How To Frustrate Your Man | Kingsley Okonkwo 

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Pastor K, I thoroughly enjoyed this message. However, what should I do if what you speak off regarding what men appreciate is what I crave for in my relationship as a female? I want the respect, to be able to chat with a potential partner as a friend, and not to feel like I am getting nagged by 'I love you', when will you marry, what's your timeline etc.? How do I feel encouraged when I can't enjoy the basic peace of mind and happiness in courtship that will allow me to arrive at the very decision that I want to? Help me please because at this point, I find more peace in not trying at all 😳😔

You have really impacted on me greatly sir,, thank you very much sir for yielding to the call of God..

What of if its a man who exhibits these characters

@@blepaok we're wearing exactly same shoes!

Thanks sir

@@gerryzoetv3471 I’m a lady

If a single woman does all the above, then she's not your woman

@DD don’t mention it

Thank you❤

Honestly, most of his messages are targeted AT women. When men play a major role in the issues

@Kingsley Okonkwo when are you having an exclusive talk with the men. They really need teaching

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Go listen to the wife. He teaches the woman while the wife teaching the men. Stop being one sided

@@Destroyandrebuild He can't talk about every need. That's why there are several ministries/callings; when we want teaching on a certain matter, we know where to go.

Learn and don't give excuses

In most case scenario, When a man so gives a woman an inch by respecting her she goes miles misbehaving thinking she is on her right despite frustrating a man. This message is not aim at attacking women but helping them to know how to walk side by side with their men to achieve marital purpose. It all depend on an individual mindset. Check Pastor Kingsley's wife teachings on how not to frustrate your woman.

God bless you ma'am🙏

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Very correct

Indeed true mommy ❤🙏

But women equally have theirs... I understand you though, but this video is particularly in favour of men!

Amen!

If you follow Pastor Kingsley closely you'll know he's balanced. Go through he's videos you'll see lots of videos where he talked to men.

He has another video tailored towards women too

Pastor K talks to both men and women almost on every topic. Please follow him you'll be glad

@@onyedikachiemmanuelubani5397 you're right

You start a RU-vid channel and do it. Be the change you want to see

If you follow the steps you will have a peaceful home, because Satan has found the woman's weakness and he use the woman well but can not get to a man. To get to the man you get to the wife and use the woman to d destroy the man. We are different beings

@@suzanne-cs7sx Well...I believe this Satan can work through all human beings to do bad things. Both men and women.

This is basically saying that obey men, follow their rules, follow their dreams, support them and you will be a happy wife. How do you get to be a happy wife? Through the man providing you with a home to take care of, giving you money and taking care of the children you give birth to. So in the end, what does the woman gain? What is the happiness in this? Maybe some kids and a home to take care of and a husband to obey. And the best part is the husband to tell you , I love you...that is when you have been submissive and obedient. To me, it doesn't sound right. It has to be a relationship where you both support, respect, protect, provide for each other, submit to each other, and love each other. Happiness is relative anyway.

na dem🤣😂

@@ayodelealedare6507 the lady is right... tolerating unnecessary bad habits n suffering without a way out isn't submission.

1.If your man doesn't support you 2.competes with you 3.only thinks about himself than sis you have a problem he might be toxic and he will probably never change... But go for counseling and try to make him understand if he doesn't just leave.

@@emmaodior9150 Divorce is not supposed to be a quick go-to solution.

@@danielattah1836 I know that and it's the reason why I suggested she talks to her man and go for counseling Tham if he doesn't than she should leave and I don't think you understand how draining a toxic or narcissistic person is... It damages you mentally 😩

U are not alone.

@@emmaodior9150 💯👌

I know!

You need a paradigm shift brother, by reading the right books believe me you’ll adjust.

It is ok and wonderful to be single.💗🤗

@@CodingToInspire she's a woman

Buy and dog and d.. alone

@@jenjen7558 It is not okay to be single and is not wonderful to be single. You are lying!!!! It is God's plan who created unity, marriage. Read Gene 1-3 Chapters. You can not withdrawal money you have not deposited in the bank perior. It means money has to deposit characters that attract the same type of men.

You're right but I also think everyone has a unique calling. I'm sure there are other ministers who are heavily devoted to teachings that groom the men.

God bless you! Very few people are teaching men these fundamentals.

Supported

@@ogongare ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ofA_0EwRjdw.html for men

Women are the ones who steers a relationship. Sometimes if the woman change the man will change because he sees the woman's worth.

Wow! This is sounds really sad, would you like to chat with Pastor K directly... The contacts are on the pinned comment.

This is sad 💔. I'm sorry

@@ntokotom147 thanks a lot. We are trying to work it out but honestly I will never see him the same way I used to

Maybe it was too late. The damage was already done and he had mental and emotionally gone when you started treated him like a king. He wasn't convinced you were not just playing a role.

I can relate. I did all I could, be a friend, confidant,support system, respectful and loving, and showed him how grateful I was for what he did for the family. Guess what! He cheated. Men can never get enough. Live your life sis

Sure. It's a general human desire.

Don’t mind him.

@@Destroyandrebuild don't mind who? Wow

@@Destroyandrebuild go listen to his previous video.. before to talk nonsense. You fool

@@harrystylz8481 There's no need to call him a fool dear.

Wow. You said a mouthful here

This 😭. Relationships are so much work. Sometimes you end up keeping quiet because its just too much!

I like your perspective my sister. I'm kinda was in that kind of state too. As a God-fearing, intelligent, good looking young man, It was quite a slap on my face when i see ppl not as "endowed" as I am succeeding in their relationships whilst I keep crossing from relationships to relationships "frying pan to blazing fire", lol. But i made an intentional decision to give time to social self development, and i tell you it was a hard at first, but it became easier and enjoyable once i got this secret. It's something simple and i hope you wont miss it. This is it: Managing/Maintaining a relationship will continue to seem overwhelming till you get to a state where doimg the right things become natural

As adults we're gradually starting to realize that the things we were taught about relationships arent exactly true, and if it took years to learn those, then obviously it cant all be erased in just a few seminars, lol. It may seem overwhelming and strenous at first but overtime you'll get better at it and soon it'll become natural to you. so dont give up yet, okay. We're cheeering you up here ,lol

us who are not yet there will make a difference coz ure naturing us well well

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😂😂please my father has 4 daughters and he is cleaner than all four of us and my mom put together. I guess there's always exceptions 😂

“Respect gives off a sweet scent, a beautiful fragrance..” A tear came to my eye. Lord help me to be better 🙏🏽💜

Ayope❤

Ayope 😎🙌

Wow, thank you 🙏🏽

It either he does not have a dream or he doesn't trust you with them, not sure of how you will accept it

God Bless You!

So what's stopping you ?

Do you give her peace?

@@chocomiloloke1667 Must it be a competition

@@chineduekwueme1837 no it shouldn't be but dont expect her to be your peace & you can't even make your woman happy‼

@@chocomiloloke1667 My sister you are disturbing my online peace. Lol And just to mention, am not married.

@@abrahamtubolayefa995 Good! That gives you time to prepare very well.

Hmm there are some things we can't just control to be honest. Or better still, what works for one may not work for another. So it's a case of one size doesn't fit all

I have always said this, it don’t matter how much or how long he chases you they have made us all believe that’s the standard but that’s all crap. I personally don’t believe in that but if it happens that way whatever!

For you to admit it means you are really humble

Someone should answer this question Please me too need answer 😫

Send P.K a dm on Instagram or to the numbers he posted above

@@jonscott234 thanks.

I really want the answer to this question

Develop shock absorber for the pettiness

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@@tolulopearemu9057 Yes, just responding to the title of the video. 😂😂😂

Thank you pastor Kingsley. Fantabulous 😂😂👍🏾🔥🔥😘

True. Cheating all the time and expect you to submit.

I watched this and I'm guilty of almost all 7. God help me!

Sorry babe

U can do it ...as long as you stil breath there is a chance!

Sit down have a conversation with him. Talk about the changes you're willing to incorporate and your expectations.

You should find out IF he even has a job or a business at all ooo 🤔There are men who pretend to have but they dont. They are just living off their women and not providing financially in their homes at all. Please dont be scammed or be a sugar mommy.☝️