Loneliness can get the best of us, especially in these times. I’ll be sharing my experiences in hope to provide helpful insight and inspiration for anyone.
Bro, once again he's reading my mind again, cuz I got recent thoughts of feeling lonely especially when I'm in this "working on myself" mission and recently after deleting Instagram from my phone. Thanks for the words of advice Shimon 🙏🏾
i fkn LOVE you. my sweet baby dumpling mean that in the best possible and most loving way coming from a person with no friends, your videos make me feel like I'm talking with a close friend and gives me hope and helps me snap out of it.
You are a HEALER, Shimon! Thank you for everything. Also, the five minutes of peaceful music at the end was a beautiful inclusion. Good practice for being present and sitting with yourself. If that's music you wrote, I'd love to hear more.
I feel so isolated from my friends, and I do have a few close friends I trust and can talk about anything, but thank you for reminding me that it’s okay to be alone sometimes, but also to take care of myself
Appreciate you Brother. Relatable right now. Quit Consuming Nicotine 12/12/23 Stop Weed 1/23/24. Used that stuff to cope with my mom passing. Felt very alone especially When I dropped the weed. I felt better overall,clear mind but my emotions were firing. Lately I’ve been analyzing life wondering how I’m about to proceed. Started back working out 🏋🏾 last week,eating consistently from home(healthy meals) working on my goals and habits. Questioning the friends around me that made me feel alone. I do t want to rant but life is getting better day by day. I feel that weight at times especially today. Your videos really helped reinforce my motivation as I work on loving myself. Appreciate it and apologize if I was too lengthy . Your a blessing from God, maybe you should work on a book one day🙏🏿
Needed this man, thank you for all the content. Your videos truly have changed me for the better. I stopped yk.. doing the deed🍆💦 because of one of your videos about it and it’s already made me happier. I’ve been clean of it for about three days or so maybe less but I already feel better as a person, very slightly, but still. It’s a noticeable difference, and it’s because of you. I appreciate you so much and you have my forever support. Thank you man.
I love how you left us alone for 5 mins to really sink in the point you were making in the video. Im a new subscriber here bro and....so far all ive seen is you talking straight facts.thanks
Thanks for talking about something so imoortant and for making me realize those things. Like all the videis before thanks for always been there man, hope you and y'all are doing well 🫶🏻
Definitely want somebody to be with, but I've been talking all this advice to heart, and just being sure to have basic social interactions. Really trying to build relationships with the people around me.
Thank you! Your words make me feel better about myself and help me mature. The things you talk about go through my head all the time and I never heard anyone talk about EXACTLY loneliness. Really unique content
You are such a wise young man, with a beautiful soul. Im so glad I found you today God knew just what I needed. I subscribed from both my channels. I will be binge watching you today with this being my second video. This channel is going to bless me GREATLY! I just want to know may I extract this beautiful instrumental in the background to use in my videos? Also is this you playing the guitar? I’m working on revamping my channel for a similar like style you have. I love you more and thank you so much for looking out for us, while growing becoming a better you 💜💜💜
I haven't experienced teenage love and I never will because I already am 18 years old. Now I have to wait a few months until after I take the final highschool exam and then focus on my true purpose, because having a girlfriend right now would really distract me (but I have dating preferences so it makes it kinda easier for me). Stay safe 'n' strong y'all. ❤ God's watchin' you☦️✌🏻
@@iiCounted-op5jx Because I have no choice, than to just move on. Otherwise I couldn't focus on my daily tasks and lovd in a burden. I've returned to Orthodox Christianity one year ago and a half and I've found somewhat of a peace.
Dude, i dont know why but your videos are things ive been experiencing for a while now, thanks for talking about this so i know that im not the only who feel this way :)
Hey Shimon, looking fresh : ) this is my first comment, I just wanted to thank you scince start watching you alot of things changed in me. I currenty have more drive to live out my creativity and to keep up with my bachelor title. i had a mental breakdown in november and missed a lot of lessons do to that. now i regulary do things for school at home and don`t feel so exausted. You are a really great person to translate what your mind, soul and body tells you. keep it up really excited for the long videos for background noise use and so forth.
honestly telling myself im ok making me cry n ty for telling me what to do get better, but ik i got my friend auve n if i need her she can help and if she cant i can help myself
I needed to hear this I’m far from ugly but I don’t have any close friends no females chasing me all I got is my daughter n her love is everything but when she leaves I’m sad again but i keep working hard and going through life with a fake smile
It really got to the point where I was intentionally isolating myself from people because I believed that I wasn't worth it. I'd say that I'm getting better the older I get.
Hey Shimon Davis. Your videos are very beautiful and helpful. Can you make a video anytime sooner or later about what to do when you love someone but you think that person loves someone else. You don't like her being someone elses and your confused about what you would do if she rejects you. I know I have to be brave to confess to her and accept whatever answer she gives. I am just not sure when is the right time. The girl I'm in love with has a friend who is a boy who maybe as closely connected with her as me. I want to be with her and I want to confess to her soon. I am 16, still inexperienced in life. So can you make a video about how to confess, when to confess and how to better at accepting the worst outcome and what to do if you have unconditional love towards the person you love and how to move on. Also, thank you for these videos. It genuinely does help. Your videos help with depression, emotions, feelings and most importantly life. I wrote this comment if you could help me and maybe some other people as well with these suggestions.
bro ur content is actually impacting lives and u resonate with the people hence ur success will continue to show that. for me personally ive started implementing the "take action" by posting everyday but with a glance is there any advice u could give me on how to go moving forward with my channel
Hey man im writting this for something i don't even know I hope u just read it , I have been deadly alone whitin my mind since I noticed that i must change my life what ever you can call it matrix or feeling or anything but since i wanted to break free i have been traped and alone in my mind and in my thought , and even within my dreams , when u know that you are the chosen one and everything around u tell u that you are the chosen and even life put u in situation that u are alone just with your daily mistakes and battling everyday with your mind , and hey even you shimon you are one of these signs that I am chosen to do what i have been dreaming for ,
The problem is I feel like nobody understands me and because of that i push people away when we aren't 100% on the same page... I feel bad for this kind of "selfishness" but its just how my gut feeling works
My girlfriend broke up with me and I feel like nobody is with me, ever since nobody wants to play or hang out on Xbox or real life. It just feels like everybody ignores me
Yep! I was alone, lonely in da past since I was 3 as far back I can remember. U right somebody did something & it was no other than my parents. They had 2 go out there in da world 2 be missionaries & they straight up neglected, unloved, unnurtured, cast me out to da wolfs/wolves of this world 💯. First of at home they would do for everybody accept me & I'd be the must fucked up that needed the most help. The prioritized the oldest & young in my household while I the middle child basically was like the male version of Cinderella 💯. I wanted to bond with my eldest & youngest sibling brothers but faults in that on their sides. They was just too spoiled rotten to deal with a neglect like me. So was all so close together & I was all so close so far out-ter orbit like Pluto. My whole family would come home & take frustrations out on me the church they wasn't nothing but predators Ñ vampires in EVERY WAY. School was just a mixed up both but more grandeur & longer suffering. I've been through EVERYTHING EVERY SITUATION, ABUSE, ASSAULT, HARASSMENT, ETC 💔💯 But they just didn't Even after I'd to my parents about what they doing or what others are doing 2 me. They would just clean me up & send me back to them, that person, that situation. So surprisingly my ancestral strength held up till I'd collapsed from a botched exorcism that I'd fault them off as best I could till my mind literally collapsed on itself. So it's been 10½ years I'm 31½ I've nevered had a job let alone a drivers license for obvious reasons. My family looked & seemed they cleaned upped their mess but I don't believe them niggas & bitches for two words let alone 2 cents. I became a man right then ñ there & force muthafuckas to take me 2 the hospital outside of Detroit, I stayed, out patiented & got put on medicine. I've gotten much more better till I was totally healed last late summer from my a least 15 to 20 illnesses I was diagnosed with with the root illness being loneliness yes loneliness or as they say medically chronic loneliness is a medically identified mental illness that was the root cause source of hell in my live to other illnesses, situations, etc. So today I'm fine I'm soundproof mind & I've gotten token off my medicine 5½ weeks ago it will be 6 on Monday. The difference iz people that really loved me are so worried & concerned about me if not hoping & praying 4 me. I told them I would be transparent as possible so I can helped them not worrying & being concerned about me 💯. It's just I've went through sooooooooo much that it conditioned me to EVIL & NOT GOOD. So when somebody loves me 4 me or check up on me, etc especial since I've been off my meds going on 6 weeks & it likes surprise me cause I can't even thank, imagine how happy they get for me it's better that what I know about them lol 😂. It's like a can't believeble dream like people loves me but I can't like fathom that & it haven't sunk in & it fucks me up everytime somebody dose it in a good way & I don't think I'll ever get used 2 the finner thangs in life like love for me❤♥️...........💪🏿💯
Dude I’ve been feeling lonely and it just sucks. I don’t have many real friends who are always there for me, every time I get a girlfriend or start actually feeling a spark with a girl she either breaks up with me or talks to another guy, people tell me to get a haircut because I have well kept long hair that I love, and I have a good bit of acne across my whole face besides the very middle. I’ve been feeling unworthy of love because of just feeling like a needy loser. I feel unworthy of friendship because all I talk about with my real friends is just stuff that only I’m interested in or my problems. Nobody knows how to help me. I’m 14, 9th grade. I hate this. I also play music (adult musicians have told me I’m better than most adult metal or general drummers around here) and at my school our band has a reputation and people will call me gay and weird and everything for playing music and loving what I do. I’ve been masturbating frequently and I’m starting my journey of quitting now. Last time I did was about a day ago. I can’t go back. It’s so tempting but I just can’t. I need to know somebody cares and that I’m not just a loser watching some RU-vid video because I have nobody else who cares.
Great content. I’m an over the road truck driver. Sooo much time to be in my head. Going through a breakup from a relationship that sucked the life out of me and it’s tough. Any thoughts on how to combat the loneliness?