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How To Discipline Children As Christians  

connie k yom
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Hey Guys,
In this video, I share how to Discipline Your Children the Christian way!
We have the the awesome privilege and honor of being God's children and He disciplines those whom He loves. And I am so blessed to be able to take that principle and apply it to parenting and disciplining my own child! Isn't the Word of God so awesome? It is profitable for teaching and instruction and has all wisdom in it, thank you Jesus!!
Parenting doesn't have to be a stressful thing, especially when we can rely on the Holy Spirit to help us.
I hope you found this helpful.
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Love and Blessings,
Connie

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Комментарии : 47   
@declanmurphy417
@declanmurphy417 5 месяцев назад
That's a good mom there
@nadinebeyeli
@nadinebeyeli 2 года назад
Thank you so much Connie I m taking a lot with me today God bless you
@conniekyom144
@conniekyom144 2 года назад
You’re welcome
@newconservative7357
@newconservative7357 Год назад
I am just not realizing what a horrible disservice I have been doing for my 3 year old by not disciplining him. This video is really going to help me set a foundation for how we will handle things from here on in our home as Christians. Thank you for taking the time!
@conniekyom144
@conniekyom144 Год назад
I think sparing the "rod" is the biggest mistake parents make. I honestly believe that it's necessary for their good. And it needs to start when they're young. Blessings
@marclabrie6027
@marclabrie6027 Месяц назад
​@@conniekyom144kids need spanking
@kuulei1205
@kuulei1205 2 года назад
I love your videos. Do you have a video by chance on why Christians should or shouldn’t celebrate Halloween. I recently stopped partaking in Trunk or Treat and Fall Festival. I’m hoping I’m making the right decision. So many disagree saying Halloween is Still a day the Lord has made and we should rejoice and celebrate and do the Halloween activities that honor God. My sister said Dress up as super hero’s and princesses and go to church which is the Halloween alternative. She said I’m taking away their childhood, but my spirit says otherwise. I did the research and discovered the rituals they did. I can’t justify pumpkin carving anymore. I can’t let them dress up for Halloween purposes. I just wondered your thoughts on the month of October, Harvest/Halloween. My son was born early in the middle of October, I remember praying that he wouldn’t be born on Halloween. I feel so bad because for his 1st birthday I carved out a giant pumpkin and put him inside to take pics. I repented for unknowingly celebrating.
@conniekyom144
@conniekyom144 2 года назад
I think Halloween is a topic that many Christians are divided over but I see it as a non-essential; meaning that participating in it does not make you any less saved. The Holy Spirit has not convicted me that it is a wrong thing to do to allow my kid to dress up as Spider-Man once a year for sheer fun. It’d be one thing, if we participated in Halloween with an anti-Christ spirit but that is not the case. At some point, David will learn about the occult and other pagan things and I will teach him about it when the Spirit leads me to but for now he’s just a 6 year old who loves Spider-Man. Maybe later on down the road the Holy Spirit will convict me to not let him participate but that is not where I am right now. But do as your conscience allows. If for whatever reason, you can’t participate in good conscience then by all means don’t do it. ALSO, you don’t need to judge other Christians if they do participate because it is a non-essential to our faith. God bless.
@SG-hd1qg
@SG-hd1qg 2 года назад
Halloween is the Eve of all Hallows or Eve of all the Holy Ones. It celebrates God's Saints.
@sb4040
@sb4040 2 года назад
@@SG-hd1qg Right!
@leannegovender4110
@leannegovender4110 2 года назад
@@conniekyom144 thank you for this response I had messaged you via Instagram with the same question. Thank you for your honest response. I am strongly against celebrating Halloween but I do acknowledge your point of non judgment Thanks again Connie
@markgould1322
@markgould1322 Месяц назад
Getting worked up over something like Halloween is exactly the sort of thing that turns many off to religion. I personally don't believe God cares whether my children celebrate Halloween or not. Making an issue out of this is making much ado over absolutely nothing.
@2010sjay
@2010sjay 2 года назад
My mom would rebuke me too when I'd act out, your story brought back memories lol! I'm enjoying your ministry, keep it up!
@conniekyom144
@conniekyom144 2 года назад
Wow! Your mom is quite the woman of God! Bless her!!
@saschakalski9034
@saschakalski9034 2 года назад
Thank you for this video. Do you belive in spanking? And what do you use for spanking?
@Gabriel_7
@Gabriel_7 Месяц назад
Did you watch the video? she literally answered those on the video
@prisilacecile6731
@prisilacecile6731 2 года назад
Thank you Connie for this video.
@raykidder906
@raykidder906 2 года назад
Connie, you said this about the doctrine of Original Sin, “Because of the fall of Adam and Eve in their disobedience to God, all of humanity is fallen.” To me, this is like saying that because of the terrible accidents committed by the original drunk drivers, all future drunk drivers operate automobiles in a fallen state of dangerous driving such that the blame for this bad driving is to be placed on the original drunk drivers. I look on the original drunk driving as an orientation session that causes a prejudice and stigma against future drunk drivers. The original drunk drivers did not create the drunk driving problem. Likewise the original sin of Adam and Eve only oriented us to the trickery of the devil, how the law is weak through the flesh, and how people need to turn to God for help in combating the devil. You mentioned Psalm 51:5 which says, “Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me.” It does not make sense that a woman conceives her baby, except when the father is a carnally minded man who can’t help himself when obeying his sexual libido. There is no mention of the original sin, Adam, or Eve in this Psalm. I suspect that this passage teaches how it is sinful for men to conceive their babies in a non-spiritual way without moral responsibilities. Jesus was not conceived through carnal lusts. With King David, he was acting according to carnal mindedness when he got Bathsheba pregnant within the sin of adultery. Perhaps this verse is one where King David lamented the lack of spiritual responsibility from his father such that it contributed to his adultery?
@carefulcarpenter
@carefulcarpenter 2 года назад
A question that I asked the pastor: "What is a christian?" His answer was very enlightening. I attended church and bible study for 4.7 years. Do all christians have a conscience?
@stickerlady1774
@stickerlady1774 2 года назад
Yes, every man has a conscience.
@valw6077
@valw6077 2 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-G0rII3zOmy4.html
@carefulcarpenter
@carefulcarpenter 2 года назад
@@stickerlady1774 4% at the top and 4% at the bottom, these are general statistics that define the range of human conscience---- these humans do not have a well-developed conscience. How does christianity deal with this? Are they "evil" people? Or do you think that only behavior can be evil? Jesus loves all of God's creation.
@conniekyom144
@conniekyom144 2 года назад
Interesting… I would say MOST all people have a conscience. I believe Romans 1 sort of addresses that.
@carefulcarpenter
@carefulcarpenter 2 года назад
@@conniekyom144 Evaluations by multiple sources show that about 8% do not have developed cognitive traits we would call conscience. My wife's personal experience with the public lead to say recently, "Most people do not have a conscience." This, of course, is because she works in high end deli. I noticed over the years that the upper 10% showed evidence that most of the elite class that I worked for had no conscience. I attended bible study beginnig at age 61 to better understand why a catholic priest had lied in a business deal to an honest carpenter, when I was 47. A former priest friend and a director of a catholic charity's residential facility both helped me understand about the upper 10% of the public, and some clergy. An aspect of the facility was to redirect the moral direction of this higher segment of society, whose children were enrolled in a prestigious university. I believe that the main body of Christianity need to focus on these influencers. Our children look up to these role models, often at the detriment of good loving parents like you and your husband.
@MDath716
@MDath716 Месяц назад
Discipline for children is important, but don't make the mistake of many Christians who take it too far and discipline their kids like peasants in ancient Judea; justifying it with what's written in the bible. Whipping children with rods was the norm 2000 years ago, but today, it's considered abuse. And remember, your soul is in your own keeping. You are responsible for your own actions and how you treat your children. Be careful who you take advice from. When you stand before St Peter, it will not suffice to say you were told to do thus. Remember to be compassionate and merciful with little kids. They're just learning.
@Gabriel_7
@Gabriel_7 Месяц назад
I am a Christian who is not for spanking. But you made some mistakes here. The Scripture is supreme over culture, what's the norm today is not what dictates what is right and wrong, when the Bible talks about a command that when read in context applies for today or a moral law that applies for all places at all times, then it is to be followed. (Now at this moment I am not sure when the Bible talks about disciplining with a rod that it means inflicting physical pain) And secondly you said we will stand before saint Peter which is found in no Bible verse ever, the Bible teaches that we will stand before God on judgement day not peter, you need to follow your own advice of not just listening to anyone, but check if that is what the Bible teaches.
@askfortheoldpaths
@askfortheoldpaths Год назад
What a great video with an outstanding Christian perspective! Keep up the good work! 👍You mentioned you hadn't had to whack yet on the butt. Have you had to by now, since this video is over a year old now?
@patrickvance959
@patrickvance959 2 года назад
That Should Be There Is Such Thing As Christian Yoga Unfortunately many Christians Would disagree With me On But I figured That Would Be too Confusing To leave That Sentence In My Comment But I By mistake left The Unfortunately In My Last Comment. That Is Why I Wrote Another Comment To Explain The mistake.Once Again I didn't mean Any Offense By The Comments I made in my Last Comments Keep Loving Jesus Christ The Eternal Son Of God.
@rumham3070
@rumham3070 2 года назад
My rod is a long wooden paddle. 3 swats across the backside does wonders.
@josephcockburn3160
@josephcockburn3160 2 года назад
It's really tough. I have a violent 7 year old Girl. She expects her father to play games as she has no sis or brother of similar age but says she is boss and tries to stop her Dad even talking to friends on the phone. I appreciate the calm loving discipline advice! I will try to remain calm even though I have never come across a Child who would beat her parents. I was praying for her tonight now she is asleep. Thank you.
@josephcockburn3160
@josephcockburn3160 2 года назад
The rebuking prayer sounds awesome
@ultimatesharpzgaming3186
@ultimatesharpzgaming3186 2 года назад
@Connie K yom why does every Christian believe we should spark our child what the heck
@ajbailey337
@ajbailey337 Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-JCQ-voCLaYU.html
@marclabrie6027
@marclabrie6027 Месяц назад
It's the best discipline fir them
@Smile56329
@Smile56329 2 года назад
You do know that the a LOT of proceeds are METAPHORS!!!!! “Rod” can mean do not spare discipline in general!!! I wish people could actually use their brains when reading. By the way, you saying haven’t had to pull his pants down and swat him implies you WOULD do that! I just want you to know if someone finds out you pulled your kids pants down and spanked them you could get in BIG trouble with Child Protective Services! If you don’t change I hope you are held accountable for your actions if you do such things.
@mamalex
@mamalex Год назад
I just wanted to say I agree with you and I have been a Christian my whole life and have never thought it would be ok to “pull pants” and spank. I think you are right about there being many metaphors in the Bible and that the point is to prove the importance of discipline not physical abuse to create obedience. I’m currently in the toddler stage with my oldest and it’s rough and requires a lot of discipline. We have had a lot of success with other measures that don’t inflict physical pain. Our kids need to respect us but shouldn’t be afraid of us. We are their home, their safety. It would be contradictory to be those things while simultaneously causing physical pain when we don’t get our way. Just wanted to pipe in so that people don’t think ALL Christian’s think this way. She has a right to believe how she wants but it’s not accurate to say that all Christians believe this way.
@Poodlemama1234
@Poodlemama1234 Год назад
You PINCH your child? For heavens sake grow up.
@patrickvance959
@patrickvance959 2 года назад
Why do You have That music Of Someone Holding 1 Cord On Some Of Your RU-vid Videos That music Sounds Readly Creepy To Me I got Chills When I heard That And It Wasn't Chills.from God. Maybe You Can do A Study On that.
@mattgerald2460
@mattgerald2460 2 года назад
so your Asian and a Christian, I don't see that very often
@J0ELLEx
@J0ELLEx Год назад
I hope your husband never pulls your pants down and whacks you. I hope he's not thinking "I don't have to do that.. yet"
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