Nicholas, if I may, I agree with all you say but a lower waisted trouser with a simple belt will elongate your torso. You have a good shape, try lowering the waist line and see how it works!
In his black outfit I was thinking the same thing, those jeans are too high waisted and look a bit like mom jeans..( in my opinion, no offence Nicholas)
This should be fun 😊. To quote Coco Chanel “ Fashion fades, only style remains the same “ and “ Simplicity is the keynote of all true elegance “. I think those quotes describe you so well Nicolas 💕. I’m a classic dresser and CoCo Chanel is 1 of my fashion icons. I still have my Burberry long trench coat for 12 years now 👍
Yes! Coco is was the worlds greatest couture designer even to today in my book. Put Vera Wang, Calvin Clien, Bill Blass and all today’s top designers all together and they wouldn’t add up to Coco Chanel who is the true standard of elegance.
Absolutely loved this! Your personal style suits you so well ❤️ For shoes, you may like Carmina shoes. They often go on sale and are beautifully well made to last. Also I’ve had very good luck with uniqlo merino wool sweaters and of course second hand shopping. My Ferragamo boots were purchased on eBay brand new, never worn and in the box for less than $200 ❤️
Thank you so much Audrey! Your tips are so welcome and I will definitely check out some of your suggestions! I'm also thinking of having a good clear out of my closet and selling some of the things that don't serve me anymore x
Your videos are so soothing to watch when I'm feeling stressed! I'm a pretty feminine dresser, these days femininity isn't popular. But I wear what makes me happy.
@Celfieparie Sydney, here it's pretty much jeans/sneakers everywhere. Not judging, if that's what makes people happy. But I've received a lot of negative comments about always wearing dresses/more timeless clothes.
@@carissaluttonmovietalk me too, I absolutely love the boho style but the area I'm living in is mostly all jeans and trackies and it does affect my true style unfortunately,😔
That's so true with the "one colour up and down " this really works with short people. You always give good tips . I think most people will really appreciate this Video today. Love from Trinidad & Tobago
Tailoring is key! Even if you buy something from a thrift store, tailor it! You can never go wrong with a good pair of Gucci's & Ferragamo's.. Just get them resoled.... I dare say (with a sigh and chuckle), I have some as old as you are hahahahahaah I hope your packing is going well! xoxo Randolph
Once again, Thank You Nicolas!!! Halston believed to always keep the clothes to simple classic silhouettes that work for your body type and work around that with accessories. You give good advice Nicolas. As for Doc Martins, I believe certain styles are a fashion must have. For some of us, sneakers are still only for the gym. To wear them with nice clothes is a very young look. The reality is you do NOT need to spend a whole lot of $$$ to look like a million bucks.
@@NicolasFairfordYou have proven you can look great on budget. I also subscribe to spending it on shoes. Because when your feet hurt, your whole body hurts.And a few really good pairs of shoes can really stretch a wardrobe. I also agree when investing in certain pieces, invest wisely as you did!! Keep the videos coming. You are getting pretty terrific at this, especially for millennials who I have noticed really don't know how to dress, and the pandemic has not helped; Lately people are wearing gym clothes as everyday wear AGAIN!! UGH!! [Ask your parents what I mean by "again". I'm the likely in the same age category as they are] PS: I learned in my 20's that shopping in thrift stores in posh or at least in higher income neighborhoods can help save a bundle and if you're consistent enough, you can find that item in your size or that furniture piece you saw in the store that was @300% mark-up.
Mr. Nicolas Fairford--- I might stop at different points in this video as a I re-watch it and make some comments, not to hound you, but to be sincerely complimentary. I can tell this video positions your persona perfectly in an element that you were born to own. You're elegant, charming, masculine, relatable, friendly while conveying points of insight on fashion for men. As your audience I sense your comfort level while discussing clothes and accessories. This makes you a great host. All men want to learn about what works for them individually, and by watching you being relaxed and being real concerning your color and style pallets then other men will follow suit concerning themselves. At age 22 after college my very first job was a clerk in my own office at a private accounting house...this job mostly belonged to men twice my age, so I was bound to dress like I was 45 years old when I was half that age. Needless to say I swiped suits from my father which fit me well enough. I got trapped in that style zone. My youth seemed to fade and my longer stylish hair and beard became super conservative. A fashion leader like you would've set me free. I wore suits and wingtips into my 30s. Fortunately, my boyfriend(s) during those years somehow liked me that way, but I really didn't. I finally broke and wore high end sneakers with cargo shorts as those became popular. Please continue telling your own stories so that everyone can become more at home with fashion. My body type as well as skin tone and hair color also played into fashion choices. Perhaps discuss how we should go about selecting colors and even fabrics suited to the individual. ...Sir, you're in your zone here...own it and run with it and show the world this is where you have real game! My best to you!
Your video made me think of my style back in the 80's when I first moved to NYC. I worked in an office and wore lots of oxford blouses with crewneck sweaters, blazers and pumps, all of which I still wear today. That indeed is timeless fashion. Thoroughly enjoyed your video Nicolas.
I’m a Yale grad and 100% think you’d be an amazing Yalie🙂 Thanks for this video-so helpful ❤️❤️❤️ I am completely aligned with your ideas of personal style. I’ve become less formal too! As someone who didn’t grow up with a lot, it took awhile to figure style out and how be your true self.
I’ve been ‘married’ to Ralph Lauren for thirty years. I stopped having his suits made at fifty pieces, because I thought that was enough, and now even tho I am still having 5-6 suits made per year, I am now giving away tons of clothes, including suits and shirts, to younger guys just starting out who maybe cant afford good, hand-made clothes. Rewarding for them and me. But I have not had anything on my body that wasn’t RL since the early eighties. I have been described as sick LOL
Happy 2022 Nicholas. I really want to say thank you for all of your helpful insights on how to elevate your sense of style and class. I'm really proud of how you've decided to live your life and it's people who think they have a monopoly on class because they may have come from old money but class doesn't come with money and neither does Style, it takes a very special person to have class and style and I must say you are among them. Thank you
Always important to purchase a few classic timeless quality pieces - they never go out of style and last forever! My sister once commented on my "style" that became known to me. I wear a lot of white crisp cotton shirts. I'm fussy about the quality on a good white shirt, because once you find a quality shirt, you can't purchase too many. (I too hate logos and patterns - I don't want someone else's signature, I want my own!) On occasion, for a splash of color, I have some gorgeous silk scarves from around the world. Thanks for the great video!
A note about "fast fashion "-- all those cheap clothes end up in massive landfills. It's a huge ecological problem and disaster! So, yet another reason to buy quality clothes which will last physically and style-wise.
@@NicolasFairford It is disturbing how that tons of clothing overrun landfills, even 3rd world countries reject the deliveries...this is an amazing fact never headlined in the media. If nothing else this textile material could be shredded and even composted into fertilizer, even used in the production of building materials, or repurposed as safe products used as fuel and to create energy. It will take decades for natural decomposition with some fabrics lasting up to a century. I wish for change...but commerce rules the world for better and worse.
Commerce is driven by demand. Stores wouldn’t sell it if we didn’t buy it. Stores used to only offer a few collections a year. Consumer demand has pushed stores to offer as many as a new collection each week. God forbid we wear the same outfit more than once a week. We demand closets bursting with a variety of cheaply made clothes. Practically everyone that goes in to Target or Walmart comes out with what they actually went in for PLUS a new shirt or “cute” pair of jeans or a hoodie they didn’t actually need. If we stopped doing that, the lack of demand would force the supply to stop.
@@marjanarif8231 I think a lot of third world countries buy from these fast fashion stores. Luxury and style goods like Prada, etc other more quality clothes are very expensive in south east Asia countries like Malaysia the Philippines Thailand Singapore even although Singapore isn’t a third world country... after taxes and currency conversion branded luxury clothes are impossibly expensive, just not worth buying. Let me paint you a picture. In a south east country let’s say Malaysia an average graduate gets 3000 Malaysian dollars per month. An American earns 3000 American dollars per month. Problem is 3000 American dollars is more than 10,000 Malaysian dollars , do you see the disparity? A lot of Malaysians and countries who are more or less on that wealth level simple can’t afford to buy luxury expensive handmade European clothes.
My Mother in Law worked as an accountant for a company here in the US that specialized in clothes for shorter men. The guys were so happy to go to the store and have lots of choices available for clothes that fit right off the racks. In the NW suburbs of Chicago. I texted her to ask her what the name of the place was.
Right my mom took us to New York to go school shopping once we started high school. It was a wonderful experience knowing my clothes we’re from my city.
Denise Gadreau At the beginning of your video, all I could think of was: "Conversations with Nicolas Fairfold." I love this concept. This video was casual, informative yet tastefully presented. I enjoyed your video immensely.
I'm glad that you've decided to change up your style over the years and wear trainers now. I'm also into the Kennedies (that's why I love the Ralph Lauren preppy style). I also love your Yale jumper, I like the more casual and playful look it gives. My favourite looks most recently have been from Princess Diana. She looked great no matter what she wore and she had so many different styles.
Like you Nicolas I love navy blue. It is a great colour for travel, because it looks chic but doesn't show the dirt. And it goes with so many other colours. For instance I have a navy jacket, skirt and pants all made from the same material. Underneath the jacket in a blouse, sweater or scarf, I can wear white, blue, green, yellow, red, pink, mauve, grey, navy...the variety is endless. Likewise navy shoes and purse, go with dresses of numerous colours, stripes or prints and navy loves polka dots.
Back in my working days I used to have a lot of my clothes 'tweaked' by a clever lady who earned extra money with her tailoring skills. It was money well spent.
I wish I would have had this Channel when I was young. It would’ve helped me tremendously . And yet it still does. Thank you so much Nicolas. I appreciate your time and effort that you put into this video 😉💐🎈
Enjoyed the video so much but Nickolas, as a mom I’m worried about your move …please update us. Must say your thoughtfulness and introspection is so lovely..thanks for sharing…
The reason I’m worried is he had stated that he had given his landlord notice and had been outbid on several apartments. I’m excited for his new space and can’t wait to see his decor. Just don’t want to think he’ll be all packed up with nowhere to go. Finding the right place can be daunting. I certainly wish him well and have confidence in his skills…he’s a great guy and I thoroughly enjoy his videos!
Navy blue, black and white are elegant and classic colours. Simply style and plain clothes are always in fashion in Europe. Greetings from Helsinki, Finland!
Definitely agree about getting some things that are more expensive (like shoes). If they last longer, the cost probably balances itself out once you divide it by total years you have it. I'm hesitant about spending a lot for certain items, though. For example, I got a sweater, heavily discounted, that was normally $80, (which personally I think is expensive for a sweater) and it seemed to start wearing fairly quickly. I think sometimes expensive does not always equal well-made. It just depends.
Hi Nicolas, I am Blessed to come from an Aristocratic family...and l totally agree with what you're saying...l invested 35 yrs ago in a particular Cashmere coat , it's beautiful and timeless even today. My wardrobe is full of these items today. Classic ,tailored items. Well done Sallyann da Costa Andrade
Hello Nicholas! I subscribed to your channel because it was your style that influenced the choice of this channel. Lovely sets of clothes, your style is chic and elegant, you are right about the monochrome for people of small stature / I am also small / my son is a little older than you, and I am glad that young people think about beauty, about their place and style. You are right about shoes, accessories, makeup and hair, they should be expensive, you have chosen the basics of your wardrobe correctly. As for the hairstyle, you have a round face and shoulder length hair will suit you, but not longer, you can wear it loosely falling, or style it back with a hair styling tool. You are on the right track, you are young, my God I am 65 and I consider myself still young when compared to 80 years old. Super collection! And choose a fragrance, perfume for yourself, which will be expensive and eternal.❤❤❤❤❤❤
My Grandmother’s second husband, who was a professional Austrian painter, framed one of his original paintings in the same exact frame as the painting you are posed against. It was hung in our family room for years. My son also started a job at Yale University in Neuroscience Research recently.. Love you Nicholas! You give my son an edge with his LGBT friends. You are so comforting, elegant, and informative to us!
I hesitate to bring up such a tiny point, but to me, the button, brads, and belt loops of your jeans do a little bit of what wearing contrasting top/bottom colors would do: they create a contrasting horizontal line, stopping the eye. It might work if the belt loops were removed and the brads weren't light colors on dark fabric. Or just untuck your shirt! Your videos are wonderful fun to watch, and they always teach me something. I'm an 81-year-old woman with short legs, and I completely agree with you about the short jackets being the most flattering!
Hi Nicolas . You have great personal style . Knowing what works for you, keeping things simple & elegant is always best Clothing should be fun, reflect who you are & make you feel confident . As a gay man I sometimes have a clothing "meltdown" getting ready for a date or special event & usually end up going for all black . Mark (Toronto) 💙💙💙
Your style is on point 👌🏻 Of course it helps that you're very handsome! 🥰 Btw have you ever thought about lower rise jeans/pants for your proportions? Then you could afford having a little more length in your jackets, and that would further elongate your figure. Also, avoiding bulkiness in shoes can help to "lift you up". But what do I know - I'm sitting in the car wearing leggings lmao
I feel validated with my style after watching this video.... as I stick with a column of black punched up with accessories. Thank you for a great message!!!
This was how I chose my prom dress in high school - I thought, “will this look classic and glamorous in 50 years?” I felt very elegant in a classic red gown sailing through a sea of leopard print, zebra stripes, cutouts, and bubble hems (because it was 2009).
Great tips! I have some quality cashmere sweaters I've had for the past 30 40 years. Nicolas, good to hear you realize at such a young age choosing quality fabrics that have longevity.
I absolutely LOVE your style & your style advice. And your perspective of making everything next level beautiful. Being intentional & making it all matter. Excellence as a life strategy. I am a 52-yr old woman/lady/Mum from Canada with UK ties, & you are my favourite. I would take your advice over almost anyone on RU-vid or elsewhere. Case in point, your 'getting ready' video had me taking notes. For me, forget all the videos of women putting on a mask with make-up! You are what we all need in this weird time of life we are all living in. Pure class. Thank you, Nicolas xx
Nicolas, du bist fantastisch! Als mir deine Videos vorgeschlagen wurden, habe ich zuerst gedacht, was ist denn das für ein Schnösel und habe sie gleich weggeklickt. Das war ein Fehler. Inzwischen bin ihr total begeistert von dir und deinen Videos. Einfach klasse! Ehrlich, sympathisch, wunderbar...
The style that I love, is a mix of classic, modern, sporty, edgy and a little youthful. I don't like too much pattern myself but I think monochromatic patterns are nice something that doesn't look too busy , and I agree no logos. As for the hair I'm deciding whether to have a short classic cut or my hair grown out a little longer with the sides tapered. Thank you for your videos ! I always look forward to watching 🍁😊
Hello again from Vancouver, BC.... , autumn leaves must fall. They are so beautiful, Yes! My abode is a small space & have been rearranging my lamps & throw rugs. The lighting, as you say, has created a really lovely ambience. I too absolutely hate overhead lighting, but hadn't been utilizing my lamps to their greatest advantage. I'm so pleased with the final results now. Do wish the freight wasn't so dear, as I'd have a few of your scented candles about too. As always, awaiting your next vlog, .. do take care.
Thank you, another lovely video. I love H and M, I also recently discovered mountain warehouse for wool basics, not very affordable but worth saving up for a few wool vests and t shirts as it keeps you warm in winter and cool in summer xx
Did I hear early 30's??? I thought you were around 20 years! Wow you look so nice and handsome! Just glowing! I really enjoyed watching this video! Much love❤️❤️❤️❤️
You’re beautiful 😍 Love the navy blue, too! The basics- classics work for me,too 😊. Those boots look so good on you! Love your style 💕. Always enjoy you 😉 I DONT KNOW WHY YOU ARENT A BECOMING MODEL, SO SO GOOD LOOKING 🤷🏽♀️ By the way, I’m old enough to be your grandmother 😊
Yes! Sometimes I buy items that are one size larger and take them to a tailor. The latger size gives them more fabric to work with to help make it fit your body.😊
Hi Nicolas! Superb! Its timeless elegance yes!! I’ve experimented so much in 60 years with fashion, but simple elegance is best. Ralph Lauren is my favorite. Actually you look like a RL model! Great video!!! I’ve worn Doc Martens since the 70s lol. A little hippie-ish touch. Yes I really recommend good quality outerwear shoes and accessories! What influenced you in your beautiful life journey? Please do a video about it. Your insight is amazing Nicolas
What I love about you is how you are who you are. I am a Goth so we have very different styles but I just love your class confidence and message of just being the best self you are.
Thank you for all the great ideas. I'm a mature woman and it's still nice to hear someone else's views on their style. You made me want to clean out some of my closets. I've been told that I dress a bit classic which I do like but you made me think of a few things that I have bought just for fun and find I never wear them. I think all the styles you shared look fantastic and I see how the short cropped jackets enhance your look. Thank you for a fun video.
Funny..how I've come back to a Classic fashion style, as this is timeless? My Mom dressed this way and I would criticize it? And now I see the practicality of it..as you can combine clothing & accessories to avoid getting too many items of clothing..💐❤❤❤
Thank you for the great tips, Nicolas! I am planning to take your advice and purchase better quality clothing and accessories. Makes sense that they will last longer and I think I will feel good in great quality clothing!
Nicholas you are wearing classic clothes I have loved for years. It's wonderful seeing someone your age embracing the classics instead of desperately attempting to follow trends. I have learned over the years there are certain colors and styles I simply cannot wear and I avoid them. Never let anyone dictate or influence your style. We're all different. There is nothing sadder than an older man attempting to dress like a 20 year old. For instance slim fit low rise pants. You can keep them. They look great on skinny teens on the runway but ridiculous on anyone over 30. I'll stick to my 100% all cotton straight leg khaki's. Why? They are the most comfortable and versatile item to have in your closet. I can close my eyes and reach for any shirt in my closet and know it will go with classic pair of Ralph Lauren khaki's. Shirts and jackets are where I love to add color and texture. It's my personal style and it makes getting ready simple and easy. If I'm going to wear a print it will be a small check or design that doesn't scream here I am look at me. I always laugh when I see someone over dressed in bold prints obviously wanting to stand out and be noticed. I see this not so much a fashion statement but a cry for help. I wouldn't dare wear a bold leopard print top in my area for fear of ending up mounted on someone's trophy wall next to they're prized buffalo taxidermy.
@@NicolasFairford Your channel helped me through the darkest time of my life in 2020. Last year, March 16th, my youngest brother suddenly died from a brain aneurysm. He was the world for me and about 8 months later, my mother passed as well. I started watching your channel and found a lot of my true self and courage to go on in your instructions on being your authentic self and home decorating. This may sound strange -- how could someone find the light to keep living in a lifestyle vlog and channel. But, please hear me when I say, I've listen to you being open and true about yourself, your journey, and found courage for myself to live and embrace the joie de vivre that is in me! Thank you so much! I will continue to watch your channel! Bridgette
@@bridgettemccullough2919 Dear Bridgette - I am so sorry you have been through such a heartbreaking time - I can’t begin to understand how tough it has been for you. Your message really touched me and I’m so happy to know that this channel helped you to find a little bit of joy in your darkest days. I will be thinking of you when I need the motivation to continue. Lots of love x x x
In a pool of fake luxury and agressive self-love, there is still someone who admits that due to tighter budget he shops in Zara and H&M, but would love to be more sustainable in the future. What a refreshing honesty and realness. Respect Nicholas.
I love your fashion sense very classic and keeps you young, i too prefer 2 colours or monochromatic colour scheme when dressing and add my signiture look with blazers and loafers / belts . Zara is my go to for jeans and tshirts , blazers belt , watch and loafers usually designer names to dress the look up and add the classy touch.
Was so happy to hear another person who personally does not go much for prints. I have tried to buy some thinking "everyone seems to wear them now and so I should jump in and do the same" Well, again I just was not wearing them and it was upsetting so did give them to a nice charity organization in which people would be happy to receive them and they rally were very new yet. Freshly cleaned etc. But just maybe put them on once. I wasted my money and time as I purchased something I should have known just never seemed to work for me! It would have been better to have stuck with my solid lines and adding jewelry and other things to the wardrobe gives it a "pop" anyway. Can turn that one kind of outfit into various looks. Thank you so much for this vlog!
Dear Nicolas: Everything you do has a sort of magical quality to it! Loved this video. My personal style icon was Jackie Kennedy Onassis. Blessings to you, Nicolas and to the rest of the readers in the comment section. 🌞🌈❤️🌻
The Gucci bomber jacket is beautiful! The slim or skinny jeans issue does not fully depend on height, but on all other aspects of your body. Many shorter guys look good in slim/skinny jeans just as long as the bottom part of the jean does not cling like a leotard. In my opinion, no one looks good in the leotard type jean.
Good point about solid colored tops and pants.....I'm short too , but a bit more blockier - I have to take care with what I wear otherwise I look like a garden gnome ! I wear baggy clothes - when I can .I tell myself it helps make me look endearingly vulnerable .You - look wonderful .😉
Great advice, elegance in all areas of life - thats what I want. I want my life to be that way, so, the way I dress should be done in the same manner. Keep it simple! :) glad to hear someone who agrees with me on this! Thanks for sharing!
