Traditionally to curb cheating, polygamy was practiced. To my thoughts all these points means that you start building up your own emotional independence. Once you are there you are above him.
My Dear Friend you are referring to a professional man. Family Background plays a role. If a man comes from Family of polygamy, unfortunately a woman has no say. Personality also plays a role. I appreciate your advice, very educational, thank you ❤
if the fear of God is to both the man and the woman one cannot cheat being contented shuld be the key since the holy spirit of God is in you; we shld not justify a mistake which is forbidden even by God ; Remeber the judgement is there and cant be removed from book of judgement ; the commandment says do not practice adultery
This is really helpful as I regained my composure after watching the video. before watching it though I was really depressed am was about doing the wrong things thank you so much for your counselling
Oh,sorry, I've been there I know it hurts. I've ever done such tactics and it works though as Rev. Has put it after some rime u see it again with again somebody seems new.some usually have a wife and another woman periodically. Masculine dominating world gave them an upper hand.
Some women dey take things I knew of someone who her husband has been cheating years back even before I married till now the woman is still there and the man refuse to change till tomorrow,and the way thus woman carry him for head,even this man went extra miles to the extent of sleeping with his friend daughter and they dated till the lady got married,there is no how to handle a man who cheats as far as am concerned
In my opinion the last point is a big NO crying will ruin all your work, it's better to wait when he eventually comes for a conversation then you tell him it hurts, not cry to him, a man that cheats does not regard your emotions what makes you think that crying about what he did will make any difference.
@@loladeyetunde5536yes exactly. Ex husband told me that. I left him for good. He now realize he lost a real wife but too late. Years gone. I moved on.
@@ooyeniyi5300hope he's praying for her salvation too. We are called to obey them and be submissive yet they are not our gods.They need to know their mistakes. That's why we need to look for money money money money money you will see the difference
If I hadn’t texted his GF and asked what was the nature of her relationship with my husband, to get silence in return, he’d still be denying it. I will never regret doing that. I had to know the truth, and he was never going to tell that to me. So I bent too low.
If a man cheat the good weapon is to be very smart dress well eat well and dont Show him that you re up Set yes you can feel but havea boy friend somewhere,and after few yrs move on
The best way is stop asking, nagging, ignore him,love yourself,look good,work on building up yourself and trust God in the process,it will kill him. By the time you will move out,it will not hurt you but him
Mine asked me to invite him with the lady for a conversation. I told him am not part of their love affair. I dropped it and since then 2017,he can't fulfil his conjugal rites. He never sleeps out,but I zipped my mouth and shut myself. Our relation ends at the grave.I have a better husband,my lord.
Why block your glory on this earth over a useless man?? Divorce in the Bible is only permissible if either partner engages in an adulterous relationship outside of marriage. The more he sleeps with women, he connects you with souls, severe that bondage!!
That was me never commented or asked I would continue with my life as if nothing was happening. It ate him up at times he would say please hit me hard and would say I don't have the time for that.
hey and if you can access his phone because of password kila mahali. But when you confront him anasema alikuwa job usiku for five day . that is enough to show you kuna kitu and pia kujipondwa every time and carrying sleep over. now advise vizuri nikuenda kabisa ama l move out l stay alone.
The woman can keep quiet but it doesnt mean it doesnt hurt lets learn to aprreciate what we have since it is ones choice at fast ; greedy upon you flesh thats cz selfishness
Honestly he’s hitting all the strategies I mounted and still mounting on my cheating husband … trust me it’s really working buh it’s quite unfortunate that I don’t have feelings for him anymore. Hmm
