How to Deal with Character Assassination |  

They hate you because they cannot use you.

I lost someone I thought I had a soul connection with, because people were slandering me and they happened to be friends with him. He believed them. From one day to another he turned against me for apparently no reason. So did another 30 acquaintances, friends, mates, potential colleagues, cafe owners, church goers, grocery store staff… because the slanderers made up lies about me. The slanderer wrote me that he was attracted to me and he asked me 6 times if I want to go for coffee. I said okay. Only as friends, nothing else. He didn’t show up. But He kept asking. He didn’t show up again. He kept asking. Like a lunatic. Eventually I blocked him. After that he told everyone lies about me. It seemed like he said I’m a stalker. A stalker!!!! He was the one writing me!! I had zero interest in him. So I lost the ONE person I have EVER felt a real connection with. And I’m no spring chicken. I lost my education, income and home because of this because I chose to leave the place due to harassment. It had consequences that trickled down and made life….. not what I’d wished for. Like having a family. A job. Friends. I’m living on a prayer. I feel I should be grateful though. Maybe god finds a way. Maybe life finds a way. Like someone said; “the right relationship is not brittle”. The right relationship is not brittle. God bless you all.

Yup happened to me...and the sheeple group of people feed into the gossip and I have been bullied But I stay strong 💪

If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat; And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink; For so you will heap coals of fire on his head, And the Lord will reward you. Proverbs 25:21-22 Enemies of the lord will flee is holy face, but the Lord will laugh as he knows their days are numbered. Psalm 37:13, Psalm 68:1

I do believe the combatiness is what they desire. I think moving normal & solid & being positive is the key. Stay on your square ⬜

This is a WORD. Well said. I've had lots of flying monkeys over the years. One time my only "crime" was diffusing a situation where folks tried to bully someone. Since I wasn't on-board...the ring-leader slandered my name. Made up bogus accusations & next thing I know, months later I have one of her unknowing followers try to fight me at the grocery store?!?! 🙄 I'm talking grown adults all over 30 yrs old.

I was character assassinated by my ex. I caught him cheating on me and then we broke up. Once the other girl dumped his ass he came back to me but I refused. Guess what happened after that? Rumors, lies, rumors about my virginity, sexual preferences he stopped at nothing. Everyday a new rumor about me popped up. Everyone I knew, except two friends, believed him and stopped talking to me. That time was hard but well I kept my head down and went about my life in the best way possible. That was 14 years ago. Since then I have moved to a different country, have a great career, happily married and now I have a wonderful little baby boy. Most of the people who ignored me at that time tried apologizing. I accept their apologies but the trust is broken so I keep my distance from them. 6 years ago my ex tried to Facebook friend me 😮. I blocked him and honestly really felt good while doing that.

Its 3:50am, I just came by your video, it help me so much, I'm a older female who is dealing with wicked people in my, mostly family. Listening to your video has help me out so much and thank you.

Some people just need someone to hate. I don't try to rationalize irrational behavior. Great advice and very true!

Someone that character assassinates you at work is jealous of you, and is trying to control how other people see you to undermine your reputation. They cannot undermine your competence if you refuse to let it impact your work. On top of that they are displaying their weakness to you - jealousy. Normally psychopaths like to torture others, but today you are going to learn to be a torturer with the following three steps: 1. No Contact - You have to interact with them on work matters, but limit it to this. Do not engage in any way, shape, or form beyond this. Back out of any other conversations they try to start with you using lines such as sorry, I`m busy at the moment. 2. Emotional Regulation - Deal with your own issues that they may be trying to target. Learn not to get angry or upset if they go for your weaknesses. With weaknesses you have and they haven`t spotted yet, hide them. Tell no one about them. 3. Torture - Be the best humanly possible at your job. You know their weakness, so use it. Brag, talk about all your achievements, all your positive traits. And when you run out of them, make more up. You want to be the best performer in history, and be perceived by them as the brightest most positive shining example of the greatest human being known to man. That will send their jealousy into orbit. Initially they will get worse, a lot worse. Especially at number 3. But it usually goes one of two ways quickly from there: 1. In an attempt to be the best they will start cheating at their work, take risks, or rush through as much as possible leaving mistakes all over the place. They will usually have left within a month. 2. They with their hyper-sensitive to envy problem, are going to have a meltdown at number 3 if you keep it up. As that negative emotional state of theirs gets stronger their true nature will come out. Whether it be shouting threats or insults as soon as they flare up you have them. They will character assassinate themselves as a whack job. With the shouting of threats and insults dont forget to help them out the door by getting them a warning for it.

Best advice ever. I heard about these things and always thought it was not that common until it happened to me.

So true sir...I am dealing with same thing and can't share with anyone Boone believes and I don't know how to get away from it ...it feels horrible ..one of school person ( girl) she was jealous to a point that my school life went horrible since she got admitted she was doing bloody castism then I faced it in graduate college after getting dropped out I am not sure but I feel there were some bad rumours and also after dropping out I'm Soo embarrassed to face them they are also friends on FB..it's very disturbing...saddest part is this school girl is now ahead of me roaming like a bloody pig as if nothing has happened ..how .???how such people are happy why don't karma hit them the bloody same way

Spot on!

Thank you for this.

Great video. Needed to hear this.

Thanks. I needed this.

Perfectly said!

Thank you very much.

I needed this today thank you

Thanks bro, your a healer❤

Thank you. Great advice and knowledge

Great message man.. don’t fight fire with fire.

I have experienced this So much insightful

Excellent and timely advice for me! Thank you 😊

Well said .I needed to hear it. Love ur content and topics u come up with.keep going

Thank you

All I heard was Facts brother. Thanks for this.

Great video. Wish there was more ppl like you in the world

This is great. Thanks so much. Now if only the person they reported the lies to believes what you are saying too.

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That's an awesome commentary! You said a mouthful there. That should be mandatory curriculum in every school in the country.

Your a Great Man Tiger.

Brilliant ✨💖🙏🏻🥰

Thanks man. This genuinely made me feel better and I’m gonna visit this video many more times because this is reality and I can’t let those people get to my head.

Truth

I was slandered in front of 30 people at a recovery meeting. I made a new, pretty girl smile, and laugh. A woman spoke up and started calling me a 13 stepper which is the same as calling me a predator, I didn't respond. I've talked about it and what it does to a person but people think I'm full of shit. So I haven't mentioned it at the following same meetings. I'll try to keep my mouth shut tomorrow, very difficult when you are called a predator.

Thank You... I Needed to Hear That, After Breaking Up with This Guy. He'd Called Me Out of the Blue, Saying... Why Did You Take that Out of My Box!!! I'm Like... What Are You Talking About??? What Have I Suppose to Have Taken From You??? Then He Just Hung up!!! WTF... CHARACTER ASSASSINATION IS REAL!!! I'm Not Going... I've Block His Number Period!!! 👍

Great video. 👍you talk well

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Going through this right now

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Hi, is this applicable to a narcissist ex trying to ruin my name? Legit questions.

I pay them no mind. I just work, stay in the house and enjoy god and my money.

This girl has been slandering me for 2 years. I turned her sex advance down. A month ago, at a mutual recovery meeting this pretty young new girl decided to sit next to me. During the meeting I gave her instruction as to how the meeting proceeds. The girl thought I was funny for some reason and laughed and giggled throughout the meeting, and this pissed off all the guys and the girls there. At the end of the meeting this woman spoke up and started accusing me a being a 13 stepper which is a man who preys on new girls, she went on about this in front of all 30 people there for about five minutes. She just knows she knows my heart and mind. I've never seduced nor attempted to seduce any girl in the meetings I attend, not once in 4.5 years. There is nothing I can do so I attempt to deal with it. I've lost both female and male friends because they just know.

This man has never met an alcoholic

Hello! Dont know whom to share with but listen my roommate and her boyfriend were close to me ..her boyfriend became good friend with me he used to ask her photos and i used to help him also by giving ideas of different dating places has a suggestion to take her and then one sudden day in the night i started crying remember some old shits and then he asked me what happened intitally i denied later he forced and said think i am ur friend and it will remain has a secret forever u can share with me then i just said i remember my ex and i didn't lag i ended the conv there only and then gradually he became close everything was normal i trusted him that he us good person and he was also really a good brother and then one day his girlfriend my so called friend miss understood all these things and blamed me that im bad person....im feeling very bad that y did i even became friend with them