Life would be fair if there was no money system.
@sobaksobak4185
@sobaksobak4185 7 месяцев назад
This made me feel better but the last line was too much 😂
@TheHollandHS
@TheHollandHS 3 года назад
I'm particularly mad when someone thinks I should give up. Or tell me to stick on my priveleges and give up inner will. Or even laugh at my not giving up attitude. Like a backward villain.
@veryconfused9768
@veryconfused9768 3 года назад
Damn why the art resonating so much with me even though it's simple
@MASTERVivee
@MASTERVivee 4 года назад
My life sucks 😐
@drrahulsharma5751
@drrahulsharma5751 4 года назад
You have described this beautifully ..well done
@wheeler116
@wheeler116 5 лет назад
Great video. I can personally attest that everything said in this video is true. Just last month I had a mass removed that was mistaken to be cancerous. Fortunately it wasn’t, but my schedule along with school was still affected by my surgery and the recovery period. I had multiple tests that were unable to be extended. As a result I had less than half the time to study for these tests than most of the other students did. I found myself saying things like, “if I get a bad grade it’s because of my schedule.” “If i were to place a bet on who would do better on a test, someone who had a week to study, or someone who had three days to study, I’m definitely not picking the latter.” “Its all set up against me.” While those things were true, saying those things didn’t change my circumstances. Nothing could change my circumstances, but someone could change my outcome. That person was me. I once met rapper lecrae at a concert and one of the things he said at the concert was “I cannot change my circumstances, but I can be changed in them.” That’s exactly it. You can’t change your situation, but you can change your outlook. You can either be frustrated when stuff doesn’t go your way you or you can feel empowered. God bless
@alexpicot-annand9207
@alexpicot-annand9207 5 лет назад
Wheelz, thanks for sharing your empowering story. We all do that, don't we? I call it "failing ahead of time". We look at something that scares us, where maybe the odds are stacked against us, and we decide to quit or mentally check-out even before we've even given ourselves a chance to succeed. The kind of moment that you described going through, where you looked at the grim odds but *still* decided to show up anyway, are what make us stronger. Good for you :)
@user-ee5om8wy7u
@user-ee5om8wy7u Год назад
Only u decide to be or not to be a victim of injustice OR a rose that grew from concrete.
@Saic-ow4um
@Saic-ow4um 4 года назад
Life is not always balanced but My life never has been balanced. I don't know what happiness feels like. Since child I haven't experience happiness. No matter how hard and smart I work I always fail. Life is really not fair. I wanna end my life here.
@alexpicot-annand9207
@alexpicot-annand9207 4 года назад
Hi Sushim, it sounds like you've had a tough time in your life. I'm so sorry. It also sounds like you've been really resilient, and that you've kept going even though you aren't succeeding in the way you want to. How do you find your strength to keep going? I bet others could learn from you. You're right that life isn't fair, but I wonder if you can still find it meaningful? Please reach out to someone if you're feeling really down. If you want to keep commenting, I'll respond when I can. Wishing you all the best
@Saic-ow4um
@Saic-ow4um 4 года назад
@@alexpicot-annand9207 Thank you. It means alot.
@alexpicot-annand9207
@alexpicot-annand9207 4 года назад
@@Saic-ow4um Anytime :) By the way, you might like the RU-vid channel "The School of Life" ( ru-vid.com/show-UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog ) It explores lots of life's big questions and has really cool cartoons. If you like podcasts, I also really like "The Life Coach School Podcast with Brooke Castillo" ( podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-life-coach-school-podcast/id870239631 ), which is a podcast that has helped me a lot when I've struggled. Take care :)
@Saic-ow4um
@Saic-ow4um 4 года назад
@@alexpicot-annand9207 I'll check it. Take care and stay indoor.
@TyrooShino
@TyrooShino 3 года назад
I'd rather be born in a second world country, than the way I live now. Can't take responsibility for something nobody understands. It's barely living, I'd like to feel atleast somewhat content. I should be able to do normal shit.
@infiniteee762
@infiniteee762 3 года назад
Choose what you wish for😖
@mogusdrip1855
@mogusdrip1855 4 года назад
Thanks for the motivation. It's really helpful.Now I feel that I'm not alone..
@araborneo2067
@araborneo2067 2 года назад
cheers up
@DeeDee-nu3pt
@DeeDee-nu3pt 3 года назад
It's people born without legs and arms and people born with leg and arms so yea life is unfair sometimes
@bjarkekirkbro1428
@bjarkekirkbro1428 5 лет назад
Life is not fair unless you are always winning. And if you start to think about it, would that be any fair? :P
@jeanjacqueslundi3502
@jeanjacqueslundi3502 3 года назад
Nope because for someorn to win someorn hás to be losing.
@idlansyakeel1133
@idlansyakeel1133 3 года назад
I know we searched this out. Guys I'm sorryyy
@cesarandresdechoudens6987
@cesarandresdechoudens6987 3 года назад
I dedicated my whole life to a damn sport, wishing I could go back to before everything was so competitive and now it’s all too late to stop, the only way to stop it from being disappointing and having to hear “you had potential” and being reminded that I wasted it for the rest of my life is to end it, I write this here because I can’t express my true feelings towards anyone I know, I just want to die
@alexpicot-annand9207
@alexpicot-annand9207 3 года назад
Hi Cesar, I'm so sorry you're struggling. I just want you to know that what you're describing--if I'm understanding it correctly--is common. Dedicated athletes run the risk of becoming over-identified with their sport and role as an athlete, sometimes to the point of losing their true sense of self. Maybe that's what's happening now. Maybe things haven't worked out in your sport, and now you wonder what's left of you. But know this: You are more than your dedication to your sport, and you're more than your athletic potential. I suggest you read this to get a better idea of what I'm talking about: thesportdigest.com/2020/02/why-athlete-identity-is-an-issue/ I'd also encourage you to reach out to someone you trust. I know that's a scary thing to do when you feel this way, but it's also incredibly brave, and I bet you're brave. The fact that you're writing in these comments tells me that there's a part of you that wants someone to know what you're going through, so maybe you can get help.
@cesarandresdechoudens6987
@cesarandresdechoudens6987 3 года назад
@@alexpicot-annand9207 thank you
@markcross2445
@markcross2445 3 года назад
So this doesn’t help at all lol
@dip1410
@dip1410 Месяц назад
Why ?
@markcross2445
@markcross2445 Месяц назад
@@dip1410 because it doesn’t change reality. you are what you are and life will never change, if you are a 9 out of 10 you will never choose a 3 out of 10, and we are told to be happy about it. The people blessed with an easy life and good looks tell everyone else to “be happy and enjoy life”, that’s like a boomer telling a Millennials to “try harder” Different rules for different people, and if you aren’t born into it, you won’t get it.
@xsomeoneliving
@xsomeoneliving Год назад
I am broken with my multi situatuations.🥺💔 1. I am born in a country that my small family migrated to. Then we became nationals, So all my life time in school, and university; Students were always making fun and jokes about my family name. 2. I am born with G6pd allergy so many types of food can harm me. 3. I am born with an African hair which is difficult to handle and most people make fun of👩🏻‍🦱 4. At age of 11 I was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes so from that day till today I'm injecting my self with insulin everyday before every meal.💉 5. Diabetes injections and medications caused me lots of skin abnormalities😖 6. I am born not smart and so slow. Although I made lots of hard work in studying and attending classes, now all my effort is mostly un useful because of my forgetting state. 7. I got lot of teeth problems because of my diabetes🦷 8. After graduating of university I couldn't find my dream job because of my very slowness and my weak personality, so I took an easy reception job which is I performed very well in it , but then I faced lots of bullying and shouting from my work colleague because of her bad personality, she was making fun of me just because I am working in a job which is not related to my university studies. 9. Finally I got engaged💍 then after that I was diagnosed with PCOS.🙍🏻‍♀️ 10. I faced crazy hairfall and pimples before knowing about my PCOS diagnosis🙍🏻‍♀️. 9. The day of my PCOS diagnosis I cried so much because I have no energy for a new problem in my life, I rushed back to my work fastly so I not be late, once I reached work my Colleague kept shouting and insulting me because of reaching late. And she made fun of me that I have lots of hospital appointments. I didn't stop crying.💔💔 10. A month after I quitted my job and got married with my love💓 12. After my honeymoon👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻 I discovered a lump on my thyroid, then after checking at hospital I was diagnosed with a high thyroid antibodies. And high cholesterol. 12. After our marriage within 2 months My love went to hospital for check up and he was diagnosed with infertility💔 13. Now I am feeling so bad but also trying not to tell my parents all my bad stories because I am their first girl and I am their first happiness in life, so I have to fight to for my and my partner's health and happiness and (Never lose hope) so I don't hurt my valued little family and don't hurt my feelings any more. 14. Praying became my everything in my life💓, i became so addicted in becoming closer to God to live my Most life.
@ladyra3450
@ladyra3450 Год назад
Thank you so much! this is so helpful!
@mamta9368
@mamta9368 3 года назад
But if you are kind and do good things even if the situation is unfair..other people depend on you and abuse your kindness for their benefit.and this way you are left with basically feeling stupid
@sangourou5719
@sangourou5719 2 года назад
thank you so much I am not doing well today and my whle family is screwed up
@3la23li4
@3la23li4 2 года назад
Thank you 🙏
@RJ-stills
@RJ-stills 4 года назад
Thanks,I needed this!
@timnone7912
@timnone7912 4 года назад
my parents tell me my life is fair
@williamheidelberg2866
@williamheidelberg2866 5 лет назад
Great video really. Thank you. But I didn't get it what do you mean with ''our responsibility''? towards what exactly?
@alexpicot-annand9207
@alexpicot-annand9207 5 лет назад
Hi Ahmad! Thanks! And great question :) When I say things are "our responsibility", what I mean is that we may get handed things in life that we didn't ask for, or don't want, but it's still our job (our responsibility) to take care of them. Here's a simple example: Let's say someone sneezes on you (ew!) and then a couple of days later, you realize you've come down with a cold. You could blame the person that sneezed on you, but that wouldn't really DO anything useful. Instead, you must take responsibility for what you've been given (a cold) and take care of yourself accordingly. It's kind of like saying, "Ok, I guess this is mine to take care of now. Even though it might've been someone else's fault that I got sick, it's my responsibility to make sure I rest, take vitamin C, and drink chicken soup." (Or whatever else you do to take care of yourself when you have a cold.) Does that make sense?
@williamheidelberg2866
@williamheidelberg2866 5 лет назад
​@@alexpicot-annand9207 Yes now I got it. Thank you! But in that way some people must work harder than others and their lives will be much harder than the others .. It's not fair I know .. It's all about luck ..
@jeanjacqueslundi3502
@jeanjacqueslundi3502 3 года назад
@@alexpicot-annand9207 responsability is a shit term. Which is why só many people resist this message. Which is why we all do. As someone spiritual, the pain got worse for me AFTER i was led to belive there is meaning behind crap experinces. (Soul chose this etc)I feel this issues is super important (life being unfair). And its EVERYONES job to solve this for everyone.
@homelanduniversitypress1150
Have a fair day.
@sirejonesk591
@sirejonesk591 Год назад
Im your 1k liker
@unforgettablec
@unforgettablec 3 года назад
I don’t have fair life and I don’t have power
@RT-zh2sz
@RT-zh2sz 7 лет назад
keep going so daam inspiring
@szn00
@szn00 4 года назад
This means a lot... Thanks:)
@coffintears5821
@coffintears5821 2 года назад
Life isnt fair and thats why you have to deal with the cards your dealt with.
@Zaina_Karim
@Zaina_Karim 4 года назад
My brother can play video games and I have to work on my holiday NOT FAIR 😡😡 but this video made me so happy and motivational I love this keep it up 👇🏻
@yakisoba9013
@yakisoba9013 3 года назад
then why did i born with a cleft lip
@mellowblueu
@mellowblueu 3 года назад
Actually wrong! I wish the world were fair then we’ll all know and understand each other. It’s my reaponsiblity, i know! However, The fact that i try really hard! But nothing changes, Is absoutely unacceptable while others dont even have to try. This is why i hate it.
@Luna-sb9ni
@Luna-sb9ni 2 года назад
😭😭
@timviolin
@timviolin 6 лет назад
This was great! Please make more.
@olivia9470
@olivia9470 2 года назад
I just hate my life 😈😈
@brentalo5303
@brentalo5303 3 года назад
Didn't work to me, but tnx
@villainsbridgeclub5268
@villainsbridgeclub5268 4 года назад
It WON'T get better. Just give up.
@matthewgoodwin7459
@matthewgoodwin7459 2 года назад
be greatful that life is "unfair" because if it was everyone would be living a life of "misery" because everyone will be paying for their sins
@Ant-speakingfacts
@Ant-speakingfacts 2 года назад
Bullshit
@mulham2087
@mulham2087 Месяц назад
I don't think so
@therealpro8481
@therealpro8481 3 года назад
Bad way for me
@frenesi97
@frenesi97 4 года назад
Im gonna cry
@Sophie-wo9vk
@Sophie-wo9vk 4 года назад
so if i et my phone taken away its not my falt
@imagnes5042
@imagnes5042 4 года назад
Snape enters the chat
@svasianfilipiname6603
@svasianfilipiname6603 4 года назад
So I guess what you're saying to learn to accept that things aren't fair? ...If Martin Luther King Jr. thought that, we would still have segregation! If Abraham Lincoln thought the same, then SLAVES (having them) would still be legal!
@svasianfilipiname6603
@svasianfilipiname6603 4 года назад
@Anesidora Aynruh Rosa Parks "threw a tantrum" and refused to get out of her chair in the front of the bus back then...good for her! Sometimes, you need to be noisy to get attention and change!.. It's harder these days though unfortunately because the wrong people are in power and maybe there are still stubbornly closed minded people that exsist! .. Maybe unfortunately for me, I am a woman and I am a minority therefore making it hard for me to have a solid voice! If women didn't protest back then to allow women to vote, then women would still not be able to vote even to this day! Bravery (mixed with knowledge and a good heart!) you (and a lot of people too), should try it!
@svasianfilipiname6603
@svasianfilipiname6603 4 года назад
@Anesidora Aynruh Anesidora Aynruh 1. Umm what are you talking about?! You don't know me well enough to decide those based on this comment! 2. Why do you think I came searching for answers (and hoping that this video can shed some light into my problems)! ...I don't have a perfect life but yes thanks for thinking that I do? I am still proud of the things that women and minorites have been able to accomplish and it's time we add to those accomplishments once more!..
@svasianfilipiname6603
@svasianfilipiname6603 4 года назад
@Anesidora Aynruh You didn't understand. I said I DID come to RU-vid in hopes for some of life's answers. But okay see ya..
@terrell3664
@terrell3664 3 года назад
@Solmaz Dar stfu
@terrell3664
@terrell3664 3 года назад
@Solmaz Dar stfu
@purplepig4747
@purplepig4747 2 года назад
but it's so unfair, why not me
@Luna-sb9ni
@Luna-sb9ni 2 года назад
So i cant live anymore i die soon
@Mohamed-bm6yk
@Mohamed-bm6yk Год назад
Why bother live then
@thomasluong2110
@thomasluong2110 Год назад
It not fair that my brother got something and that I got nothing he got some thing for 500 bucks and I ask for some that is 95 bucks it's not fair I ask for years but he ask for a day
@thomasluong2110
@thomasluong2110 Год назад
And my dad said no to the thing that I wanted it's no fair :/
@jefflim7543
@jefflim7543 2 года назад
I dont think its fair thar my wife lefrt me after.suffering a stroke.
@ashleyjosh5876
@ashleyjosh5876 3 года назад
I feel like l'm alone and ugly l see those beautiful girls and l ask myself all day why am l not beatiful like other girls is just not fair and l'm not poor or rich either but the thing is all those people who are rich can buy anything they want l cant and l'm only 13years old l just have to wait till my mother haves money but its okay cause l love my parents and brothers and sisters
@bouisano8770
@bouisano8770 5 лет назад
try to put a music background it will be better and try to cut the silent voice, have fun keep working
@osamintv6135
@osamintv6135 5 лет назад
Bou Isano no shut up
@terrell3664
@terrell3664 3 года назад
Stop
@Vladimir-bh6lp
@Vladimir-bh6lp 3 года назад
1:14 😞
@區光
@區光 5 лет назад
I am sorry but I have to say that god gave me a ruined life, at least up to now.
@simoneee31
@simoneee31 4 года назад
NOTHING last forever. It can/will change for the better. Keep going 😘
@unforgettablec
@unforgettablec 3 года назад
Life always bad for me
@ohthatsmakiyah
@ohthatsmakiyah 4 года назад
For Black Friday my father wife went to the Verizon store because my step brother iphone had stop working. Well since it’s Black Friday they got a deal. my father wife have 2 kids ( son and daughter) & my dad has me left in the house. Because if his broken phone, my step brother gotten the new iPhone 11 she asked her daughter if she wanted one. & of course she said yes. She brought her the new iPhone 11 max pro . Than she brought herself and my dad the recent iPad. Let me remind you. I’m with them the whole time they getting all these exciting goods. Thought she isn’t my mother & I don’t live with them. I felt it was unfair that I gotten nothing. I’m here stuck with an iPhone7 while they’re admiring they’re new iPhone. Am I wrong for feeling this way ?
@truereligionfiend738
@truereligionfiend738 4 года назад
Nah your feelings are valid but it could be worse you could have no phone or any type of family which is very common so count your blessings
@contentdeleted2271
@contentdeleted2271 4 года назад
Life isn't fun i don't have a friend :'(
@haristhebosniaklion8584
@haristhebosniaklion8584 2 года назад
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan,Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ✌️✌️ Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression……
@nekonekonekoneekonekonekoneko
@nekonekonekoneekonekonekoneko 6 лет назад
Subbing
@Dreamweaver_Skunkbag
@Dreamweaver_Skunkbag 2 года назад
Life is unfair
@sheetalsardar9870
@sheetalsardar9870 3 года назад
My ex I getting attention form all the boys and she is coming to know that i am getting jealous and i am getting jealous and that makes her feel that i am under her foot she is always better and this is nourishing her fucking ego and i am feeling like dieing😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔😭😭😢😢😭😭😭😭💔😭😭😭😭
@peppylifeerss2491
@peppylifeerss2491 3 года назад
me to
@mug5022
@mug5022 5 лет назад
Yeah I have high functioning depression sometimes other things are a little harder than just asking a simple little question but cool video though.
@alexpicot-annand9207
@alexpicot-annand9207 5 лет назад
Hey! Yes, you’re absolutely right. With any kind of significant challenge, whether it’s mental, physical, or whatever, it’s never going to be just ONE thing that helps. Usually, it’s a whole toolbox full of mental reframing exercises, supportive relationships, physical practices, sometimes medication, etc. But sometimes the right questions can shift our perspective in the right direction, even just a little bit. And that can add up. It’s great that you’re able to be open to that, while still realizing our challenges are often quite complex :)
@moistslippers9726
@moistslippers9726 5 лет назад
Bruh, if your depressed. Just stop being sad and be happy.
@liscabio
@liscabio 7 месяцев назад
You cant do anything, if you are born with out a arm and you dont have money for a prosthetic or no way to get one or build one then you cant DO anything
@peppylifeerss2491
@peppylifeerss2491 3 года назад
the person below me is right
@ronniedaniel8665
@ronniedaniel8665 2 года назад
People need to talk to their mom and dad they are the ones that put you here on earth are just get over it and get a life
@jeffchill7054
@jeffchill7054 3 года назад
Gods not fair because he could send us all to hell if he wanted
@shalikui9849
@shalikui9849 4 года назад
I realized on March 3 this year that’s if you don’t like someone end it and after gorge Floyd’s death that was a sign that I need to end it cause I was already born with skin that’s going to make me lose so, like the video said how mush power we have so I gave myself 1 year to love I have exactly 7 moths remaining I’ll let my friends (the real ones) how nice they were and loved ones problem solved I took a test and I found out that am nit smart so it’s the best decision to end my life. 😁
@shalikui9849
@shalikui9849 4 года назад
March 3 2021 a good bye to everyone hi
@xrpgino6858
@xrpgino6858 3 года назад
Don't go
@mattrovis-hermann9194
@mattrovis-hermann9194 3 года назад
IT IS YOUR FAULT
@peppylifeerss2491
@peppylifeerss2491 3 года назад
it didnt helpp!!!!!!!
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