I’m gonna say this in the least controversial way as a girl but when a guy has a deeper voice, yea women take him more seriously. It’s almost like the deeper the voice, the more you gain our undivided attention. The voice is such an underrated part of someone (even for women I imagine) but yea I def see the value in this. Even from a guy to a guy, having a deeper voice will instantly make u feel more dominant over the other.
I’ve always had a deeper voice and I’ve noticed this too. Especially because I don’t talk a lot but when I do they take me more seriously compared to other guys who are with me
Everything adds up. Masculine voice, good haircut, good posture, and with that comes confidence, talking slower and become more attractive overall. Try to talk as if you were trying to hypnotize those you talk to
Don’t allow others to put down your masculinity. Masculinity is not being violent, rageful and disrespectful, but its a beautiful thing you should embrace and take pride in, because it really is slowly being lost. Be one of our strong standing pillars and keep this aspect of our nature alive! 💪🏼
Masculinity is controlled violence, critical thought, leadership, pimpery, artistery, mastery of skill, patience, stoicism, emotional mastery. All of that in ONE PACKAGE + more.
Masculinity IS being violent and rageful, but it is being able to control it and use it for your benefit. A man who can not be naturally violent, rageful, and agressive. Is a harmless and weak man.
A few tips on making your voice more attractive - Breath through your diaphragm. When most people breathe, their shoulders bob up and down. Stop moving your shoulders. and breathe only through your stomach. This gives you a more loud and captivating voice without straining your throat to do so. - Be calm and relax as best as you can. Ever noticed how, when you wake up, your voice is at its deepest? It's because you're relaxed. The more relaxed you are, the deeper voice you'll have. Breathing through your diaphragm makes you relax easier, and so does meditation. - Drink plenty of water. The larger your vocal chords are, the deeper your voice is, and keeping your vocal chords hydrated will allow them to be as big as your genes will allow them to. -Train your neck. Training your neck muscles provides support to your vocal chords and allows your voice have a lower and more powerful tone. -Know what you say before you say it. Thinking about what you say and being confident in your words makes your voice inherently more attractive because when we talk while we're uncertain, we tend to suppress our voice, while when voicing something with complete confidence, it will allow you to sound more confident. - Make sure your voice stays smooth, clear, and monotone. Changing your tone excessively makes you sound less confident and less attractive. Pick a tone and stay with it.
you cant control your diaphragm, it moves involuntarily when you breath. there are definitely muscles that singers train in that area to help breath control, but reading about them is easy while understanding what they feel like is not. also, do not try to train your voice by going so low that it becomes croaky because that is one of the worst things you can do to your voice. from a singer, here are some things I do that really help with increasing my range up and down: scales of a few notes up and down focusing on using lots of steady breath with burst supplied at the top of the scale. go up in semitones and as it gets higher try not to use your throat and instead increase resonance and loosen your jaw. if you're sick of scales try doing arpeggios, or if you dont do music then just do a short siren up and down. doing 'puffy cheeks': basically humming in a natural range but with lots of pressure built up in the mouth so that the cheeks are constantly puffed out. this has the same effect as humming through a straw into a drink which is known to help with breathing. if you are talking and feel like you're using your neck is tiring and getting tight, swallow. this lowers the larynx to a more relaxed position. try reading a chapter of a book to yourself and keep the larynx low, with the resonance and breath control of a singer.
Hey Hamza Im 14 almost 15 years old and im from poland(so sorry for some mistakes), I dont think you will see this comment but i wantet to share my opinion with you. You are replacing my father who left me, you replaced my man visualisation from my dad who was an poor obese alchololic and used beat up my mom to a man who is getting a lot of cash, has a good physique and is genneraly good and kind. You are really doing a good work for young people. I stared working out like 2 moths ago and i in a good shape now. I just want to thank you for all of your wideos and creating this cult. Love you bro
Never give up. The key to reaching the perfect physique is patience, consistency and sleep. I'd argue that they are even more important than diet. Your goal should be to hitting the gym forever. That way the perfect physique will guaranteed.
I love Poland - Poland? I love Poland - Why? I love Poland - I don't believe ya I love Poland - Poland? I love Poland - Why? I love Poland - Shut up I love driving by my car And the road it's not so far Berlin, London, Moscow too It's my love I tell you true When I came to Poland I saw my car was stolen It was my favourite truck I said fucking kurwa mać!
Slow deep talk, eye contact and good posture is what you need. Try to talk to others as if you were trying to hypnotize them, and you will realize how much more attractive it is
especially when they have already invited you somewhere and you are there with your back to the door and their conscious mind has no choice but to enter a trance and take in everything you say.
I am loving these recent videos. Feels more in line with the original style you had. Its like listening to a mentor which is exactly what I liked about your original videos.
Using a deep voice will make you talk slower and more calmly, this in turns brings and shows confidence, which then slowly snowballs into making extremely attractive
This is so true. My friend is average facially but his voice and calmness makes women go drool all over him. Voice is probably the second most important thing after face. In my opinion, the order would be face->voice->Heigt->body
Actually it's the other way around, talking slowly will make your voice deeper. Fast nervous talking makes you go an octave high and your voice becomes feminine.
@@yourmomisgay1420 huh.. yeah I did kinda notice that women talk 90 miles an hour. And the calm ones (rare) have a much deeper voice, and you may be right. They do speak slower.
I'm 15, my dad passed away when I was 9 and so I haven't really had a father figure, all my friends were older than me and so I was seeking someone to look up to, but men and teenagers as they are now could not take that role because they are just normal teenagers, and so this channel as helped me in a way that a father would, pushing you out of the comfort zone, telling you to learn new things, stopping bad habits like playing games (games that i used to play like 10+ hours a day). This channel is what young men need the most right now and I thank you a lot because otherwise right now I would be playing League Of Legends not even enjoying it and continuing to be a low testosterone low self esteem and no confidence boy, not a man .
Talking deeply works it takes a long time guys, I've been doing this for a couple of years I'm 22 and all my friends actually comment on how much they like my voice, it tools years and I've never noticed until girls and guys started complimenting it, i get asked alot "do you sing because i would love to hear it", thanks sweet old lady from walmart
Thank you for making videos. When I found your no bs aesthetic body guide, I had no idea, this channel would give me hope. I was done with life and I kinda still am, but I keep trying to implement all the good habits. My mind keeps on fighting, and I hope it will get better. Thank you.
Hamza , my father is always busy with work and you and my older brother are basically the only people I trust on this journey because you know your stuff and I am trying to do better, I'm 17 and, thanks big brother
The world need to know this damn genious, it's kinda crazy that we need to come online to seek how to be a man but since we do, I'm glad we have someone like him to teach the adonis way!
He is all but useful. He is teaching people they suck if they dont have money status and external conditions are met. This is not the foundation of interbeing.
4:50 absolutely true hamza i'm 16 year old and you're definitely giving the wisdom that i should've gotten from my father or a big brother,I was a precocious child and I always kind of felt the need to have a role model or a big brother like figure in my life cuz I knew I didn't know sh*t about anything,I did not have a big brother and have a kind off dysfunctional family so I am grateful for the advice you give on your channel and you've changed my life for the better.
I’ve always had a lot of testosterone but one aspect it missed was my voice, though I don’t have a high voice it was never as deep as I’d wanted it but in highschool I did acting classes and the tips we learned there to be louder and slower in our speech helped me lower my voice and put way more power into my speaking
@LikoHVM The essentials was that you should speak through your diaphragm and with your chest, good posture and head tilted a little bit upwards. Try keep your eyes on the audience so your voice goes in that direction and make sure you really have good slow deep breaths in general to get the most out of your speech. and obviously to talk a bit slower when publicly speaking and to emphasise words when needed.
I think deep voices seem more masculine because they radiate a sense of calmness and stability. You hear someone talk with a deep voice and you know this man knows his shit. Literally can help you not only with women but also in the work place and in general to be more respected.
10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list....................
Great video. Nice editing too, nice to see you in nature, speaking purely. Great editing improved and more pleasant to watch. You took it to another level, congrats to you and the new editors.
I remember in college I met this guy in my class and we introduced ourselves. Realising that we both had a deep voice we unknowingly got into this deep voice-off where we both were trying to one-up the other by speaking in a deeper voice. In a shortwhile I realised that a lot of students in our class especially girls were just standing there listening to our conversation. Even in presentations when I spoke everyone who wasn't paying attention immediately looked right at me. Made me uncomfortable for a while, but eventually I embraced it and realised I've got a gift.
i already practiced it like a year ago...can control my vocal range really good now...but now i realised it's all about the people you are surrounded by and the condition in which you are...if you're in a good/enjoying/friendly surroundings then your voice will automatically be higher pitched...but in serious situations, and individual already becomes focused and calm to handle the situation thus the voice becomes deeper...but if you want to just give it a shot, go on!
Yes when you're at friendly place enjoying things your T level stay at normal when you are at tense you T levels rockets then your voice become depper it depends on T levels
@@vedant66ee nothing you said is based on any real facts. Also relaxing will make your voice the deepest, and anything that makes you serious will cause a higher pitched voice, it will make you pumped with stress hormones. Testosterone will physically thicken your vocal cords in puberty after several years, after that it won't get noticeably deeper, it's not about how much test you have now, it's about how your test affected you in puberty.
"I am your father" - Hamza Vader All jokes aside.. you had a massive positive impact on my life and for that I thank you and will try to spread out the wisdom
Yeah I had this issue growing up. When I was like 14 or 15 I still had a high pitch voice and really hated that. I remember with any time I will talk to somebody over the phone they would think I was a girl, and I really really really hated that. It’s not until I had A older guy come into my life and he was like a big brother to me and he literally taught me to use the back of my throat and talk more with a deep voice. And I kept doing this for months until it eventually became the way I talk naturally and now I don’t have that problem. Good video Hamza although I don’t usually agree with anything you have to say but good video.
I can say that I have some experience with this. I’ve been singing for about four years, and have had mostly classical teachers. A relaxed voice sounds deeper, so if you relax your jaw and open up your throat like you are yawning, you will have a deeper voice. I have found that tension in these areas can come from anxiety and withheld aggression. You can use exercises like journaling, working out, breathwork or meditation to help release this tension.
I can relate so much... Went through the same phases in my life.. Even tho I had a father, I never received the Attention from my father. He went to work 10-11 hrs a day + weeekend's. He was barely home and when he was home, he was tired and was laying on the couch. I was raised by my mother and grandmother and I had more Feminine Character. You can guess what came from that. Bullying, bullying, bullying and I even had a speaking disorder... It took me a lot of time to build my self confidence back up... Tbh I never had it. With time i realized who I want to be and what characteristics I am missing, so thats why my last 6 Years were Dedicated only to Self improvement ! Started digesting every single line of my character and analyzing it myself... Started to think how I can improve every aspect of my life and with time Confidence came, Masculinity came and with that the whole package. I am soo grateful to myself that I managed to teach myself how to be a man !
Good way to integrate this: anytime you're reading or writing, speak like this. Your combined time for journaling and reading everyday should be decent anyway
Yeah telling you your not good enough but have to become some sorts of a collective clone to get 'the things he desires' just nah. Mindfulness does not require you to become liked by others.
I'v been practicing this for a long time now and I can confirm that it will be easier and will sound more natural to make your voice sound deeper. However you'll going to feel miserable after you to stop because the feeling of your natural voice will no longer feel comfortable to your own ears. The thing that got me the most was when I wanted to hear my own natural voice and I couldn't find it anymore, I couldn't make myself speak in the natural tone anymore. Years of practice later I do believe I made my voice deeper but at a cost
i'm a vocal teacher that is starting out in teaching how about we get in touch for a short free lesson to see if i can fix your problems. i am not guaranteeing anything but do have an idea on what it could be. Jack, forcing the voice can cause permanent damage and alter the tone of your voice so most important thing is to achieve a natural and comfortable sound.
Less upward inflection in your voice makes you sound more powerful. your words become statements meant to be taken as fact, not questions or things you are uncertain about.
It's really that easy just practice. Hamza you've Changed my life these videos got me out of my depression phase to where I am now. I'm a rapper in abq and I recently started doing live shows actually pursuing my dream and I promise that wouldn't have happened if I stuck with my old habits. Thank you hamza
Hamza thank you for all your help and masculinity guides! Without it, I wouldn't have changed a big piece of my life. I'm really looking forward to your videos. AND THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME JOIN THE CULTS!
He is not. he is every influencer ever who takes advantage of men and telling them they need materialistic good and girls to come forward. You are already top 1 % if it comes to me.
A Tip for everyone when you are reading a book at Home ( for me to practise ) Read it Out loud with your deep voice . It helped me alot and made the Progress faster .
For everyone who's really going thorugh this progress: WATCH OUT! I found out to have a really low voice, I also got a lot of reactions from that. I then also tried to get it lower, which actually worked. Of course it also get's lower as you age naturally, but you can train it in that direction aswell, so your muscles get stronger (can't change your vocal folds with exercising of course). When I then also discovered the singing world, I practised even more. Here comes the dangerous part: When you're trying to get it lower, it is not natural. Everything that is not natural, needs a lot of help from your muscles and so on... I unfortunately did it wayyy to much and couldn't speak a single word for 1 entire year. I'm still in the progress of regenerating after several months of working with doctors. So: go ahead, do it, but don't try to rush the progress and damage your voice!
Brah, I was watching this video and my mom came into the kitchen and literally said :turn down the volume a little bit, this voice is so deep(Hamza's voice)
Great video man. Having a good clear and loud enough voice are important especially in business, relationships of all kind, first impressions of how you carry yourself tell alot. Loud clear voice represent that you are standing with what you said. It not just ego, it necessary. Most people these day are anti social so they don't even bother training that like myself lol
I’ll be so real this is cool advice but I’m a singer and naturally have a higher voice, which i could make Deeper but that isn’t in my best interest as an artist who wants to achieve and higher notes and melodies maybe it’s a cope but I think that my God given higher voice lends to my career in the long term however if this doesn’t affect you I can see how this advice could work as always keep up the great content Hamza. And do the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it
Having a deep voice is really good but there are some people who just have bit higher pitched voice, obviously they should try to work on it but at the end if it fails don't be disappointed. Being yourself is much more important. Be confident, let's say u are trying to sound more masculine which all girls love but if she notices that u are trying to be someone else she will be repelled by you. Women Hate insecurity in men. Just remember that
It’s cool how you say that your like a second father figure because that’s exactly how I see you. Many of the times I gratitude journal I say I am grateful for you for being my second father figure and inspiring me. Thank you
He is not. he is calling young people losers and gives them toxic advices and the need of materialism to succeed in life. creating a false sence about a top 1 % that is imaginary, we all are part of the 100 %
I'm my own male role model.. I taught myself practically everything. I'm the true definition of "self-made." I didn't have a father, I only had my mother but she didn't teach me much. I taught myself how to bike.. I didn't know how to bike until I was 14 because nobody taught me.. I taught myself
This masculinity arguement, I can confirm it. My current girlfriend said and the exact words are " I love how masculine you are, it makes me feel so safe". These toxic feminist make women feel like they shouldn't find 'masculinity' attractive but they don't realize that they are hardwired to find masculine men attractive. Women will walk all over you if they are more masculine than you are. You have to be more masculine than your woman. Workout, work on your career and do whatever it takes to become a better man.
I grew up with a deep voice that carried and everyone says I was shouting and I got in trouble for it so many times. So they made me have a whimpy voice so i don't shout even though it's my regular voice. And when I do use my actual voice, people think I'm mad or something. Unbelievable society we live in.
I guess I’m just lucky I got a natural deep voice, it came quite a shock when I started getting compliments about my voice, before my voice cracked I was so paranoid and insecure about my voice and I became introverted as a result despite me being very outgoing and talkative.
same dude, i've felt realllllly insecure about my voice since I was 14 (18 now), even though puberty's hit. it's always felt softer and higher pitched in my head, and the introverted thing u said is exactly how i've been, but i've been working towards not caring how i sound anymore.
When I first meet Hamza’s content, I really did criticise him. I thought that was just a bullshit for rugpulling his viewers and get the most views (and money) from it. But with time, his videos do convince me. Really do not understand this incorrectly. Like I said, I am very cautious about such videos and I thought that mindset and mental health are just being used for manipulation. But mental health and mindset is important for your life. For me, I see myself different from other people because of my/them mindset/s. And (for me) routines are as important for you mental health as to your mindset; They give you stability in your life. Do not use social media too often, do not look porn, work out &; do the hard work, especially when you don’t feel like it. PS: This is a comment (especially) for me, to look back & see my perspective in these days.
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition 🔥💯
hamza, I really appreciate your videos, they've got me to get my shit together and start being productive rather than play league of legends 10 hours a day. I'm currently 14 about 5 months from turning 15 and It's been rough without a dad or father guiding me on my journey to being that masculine adonis. You trying to fill in that hole and you are really helps me. I really thank you for all the videos you post and keep up what you've been doing.
Puberty hit me hard and it gave me a deep ass voice. But I grew up hating it and feeling insecure about it. People used to make fun of me by calling me old man and shit. Even the teachers of my school called me out for speaking with them saying shit like how dare you talk to your teacher with such a deep voice (like bruh I can't help it). So I spend a part of my teenage life trying to speak in a higher pitch tone up until like in 2020 (I was 20 y/o)I was dating a girl and she told me that my voice was hot. The insecurities went away like as if it was never a thing. Now I receive complements for having a deep masculine voice ie my normal voice. I wish I knew it earlier but I'm glad that that period is over.
It seems cringe to "practice" having a deeper voice, but there's more to it. You're practicing how to present yourself as more masculine. Being less reactive, more methodical & thoughtful in what you say. You won't even think about it, it just activates when you're having conversations with women & everyone else tbh
As a female with a deep voice, I love to troll, tricking people into thinking I'm a guy, which is very funny. Having a few homies that don't have that deep voice is fun too because I love bullying them, saying I can get more bitches than them. 💀
It's not just speaking deeper, it's learning to speak with authority. "This is my highest rated comment in history, dayum." If anyone wants to learn where I understood this, look into real male shamans who regularly take Ayahuasca. They speak from the back of their throat.
Hamza I feel like I've been doing this wrong this whole time. I have a naturally very deep voice, and I guess it makes it sound aggressive. So for years I would always make myself sound high pitched to seem less scary and approachable. I would speak in a higher pitch especially when speaking to girls.
I did this a lot too. I never had a super deep booming voice, but when I was younger I got the perception my voice was too loud, and also I was afraid of intimidating women, and for years I intentionally practiced a higher pitch. Last year I realized it was a maladaptive habit, and I’ve been working on it a lot. My girlfriend likes my deeper tone 😁
Same here adding to that I am 6'4. My friends always said I look and sound extremely intimidating, I was even shamed for that as a teen. In order to seem more friendly, I purposefuly made my voice sound high pitched and acted in a harmless and meek manner around people. But it felt unnatural and tiring to act that way. Then slowly I realized that I have a great voice and personality naturally but these sissies shit their pants seeing a man with a masculine voice and mannerism because it's very rare nowadays. Reject weakness, embrace masculinity.
I work as a substitute teacher and I constantly practice this voice to get classes to listen to me. It works on everyone that doesn't have some sort of behavioral issue with authority. I'm really grateful that I get so much practice with it because, even when I talk to my friends and other people, I find that it's the default voice that I use now, and I'm super happy that I have such a naturally deep, resonant voice that I can't imagine living without.
Thanks for the advice mate, great video. When I watch your videos I see you as the older brother I never had and I can use your advice along with that of my dad and mum to make myself a better man and a better person
I disagree. Having a deep voice is nice, but it doesn’t matter. What you need to do is speak in a clear, concise way that commands authority and respect and reflects the confidence in yourself you have. If you’re trying to lower the pitch of your voice more than what’s natural it just means that not confident in how you are naturally sound and that’s the actual issue that you need to work on
People actually pay more attention to the deep voice guy because they sound more mature. You could speak as clear and concise as possible and yet if you voice-crack 5 times during the speech that's all they'll think about.
