How to Deal with Jealous People

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@Clarence_Stinson 7 лет назад

Jealous people are insecure and incompetent. Instead of improving themselves, they would rather spew their hate.

@LearnGIS 7 лет назад

Jealous people are people too. We should love everyone. I am jealous sometimes, and insecure, but i don't "spew hate", and sure am not incompetent. Sometimes i put in the effort to change my jealousy into appreciation for what someone else has achieved. It's not always easy to have a clear mind.

@Clarence_Stinson 7 лет назад

To each his own! I do it my way and you do you! I really don't give a damn.

@mukundkaul1037 6 лет назад

Clarence Stinson true mate

@toria468 6 лет назад

Yes. True. I agree

@claire7381 6 лет назад

Omg yeah

@CollinAbbott1997 4 года назад

Some People spend more of their life worrying about someone else’s life than their own

@errinmora 4 года назад

Pathetic sad little people. It's funny and ridiculous at the same time.

@ymynameynotyourname9641 4 года назад

Often they will destroy their own life just to make sure you don't succeed.

@alundavies8402 4 года назад

Some people are jealous of you if you don’t take part in the rat race because they are basically lost and enslaved and they don’t want to think about it

@LIVdaBrand 4 года назад

😪

@michaelphaomei5041 4 года назад

So true. So parasitic & pathetic. It's ridiculous & dangerous at the same time. When it gets serious it's not funny anymore. Life gets critically critical like in a coma. If only anybody knew what I'm going through because of too many people like that you wouldn't be able to believe just how strong that jealousy is.

@doriscrumpton2980 5 лет назад

I think jealous people truly hate themselves and the life they live. They hate you because you love yourself and your life and are a happy confident person with being yourself.

@asc3998 4 года назад

Yes, so reach out to others as Brandon says as long as you set limits - the amount of time with them if they're not behaving appropriately, not allow them to mistreat you... Love sometimes it's all it takes to get someone to begin to love themselves, which I'm turn leads to them loving others.

@acoleman9036 4 года назад

Well said they will bring you down

@dominicbrogsdale3348 4 года назад

Wow... my professor said this the other day because I'm dealing with a jealous "so called friend now" there always making little side comments on my life! I just ignore it it's funnt because he always wants to be around me!!!

@doriscrumpton2980 4 года назад

@@dominicbrogsdale3348 Yes! Dominic, he hates you for being you, he envy you but still wants to be around you. I cut people off that are Jealous of me. Trust me I have alot of jealous people that hate me for being me. I try to stay away from jealous people because they aren't good for my spiritual well being.

@BabyPink3 4 года назад

Awww Thank you this made me feel much better❤❤❤

@smaytaganya1446 2 года назад

The thing is that you can't always just "ignore it". Some people's jealousy is so big that they will do evil things to you and try to ruin your life, even if you cut them off and ignore them. Even if you're nothing but kind to them. Jealousy can really be dangerous.

@voiletwhitehorse 2 года назад

Or they show jealousy in a nice way ,dishing compliments and smiling and touching you ,people are strange

@Closetedboogieman 2 года назад

So true.

@carlarespuesto7669 2 года назад

exactly. what if the 'person' is my friend

@carlarespuesto7669 2 года назад

this kind of people spy on your ideas

@Closetedboogieman 2 года назад

@@carlarespuesto7669 your face looks smashed in lol

@kieransimpson4965 5 лет назад

My experience of jealous people in general is this rule.. ..when they become particularly jealous = I'm doing something RIGHT.

@shynep0807 5 лет назад

Very true

@kieransimpson4965 5 лет назад

@@shynep0807 it's the way one has to look at it so as to not be manipulated by their jealousy I think!

@nads6152 2 года назад

Very veery TRUEE!!!

@Native722 2 года назад

+100

@Comrade134 2 года назад

100%

@francesjames7055 6 лет назад

You don't 'deal' with them.....you cut them out of your life. Jealous people are toxic and they drain your spiritual energy from you......they make you feel bad about yourself and they DO NOT belong in your life. Have NOTHING more to do with the person that is jealous of you because I can tell you from personal experience, they will ALWAYS be jealous of you. My sister has been jealous of me all my life (she is a lot older than me) and now I very rarely see her. I just could not handle her toxicity any more.

@sycrazis4917 6 лет назад

and also my mother is sometimes jealous and mean to me (for the same reasons as the woman I told you about, I just have some particular skills that they don't have but wish they did (nothing that special tho). It's really painful, but I can imagine it's also painful to them. For me, I tend to be jealous of my friends' looks (I have some beautiful friends, while I'm kinda less than average) and that jealousy sometimes gets the better of me.

@yankolama6936 5 лет назад

I really liked it from yourself experience . this make feel better. because my life in also more jealous peoples . if even said about my .I'm feels such bad .im so much happened emotional from jealous peoples .I'm feels bad from myself . thanks I got this lession some better experience thanks alots this video made person. And thank you also ☺

@givensvivre3921 5 лет назад

Can you please tell me how to cut them off? Because they follow me everywhere. Help me with tips.

@emaniwhite1 5 лет назад

My mother and whole family is jealous of me but do u think the jealousy cause more pain for them then the pain they try to make me feel...

@monasequeira1996 5 лет назад

I have a same story like u girl, i agree. Once u give them the chance & the love that they dont deserve, they'll keep coming back ....to drain you.

@razorruddock3450 7 лет назад

I respect people jealousy,that means they think highly of me. Losers!!

@MsPrestige2009 6 лет назад

Razor ruddock Love it!!!😎

@rosejacklyn 6 лет назад

preach! It’s so true

@chasitygs 5 лет назад

👌👌👌

@chethanahebri1925 5 лет назад

Yes absolutely

@kieransimpson4965 5 лет назад

Good way of putting it yeah

@toptaemin1278 5 лет назад

Jealous people are trying to drain your energy by saying bitter comments. Just neglect them

@dominicbrogsdale3348 4 года назад

OMG so true and you can feel the hurt deep down!!

@imanipatrice9492 4 года назад

Dominic Brogsdale ik like I still have feelings! It’s hard to just ignore it

@prashanthcm3333 3 года назад

Don't just neglect avoid them

@grzi7hheeth122 3 года назад

Im working out and once i got buff my "friend" out of nowhere calling me a nobody.Look at you.You are nothing etc.

@droseforever1416 3 года назад

Sure

@levikruger8016 5 лет назад

It's hard when close friends are jealous of us.. feel betrayed..

@Notaloophole47 3 года назад

I came here searching for this video for the same exact reason

@dannym6552 3 года назад

be grateful its not affecting more than that

@nlg0x 3 года назад

That's the worst

@TS-vh9rs 3 года назад

Be better when you kinda become unreachable by the ordinary they 'll be okay with that they 'll appreciate you I 'll some how put up with them it's just the beginning that's hard going through the same thing here 🍻let's somehow succeed!

@warinlife2882 3 года назад

@@LaissezFaire7 so he's not ur friend

@ourexcellentlife7944 3 года назад

Some people are just jealous of you. You don't have to do anything they just hate you.

@philmehrart 6 лет назад

"Get better, not to spite them, but despite them" that's great!

@redfloyd69 2 года назад

Jealous people fall under the umbrella of toxic people. Showing them love and compassion, or going out of your way to make them feel better by downplaying your accomplishments, doesn't do any good because jealousy isn't the only toxic trait they possess. They are also often greedy, entitled, hypocritical, two-faced, etc, and will use your "weaknesses" (of which kindness is viewed as one) against you. They don't feel content until you're a bug squashed under their feet and completely under their control.

@karenmalach2797 Год назад

So true.

@lovelite6737 Год назад

This is SO TRUE! Amazingly true!

@kimton3096 Год назад

So wrong! People don’t fit in boxes, we call all have the capacity to be jealous but by putting people into boxes, “jealous people” “toxic people” that’s isn’t truth

@vernondelancy6281 Год назад

Well said

@ummsumeyaahmed5457 Год назад

Absolutely..jealousy is avery dangerous disease and its work of satan ...unless your someone of pure heart and pray ...dis disease cn finish especially wen that person is a family member that you keep seeing and you cant hide your progress from them....prayers protect.

@yuliaaaaaaaaaaa 4 года назад

when people are jealous of you, it’s not your problem, it’s their’s so there’s no point of you worrying or stressing about something that doesn’t concern you😊😊

@annchovey2089 2 года назад

I get stressed because I know they spread rumors and lies behind my back even though I have helped all of them with their bills including their gambling debts.

@efarr6295 Год назад

Except when they bully you because of their jealousy. Then it becomes your problem unfortunately.

@debihester7284 Год назад

@@annchovey2089 don’t help them anymore! It just enables his addiction

@bobbymunoz5086 Год назад

Yes, that's true but also cut them out of your life they will plot against you

@sylviasimpson7076 6 лет назад

Ridiculous - envious people are dangerous.

@gerrimiller3491 4 года назад

I see the wickedness in their eyes ....it's so devastatingly dangerous indeed

@tyroneharris2790 4 года назад

You never know how far they can go, and they can do some very evil life destroying things, I also agree with the comment from Gerri Miller, you can see it in their eyes, yes they can be so dangerous without doubt

@deirdremorris9234 3 года назад

@Pr.incorporated They can touch you in ways that are dangerous to your reputation or job security your kids.

@sandbabe2245 2 года назад

@@deirdremorris9234 Very scary you have to just watch your back and just make up excuses that you’re doing other stuff just slowly ease away from them ……. slowly………

@abcde269 Год назад

@Pr.incorporated whst if they touch you and do bad things

@platform4entertainmenttv 5 лет назад

Jealousy is everywhere and it can come even as close as Family and Friends! Please do not try to understand jealous people or have sympathy for them, majority of them are evil people who will do everything they can to destroy you mentally, physically and spiritually! Find ways to protect yourselves from this evil bad energy!

@necoleyarde4880 2 года назад

Amen so true, sometimes they stop at nothing to get you, these days people act on their jealousy, it's scary.

@butterfly-sky Год назад

wayy to true

@shielasonglee8030 5 лет назад

Jealous people makes you feel what they feel. They are eager to do something just to put you down. They are happy when they see you suffering or can't do something. But I just couldn't stop feel pity to them. They are just hurting their own feelings. Hurting their own self. That's why, insecurities and jealousy can make them do something inappropriate.

@4Syorha 2 года назад

if they are hurting themself arent they also hurting you when they're putting you down? you gotta make them feel like they belong in this world, pitying them is a first step. then make them understand your own difficulties, remind them of their own strengths, and lift them up to become a better person!

@dnbdiva2227 2 года назад

Some people dont want to be helped. They want to wallow in their own misery and then bring other people down. I work full time, im pregnant and study a masters. I get so much jealousy because I have my head down on my own life. People are so bitter and want to drag you down even if you help them. I dont know what more these people want.

@proudprincess7552 2 года назад

We need to be PROUD to ourselves when other people are so much hating and jealous for what we have.. as they are only talking about their own poor pity life.. their barking and hatred are talking about themselves.. WHY they like to waste their time, energy and money only to make someone get sick and feel ill?? the answer is their hatred and jealousy, and they are mourning grieving a lot about their unhappy poor pity life.. They have PROBLEM, their jealousy, that's WHY they are mourning barking a lot. we should be HAPPY and PROUD about their insults and harrassment.. means we are so much IMPORTANT for them.. 😀

@4Syorha Год назад

@Amathyst80 now see, you may think people dont want to be happy, but is that really what they think? Can you really read people without them having their say in the story? I have been told not to control others but myself, but that doesnt mean i shouldn't try helping others nevertheless. Not helping people makes one no better than them. You could live alone, but eventually you have to reach out to someone...

@4Syorha Год назад

Coming back to this comment, seeing the replies makes me want to say that having one's pride itself is a deadlier sin than their envy. Perhaps they need something more than sharing their own story of insecurity. Give them as much help as you can, and if they refuse to change, cease contact with them, but give them an ounce of kindness by wishing them the best. Us humans all have fault, there may be no win win for everything, but there is always a chance at life.

@pridden76 6 лет назад

I think most people get jealous from time to time. However, we all have the responsibility not to make other people suffer becasue of our own insecurities. Some people get that, others don´t.

@muniratdooumar8994 3 года назад

I don't jealous. I have never jealous of anyone

@csbaca1 4 года назад

Best revenge is to live a great life! Travel, enjoy your wealth... we do.

@annchovey2089 2 года назад

My in-laws hate it that I don’t work even though I don’t ask for help with anything and in fact have helped them with all their bills including their gambling debts.

@bln4772 Год назад

I do! Enjoying life to the fullest! 😎

@bln4772 Год назад

Right! And right again! 😎

@mokshdave6315 6 лет назад

take their greatest power from them and that is YOUR ATTENTION , starve them to death.

@ajohonly3721 3 года назад

moksh india 🇮🇳 You nailed it I swear I will literally disappear from their lives.

@ABeautifulHorizonTV 7 лет назад

"It's hard to hate someone that is a champion of others." Love this!!

@mustafabilal2561 7 лет назад

Agree Man

@misskobeyoshi2500 6 лет назад

But it still happens

@Mcfc2Rich 5 лет назад

Dean Wayne haha

@Mcfc2Rich 5 лет назад

Yeah, let them hate whilst you continue to make a positive impact in other people’s lives, makes you look even stronger

@shehabquadery4491 4 года назад

Jealousy is the habit of whamen they do it from their childhood men don't commit crime because of jealousy whamen do. There have tons of record whamen ruining men's life by false accusations because of jealousy also whamen killed other whamen because of jealousy.

@Brightestlightt 7 лет назад

Flash news: Jealousy is a disease of the heart!!!

@Sam-ng3of 5 лет назад

Yep. Interestingly, this is a belief in Islam

@sadia4932 4 года назад

@@Sam-ng3of ...i was just about to comment this.. that's so true😊

@gerrimiller3491 4 года назад

Exactly ♥️

@lafytaffy1220 2 года назад

I couldn't agree more

@christianbanks7458 2 года назад

The worst thing about jealous people is that they admire you yet resent you at the same time. Then they try to compete, be like you, steal your energy and try to copy you. It’s weird. It’s like they hate you for being yourself but then like you because they want to be like you. Confused bunch lol. They also spend a large amount of time “concerned” about you or trying to find out details and you and your personal business. A hater is basically your biggest fan but rather than love it’s hate and bad energy they give. I recently made the mistake of casting pearls at swine thinking my kindness will win them over. Big mistake, it only made my hater resent me even more. Cutting them off seems to be the best solution.

@victoriasegall3404 2 года назад

Hi, Christian. Thanks for sharing your experience and your wise words. You are absolutely right, and I 100 percent relate to you. The reason the haters become more resentful after casting pearls before swine is because they know they are beneath us. We are high-vibrational, and they are low-vibrational. They feel too small and inferior to get it together.

@christianbanks7458 2 года назад

@@victoriasegall3404 indeed, they’ve accepted a lower state. God grant us mercy! 💚💜🙏

@JulietSpoto-pn2lx 2 месяца назад

Is it more than jealousy, can't it be they're deliberately showing you evil and trying to force their jealous nature on you to make you lose your spirituality. They don't want to learn.

@christianbanks7458 2 месяца назад

@@JulietSpoto-pn2lx wise words Juliet, thank you! 🙏

@danielletabb5639 4 года назад

I know how to deal with jealous people....... DON'T!!!!! Kick them to the curb.

@jemesjanatan3458 6 лет назад

my neighborhood were so jealous ,they talking about me so bad , i had to change my home , jealous people are empty from inside they're catastrophe dangerous sad but it's truth

@arethaboddy7490 3 года назад

Had to move that's bad.it got that bad

@GruntyGunner 5 лет назад

I had a jealous hater ruin a relationship with a woman I've loved since childhood. He was so intent on driving a deep wedge in between us and spreading lies and rumors about me. Sometimes it's not so easy to just ignore the hate when it escalates into dangerous cowardliness that risks your life or reputation.

@necoleyarde4880 5 лет назад

That is so true, sometimes these people can cause us real harm.

@hellenchepy772 4 года назад

@IG Clout Monster true, my ex and I were so in love and his close friend was always telling me nasty things about him. Every time he would do that I would tell my guy. I never let him come between us. But anyway I think he managed to manipulate him in the end🤣😅. When he saw I wasn't gullible, he decided to consistently target him.

@dannym6552 3 года назад

she probably did care enough about you, if she did she would have seen past it or atleast given you a chance to explain, maybe you lucked out, she didnt love you enough

@dannym6552 3 года назад

@IG Clout Monster yup, what i said too, rides you of the losers and the cowards

@mr.filmworm4018 2 года назад

Cut it out ASAP, distance yourself from that asswhole

@yaboijoel517 3 года назад

5:45 it is kinda hard to lift someone up when they are continuously trying to bring you down

@interested210 7 лет назад

It's true about jealousy over short term success. I find that new people I meet have been jealous because they don't understand how long I worked to achieve my goals... like they don't know it's been looooong term, they just weren't there in the beginning. Thanks for this message, Brendon. Just a reminder to keep focused on my goals... never stop working 💪🏼

@patricia1021NY 7 лет назад

Exactly!

@kenyavictory2498 4 года назад

What do you do, if I may ask?

@droseforever1416 3 года назад

Exactly! I have to be more determined

@4Syorha 2 года назад

well you gotta let them know so they will see the bigger picture.

@lafytaffy1220 2 года назад

Very true....

@Tomlifestyle44 Год назад

I think jealous people hate themselves and the life they have. They hate you because you have a better life than them and are a happy confident person.

@megajennybenny 5 лет назад

Unfortunately most Jealous people don't want to getting pulled up, because they are incapable of it, they prefer to drag you down. I think it's better to ignore them.

@paulreichelt1259 2 месяца назад

Very well said , i can relate to that.

@richardgreene3984 6 лет назад

I don't understand jealousy, the only emotions I developed are love and care for others.

@cowoverthemoo 2 года назад

I listened to that song jealous... and it helped me understand why people are jealous. If someone is jealous its cause your touching tasting feeling something they want and can't have, and that is a love for themselves..I love who I am..and I can hear her saying I hate myself..I would tell her we have a lovely life and she would agree just to be close to me. Not cause she loved me. Cause she loved how I loved her. She was jealous off how I was happy without her and in all my pain I still loved the world and myself. She just needed her dad to love her. She never grew up.

@cowoverthemoo 2 года назад

I had my dad who absolutely would have died for me. Her dad wasn't there and now she hates herself. And hates women. She likes men.

@boxelder9147 Год назад

I can be inspired and impressed but not jelly

@Curtisthecrumble 4 года назад

I've started not to care. Like at all.

@osmankalif3500 3 года назад

I hope i reach this level soon. Ive dealt with jelousy for years and it gets me sometimes

@tashW7092 3 года назад

@@osmankalif3500 me too.

@milanmarie1384 3 года назад

Some people are so wrapped up in being jealousy and hate that they will go to the extreme just to make you feel bad. We are all adults but yet they act like a teenager. Grow up. I don’t need to get revenge, I just move on and stay in my own lane. 😌🙏🏻

@milanmarie1384 3 года назад

*jealous

@TRINI333 2 года назад

"Get better. Not to spite them... But despite them." Beautiful. I love your wisdom.

@Rasheens-Story 4 года назад

It seems like ever since I started climbing up the ladder with my career and focussing on myself and taking care of my body everywhere I go I encounter envious people trying to drag me down. I usually ignore it though because my eyes are on my goal and no one can shift that. When i wasn't doing anything with my life that's when everyone was ok with me.

@nlg0x 3 года назад

I'm not being big-headed, but I have self-love and alot of people tell me how pretty I am. But I notice other girls get very jealous and it's extremely off setting. I get alot of attention (even though I don't really want it) and I seem to get on better with guys because I grew up with older brothers, and girls view that as a threat. It really sucks, you could be the kindest person and people still hate you. I'm ignoring it but it sucks when you all you're doing is existing and people dislike you because of it

@sumaiya771 2 года назад

Honestly same but in my case it's my older sister, whenever we go out I get more attention(I dont want it I swear😭) and people compliment me, which is bad cuz she'll be right next to me, shes so toxic and insecure and I've tried to make things work between us but it just wont, we dont speak to one another at all, and I just cant wait to move out and never meet her again

@something1529 2 года назад

Yeah and unfortunately it results in loneliness not having a lot of female friends. I always reach out and make friends but the fear that once I let me guard down they try to sabotage me. It’s hard the price to pay for it is loneliness

@victoriasegall3404 2 года назад

I know all too well how you feel. I have had this reality for over 40 years. I'm not joking. I tried being friends with other people of the same gender. Forget it! I have male friends, and I wouldn't have it any other way. I get FAR more respect and appreciation.

@mikedoyle7300 Год назад

@@sumaiya771 give it time. People mature and views change. Don't be too quick to disown a member of your family. Life is short and in the end it's family that's important. Good luck.

@andreatodd3095 Год назад

@@sumaiya771 it's a problem I know, I would say find something that your sister is good at and praise her for that because you can't do it as well as her, they just want to excel at something and see you as being the target of their inability to shine.....it's called boosting their ego.... But don't keep doing it just have a convo once about it and don't change who you are.

@shadowkiller6929 5 лет назад

It’s common in family, cousin etc, you gotta push through and make them more jealous. Just do you.

@JonteTheArtist 2 года назад

I think what so many jealous people fell to realized is that the person that they’re jealous of, sometimes has their own battles and weaknesses too, regardless of their life looks perfect from the outside. Some People always looking at other people lives but they need to understand that they need to find their own path, and look within themselves, their destiny. We’re all special. Hard work pays off. Some work hard to be successful and so it’s important that the jealous person work hard to get what they want, instead of being jealous of others. Support people and honor their success but very important to find your own destiny.

@YarelySilvas 2 года назад

💯👌🏻

@hotmomma1552 Год назад

They not gone do it! Pointless to even say it!

@LivingSimplyyAstrology 3 года назад

Thanks for this insight. Our attention, time and energy feeds the jealous ; so we should truly feed ourself 😊🙏🏽 May everyone reading this comment be protected from hateful, toxic, jealous and negative people!

@andyboyselowe9152 2 года назад

I'm struggling on envy..its been a year..I'm feeling so ashamed of my self..

@eriomnyc6073 2 года назад

Pray for them and have compassion for them

@mamarukinatanaka3784 7 лет назад

Thanks Brendon! I just respect how you keep delivering practical content with ZERO F-BOMBS! You're not only super intelligent but very respectful in your communication skills.

@junohamilton266 7 лет назад

Francoise Alice. 8y

@gabecoolwater4497 Год назад

I spent the last 5y saving money to buy a small flat in my city (my first home)... and I finally did it this year. I thought I had good friends to share this with, but turns out... both of them reacted with bitterness. I can only assume it's jealousy. It's really hurtful...

@junemcquaide9726 Год назад

Good for you saving for your first home ,when you realise people don't want you to do better to them ,just keep on your path 👍.

@GN-bt9yu 4 года назад

My mother's cousins are really jealous about my studies because they're really scared that I will become a doctor in the future..🤔😒🤭😅

@teewashington9618 4 года назад

MG. nayanathara And you will hunny.❤️

@nikongaming4016 4 года назад

Same hahaha

@gerardmangan5870 4 года назад

It's then I would really chow down and go for it.

@allnewschannelallnewschann1305 4 года назад

Same

@miguelmora8783 3 года назад

Be a doctor !!

@annaavakian8672 2 года назад

People will always try to drag you down, but you need to find strength to ignore them and go ahead.

@lilakilonen5663 5 лет назад

Knowing that someone hates me and is jealous does not inspire me. It makes me sad and depressed, it causes me emotional pain and injury. It may work for y'all But not for me.

@vibekes2416 5 лет назад

lila kilonen I understand what you mean 😣

@brianwilliam5034 5 лет назад

Don’t let them win

@devipatil9701 5 лет назад

Same

@tcbcmoto4895 4 года назад

It's hard but the point is don't let them win what haters think of us is none of our buissness so don't let them win and God bless 💪👍🙏

@lafytaffy1220 2 года назад

The sad part is many people are jealous of things they invent in their head about other people. It's sad but now days people don't even get to know people anymore. I assure you if most people got to know the people they are jealous of, they wouldn't be so jealous. We are all imperfect humans and the only difference is how we choose to carry on in life. It's all about perspective.

@cherylduisberg1444 4 года назад

Yes, I feel like others want to bring me down to their level, because they are content where they are. I want more. I like how you said to stay on my path of excellence and continue to get better. I needed to hear that, because that is what I want to do!

@chicagolandable 4 года назад

It's a nauseating world where all manner of evil and corruption abounds.

@bashag5477 7 лет назад

who wants to be told that theyre jealous? thats crazy. you will enrage them.

@heyyyyy1111 6 лет назад

GOOD! make these jealous monsters self-combust

@errinmora 4 года назад

Their problem if they can't hear truth. Not yours. But I'd personally not give them the satisfaction of getting any reaction out of me.

@dominicbrogsdale3348 4 года назад

@@errinmora yup or if you say somthen then they'll deny it!!

@BabyPink3 4 года назад

@@heyyyyy1111 😂😂😂

@krislynmills3695 Год назад

I was finally discarded after doing that. I thought the complaints were because I wasn’t good enough and so I kept improving. No, it turned out it was just because I was good enough and that was threatening. I want to say that you’re advice is excellent and thank you for this channel.

@deborahwiser6516 2 года назад

I've only ever known JEALOUS PEOPLE MY ENTIRE LIFE!!!!!

@dogpoochogenius 5 лет назад

I am the man with the best and natural hair ever, ever. No man or no woman would have a hair like me ever. When I am walking everybody looking at me. Peoples are tremendously jealous. I am the most discriminated ever, ever. Specially those people with partially or all lost hair from their heads, or people that their family members lost partially or all hair from their heads, when they see me they can't take it. But there is always someone approaching me and telling me that I have the best hair in the world. Lot of peoples are making comments to each other about my hair.

@victoriasegall3404 2 года назад

Hi! How about that! I am in the same boat as you. I have naturally wavy blond hair, and, I wear it long because of my ancestry, and also because it suits me best. My high school friend says I look like a blonde Hawaiian. I get OODLES of compliments on my hair.

@dogpoochogenius 2 года назад

@@victoriasegall3404 hey Victoria can you tell us how can we see your picture. When it comes to me, you can see me on RU-vid. Then you see that nobody else on this planet has so much hair. So the jealousy is tremendous. Even RU-vid is not allowing me to have a viewers, do to saying things about my glorious hair.

@foxyred1015 5 лет назад

Thank you for your video. You've just described my blood relatives and their behavior. It is very painful to realize that people who you expect to be happy for you are actually doing the opposite... Sad truth. But I am so grateful for your teachings and thankful that I get an opportunity to learn and grow!

@Mcfc2Rich 5 лет назад

You know when they all come out of the woodwork at once? All the negative Nancy’s just picking at straws and trying to bring your day down, flaw finders? Shout out to everyone who has people jealous of them, proves your not like everyone else, proves your doing something right. Love individuals who stand out 👊🏻

@dominicbrogsdale3348 4 года назад

love it " picking the straws" got a so called buddy like that, always making bitter comments about my life and your can feel the pain deep down! but gotta stay positive!!

@joemichaels_ 3 года назад

Facts

@Mcfc2Rich 3 года назад

@@dominicbrogsdale3348 looking at it objectively mate if I was your friend I wanna try and lift you up, bringing you down does nothing for me unless I wanna see you there, and if I do wanna see you there, I'm not your friend

@dominicbrogsdale3348 3 года назад

@@Mcfc2Rich dang man kind of deep man thanks Ill keep that in mind!!! especially when i around so called friend NOBODY SHOULD EVER PUT YOU DOWN OR HURT YOU! the only time they should hurt you is with TRUTH!! Id rather have the cold hard truth and it hurts me for a little bit then put downs and lies! Thanks man needed to see this!!

@Mcfc2Rich 3 года назад

@@dominicbrogsdale3348 100% bro. They'll be critical with truth cause they wanna see the best for you. You can do something with the truth, you can't do anything with lies they're useless and lifes too short to be spending time with people who wanna bring you down

@sharnelgezwint3990 2 года назад

I always deal with jealous people and I honestly just want to be on my path, live my purpose and be happy.

@sallynight9186 2 года назад

1. Affirm or Ignore them 2. Revisit your WHY 3. Get better/Excell even more dispute their say 4. Remember to Serve others on your way up.

@fireeye33 2 года назад

Bless that jealous person because they are operating on SCARCITY mindset and realize they too deserve the abundance blessing from the universe.

@marthamazariegos6790 Год назад

That's right keep on climbing mountains walking humble and in humility in righteousness 👍🙏🙂 Thank you for sharing this video...Love ❤️ it

@dianamary6170 7 лет назад

"not in spite of them but despite them" Thank you Brendon!

@mikka9368 4 года назад

thank you! I've been struggling with people who derail me on a constant basis!

@3ma_lengend 3 года назад

Jealousy can be very dangerous cause sometimes people will do what ever it takes to see your down fall it hurts when it's people close to you

@clarahammar8534 3 года назад

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@clarahammar8534 3 года назад

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@nellaflemming6862 Год назад

Ignoring is the key, even when they go to incredible efforts to be in your face and drag you down. The trouble is, you can waste time on these people. Great advice all round, I live by that last segment. I try and be there for others. ♥️

@nellaflemming6862 Год назад

Some people are givers and some people are takers. The takers are destructive. ♥️

@nellaflemming6862 Год назад

So, I am going to finish off, hopefully it will help someone. I think givers are very confident people because they do not feel it detracts from them or need to be the centre of attention all the time. Takers in the other hand have huge self esteem issues and insecurities and that is why they spend their valuable time on others instead of working on themselves. I think you have to tackle this from an early age. A confident child makes a confident adult. Many problems in the world are rooted in a person's self doubt and that goes from the top down and so they compensate for these feelings of inadequacy by choosing negative behaviour instead of positive. Working on your self esteem is a good start.

@nellaflemming6862 Год назад

Very last thing! 😊 95 per cent of the people who have these emotions towards me are other women, what does that say about female empowerment? What does that say about how a lot of women feel about themselves and is that an issue society as a whole should be trying to address?

@pkp6791 2 года назад

People are jealous of something they feel that another person has that they think they cannot get/have/achieve. Drop /cut anyone from your life who exhibits jealousy. Yes, help people who do not show signs of envy or jealousy. Life is too short to invest in those who mean nothing but harm for you. There are so many others who will truly appreciate what you can offer to help them. Jealous people are harmful and sick. They need to work on themselves and there is nothing you can do to help them. No need to be mean to them, but cut them out of your life like a cancer!!!

@EvySurvived Год назад

I have 2 sisters that have brutally bullied me. I finally cut ties 💯 I never ask questions about their lives and I give no info. about my life. No doubt they have found other people to hate on.

@azizukman 7 лет назад

Great advice but in reality would you really tell someone don't be jealous of me. Personally I would just ignore them or just gradually take them out of my life, for example spend limited time with them.

@WonZZY2003 4 года назад

I also do the same

@julietteSoul 4 года назад

Aziz Rahman The women in my family that I am close to are jealous and mean , I really don’t know how to handle this issue, I get so angry and hurt.

@deirdremorris9234 3 года назад

@@julietteSoul Start by Not handling them. Dont answer them. Limit your time or move away.

@Leatricaw 3 года назад

That’s exactly what I will do.

@sandbabe2245 2 года назад

@@deirdremorris9234 I can come up with so many excuses to not be around certain people I’m a professional now ! teeeehe , I’m saving my money and moving away

@062980t 5 лет назад

Why have enemies when you got family

@oceanluminant 3 года назад

When your own family are your enemies...:)

@marialb2010 3 года назад

Yes indeed!

@angieholt736 2 года назад

Sooooo true!!!

@cindieann6365 2 года назад

Family members is the worst enemies 🙏🙏🙏

@dikohabib8055 7 лет назад

what if they're jealous because you're 'richer' than them?

@sootuckchoong7077 5 лет назад

Ask them to work for you.

@Caim6311 4 года назад

A woman gets jelous because I talk to my coworkers

@lalastaywoke 4 года назад

Nobody gave me money ijs ... Ño👣👅

@elizabethwoods2853 3 года назад

MR..DR...i GUESS ...they will go crazy....because..there will allway,s be some one smarter perttyer..body..that,s better than..your some.one.RICHER than you...so those people NEED..help...they hate there life them..self..and they don,t feel.. L0VED...they will DRIVE them self crazy....let them be..keep..0N being RICH. I wish i was rich so i could move to HAWAII..becauss to live there you have to have an IN. Come 2800 A month..S0 THAT,S count,s me out brothere but happy for you..i just keep..looking for the FAITH..THAT god can bless ,me any time.. keep..makeing your money god bless you .don,t let people take your joy... NEVER..🌝🌝🌝 .

@pauljohny200 3 года назад

Thats the reason you interact with people of your type ...Also jealousy is a human nature.. You should be strong and dont get impacted by them ..Focus on your passion and work. . One factor can also be your own behaviour too .. Like if you are womaniser or arrogant with people , then you heading for trouble ..Laws of nature , Be good best of luck. Some times it can be our own mistake too .. some times when you have money you try to act like you some riches perosn in world Best example warren buffet rich but people are not that very jealous of him cause he behaves very simple.. Again depends on type of humans near your surrounding ..Be human , Be Good and pray too Best of luck other method i can say is to be invsible...

@artmocha9901 3 года назад

Get better not to spite them...despite them👏🏻

@hoangminhnguyenuc8051 7 лет назад

Thank you Brendon. You're absolutely right. "It's hard to hate someone who's a champion of others"

@vivenciogeorgetorres1720 2 года назад

The best advice on dealing with this issue of jealousy is already discussed in the Bible. And you're correct. 😊

@tamboura6573 2 года назад

Love this. They usually ignore the work you have done though, especially if you don’t brag about it, or it’s not bragged about by others, and project that it’s all short term, or from someone else’s favoritism. Or that you’re “just trying to get attention “ . The undermining is the hard part.

@dianatrejo2006 5 лет назад

My mom's cousin is jealous of me just because I'm taller.💁 She always gives me a disgusted face when she says hi to me and when people compare our heights she always says I'm wearing tall shoes with a very passive aggressive tone.

@GN-bt9yu 4 года назад

my mother's cousins are also really jealous about my studies, because they're really being scared about that I will become a doctor in the future....😒🤭😅

@Adria_Buhle 2 года назад

Lol that's so funny

@Kirstys635 2 года назад

I don't know why I laughed so much. People are so petty.

@victoriasegall3404 2 года назад

What a nasty piece of work! I would have said:"Speak for yourself, hun!"

@davidokai6723 Год назад

Don't give her the close distance and don't fear anyone

@supersilverdoll 7 лет назад

WHERE HAVE U BEEN ALL MY LIFE???? WISHED I HEARD THIS WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL. LIFE WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER

@aquariuschild0710 5 лет назад

This is amazing and the reminder i needed!..I will never shrink myself for others insecurities

@Konstance001 5 лет назад

I love the last part of your video, about staying humble, and giving back to the community! Beautiful message!

@mahogany1967 6 лет назад

Brendon, thank you so much! You words are confirmation that I am doing the right thing! Three of my four immediate co-workers are covert malignant narcissist! Their behavior is so appalling. inappropriate and unprofessional that I have ceased ALL contact with them! I ignore them completely! No verbal or written contact whatsoever! Doing do allows me to maintain my peace and joy, my professionalism and successfully fulfill my professional obligations and remain passionate about the work that I do! After several months of my co-workers' covert behavior, I believe that others, including management, are now beginning to see what is going on! Again, thank you!

@anaka9779 7 лет назад

Thank you for this. Sincerely. I don't believe I've ever commented on a youtube video in my life, but I am leaving this because I gain a lot of strength and hope from your lessons and your videos. I often remember your words in my trying moments. This particular video really hits home. It's so real, and so brave. So thank you. Thank you for all of your videos. You and I are not of the same religion, but thank you for always reminding all of us to serve others in our best ways. I appreciate what you do. Thank you.

@GLAMOURpusso 6 лет назад

People can be that way for any reason ... even good looks or great personality.. some are insanely jealous by their personality, though I find many high achievers can be braggers or ego trippers , they often get lost in GREED... why be in a race with others... that's competitiveness. You do not need to be a million dollar man. JUst be happy being you..in the end all the big bucks remain on ground ZERO... anyway !!!!!

@ll-mc8bx 5 лет назад

Its not always about money by the way. Some people want to try and leave a positive mark on the world, and master their respected area.

@cherryblossom585 3 года назад

I so appreciate you for your words and for making this video! I needed to hear this today! Sometimes it's so hard not to get affected by other's behaviors when they get jealous but this video calmed my soul and made me more humble! Thank you!

@MariaInLuv Месяц назад

I am super humble and caring yet I always get jealous people say rude and mean things to me. Just shows me that I am doing well and they are just unhappy people.

@aracelirosales7328 3 года назад

I just heard some ppl are even jelous of your smile..your vibe..i was like..WOWSERS!

@clarahammar8534 3 года назад

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@muddyshoes4517 Год назад

It's nice to see how you've developed, grown & matured, Brandon. I always feel fortunate to get to see that in people. Thank you for staying connected to your path & true to yourself. Good video!

@llchan6064 7 лет назад

So true. And sometime the only thing we can do to those people is just respect. One thing that I do feel glad is the more they do petty things to me, the more momentum I find. 💪🏻

@EnjoyingLife2024 Месяц назад

TY for the reminder that people who are jealous of me are projecting their own insecurities upon me. Ignore them. Stay focused on the "why.". Pay it forward and help others. ❤

@LonjeMarie7 2 года назад

I like how you said that they were afraid please don’t leave. But we still have to learn how to keep some people at a distance because the viciousness and the toxicity is unhealthy.

@Bluesnakes333 2 года назад

I am a jealous person myself. Boiled down to 2 things: Hatred towards myself and fear. What helps is to focus on positive self talk, and genuinely believing that no matter who hurts me, I am strong enough to face it and walk away. Also, I stop myself from putting on my partner. It’s not his fault I’m jealous. But it’s easy to blame. I learned to take responsibility for my feelings of jealousy. I’m not envious of successful ppl but am jealous in my relationship. My boyfriend is a reliable and loyal type of person (doesn’t mean he would never make a mistake). But my point is that I hardly have any reason to be worried. I get jealous b/c I do not “approve” of myself, and I am fearful of what “could happen” that would hurt me. It’s truly selfish.

@hanaboo101 3 года назад

There are some people who like to call their ex friends “hater, or jealous” because they rather say that than look at their own faults. To this day My ex friend still calls me a hater but wont admit that she was a horrible friend to me who always backstabbed me. They like to feed their ego.

@curtistinemiller4646 2 года назад

A heart ❤at peace gives life to the body,but Envy rots the bones....

@mariaamor2496 2 года назад

Proverbs 14:30. Amen!

@curtistinemiller4646 2 года назад

@@mariaamor2496 Amen...

@alakeee 5 месяцев назад

This really set me free. Jealousy and envy from people was my greatest fear. I would always cut them off and run but the universe is teaching me how to overcome that so I can be free ♥️ what a gift!

@lucasbarzandemetrio7312 7 лет назад

It's been a while since the last time I've watched a Brendon video... I don't know how I could live without it 😅😁 Thank you so much, Brendon!

@sunshine-rf2og Год назад

6:10 I’ve been living thish way, just helping people, everyone I can, but some people get jealous even of that and transform into a “who can be more generous” competition. Like it’s for attention. What I’ve learned is, yes, help people, but not to an extend where you are being unhelpful to yourself because you can’t tell no ones intention at the end of the day. Only yours. Best thing is to ignore and keep moving! Thank you for the video! 🙏 liked

@TheRepairSpecialist 3 года назад

Thank you. This is awesome advice. Craig

@erikaunterberger7348 9 месяцев назад

Never hate people Who are jealous of you , respect there jealousy . The are people who think you are BETTER THAN THEM . ☀️

@malikabuz 6 лет назад

3:30 Third point really spoke to me!!! Thank you! I understand and see clearly now! I will continue to be on the rise to success and soon the jealousy will turn to respect!

@SuperCelliott 3 года назад

My daughter is a phenomenal athlete and gets so much hate. This girls works so hard for everything she has gained. I sent her this.

@lafytaffy1220 2 года назад

Kudos to her!

@BlessedInEveryAreaOfMyLife 2 года назад

Congratulations….Tell her to keep up the good work and keep moving forward towards her dreams in life. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@jonathanm9637 4 года назад

I have done alot of good stuff and yes I have haters lol. Graduated college too. I'm now 39 and medically retired. US Army. Ended up being a Correctional Sergeant and they could not handle it. I quit and make the same money off my disability and a weekend job. I'm so done with my haters trying to live in peace now.

@LeonardPC272 Год назад

what's sucks about jealous people is that you call them out on it and they dont care they stay being jealous and acting jealous its hideous

@DanielWSonntag 7 лет назад

Thanks Brendon, love your work!!! My success came because I do service to help others. It is really really really difficult to be affected by anyone's jealousy about my success. It's kind of funny. My inner response is, I AM HELPING A LOT LOT LOT OF PEOPLE. So if THAT is success they are jealous of, BRING IT ON! I hope they are jealous of how many people I help, jealous of the changes I am creating in the world. Be jealous of me. I make a difference. I live in love.

@lafytaffy1220 2 года назад

Thanks for the smile! 😁 Keep on trekking ! 👍

@dras1959 2 года назад

This helped me so much. When I first watched this I was struggling with jealous people and I didn't know how to deal with them . Over a year later I need to say thank you. Thank you! I

@gerrimiller3491 4 года назад

Why so much Hate and wickedness in the world? Why can't people just be happy for other people's achievements? Some people are so spiritually withdrawn and need love within their souls🥰 Namaste

@dannym6552 3 года назад

no my dear, they are just evil, i thought like you did, but no, evil is the word