How To Enjoy November // romanticizing the transition from autumn to winter

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I got the idea for this video because I love November and I feel like it always gets overlooked. For me, it's peak dark academia season. All the cozy vibes, murder mysteries, baking, old classic films and rainy evening walks. So I hope you enjoy some of these tips for how to enjoy November. A lot of them are specific to what I like to do, but I hope maybe you can at least just a little bit of inspiration :)
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@carriehooper32 2 года назад

I love to see others still appreciate that November is still fall and not skip straight to winter and Christmas especially since winter doesn't even start until near the end of December. Please make videos like this for January, February and March because I always really struggle in those months!

@somethingbambi875 2 года назад

I learnt that we used to call november and december "pre Winter", and that's explains why the real winter often comes AFTER new year. I live in Sweden so the Snow can be here all from October to January, without it being weird. But in My heart November is still autumn, just a little more tired one. Always thought it was weird calling Christmas the mid of Winter, but it's just mid of Winter half year. Before its THE END of autumn and after real winter time. Like Christmas was the START of Winter and not THE END, People samt Summer right after new Years Eve and I'm so tired.

@amberthistle2803 2 года назад

In in the North Eastern part of the US and winter started the second week of November. Our trees have been bare since the first week of November and we've had multiple snow storms already. It's kind of hard to be in the fall mood during a snow storm LOL

@patriciadebnam879 2 года назад

Yes, I always leave my fall decor up until after thanksgiving while I see a lot of people putting Christmas up right after halloween

@williamloel 2 года назад

I just go after the winter months. September to November is autumn, december to february is winter, march to may is spring and june to august is summer:)

@Emily-br7ii 2 года назад

@@amberthistle2803 YUP

@shrj9859 2 года назад

As someone with a November birthday, I cannot put into words how much this means to me 💕 I hope everyone will take the time and romanticize November this year.

@emmas7045 2 года назад

Happy Birthday month 💐🎈🎂!

@shrj9859 2 года назад

@@emmas7045 thank you!!!

@elizabethlangley5643 2 года назад

Have a wonderful birthday 🎂

@reyofsunshine7171 2 года назад

Happy Birthday !

@PhoenixErin09 2 года назад

Mine too! 11/4 when is yours? Did you know that Jo March also has a November birthday? 🤗

@saraivy 2 года назад

In recent years, November has become my favorite month. It's meant to slow us down and rest. To contemplate the year so far, hold gratitude and just. Be. And with all the mist and fog, it's excellent for ghost stories. I also call it Lord of The Rings season 🥰

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

YESSS 🙌🏻 My LOTR season is early summer, but I can totally see it being absolutely perfect for November! 👌🏻 Now I think I need to have a marathon this month..

@sanguinelynx 2 года назад

This is my time for ghost stories and LOTR too! I read 'Thrillers For Christmas', a series of short stories set in the season, and of course read my 'Bible', as my husband call my LOTR book.

@jessicamcelfresh4223 Год назад

Yesssssssss. This. 👌

@NTMV Год назад

😢

@charlottenew26 2 года назад

Oct- Halloween Nov- my birthday Dec- Christmas So it’s all good for me🍁🍂

@CarloCafieroSakai Год назад

Same

@aristosachaion9743 Год назад

Literally same

@daniqsaa Год назад

Hehe yesss November is the best month to be born in hehe

@kyliebalentine6797 Год назад

Me too 🥰

@taylorm7403 Год назад

Amen! Nov babies are the best

@anad7550 2 года назад

Currently at my home town for a small college break, reading The Secret History and enjoying nature in autumn🍂💫

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

You sound like a main character in a festive autumnal movie ✨ I hope you enjoy your time in your home town 🧡 Have a lovely rest of your day!

@natalyaporter5730 2 года назад

Lucky, I don’t get a fall reading break at the college I go to

@bia5141 2 года назад

What a mood! Also I recently finished that book and now I am readinv If we were villains. This weather is the best for enjoying books and nature. Also it’s my birthday in two days so it makes it all more special~

@hereiam1041 2 года назад

I finished The Secret History loved it and honestly don't know what to do with my life 🤣😑😭. Lol.

@VampireHeart518 2 года назад

I'm also reading it now (for the first time)! I'm quite surprised, I really enjoy it, was somehow a bit apprehensive haha But it flows so nicely... and that environment / vibe, mmmm

@edenstobbart-williams3918 2 года назад

Having a Taylor swift cover in this video is such a mood and matched it perfectly 🥰

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

I couldn’t NOT include the queen during HER week 🧣♥️✨

@taliw7736 2 года назад

@@DarlingDesi true lol Red is my favorite albums hands down. 🤗👌

@taliw7736 2 года назад

@@DarlingDesi what is your favorite song or Taylor Swift album?? So many treasures with folklore and Evermore

@Celticjenn 2 года назад

Thank you for making this video! It seems, anymore, that once Halloween is over it's immediately CHRISTMAS! I have no problem with people enjoying Christmas and doing what makes their hearts happy but November is so overlooked. Thank you for all the ideas and inspiration on how to celebrate this month!

@AnnaR.33 2 года назад

I agree with you!! 💯

@thereseaustin 2 года назад

I 100% agree!! Like come on Thanksgiving is next and then Advent.

@thereseaustin 2 года назад

@Queen Victoria I know!!! I always thought I was the only one who thought this way.

@rachelhele7827 Год назад

Plus November is Thanksgiving

@NTMV Год назад

😮

@hollynordgren510 7 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for not skipping over November! For me, it's a season of hibernation. A time to rest between the high-spirited energy of October and the hustle and bustle of December!

@pennybean6851 2 года назад

November is my favorite month! It's when you get to celebrate Thanksgiving!! It's the one holiday that businesses haven't found a way to commercialize. So, for me, November is all about the love of friends and family and that cozy feeling of a warm kitchen filled with delicious sights and smells.

@teodoradoncheva5556 2 года назад

When I saw that you posted a video I instantly put a smile on my face. I am just so happy when I watch one of your videos, because it helps me relax and forget about all the problems I have. Thank you about all the good work and hard effort you put in your videos ❤️❤️

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

I don’t even know how to respond 🥺 What you said makes me heart so happy! Thank you!! 🥺🧡🙏🏻

@yourstrulyanshika 10 месяцев назад

November is my absolute favorite month. I dont know how people dont like it.

@wireflycreates3997 2 года назад

Absolutely LOVED this video! My 10yo daughter rushed to tell me the new vid was up so I made us omelettes and we watched together over breakfast before homeschooling! Feeling inspired to bake and maybe take a fall walk of our own later... Thank you so much for posting!

@cassandraanddanielroberts7282 2 года назад

So sweet you watch them together!

@NTMV Год назад

😊

@yourfairygodmother1111 10 месяцев назад

This is so sweet ☺️, I hope to have sweet routines like this with my kids

@elizabethtran8746 2 года назад

Thank you for being one of those amazing people who acknowledge the fact that there is still a fall season after Halloween, and for enjoying the fall vibes!!

@hsoderberg9929 2 года назад

We had a sprinkling of snow yesterday & it's soooooo cold, didn't want to get out of bed so I was looking for some inspiration to get going, fortunately I found this. Watching old movies I find stronger female characters & better plots.

@georginagarforth8367 2 года назад

In the UK we have Bonfire night at the start on Nov, which is a lovely Autumn tradition. But then it feels like it's head first into Christmas, so it's nice to have a reminder it's still Autumn.

@nadegefoucher4730 2 года назад

As a French I discovered Bonfire in Australia and it is such a great tradition, I wish some day I can make it a tradition in my life! 😄

@larry_134 7 месяцев назад

i don't understand how you could NOT enjoy November. Literally one of my favorite months

@kaylag9579 2 года назад

I have postpartum depression and the past two years have been very hard. Whole other story. I really wanted to cheer myself up so the day after Remembrance Day I put up our Christmas decor and I am loving it!!!! I should mention I’m Canadian and our thanksgiving has already passed.

@teriitis9023 2 года назад

20 minutes of pure relaxation and happiness! 🍂 🍁 ☕️🕯

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

🥺 I hope you enjoy it!

@teriitis9023 2 года назад

@@DarlingDesi perfect, as always! Thank you for this amazing content 🙏🏻 ♥️

@VicodinAvenue 2 года назад

Cary Grant's Bringing Up Baby is one of my absolute favorite black and white films.

@raeannewood 2 года назад

Katherine Hepburn is one of my all time favourites. I love Bringing up Baby.

@PlanningWheNeva 2 года назад

I’m a November baby and it makes me sad that people rush or try and skip November. I love this video! Thank you for sharing!!

@jessicabridges4335 2 года назад

It's still fall for me until December 21st! I love fall so much and don't want to let it go. I still put my tree up at Thanksgiving. But I still do fall things. I just had a birthday November 9th!!!

@thereseaustin 2 года назад

Desi, I want to mention a book series that will work perfectly for your seasonal reading. "Once Upon a Summer"☀️ "The Winds of Autumn"🍂 "Wintet is Not Forever"❄ "Springs Gentle Promise"🌼 all by Janette Oke. 💖🥰

@meggie19 Год назад

In my family we start decorating for Christmas during November. It makes the Christmas season that much longer! My favorite time of year 🎄🎅🏻

@Sketchrcat 2 года назад

A great black & white movie to watch is: "The Ghost & Mrs. Muir" . Its got romance, but its not sappy stuff. It stars Rex Harrison as the ghostly sea captain. [Side note; the 1960's in color TV series was loosely based off the movie, too. It's a great November evening movie watch. *If you do watch the movie; let me know how you liked or didn't like it, Desi.

@sophiemintsiveris8467 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this!! This transition has been heavy on my mind and you always make the perfect thing for every season

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

That means a lot, thank you for saying that 🥺🙏🏻

@Rana-Ehab-Mohamed 2 года назад

*The Queen of Autumn is back* Love you ❤

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

😭🧡🧡🧡🧡

@ErikandEllie 2 года назад

I love classic films. They are what made me fall in love with 1940s fashion and cinema.

@ludovico6890 Год назад

Because of the post-Halloween blues, I used to dislike November. Halloween gone, Christmas so far away, I thought it was not a nice month. Until I remembered that we're still in autumn. Now I enjoy it a lot, I read crime fiction, watch crime movies and also read myths and legends.

@thecatlady3501 2 года назад

I love Clue! Such a classic game and it’s definitely a stay inside, keep warm, in blankets while sipping hot cocoa type of thing to do. ☕️🍂🍁

@torygage9088 Год назад

I usually dread November because of bad memories associated with the month, but watching this video helped give me ideas on how I can enjoy the month! Thank you so much for making this video, it is an absolute delight!

@rachelle_reads Год назад

The Historian. What a gem of a book. I've never seen anyone recommend, or even mention it before. I must have read it at least 10 years ago and it's still one of my favorites. 💛

@indiegirl100 2 года назад

I've always loved November, having a November birthday. In the UK, we have bonfire night, so my childhood memories of November are of being in warm coats and hats and outside in the dark with the smell of bonfire and barbecue. I used the love the contrast of the cold air and being warm in a thick coat, and the contrast of the dark night and fireworks going off. Thank you for all your videos, they have kept me going through a difficult year x

@dianaadhdchannel 2 года назад

A million thanks you. I’m a world that is reeling with Christmas Hotmess everywhere. It’s nice to have November acknowledged for the beautiful and mysterious month that it is ✨

@beasjournal 2 года назад

I’ve always adored autumn although I’ll admit seeing the absence of leaves on my favourite tree outside my window is a little disheartening and makes me feel sad about the bleak uk winters that are so close now. Your videos remind me that I can find little joys in everyday no matter how cold. On the subject of books, me and my friends are absolutely ecstatic about the Sinclair’s mysteries, and I got so excited when I saw the clockwork sparrow! I have only read the first two but I loved them!! Also I think you would like a series called Nevermoor by Jessica Trowsend. It’s a little spooky with magic and it’s set it the most wonderful city in a hotel with a giant talking cat called Fenestra. It’s also middle grade and not hard to read for beginner readers too. Anyways I apologise for my ramble but it was my birthday yesterday and I’m pretending this video is like an extra special present from my favourite RU-vidr ❤️ Sending love and warm hugs from across the pond :)

@ettoliram8116 2 года назад

Happy 13-days-after-your-birthday! I *love* the Nevermoor books, they are wonderful and magical and feel-good. It's like Harry Potter, but done right... Going to look the Sinclair mysteries now!

@MyMerryMessyGermanLife 6 месяцев назад

Just popping in to say how much I love your cozy, happy, creative vibes, Desi! You bring out the best of what life has to offer in each of your videos. You spread love and light, coziness and warmth in a world that can feel so overwhelming and dark sometimes. But your channel reminds me to stop focusing on world events, events in the news, social media debates, etc and look at what I have right around me every day. This time of year it’s the leaves, the chilly and dark days (which are cozy!), drinking a cup of tea, reading a book, having coffee with a friend. The simple pleasures of life are ones weore often than not, actually have control over. And that’s where to put our focus. I’m a mom of 4, and even though you aren’t a mom, I’m still so inspired by your channel and it brings me comfort and joy. Thank you!! ❤❤

@elecbarberella Год назад

I live in Florida, so we don’t really have Autumn or Winter. I love living the seasons vicariously through videos like yours. November for us is typically cooler than Summer, so there is a sense of relief from the heat and humidity we usually get. One of my favorite Autumn memories from my childhood in the Midwest is walking home from school and swishing my feet through all of the fallen leaves and the smell of people burning leaves in the air. I really miss that. Also, I was a bookstore manager for sixteen years, so any time we can talk about books is a good time to me!

@natalyaporter5730 2 года назад

I would love to spend November like this, unfortunately November for me currently means midterm season

@Eliana-gu5vx 2 года назад

Another great cozy mystery is The Westing Game. It is set in fall/winter and it is extremely satisfying and keeps you on edge.

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

I’ve had that one on my list for a while now! I really need to finally check it out. Thank you!! 🙏🏻

@alaafayyomi4152 6 месяцев назад

"November flush and your flannel cure" this is the most perfect song choice ever!

@mountainjune 2 года назад

Yeah, recognized the line, it's one of my favorite movies, both the original and the remake. The chemistry between Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan is awesome.

@PhoenixErin09 2 года назад

Thank you, Desi, for creating this video. November is my birthday month, and it definitely does not get enough love. When I was younger, I used to be sad that my birthday fell in November. But now I am happy to celebrate during this "hidden gem" of a month. Thank you for sharing your beautiful & romantic rituals with us AND for bringing attention to how special November can truly be 🖤🕯🍂

@glitterandducttape 6 месяцев назад

Happy birthday to you!🎉🍂🍁

@schylarmckenzie13 2 года назад

Your romanticizing life videos are so wonderful! They make me feel like a literary heroine and I’m always so excited when you post! Plus, my birthday was just a couple days ago, so this is the perfect birthday gift!

@thereseaustin 2 года назад

Happy Birthday!!! God Bless You! 🎊😇 I have to say your profile reminds me of Anne of Green Gables!!! 🤌

@factsfromkate 2 года назад

Okay, so this isn't a movie but the 1957-1966 Perry Mason tv show is my favorite! I totally recommend it!!! I get to intuned with it and I completely get transformed into that show. If I watch it before I go to bed I always have dreams about the show!!!

@nucciinjapannewvideosevery9251 2 года назад

In the UK where I’m from, November is for Bonfire night and fireworks. Communities gather together to huddle around the bonfires and watch firework displays while drinking hot drinks, eating toffee and baked potatoes…and children play with handheld sparklers. It’s so cosy and atmospheric and it’s something I really miss since moving away from the UK. Thank you for another lovely video Desi 💕

@liscatcat8756 8 месяцев назад

I'm from UK I forgot that lol when making autumn/ fall bucket list 😂

@theodora6843 2 года назад

...also this is giving me folklore/evermore vibes. 🍂✨🕯️🍁 The settings, decorum, colour scheme... Wondrous to watch!

@Loracanne 2 года назад

Can I just say that your reaction to the rain is the sweetest thing! Here in Ireland we take the rain for granted and it is generally despised (funny because it rains for most of the year!). We forget that it is a massive contribution to our famous green fields & scenery and as a result our fantastic food produce too. Seeing you get excited about the rain because you don't experience it that often actually brought it home to me how lucky we are. Little moments of gratitude.

@sallycormier1383 2 года назад

When I lived in Spain we saw a similar reaction as they had been in a 9 year drought. Kids were dancing in the street, they had never experienced rain before. 🥰

@Loracanne 2 года назад

@@sallycormier1383 that is so beautiful 💗 Just goes to show what many of us take for granted is a small miracle for others.

@sallycormier1383 2 года назад

@@Loracanne I’ve been to Ireland and it rained most of the time but I had never seen so many beautiful shades of green in my life and the countryside was so lovely! My father’s grandfather came over to the US from Ireland. It was like coming home for my sister & I. 🥰 (my maiden name is McGuire)

@angelikaf.7594 2 года назад

My all time favorite black and white movie is "Some like it hot" with Marilyn Monroe. It's so good 😍😍😍

@issymajorek7513 2 года назад

I'm gonna come back and watch this as my reward for schoolwork

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

Good luck with your schoolwork! 🧡🧡🧡

@issymajorek7513 2 года назад

@@DarlingDesi you have no idea how much you have made my day! Thank you🧡 I hope you don't mind me viewing you as my internet friend. Lots of love✨

@patricianagy9359 2 года назад

November is not my fave month in the year - I started to see the beauty of it only in the last few years. This video helped me to see even more. Thank you Desi :) Greetings from Hungary!

@karlacibelleteixeira5995 2 года назад

you and taylor swift releasing video at the same time, it's my lucky day 😍❤🧣🍂

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

And I haven’t watched hers yet because I was hurrying to get this up and now I want to spend some time responding to comments! 🤭 But All Too Well 10min version is currently playing on repeat and i’m going to watch the new video ASAP!

@Lina-cf4oy 2 года назад

unluckly I'm not living in a city where i can have these beautiful cozy autumn vibes ☹️ even the weather here is hot most of the year... but I love watching your videos and imagining that I'm having these vibes rn.... thank you for sharing part of your cozy days with us . I hope I can live these vibes in real life especially the walking and collecting the leaves part 🥺🤎🍂

@dianathemagnificent 2 года назад

The Historian is 👌🏻❤️✨✨✨✨ I love so many of Kostova’s novels and that one is IMMACULATE

@leslieweber5177 2 года назад

Thank you for celebrating November rather than simply passing it by as so many do. It is a beautiful time of year. Happy Thanksgiving; the bread looked beautiful and yummy. 🧡🍁🤎🍂🦃💛🥧🧡

@rusne8736 2 года назад

I can't... Your videos are just... No words to describe it... So warming, calming, beautiful, inspiring and you Desi, you are very brave, friendly and you know... Precious to us.

@nathaliel.2772 2 года назад

For me november is a time for making puzzles while drinking my favorite tea (blueberry) and making/using candles 🕯 Best way of doing this is of course with my family/boyfriend, its so cozy and calming :) But playing board games also sounds fairly nice and I might try that out too 🍂🍁

@marshahenderson5980 2 года назад

where you live is where I went to college a zillion years ago - I so love seeing the area and all the beauty that is there. I love your inspiring outlook at finding and living in the moment. Each month has something to celebrate and should not be rushed through. Thank you for your delightful presentations.

@theMermaidRhonda 2 года назад

I love November! The weather here in SW Ohio can literally be two or three seasons in one day. On Monday of last week, Chad and I were out in the garden clearing it out for winter. We had on shorts and tshirts and it was in the 70s. This Monday it snowed. It's in the 60s today. It stayed warm for so long this year that we still have a lot of autumn colors hanging onto the trees.

@huntingforhealthy1516 2 года назад

Your aesthetic makes me want to cry it’s so wonderful. I live in texas north of Houston so I don’t really get to enjoy this season… it’s still 80 here most days. So your videos transport bring and bring me such joy and solace! Thank you for your skill set and joy in sharing this videos you have made my life brighter and more joyful

@annechappee8825 6 месяцев назад

Same! North of Houston and wish I lived in Edinburgh!

@MagdalenaChojnowskaEMCH Год назад

I always hated November, for this exact reason that it's between the Halloween and Christmas and you have to watch weather transitioning to this gloomy, rainy, cold and depressing state. It was like a stubborn stain on your favourite sweater you're trying to scratch off. But this year I decided to celebrate it and enjoy it, don't rush into Christmas time. Looked up for some traditions, celebrations and which dishes, sweets and cakes are fitting for this time, what are the seasonal vegetables, etc. And there is surprisingly a lot of them! Especially in Poland, we have "Andrzejki" at the end of the November and it's time for wax divination and all other sorts of folklore esoteric stuff! ✨

@TheSUNNYCORNER 2 года назад

Thank you so much for not skipping November and not making it a waiting Christmas party 🧸🌼🧡 autumn is not enjoyed enough in all honesty, thanks 🍁❤️

@mihaelaclaudiap..2 2 года назад

i missed being here and i missed the beauty and the cosiness of your videos, this will be a true delight for me to watch! xx

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

I am trying to upload as often as I can 🥺 I definitely miss uploading every week, but it was so much easier when I was mainly making book videos. I’m currently able to do every week and half to every other week. I hope you still enjoy the videos 🥺🧡

@SFlaidlaw101 2 года назад

Ahhhhh this one was extra beautiful! Your videos are a cup of cozy and every time I watch one I instantly feel calmer. 🍂❤️❤️

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

Thank you sweet friend! 😭🧡🙏🏻 I’m so happy you enjoyed the video!

@user-jt7ou4rv4c 6 месяцев назад

A woman after my own heart❤. I love November and the cozy, dark, fall vibes it gives off. I live in Texas and the weather doesn't really cool down and the leaves don't start changing until November. It is a great month to slow down, think of all I have to be grateful for before the Christmas season starts..

@pixiebells Год назад

This means so much to me because for the better part of the past 20 years, I've associated November/late fall with misery. In November of 2004 an important friendship-turned-almost-relationship since kindergarten was falling apart, my grandfather was dying, I was depressed, anxious & struggling with my sexuality. My mothers' friend lost her husband & was brutally attacked by their own son, it was even in the news & she was never fully the same. Tensions ran high & I wound up committed in a metal ward for a week, the second time in under a year. But slowly, I've grown to distance myself from that pain. I associate each month with a different color and I used to associate November with a dreary gray. But now I think of it as a warm and cozy dark purple. Seeing your video brings me comfort that I can't even begin to describe. It's almost like this video was made for me, right when I needed continued affirmation that there's beauty any time of year. Thank you!!!!!!! 🥰

@dazzlemanuel1954 2 года назад

After having a tough day, at least this gives me a smile on my face ❤️🥰

@theothercrypt 2 года назад

This would be an amazing idea to do for every single month. Just how to find enjoyment and comfort in each individual month. Like a mood board but in video form. 🍂

@kaitEBee Год назад

"Our Vines Have Tender Grapes " All the cozy vibes!🥰

@amandaraposa3278 2 года назад

Some of my favorite old movies: My fair lady You can’t take it with you Mr smith goes to Washington Roman holiday I remember mama Casablanca Singing in the rain Seven brides for seven brothers Breakfast at Tiffany’s It happened one night Laura The Maltese falcon And The Philadelphia story Get yourself a chunky blanket, some tea, a lit candle and enjoy. Nothing can beat the classics

@sparrowberry3420 2 года назад

This is such a beautiful, artful cinematic, Desi! You always do such a good job, but this one speaks to me in particular 💛💛 As a Texan, November is my favorite month. October is basically and extra month of summer and in December everything is looking dead. November is when we actually get the good weather and colors😍

@cynthj 2 года назад

This was exactly the kind of post-Halloween, pre-Christmas content we desperately needed! Thank you Desi - amazing as always.

@sourgreendolly7685 2 года назад

This is the time of year where my seasonal depression starts to creep in so I’m trying to be proactive against it~ Right now I’m cleaning and rearranging my bedroom to be more cozy💕

@angelakate9063 2 года назад

When i was a kid November and December was such a very special month for me. I live in a tropical country,but you can really tell that it's Ber-months because the air is slightly colder and the water in the beach as well. November and December was colorful and a magical month for me,it was the time for me to watch shows that i can only see at that month. But as i grew older, the thrill is slightly fading away and it's not the same anymore. And i want to get that feeling back even though everything is not the same anymore, even though a lot of things changed.

@adaagreste 2 года назад

I envy the surroundings of where you live… The trees are stunning. In my zone, there are almost no leaves fallen, and very few orange leaves. Also, Thanks for uploading once more! I’m in exams season, and watching your videos are a remind to step out of my stress and look at the world, and how stunning it is.

@choosejoy93 2 года назад

You are such a delight to watch Desi. I love how you dress and your whole vibe is so wonderfully separate from everything else. I love your perspective. Thank you for sharing with us 💜 you are a seasonal tradition for me now haha 😉❤

@kelsydecker3660 Год назад

Arsenic and Old Lace. Great classic movie for Fall. 🧡

@MarquitasKnottyCrush 2 года назад

Mr. Selfridge was so good!!! That's where I discovered Sacha Dhawan and I've been a fan ever since. I went crazy when he appeared as The Master on Doctor Who last season! Jeremy Piven is such an underated actor. I remember him on the 80s Twilight Zone revamp. So much talent. Thanks for sharing all your rich ideas for making November so cozy and beautiful. We love you Desi!

@kimberlychiarelli 2 года назад

Loved this! So relaxing! Would be fun as a monthly series! 💕

@kellyk5381 2 года назад

Your videos are so soothing to my inner child 💕. Thank you for all the love and effort you put into these, it shows!

@i_be_gabby 2 года назад

This made me want to stop everything I planned for today, dress in my favorite vintage outfit, and walk 5mi to the closest bookstore just to document the foliage I see on the way. Cherishing this November a little harder after watching this video 🥰

@Bella.zoma.123 2 года назад

Best birthday present to come home to!! I just turned 21 today abut I'm not really the going out or party type so I'm so happy to come home to a relaxing and calming video to watch.

@raeannewood 2 года назад

Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈

@soniawithani7586 2 года назад

I love that you did this so much. I’ve been really struggling feeling the need to rush into December, I love that you are being so mindful of the now. I love November as well and really enjoyed all of your suggestions. Clue is my favorite game as well! Enjoy your November sweet friend!

@booksandjesus 2 года назад

I really have no words to describe how lovely this video was. Pure coziness. This was exactly what I needed today, and it's exactly how I've been feeling about November this year! 🕯🍂💛

@rose281396 6 месяцев назад

I just consider the beginning of September to December the holiday season and just truly enjoy all my traditions I have created with my family!! I love these months and get super sad that it just seems to fly by!

@Authorisabellekooreman 2 года назад

I haven't been having the best time lately (mental health-wise) but now that I finally got to watching this video I feel a little calmer and happier again. You've inspired me to really enjoy this weekend (finish Practical Magic - Hoffman, watch The Shop Around the Corner, bake some traditional dutch treats and maybe go to a garden center or just walk around). Thanks for making these videos. Your positivity and just overall vibe are so amazing. You have no idea how much of an impact they have. Okay, rant over xD

@laurenjones321 2 года назад

Thank you for your cozy/calming videos! I love the idea of playing clue this time of year & pairing it along with the classic 80’s movie! 🧡 Every time I see you reading I get the biggest urge to drop what I’m doing a curl up with a good book.

@frogandmush4917 2 года назад

This is the first time I've ever been so early!! This video is so beautiful in the way it was filmed and you're editing and cinematography skills!! This video was also much needed, as when November hits my seasonal depression usually starts and it becomes difficult to enjoy the beauty outside.🍂🍁

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

Thank you so much! I’ll pass on your kind words to Jared who helped me film a descent amount of this video 🧡 And I feel ya! My seasonal depression gets bad just before Christmas because I start to anticipate bleak January and February ☹️ But this year I’m really going to try and work on it and enjoy the dark months (somehow.. hopefully 🙈😶)

@juliettegibson9845 2 года назад

I lived in Alberta all my childhood, where Halloween was often the first snow and November thrust us into winter quite fiercely. I moved to BC in March and it’s soooo nice that November here is actually part of fall! It feels much more gentle in how we’re moving into the winter months and I’ve been really enjoying it!

@dianafrances6880 2 года назад

That scent memory trick is great for traveling too. Specific scents of lotion, candles, tea, each remind me of a different corner of the world.

@sophiemintsiveris8467 2 года назад

You have no idea how much joy and peace you bring to me!! 💛💛 sending love and hugs.

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

Thanks Sophie!! 🥺🧡

@buddyatiny 2 года назад

Your videos are always the prettiest OMG and your outfits, the places were you are, everything is BEAUTIFUL💜❤ I love Autumn and Winter especially November and December especially if I have some snow🙏

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

Ahhhh thank you!!! 😭😭😭🙏🏻 And yes! December is so magical when it snows 🥺

@buddyatiny 2 года назад

@@DarlingDesi Christmas Holiday is my favorite time of the year😍

@geenagr 2 года назад

Thank you for this video. This uncontrollable compulsion people have to make it Christmas season late October gives me so much anxiety. There is an entire month to enjoy before Christmas season starts....for the love of God. For November I love the ZARA Home Salted Caramel c,andles, the Fresh Line Orpheus & Eyridice body wash & lotion, orange slices dipped in chocolate and ,yes, Harry Potter books all over again. They give me a lot of comfort, too. Evening walks are my thing, too. I like the crunchy sounds and wet smell.

@MeiKasai 2 года назад

You know...I used to hate November as it was the month between the best month ever (October) and ski season but now...I'm starting to see some of the beauty in this month as well. Those misty evenings you mentioned are my favourite and living in the mountains I love seeing the clouds coming so low that it often looks like Kelowna (the city I live in) is actually floating on top of a cloud, making me feel like I'm in some sort of fantasy world. It also rains here and living in a high desert like yourself, I totally get the love for rain when it makes an appearance. Thanks for being such a positive and calming light in the world :)

@happeningheidi 2 года назад

Your videos are always so much fun to watch and so informative! This one is no exception. Another great fall themed short film. Yay! But I must add that even the way you insert your sponsorship comments is done so tastefully. Not like an interruption at all.🍁

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

That means SO much to me, thank you! 🥺🙏🏻 I really really appreciate it 🥺🧡

@sarahhales1505 2 года назад

Yay, this is exactly what I need after my work day yesterday! Plus, I’m supper early. Awesome! Please keep up being our awesome aesthetic queen.

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

So so early!! 🙌🏻 Thank you so much friend 🥺🧡

@sarahhales1505 2 года назад

Darling Desi you should check Opium and Absinthe. It’s a great mystery/suspense book!

@miasverypretty 2 года назад

This was lovely. I really liked your thrift store cardigan and the pattern on your cake tin. We have a Japanese Acer tree in our garden which is SO beautiful in the autumn. I have preserved some leaves by dipping them in water and glycerine and then framing them when dry. They've lasted six years so far.

@novaricos 2 года назад

I enjoy seeing you enjoy things, and I love November's serene subtle colours and peaceful in-between days. I used to hear the old folks say this poem,(or the end of it anyways!) ....." No comfortable feel in any member- No shade, no shine, no butterflies, no bees, No fruits, no flowers, no leaves, no birds, November !" No!' By Thomas Hood, (early 1800's)

@theodora6843 2 года назад

Yay, Desi, YAY!!!🎉🎉🧡...is all I can come up with at the moment. Sorry for such a lack of originality on my part, you deserve so much better! 😅 You're one sparkly gem of a person!!! ✨💎✨

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

Hahaha no worries! I usually never know how to respond to compliments besides just saying thank you 🙈 So THANK YOU 🧡🧡

@Qrlekfjtj9 2 года назад

This is so perfect ✨ November is that in between month after Halloween but not yet Christmas, it’s hard to know what to do or how to feel hahahah. Love it desi 🤍

@DarlingDesi 2 года назад

It is, and I love it because it’s neither of those, it’s its own thing 🧡

@kizzymulcaster6057 2 года назад

Back home from working away in my cosy cottage lake district uk. Really enjoyed this video. I needed some positivity because ive been going through changes which im still coming to terms with. I forgot how soothing it is to light candles and sit in candle light. Good to be home... Even if i do now live alone.