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Control Your Anger - How To Deal With Unfairness (And The Anger It Triggers) 

Esther Bleuel
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@wassup139
@wassup139 2 года назад
The worst is when authority justifies their unfair treatment of you using their power and expects you to accept it.
@gabilivelife8941
@gabilivelife8941 Год назад
I agree totally , I was phicisically hurt by security bouncers and police is justifying their behaviour because I was probably “intoxicated” that hurts the most and police backing them up just breaks my heart and makes me lose any type of faith on justice and the law
@emilianolopez4289
@emilianolopez4289 Год назад
That happens when we choose humans as "authority", Perfect justice can never come from imperfect representatives.
@weforgecraft
@weforgecraft 11 месяцев назад
Our mistake was putting other fallable humans in power. If we weren't genetically lazy and fearful we would govern ourselves
@Fireproofwitchnz
@Fireproofwitchnz 5 месяцев назад
I know of a crooked Police woman who assaulted her boyfriend and also damaged his car during one of her temper tantrums. He tried to report it to the Police (the only Police station in our town/jurisdiction), and guess what? One of the Police Officers (her boss) told him that they would press chargers against HIM if he made a fuss or tried to file a complaint. I can't imagine his utter frustration. This horrible Police woman eventually got together with a Priest, can you believe that?!
@reylich8025
@reylich8025 3 месяца назад
@@emilianolopez4289 who u gonna choose then? a dog?
@aerodylluk2543
@aerodylluk2543 4 года назад
This is easy to say, but when the injustice has real life negative consequences how can you not be consumed by anger? Not letting it define me is great but I was hurt by somebody else, it was unwarranted and now it is I who has to do all the work of picking up the pieces and repairing the damage while the perpetrator goes about their life unphased and even celebratory.
@Italiangirlnj747
@Italiangirlnj747 3 года назад
It's unfair bs
@wandabanks6756
@wandabanks6756 2 года назад
That's family for you!!
@Fireproofwitchnz
@Fireproofwitchnz 5 месяцев назад
This happened to me. I can only hope Karma exists. I'm so sorry you went through something so painful ❤
@tommyls4357
@tommyls4357 Год назад
I've been treated unfairly by my boss and, like most people watching this video, I am going through a shitty time. In fact, I suffered most of last year because of it. However, I am going to list out a few positives that came out of the situation: 1. Because I was being treated unfairly, I decided to look for a new job, but after talking to a few other companies, I realized I am being paid pretty well here. 2. I am interview ready if another opportunity were to come up in the near future that pays better. 3. I've realized to not be too attached to my job. Hopefully I can practice this going forward. 4. I've realized there are always going to be set backs in life due to things outside my control. I've decided to become a more happy, optimistic person in general, and have started doing some guided meditations to help me with it. 5. I started seeing a therapist who is helping me identify the values that are truly important for me. 6. I will be switching teams to get out of this boss. It will put me back a year or two in my career, but at least I will not be tormented everyday like I was. This year should go better than last year. 7. It has helped me realize that family is important. I am sure there are more positives that came out of this. I'll keep adding them here. Thanks for reading everybody.
@pcastillov
@pcastillov 4 года назад
Unfairness at work its one of the things thats triggers my anger, but this video gave me a new perspective, now i can go to work without the desire of killing the whole office
@cyclops2348
@cyclops2348 4 года назад
Amen to that
@vanill3794
@vanill3794 3 года назад
Same
@lilyflower9218
@lilyflower9218 3 года назад
It’s very frustrating and demotivating when someone is treated unfairly it happened to me and I can’t get over it
@jordanferguson2254
@jordanferguson2254 Год назад
Aw man, I know the feeling 😂😅 Hope you're doing well now 🍀
@kris_ty685
@kris_ty685 7 месяцев назад
I literally said out loud "Amen" and read that was the first response
@lanovia3838
@lanovia3838 Год назад
"if you are going to suffer, don't suffer for nothing" - precious
@Fireproofwitchnz
@Fireproofwitchnz 5 месяцев назад
The Joker would agree.
@cookycandy4
@cookycandy4 2 года назад
i can feel my brain descend into rage whenever i think of my abuser and i hate suffering but its not like i can turn my trauma off
@andrewm5612
@andrewm5612 2 года назад
This is one of biggest flaws unfortunately... I deal with a lot of injustice and unfairness in my life and if I'm not careful I'll find my self in these self indulgent pitty parties and its even worse than the injustice it self. It's a unrelenting and all consuming spirit.. very painful :( I'm just glad I've become more self aware about it so I can take the necessary steps and find healthy coping mechanisms
@fuanasantuary1277
@fuanasantuary1277 2 года назад
💯🎻🎤💡🕯🌂☔
@bladudemovies
@bladudemovies Год назад
This response perfectly articulates the feeling
@joshuaevans6623
@joshuaevans6623 6 месяцев назад
Why are ao many people saying this was informative and helpful. I watched it twice and only thing i learned is how to just stay in your place and change your own thinking about it. Really? So dont stand up for yourself?
@DepressedLemur9
@DepressedLemur9 2 года назад
Well, if your evil family is making you homeless, you don't really have a choice but to feel deep anger and fear. Will power can't change reality.
@boswaki4
@boswaki4 6 месяцев назад
Then go somewhere away from your evil family
@johnwilliams2479
@johnwilliams2479 3 года назад
You can't control anger it controls you
@kuhekaizen3426
@kuhekaizen3426 3 года назад
Don't suffer for nothing! Esther Bleuel
@seanlachica1757
@seanlachica1757 4 года назад
Ugh i hate my siblings, they can all sleep anytime while me needs to feed pigs early in the morning and they will just eat breakfast in the morning without doing anything and after breakfast they will just lay back to their room while me need to watch over the pets and they will annoyed me while im doing it alone without any help coming from them
@tano1670
@tano1670 4 года назад
Take pride in what you are doing. You have discipline, they dont. This will help you in the future trust me i have always been super lazy until i reached a breaking point and now i have discipline and i am much happier.
@jbenno7021
@jbenno7021 3 года назад
Eventually you'll all leave home. You'll have the skills to live independently, they won't.
@boswaki4
@boswaki4 6 месяцев назад
You need to delegate some work to your siblings. Instead of Hating them.
@DougHinVA
@DougHinVA 3 года назад
reading a script and preaching poorly is not much help to most folks. Skip this one.
@Gitohandro
@Gitohandro 8 месяцев назад
It doesn't trigger anger, just sadness
@juliadobo2661
@juliadobo2661 6 лет назад
Me and my dance group(6 people)made it to the european championship but we won't attend it bc 2 of the girls "can't" come(they could just get on the bus with all the others and come but i have a feeling it's not as important to them as it is for me)i hate this bc eventually the 3 of us who wanna go are held back and we'll always pick the short stick but we just have to swallow it and this is not the first time that this happens. Like here's me who'd kill for an opportunity like this and when it's given to them how can they just throw it away like this?? Idc if they choose not to compete their own solos but when it's affecting the whole group i just can't believe it they're selfish and lazy i'm sooo annoyed and it's just not fair to us who have worked our asses off for nothing and i have no control over this and it makes me so pissed...🙅😫
@sarabsd.
@sarabsd. 7 месяцев назад
This is so unfair that i have to watch true crime videos cause what murders do to their victims is even more unfair, just so i can keep my sanity.
@tellmewhenitsover
@tellmewhenitsover 7 месяцев назад
I can't fathom any lesson to be learned out of receiving unwarranted spitefulness from people you helped while expecting nothing in return. I guess I did expect something in return, I expected to at-least continue to be treated as a stranger, not somehow be treated like an enemy. I'm not angry I'm just, baffled. Maybe I should just chalk it up to having a run in with a psychopath and have a laugh about it.
@pcastillov
@pcastillov 4 года назад
Good content!
@emilianolopez4289
@emilianolopez4289 Год назад
Life stucks: we are thrown into existence to be blamed for being here, for being human and being here and to be blamed for conducts that were motiated by a morally SICK CULTURE, which was ALREADY ONGOING BEFORE we were born. WE are be blamed for being human and being here and to be blamed for conducts that were motiated by a morally SICK CULTURE, which was ALREADY ONGOING BEFORE we were born, with NO RIGHT TO MAKE JUSTICE BY OUR SELVES, we feel silenced and hullimated and mocked and GUILTY for feeling this way! I am sick a people really.... Actually the hrid choice is not mentioned, but it is there: which is to kill the agressor or to severely punish him, whcih is what it is deserved
@briarrose4747
@briarrose4747 2 года назад
*possible trigger warning*What really pisses me off is my narcissistic mother and enabling dad i dont know if they really dont give a shit about how there actions have literally pushed me on the edge of a mental breakdown.I dont get it its so frustrating and unfair here i am trying to do all this healing and recovery with my mental health on top of my physical health being affected too all cause they refuse to grow the fuck up and take accountability!fucking assholes!😠 Anyways time to watch the video hope its helpful lol
@briarrose4747
@briarrose4747 Год назад
@Lady Thank you💙Ill check those out
@dhivya8708
@dhivya8708 Год назад
Im so sorry Briar. I hope you are good now?!
@weforgecraft
@weforgecraft 11 месяцев назад
Parents are just ppl. We want to think our parents we're or are some superhuman heros but they are humans they want money they want sex they want what every human wants. You need to see they are just older versions of children. We all are
@Ghost-gu1wf
@Ghost-gu1wf 2 года назад
Thanks ma’am
@sarabsd.
@sarabsd. 7 месяцев назад
I don’t know what to do now. I’m sick of all this unfairness!!! I’m mad and sad I can’t control my thoughts.
@VengeanceSinX
@VengeanceSinX 3 года назад
lol i didnt learn anything except get a professional or something.
@mikecooper5780
@mikecooper5780 2 года назад
Thanks for this video !
@haristhebosniaklion8584
@haristhebosniaklion8584 2 года назад
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan,Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ✌️✌️ Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression……..
@mikecooper5780
@mikecooper5780 2 года назад
@@haristhebosniaklion8584 I hope you can forgive. 🤗
@cyclops2348
@cyclops2348 4 года назад
Excellent content
@sarabsd.
@sarabsd. 7 месяцев назад
There’s no divine power is it?? Cause I don’t think that if God really existed, he would let this happen, life’s just this, some people are constantly receiving luckiness and the others just have to accept they’re not those people. There’s literally a genocide happening rn, but yk what’s also happening? Some people in the world are living their luxurious life, some are gifted with statues or good abilities, idc, the world is unfair and it’s impossible to have what you want, EVEN WHEN YOU TRY YOUR HARDEST, there’s always going to be a person that didn’t even had to suffer to get that thing, or even when you FINALLY FUCKING DID IT, THE WORLD JUST SIMPLY TAKES THAT AWAY FROM YOU, ALL YOUR EFFORT IS WASTED, and the world wants to make SURE that you see that the person that didn’t work for what she has, is doing amazing, has everything that you ever wanted and has a peaceful mind, her mind is so peaceful so happy she knows that are bad things in this world and she also knows that the world will never give those things to her, that she’s safe, everything that she ever wanted, she owns it, she did it, she pretends to have pity for us, but she’s actually happy with our loss. OUR LOSS IS THEIR WIN. And the world knows that, loves that, and will continue to be that way. Let that poor girl became insane and crazy, let her lose herself, who’s she anyway? You’re more important, let’s focus on you. And let people call her cringe and crazy and embarrassing, let her believe that she has a chance only so i can smash that dream of hers.
@haristhebosniaklion8584
@haristhebosniaklion8584 2 года назад
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan,Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ✌️✌️ Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression……..
@soltaniism
@soltaniism 2 года назад
No.
@CaptainAbir
@CaptainAbir 5 месяцев назад
What was this ??? Just big words and no proof / material! Great 👍🏻
@EstherBleuel
@EstherBleuel 6 лет назад
So sorry to hear that you had to experience disrespect and unfairness from 'friends.' Sounds like you accomplished something impressive.You may want to find a way to communicate how their choices and behavior impacted you. If not directly, perhaps write a letter that you don't mail to express your thoughts and feelings. Meanwhile, maybe find some new dancers.
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