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How to Forgive Yourself for Past Mistakes 💕» Self Forgiveness + Compassion
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Is it possible to forgive yourself when you feel you've really messed up? 🤔
This video is for those of us who have ever made a mistake that we can't seem to get over or let go of. Those of us who may struggle with self forgiveness or self compassion and wonder if a mistake that was made yesterday, last week, last month, or a decade ago - is too hard to get past.
If any of this resonates, friend, this video is for you! 💕
In this video you will learn the art of self forgiveness, how to forgive yourself for past mistakes and offer yourself self compassion - a key part of self forgiveness. We will walk through how to let go and forgive yourself things like for hurting someone, or even doing something that may go against the morals and beliefs that you currently hold.
And we will walk through the steps that you can take to move on, let go, forgive yourself, and walk in freedom. I can't wait to get into this friend!
Self Forgiveness and Freedom is on the other side! ♥️🤗 Because you're worthy of it!
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✨How to Forgive Yourself for Past Mistakes ..or
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@onaiseng-lee4822 Год назад

Exactly what I needed ❤

@NaesLaugh Год назад

I’m so glad to hear that Onaiseng 💕💕💕 sending you love friend ♥️🤗

@gj1695 Год назад

Thank you so much. My guilt and shame runs so deep, I am unable to sleep more than four or five hours a night. I can't imagine being able to forgive myself for unintentionally, indirectly hurting family members I love -- family members who passed unexpectedly. So I can't rectifying my mistakes. I can no longer do right by them.

@screen_writer_Vibes Год назад

Take a deep breath and look at what happened. Realize there's nothing you can do about it now, dwelling on it won't help you, it won't help you pursue your dreams or help you live happily ever after. I have to learn to take this advice too, some helpful tips . . write it down then, rip out the page and rip It to pieces and throw them away. If it comes back tell you brain to stop, tell the thoughts to go away. You can't fix it now, so you need to move on. You can still mourn sure, but harming yourself isn't right. You're okay, it's going to be okay.

@NaesLaugh Год назад

I couldn’t have said this better myself 🥹♥️♥️ Sending you both so much love. I know this is so so hard, but although we can’t change the past, we can absolutely change the present and honor those people we may have hurt by living the best life we can now, a life filled with kindness, gentleness, and compassion to those around us. And in turn, also extending it to ourselves ♥️ I’m praying and rooting for you ♥️

@gj1695 Год назад

@@screen_writer_Vibes Thank you. Your loving comment brings tears to my eyes. I will do my best to heed your thoughtful, wise advice. ♥️🙏

@gj1695 Год назад

@@NaesLaugh Thank you. 🙏

@NaesLaugh Год назад

@@gj1695 you are so welcome ♥♥♥

@daytonchris8351 Год назад

there were times where i either felt guilty about something that was my fault, or something that everybody around me kept saying was my fault even though it wasn't so i was guilty by vote. so either way my solution for both was me isolating myself from everybody and blaming myself as penance. isolation from those that i wronged by mistake, and isolating myself from those who said everything was my fault because i felt like a bother to them, but also because i shouldn't be around toxic people that blames me for stuff that isn't my fault anyway. but yeah i relate to what you said because i asked myself that too, "if people that don't know each other but knows you says the same thing about you, then there has to he some truth to it right?", and i'd use that as a way to judge and mentally punish myself even more.

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Heyyy Dayton! Thanks so much for sharing so thoughtfully as always😄 🤗🤗. I love this and definitely hear and feel you! ♥️♥️ Something I would encourage is that as much as we can proactively remove ourselves from the negative (which is great!) we also want to be intentional to incorporate positive as well if that makes sense 😄♥️. So in this case, setting boundaries is for people that are putting you down is a really good thing… now how can we incorporate more of people lifting us up.. welcoming people that ARE in your corner into your life. And sometimes, many times, one of our biggest advocates and cheerleaders can actually be ourselves 😄🤗🤗

@EarCandyAsmr Год назад

I used these these questions as journal prompts 😭 1. I forgive myself ( why and acknowledging what I did 2. What conditions cause this mistake to happen? What did you need? What led up to the events that led to this mistakes? 3. Are the voices of condemnation from myself or from other people? thank you for this ♥️

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Aww Maria ❤️❤️❤️ I'm so glad this resonated with you friend!! And yesss, using them as journal prompts is a great idea! Sending you a huge hug!!!

@DominiqueMB. 3 месяца назад

Thank you! I been struggling with this. I hurt someone bad and his family. Although it happened years ago, I’m learning how to forgive myself❤

@NaesLaugh 3 месяца назад

You’re so welcome Dominique! ❤️❤️ you’re worth the second chance my friend! I’m praying for and rooting for you to be able to forgive yourself and give yourself another chance ❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗

@lisaharvey7881 Год назад

I never took the time to think about that situation . It was great to see you again. ❤

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Aww Lisa, I’m so glad this video resonated. 🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️ it’s always great to hear from you. Appreciate you friend. 🥰♥️♥️♥️

@nandita3339 Год назад

I want to acknowledge my mistake here.. I had got engaged to someone and that person was not into me ( I am Asian, arranged marriages happen without love) so we never got married. I broke up with this guy. I went back to my ex and proposed. I went into a relationship and promised him the world only to realize that it was not going to work. He tried his best but I could not. He was a rebound. He was in a lot of pain suddenly because of me. I am now beating myself up. To the universe and to my ex, I am sorry. I messed up again. I want you to live a good life and live happily with some one who will love you a lot. I am sorry God, if you don't want to give me a person, I accept that. Even if you want me to live in single blessedness, Whatever you have planned is for the good. Thanks if you read my story.

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Thank you Nandita for having the courage to acknowledge your mistake here 💕💕 I know simply showing your mistakes helps other people realize that they’re not alone. For your particular circumstance I understand why you feel the way you do. But honestly forgiving yourself will be a huge step in moving forward. It’s not easy but if you don’t allow yourself this, then it’s possible you will still hold onto the baggage when you meet someone you do want to be with (and won’t allow yourself to love them or them to love you as you would desire). So I definitely applaud you for taking steps in that direction! Great work friend!! 😄♥️😍🙌🏾🙌🏾

@screen_writer_Vibes Год назад

Thanks for the video! I acknowledged my mistakes and I'll work on forgiving myself. Take care of yourself.

@NaesLaugh Год назад

You’re so welcome friend ♥️♥️♥️ and I’m so glad this resonated. I’m rooting for you so much ♥️

@Lollypops12 Год назад

Anytime I try I feel like I get pushed back down. I question if I actually deserve to and if I am a good person. For the 10 months almost I haven’t been the same and idk how to go back to the person I was before I became sad

@NaesLaugh Год назад

I hear you friend ❤️... it looks like something specific happened 10 months ago that initiated these feelings?... I get it friend... but know that we all make mistakes - it doesn't mean you're a bad person, it just means your human. No one at all gets it perfect all of the time. My encouragement would be to, as much as possible, look back at that moment or any other moment that you feel like you may have failed and are finding it hard to forgive yourself and, as much as you can, try to humanize yourself. You are not flawed my friend, you are human ❤️ and each mistake is a chance to look back, see where we went wrong, practice self compassion, and move forward with the new knowledge trying to do our best moving forward. I'm praying for you and wishing you the best on this journey my friend ❤️

@Lollypops12 Год назад

@@NaesLaugh I just don’t understand anything at all. The person I was a year ago and the person I am now are so different. I always look back at my mistakes and wish I had done better. I don’t understand it at all

@SoSassypeppers777 Год назад

Beautiful! Thank you for this lesson.

@NaesLaugh Год назад

You are so so welcome my friend ❤️🤗❤️

@UrasianNeighboor Год назад

hello nae your video is just in time, thanks for the words you put ut to your channel

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Oh I’m so happy to hear that friend!! ♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗 it’s truly my pleasure. I’m sending you so much love!

@ritareadyerbible2166 Год назад

Thank you. I want to look you up when we get to heaven. God bless you.

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Awww Rita!!! I love this 🥹🥹 I can't wait for that!!!! God bless you my friend!

@AshleyChanel Год назад

Thank you for sharing this

@NaesLaugh Год назад

You’re so welcome Ashley!! 💕💕💕 I’m so glad it resonated! 💕🤗

@linoy4000 Год назад

Thank you ❤️

@NaesLaugh Год назад

You are so welcome Linoy ♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗 sending you so much love my friend! ♥️♥️♥️

@gionagrace6279 Год назад

Naeeeeeeee!!!! We missed you!!!!!😊❤

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Awww mannn same here Giona!!! 🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️ thanks so much for the warm welcome back! 🥰♥️🤗🤗🤗

@luciamixon8119 7 месяцев назад

So well said. Thank you.

@NaesLaugh 7 месяцев назад

You’re so welcome Lucia 💕🤗🤗🤗💕💕

@tiannaannenicole 3 месяца назад

Thank you Sis ♥️🙏🏽

@NaesLaugh 3 месяца назад

You are so welcome Tianna! 🥰🥰🤗🤗💕🙏🏾🤗💕

@sumathybalaji5252 6 месяцев назад

Thank you. Timely video for me. Please request to post more on self forgiveness and self compassion

@NaesLaugh 5 месяцев назад

You’re so welcome Sumanthy! So glad it could meet you where you are right now. And thanks for the suggestions as well! Noted 💕 Such important topics for sure 💕💕💕

@missmelody670 7 месяцев назад

I don't usually comment but I had to because thus video really helped me today. Thanks so much for everything!

@NaesLaugh 7 месяцев назад

Oh Melody, I’m so very happy to hear that!! Sending you so much love and prayers today my friend!! ♥️♥️♥️🤗♥️♥️♥️

@ReelEyez 10 месяцев назад

I was following you up until you described what grace and mercy is. I think the idea of grace, getting something you don’t deserve, only reinforces the guilt and shame and lack of self-worth (undeserving). And the definition of mercy also reinforces the guilt and shame, acknowledging that there’s some form of punishment that is deserved even though it’s spared. I think it would be much better/healthier psychologically just to forgive one’s self and others using the first two points you made in the beginning, acknowledgement & self reflection. Really good points 👌🏾 But Imagine how that looks to a child, demonstrating grace. You tell them they don’t deserve something because they made a mistake but bcuz of Grace u give them that very thing anyways because you love them. That’s great they know u love them but subconsciously they grow up believing themselves to be/feel unworthy of themselves bcuz of what they were taught Grace means. I think the church needs to redefine grace to mean “the love demonstrated to another because of forgiveness” rather than “getting what you don’t deserve” (again, reinforcing the negative) But everything else you said was on point sis 👌🏾 (in my opinion) Hope this made sense Take care

@NaesLaugh 10 месяцев назад

Heyyy ReelEyez! I love this sis and I appreciate you for sharing your thoughts. 😄💕💕 I definitely understand where you’re coming from and how it can seem a bit confusing. Here are my thoughts and attempt to provide more clarity 😊💕. So God sees us with inherent worth - this means grace is actually not in spitee of our worth… but because of it. In the normal world you wouldn’t repay good for bad behavior - that’s just not normal. But grace says that even when you DO something bad, you still deserve good. That’s SO backwards but it’s also so beautiful. Something a lot of conscious parents say nowadays when their child does something that isn’t right, is instead of saying - you’re not a good boy or you’re a bad girl, they say you ARE a good boy / girl but the decision you MADE (I.e coloring all over the walls) wasn’t a good decision… and that’s the reality, we don’t always make the best decisions because we’re human and that is OKAY and EXPECTED. But when we don’t make the right decisions, the beautiful thing is that grace covers it and says “it is still okay” anyway. ♥️ We receive this gift of grace BECAUSE we are loved and have inherent worth, and not because of the opposite. Just like a parent wouldn’t shun a child forever because of one bad decision they made due to the love they have for them, we shouldn’t do the same. And God also absolutely doesn’t do the same. Hopefully that makes sense 💕 sending you so so so much love sis and I loved your response.

@aribandz2031 9 месяцев назад

thank youu so much

@NaesLaugh 9 месяцев назад

You are so so welcome Ari ♥️♥️♥️🤗🤗♥️

@eiravlogs6011 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for this ❤

@NaesLaugh 9 месяцев назад

Oh you’re so very welcome Eira! My pleasure! 😍💕♥️

@MT37410 6 месяцев назад

This is good!!!

@NaesLaugh 6 месяцев назад

Thank you Marcus!!! 🙏🏾 I pray it met you where you are today 😊💛😊

@MT37410 6 месяцев назад

And it did!!!!

@NaesLaugh 6 месяцев назад

@@MT37410 🤗🤗😄

@sowmiyavasudevan3395 Год назад

Yayyy you are back

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Awww yayyy!! Thank you for the warm welcome Sowmiya!!! 🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️

@adaas3126 11 месяцев назад

LOVE

@NaesLaugh 11 месяцев назад

Awww thank you friend!!! ♥️♥️🥰🤗🤗🤗

@ix-cheljames3484 9 месяцев назад

Ive been struggling with the loss of a friendship for about 6 months now, its been rlly tough because I'm extremely negative and guilty and shameful about it. my dear friend was a rlly kind guy, I loved talking with him and it felt healing to my heart. But the way we met was on bumble. Despite talking a lot how we see eachother as friends we both aaid things that friends dont say to eachother, and in particular did an action that was NOT what friends do .i beleive i crossed a boundary that he did not voice me,, I was scared I was falling in love with him at one point, amd was very clear in my communication with him about our friendship and stuff, I was mentally frazzled at the time. But, Im scared he genuinely had feelings for me, and thats how things lead the way they did. He was upset at me for sleeping with his friend, and once he got a girlfriend 2 weeks later, I told him i wouldnt call him out of respect since hes cery loyal and i dont wanna cross anything, he had texted me a lil here and there but after that it was done, no communication

@ix-cheljames3484 9 месяцев назад

I regret the things that lead me to act that way with him every single day, I feel pain knowing he won't ever talk to me again, but i try to give myself grace in that at least now he can figure himself out and im not bothering him by sending him messages and giving him reminders of the confusing friendship he had with me, especially since he has a girlfriend

@ix-cheljames3484 9 месяцев назад

it's okay if he doesn't forgive me, it just hurts a lot that my actions lead to this thought process, and it just hurts. i hope i can forgive myself for having him not need to forgive me

@facu3383 Год назад

Hi Nae! 🙂

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Hi Facu!!!! 😄♥️♥️♥️

@demiladefasanya4380 11 месяцев назад

What if the mistake is not in the past. What is it's still fresh like it's yesterday.

@NaesLaugh 11 месяцев назад

That’s such a good question demilade! ♥️♥️. My response for something you may currently be going through is to determine what steps forward you can make in the now. Is there anything you can do to make it right? Anything you can do to reconcile the mistake? If so, what steps can you take towards that? If not, 1. What can you do to learn from this mistake and use it to, within your control, try not to repeat it in the future? 2. How might you help a friend who made a similar mistake. And then 3. What can you do to separate yourself from constant, and potentially unhelpful, reminders of this mistake you made? Remember we absolutely want to learn from our mistakes. We don’t want to miss this… but there is also a time and place for it as well and we also don’t want to punish ourselves forever because of it. You deserve compassion friend. And the fact that you realize it was a mistake and are willing to admit it is such a huge first step. Now, as hard as it may be, try to learn the lessons it is teaching and then allow your heart and mind to move forward with these lessons - no longer condemning yourself but giving you the space to let . it . go. You deserve that friend ♥️

@ArinAkaMazu Год назад

Keep uploading please

@NaesLaugh Год назад

Awww thank you Arin! ☺️😄💕🤗🤗 just uploaded another yesterday. Appreciate you friend!!!

@Y0ungmani 2 месяца назад

What if you did something very bad but you don’t feel bad but you really want to and any time you get something good you automatically just tell yourself you don’t deserve it and it feels weird to be happy because of what you did