How To Get An INFP To Love You

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Set goals for 2024 in our monthly workshop & get a handwritten quests card: patreon.com/erikthor In this video, I wanna talk about the basics of how to make an INFP love you, by making them feel safe to open up around you, and by allowing them to be a little crazy, free, and creative without judgement, as well as some don'ts when dealing with the INFP personality type.
#infp #infplove #infps
Become an Actualized INFP with Erik Thor!
My name is Erik Thor and I have always had a lot of love for INFPs. You have all helped me more than you know and your energy continues to be an inspiration to me in my own life. I wanted to make this channel because I don't really have time to on my main channel anymore. This channel is dedicated to talking about the INFP - introverted, intuitive, feeling, perceiving personality type, but without stereotypes.
The goal is to help you get the most out of personal growth and find your own path in life. I'm against labels and for insight into the unique things that make you who you are, and to me, the MBTI is just a tool. I use Jungian psychology to help guide people in the goal of individuation, integration, and personal growth.

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@lastgunman5270 8 месяцев назад

How to get them to love the INFP is the real question :D

@purple9687 6 месяцев назад

Watching this to make me love myself more 💅

@Jungslab1312 Год назад

Excellent points, especially where you pointed out the need for patience. The thoroughness is fundamental component of INFPs. If you're trying to rush them, you're putting them in places where they shouldn't be at all. Fish shouldn't be graded on their ability to climb a tree.

@lilnikitoska4056 9 месяцев назад

Guys, let's be honest with ourselves - being an infp, it's very difficult for us to find a girl with whom we have a good relationship. Personally, I have already managed to be a little disappointed in this whole story with romantic relationships. Before I found out about MBTI, I thought that I was some kind of abnormal, I didn't fit men's standards. Now it's better in this regard, but to be honest, I don't really hope to find a person who could understand me. I hope that at least everyone else is doing much better, and you have more chances for a positive relationship ❤

@squirrelsyrup1921 Месяц назад

Hope things are going well for you bro

@lilnikitoska4056 Месяц назад

@@squirrelsyrup1921 it's better now, thanks)

@delanebredvik Год назад

Fun to watch this and feel "seen."

@Mindsetolympics 9 месяцев назад

Ikr like someone actually cares about the infps 😂😂

@jeplica7011 10 месяцев назад

I used to trust and open up , but it takes alot now. And i learned that theres a tricky infatuation period of 3 to 6 months where oxytocin seratonin dopamine vasopressin adrenaline are in high gear,. And if you're fooled into making any commitments, the real person shows up and you hate everything about each other

@Montanero 6 месяцев назад

I'm sorry to hear that. I can imagine what it's like. I wish you happiness and fulfillment in what's to come.

@tinkershell1856 Год назад

This is so good and so thoughtful ❤❤❤ definitely do not overplan with us! ☺️

@stephyLynn7 2 месяца назад

When we are stressed….tell us to breathe and breathe with us… tap into our physical world to pull us out of our heads: send us flowers, sweets, dinner, a candle…. Something to ground us. ❤ we’re like kids who need a nap and a snack and a hug lol

@jeremiahshackelford9656 Месяц назад

I want to give this man a hug. So thoughtful and honest.

@Kurokitty23 10 месяцев назад

All these points are correct

@peachesandpoets Год назад

Very good. I think for many reasons we can be prone to attract narcissistic personalities and can be manipulated. But I do think once a "healthy" (whatever that means) realizes it, they will protect themselves, perhaps to an extreme. This was all very helpful

@Mindsetolympics 9 месяцев назад

That’s what I’m saying how can you know when you’ve arrived at healthy?

@melonbreadz6998 9 месяцев назад

@@Mindsetolympicswhen you can set healthy boundaries for yourself, and you wont let someone run you over and use you :0

@Thatonelonelyfrog Год назад

I feel seen thank you!

@angeliquecox4403 Год назад

Awesome vibes ☮️💕🖖🏼

@actualizedinfp Год назад

Thanks :)

@lukemullineux Год назад

Nice

@RelyableLerilay Год назад

3:20 ah yes, randomness

@jeremiahshackelford9656 Месяц назад

❤

@jeplica7011 10 месяцев назад

Honestly you can behave any way or no way,. It depends completely on what your nosse breath smells like. And if you can actually accept the whole shebang without trying to change them and offer strength in weaker areas, reciprocally that's all.

@aaaabbbb8650 3 месяца назад

i am intj I am struggling with my infp gf, i love her, but when she starts asking me Questions and points out my mistakes, I feel helpless Whenever I say something in my defence, she says "again you are comparing / explaining etc" I don't know how to talk with emotions She said you should understand, but for that also she i should know where i am going wrong But she is not ready to open up Please help

@actualizedinfp 3 месяца назад

Sorry to hear, I think, if you start out by acknowledging when she is right before you explain, that might make it easier to breach. Otherwise you both have a right to your experience of a situation the most important thing is you make her feel respected and listened to. What do you do to comfort her when upset? What do you do to put her at ease? How do you show her that you are listening and that you consider her point of view? You are allowed to process things rationally but remember that doesnt mean you dont have emotions. So do acknowledge that they are there. Even for a second go “Am I angry right now?” “Am I sad right now?” and then you can dissect that afterwards. Or first approach it logically but then when done stop and consider how this situation impacted your energy, motivation, confidence, etc

@actualizedinfp 3 месяца назад

oh and read the four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse to make sure you both fight fair in arguments. and remember its normal to fight in relationships!

@aaaabbbb8650 3 месяца назад

@@actualizedinfp now i can see my mistakes, she once said indirectly, i never acknowledge her, doesn't matter what she does. But deep down I admire her thoughts, it's just i never expressed thanks bro

@crystalangel1471 3 месяца назад

As an infp lady, I can relate to her. We needs lots of affirmation, and what you really think about us (positive ones). We are sensitive to criticism and comparisons. We hate those, because we are unique in our own personality, there is no reason for comparison or getting harshlg competitive against us. We appreciate simple gestures, affirmative words, helping us grow, constructive criticism with a loving tone of voice (not comparisons). We are nonconformists and will not budge when it comes to our passions and values..

@aaaabbbb8650 Месяц назад

@@crystalangel1471it's hard for me to expose my love in words. If there is a problem i just tell her the best way to get out of the problem and be there for her. I can't express my love in words but i can show it in my actions I cook for her, I keep track of her medicines and therapy, I help her in all of her problems when none of her friends is there Isn't it sufficient to prove my love for her ,