How to Enjoy Marriage as a Self-Actualised Man in Old Age | Married But Single 

“Married, but single.” Best way to live. It doesn’t get any better.

😅young men listen up Dr Charles Apoki is spot on lots of wisdom God Bless Dr Apoki

My elder brother shared your video on accepting the reality of getting older I think that’s what it was called. I loved it so well I chose to follow you and shared to more of your videos with him and others . I am blessed and made wiser by the entry of your already experienced knowledge. You have stroked and teased my future desiring alerts as I approach my later years at the age of 56 feelings and aligning with what I am hearing from your extensive knowledge sir. I thank the Lord for you, this channel and the wisdom God has deposited in you. May he ever bless you sir. All I would state is you reference Africans home and abroad, I am from West Indian heritage and we are so similar and aligned in so many ways because we are also Africans. Please don’t forget us. God bless you Dr.

Dr. Akpoki is an epitome of wisdom, a rare gem. We thank God for giving our generation this precious gift called Dr. Akpoki.

Dr. Apoki has become the second version of my bible. I literally make sure i never miss hearing from him everyday. God bless you 🎉❤

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I found this channel by accident and I have since subscribed. Thanks for your wisdom on subjects many are afraid to touch but a reality of most Africa men especially here in Canada.

Listening to you awakens vigor, strength, and a sparkling sense of awareness. You speak from the heart, sharing your personal experiences and life without restrain or reservations. With great teachers like you, the world will not remain the same. Thank you for all you do for humanity. This is your friend, King-Richard Ekwegh

Thank you for your messages.Churches need to have these discussions.

I'm Just voiceless Doctor APOKi. I don't really remember how i jumped into one of your videos the first time but this was Just 03months ago! Since then, there is no single day i'll spend without hearing from you at least twice ! I dont really Know how this can be done but it's a must matter sharing all your videos and teachings until they reach all africans , old and younger ones! You are really a blessing! I'm a french speaking from cameroon but i'm really lucky to understand and master all your precious and wise ''intellectual meals'' 😊 I also really thank GOD for your life! And for the next incoming lessons! STAY DEEPLY BLESSED🙏

Shouts to you Dr. from Ghana, Teshie Nungua Estate. We love you here. Me and my friends.

A prophet is without honor in his own land you a appreciated by your family l believe this, you are a blessing indeed to your family and to many people you have well spoken sir

Oh God ... Wish one day I meet a true love of life to call a hubby and take care of him.... God have mercy on us..

This gentleman is our encyclopedia to us men in this modern day society. Its tough out thete. We need wisdom tools from our friend Dr Apoki in order to confront challenges

I just listened to you last week for the first time via my uncle’s WhatsApp. I wish I knew you in the past . Nevertheless I am thankful for your wisdom! You are amazing 👍

A rare kind of breed of a Man! May your life be to the fullness of 😊days on earth 🎉

Your advices are priceless, if I heard you before now, I couldn't have guffed in many areas. God bless you mightily.

Simply as a man don't go simping around

May you live long sir, to continue to impact lives. God bless you sir.

You are rich in knowledge and insight

You are a great man full of wisdom and knowledge may God sustain you in Jesus mighty name

This is simply inspiring. Thank you very much Dr. Apoki. I have learned a lot. More of this please.

I believe it started from Debora, in the book of judges when the men failed in their assignment of leadership God used a woman Debora who was bold, the men actually supported her to go ahead of them. Make we leave Eve alone small, Samson also allowed a woman to belittle him.

Doc , it’s all love God blessed you ❤! For a child raise by a single parent , your video retained my force in life make not take what I have for granted. Thank you Lord for making me find this man on RU-vid !!! The best thing RU-vid ever did for 2024🎉🎉

You are worth listening to, worth reading.

Honestly, I wished I knew Dr Apoki earlier in my life. He is an epitome of honest truth. I disturb myself over the issues he raised in this video but after listening to him, my long time burden melted away. God must surely bless you Sir (Amen)

Wow! Dr Charles you speak with such wisdom and honesty. Thanks for such a meal. ❤🙏

What a knowledgeable and wise gentleman. Thank you Sir! From Jamaica. Lots of ❤

Thank you. You are wise. Love from Toronto, Canada.

Thank you sir for using your life as an exampler for us to emulate.

Dr.Apoki, I like the way you talk. I am a woman and I believe in the traditional marriage arrangement. However, the bible says in Micah 7 that you cannot trust a friend or guide...your enemy will come from your own household. This is one of the sign of the time. There are women though who stoll remain humble with much wealth. Many times women change because of pride and some change because of how the men treated them in the begining. Perhaps the men treated them with hostility and decides it's pay back time. Wives should not connnive with their children to discredit their husbands. Dr. I know you know there are good women, but your decision to separate from your wife was a wise decision. I love the teachings of this man African men caused the women to act the way they do. Pastor Funke Adejumo praises her husband because he gives her independence, but he treats her well, so she has no plans to override him.

Thank you I thought I was alone the best advice thank you

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and experience

An inspiring man for every one

Very inspirational speech. I recently became a fan of your videos and subscribed. Thanks for your advice.

This wisdom is above

God bless you sir. Wisdom is lacking in a lot of cases, some left their villages, but the village mindset has not left them. Wanting your immediate family to fear you, you can not take your kids to school even on your days off, to give your wife a respite, in nations where there is no house help or extended family support. They forget their children are watching, so by the time these children grow up they start seeing themselves as the defender of the oppressed. I personally will never understand why its so difficult for some to be nice to their wife and be friendly/close to their own children. Just my own little contribution...

Don't let romance reduce productivity.

Knowledge is power

I wished i find a great man like you big up self you are appreciated beautiful an resembles you are bless

Great rhema from Dr. Apoki

Just d way of peace! God bless u sir

God bless you richly sir

Am gaining a lot from you sir. God bless you sir .

Thank you Dr Apoki....

God's rich blessings to your health brother Apoki.

You indeed have joy sir!

Leaning a lot from you sir!

Am getting value

Thank you brother.

Dr Apoki you no Dey old like that oooo!!!!

RESPECT

Good evening Dr Charles APOKI Thank you for all the messages you give. I'm learning alot from you Following from Kigali, Rwanda

Well said by the elder..

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This man giran gan I thought I was a mad person but I found one crazier than me I am so intrigued to acknowledge this amazing Man wisdom I will pay any money for it. Learn the art of emotionless 😶 control you will live free and fear God. Look out it this way or let me ask a question, are we limited or unlimited? Answer is limited because we depends on things to survive so as is the Earth limited or unlimited? Answer- limited because earth also depends on things to survive so therefore for something to be limited there has to be something that’s unlimited to create something limited.😳😳😳 question of thoughts 💭

Great information

Salient truth indeed. More grace and anointing.

This is very lovely

Dr Apoki.

Women have purpose too. You take a woman as an empty versel to fulfill a mans purpose. True love is supportive to both parties for the benefit of the two. No ill feeling's, submission from the wife and love 💕 from the husband

though it has been less than week since I discovered your channel on youtube,I feel very drawn to your views. I must admit that I am not a christian/religionist I have always been skeptical of religion from an early age .I am more inclined to listen to men such as Bertrand Russell richard Dawkins chris hitchens and others,but I do find that the bible is also very instructive for living in these turbulent days and how to deal with the vagaries of human nature

Nice one sir

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No one can be married and single at the same time. That’s unhealthy

It’s ironic how u say be careful of women how they do manipulate u Even the devil is afraid And u say u say find a trainable one how u want My friend life is a parodix No matter what u say u just a man that thinks u can get it right

Chei, Im from Entebbe 😂😂😂😂

Pride hmmmmm

This is so sexist: marry a woman you can mould/train ???

I sense insecurity and unbalanced christianity from this video.

Don't let romance reduce performance

Men listen to some nuggets of wisdom from Dr...he is real

This man is a wise man .

There's Nothing Like Solitude and Peace of Mind!

you are so inspiring. thank you for what you do.

Dr Charles Akpoti, I never fail to listen to what you have to say, every time your video is flashed at me. There is always something new to learn even we are not far apart, age wise. I think you are making a different in your counseling sessions which is quite suitable to Africans.🙏

Listen to Wisdom personified

Thanks Mr Apoki, am so happy to find u here on u tube....wow, you are so real, God bless you.

Dr., if your wife was always committing adultery and you forgave her on the first occasion-but she continued-would you still be with her?

Whoa! Doc, you’re indeed a rare kind of breed of a man. Please keep up the good work sir. May our good LORD, enable you to finish the Christian ✝️ race very well and strong sir. You’re greatly loved sir.🤓👊🏾

U are so wise sir.God bless you

Glory to The Most High Great video Dr. Much appreciated 🙏

I am so blessed to have landed on your channel. Our generation needs to hear from men like you. The internet father that needed to speak to all of us regardless...

Very kingly indeed

Wow

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It is there because of the way men treat women when they initially had the authority. U hear things like i used my money to pay your brideprice. So it is all about money and power aka it is a man's world. After she learns this from you, she works hard, earns the money and gives u back what u taught her.