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AMEN! 😄☺️ The fear of man bringth a snare, but whoso putteth his trust in the LORD shall be safe, -Proverbs 29:25 KJV Cast all your care upon him; for he careth for you. 1 Peter 5:7 KJV
0:50 1. Forgive yourself for getting off track 2:04 2. Review your why 3:00 3. Start small and don’t overwhelm yourself 4:12 4. Build trust with yourself 6:35 5. Make it fun 7:45 6. Make it visual 8:55 7. Celebrate your small wins 11:12 8. Focus on the feeling 13:30 9. Embrace imperfection and resilience i hope this helped but really recommend watching the video, she explains it really well. ya'll have a nice day ❤️
Wasn't lazy or busy.. just severely depressed. I hope we live in a world one day where mental health isn't simply overlooked or dismissed as just being lazy or irresponsible or difficult.
Kinda crazy that mental health wasn't even MENTIONED as a possibility. You have over 1 million subs, please do better. With peace and love and the wisdom of tip one. (:
@@mickable3071 Not hating. Just trying to bring awareness to a very real issue. It's always so hard to decipher tone over comments. That's why I put with peace and love and the (: lol but maybe it had the opposite effect. I'm just saying it can be very detrimental to the subs, especially those unknowingly dealing with mental illness, to just say it's laziness and not even touch on the fact that a mental illness is a very real possibility.. I just think with over 1 million subs, there should be some level of responsibility held to address certain things.
@@mickable3071 They aren't hating. People deal with depression every single day, and you know what's crazy? We don't even trust therapists. We can't get help. We are stuck in our own mind. And what does society do? They make it an aesthetic. It isn't the creators fault, we are built to think a certain way. The person who commented this only wanted to express their frustration, hope you have a great rest of the day Mickable 🖤
@@akuma3460 yes I know. I am a dysthymia patient aka short term depression. It’s the worst thing ever. When we have dep eps. It sometimes causes us to go away from others and not do things. I now know that this commenter meant no harm thank you so much for your reply ^^
🔥 *Life is either hard now, or hard later.* ✅ *But it's up to us which one we choose. If you saw this comment, I hope you have an amazing productive day and never ever give up...* 🙏
It's ramadan and I didn't sleep properly since it started . And the two last days I only had 3hours of sleep and I am on my midterm exam period, it's very hard to keep up but reading your comment made me realize that I prefer "suffer" now than later 🤍 thank you. Have a good day/night
Guys pls pray for my dad, he has covid and has been in the hospital the whole day and hasnt got a bed.. my whole family is really tensed and im scared.. pls.. thank you. And great video aileen, i needed this Edit: thank you everyone! After this, my whole family had covid but now everything us fine.. than, you so much
1. Forgive yourself for getting off track 2. Review your why 3. Start small and don’t overwhelm yourself 4. Build trust with yourself 5. Make it fun 6. Make it visual 7. Celebrate your small wins 8. Focus on the feeling 9. Embrace imperfection and resilience Thanks lavendaire for this video.
Ahhhh I’ve been feeling jsut stuck in life and I needed this so badly. It’s not like there’s anything bad going on in my life but I’m also just not happy and feel like I’m not really progressing
I think we all need this video at the moment!! I especially love the first tip - forgiving yourself is absolutely the first barrier and self-love is so important. Thanks for the video 🙏🏼❤️🌙
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So true. 😇 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this is one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of thr high calling of God in Christ Jesus.- Philippians 3:13-14 KJV
@@priscillajimenez27 “But first seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you” - Matthew 6:33 All the best to you. Love from Australia 🇦🇺
The thing I'm working on is Consistency. I've no problem finding inspiration but my motivation can be so short-lived & I know it's hindering my potential for growth and success. Your 'Build Trust with Self' point really resonated with me; I'd never allow another person so many opportunities to disappoint me, I shouldn't allow myself to either.
This is such a needed video right now! To anyone who's feeling off track: you're right where you're meant to be! Things we think are mistakes now, are the things we might look back on and be grateful for later! There's no such thing as failure ;) 🧡💛🧡💛
"forgive yourself for getting off track" ... I feel like this is one of those things we tend to forget doing because we're always focused on go go go, but it's INCREDIBLY crucial to show ourselves self compassion :,) thanks aileen!!
Another RU-vidr was once mentioned Lavendaire in a video and I searched for the channel because I was curious. Now I don't think I could ever find a more motivational and amazing channel ever. Thank you so much Aileen💜💜💜
I'm sorry--what was that transition from building trust with yourself to advertising the wells Fargo card??? how are those two things related...at all lmao
I'm really trying to stay motivated to keep studying, it's so hard, it's like one day I'm on the roll, and the next im super unproductive and unmotivated. I clicked on this video because I felt stuck, I must say that I am very glad I watched this thank you Aileen , for this very helpful and motivating video, you helped me realize that I've been so unnecessarily hard on myself. you are a blessing to the world. All my love, Bella in South Africa
I was crying the whole time 😭 when you mention about embrace imperfections or forgive myself because that's what I've been trouble of the whole time because of the school stress I have so thank you very much for saying that because I needed the most 🥰
I watch this video over and over almost everyday. In order to keep truck with my goals, I might as well immerse my brain in this thoughts. I easily forget what I learn from you, but by watching repeatedly , I can remember how I can study everyday. I appreciate this tips so much!
I'm working on fixing my daily routine. I adjusted my sleeping schedule and made at least one meal a day for myself. Now I'm adding in being active every day. I've tied in walking my dogs as a sort of warm-up before exercising, so I have a reason to do it other than for myself. I won't start until they get a walk and they deserve to explore and visit the park. Once I've already done that step, it's only natural to finish it out by doing my own exercise. I also like putting on a video like this to motivate me through it when I need an extra boost.
Dear Lavendiar I don't know if you read this but as a 15 years girl your videos are my motivations and are helping me too far than you expect to heal my depression. It is a big deal for me cuz it breath me back to life. God bless you thank you!🥰🥰🥰🥰
2. review your WHY Why did I set this goal at the 1st place? -It's for my own good, I want to be healthy and live happily and I couldn't do that if I'm not in the right track. -I want to change because my mental & physical health is getting worst and I want to have better relationships to myself & to my family. summary: To be physically & mentally healthy/happy & to be closer with God. 3. start at small -try slower and sustained 4. trust your self -build stronger relationships with your self DON'T SETTLE HIGH EXPECTATION. -Make the things u hate doing fun 5. make it visual -habit tracker/visual board/wallpaper
Ur soooo cute and pretty 😍💓 just keep uploading videos to connect with us and ur videos are really amazing and awesome 👌 , IT JUSY REALLY STARTED WORKING IN MY LIFE
I'm doing it. I found out that I wasted too much time spending time with someone who doesn't respect me, it seems a wake-up call that I need to invest more in myself, keep my spirits up, read more books and binge-watch movies. and also i realized that just do whatever I want, respect myself, somebody who fits me will come along (sounds like a fairy tale haha)
This is the First thing I've opened up on RU-vid, after searching "How to get your Life back on Track," Because I've forgotten How to live my life in "Normal" Times. This is Perfect Timing for me, Thankyou ! 💗
This world is be coming scary hold on to Jesus. WE NEED JESUS back in our homes, school, work place on the street corner please hold on to Jesus and accept him in your life before it's to late❤❤
My nearest goal is to be the topper of the class. I'm the 27th in the class among 42 students. But I really wanna be the topper in this semester. The semester exam will start soon like at the beginning of the august , but I haven't prepared well yet. I'm gonna back on track with my goal and my goal requires so much effort and sweat. But I'm surely going to start small and be a big one slowly as you told Thank youu so much Eileen ♡♡♡
How I wish I have the perfect answer for you but diff things work for diff people. I really would say seek professional help if it gets too much. But speaking from experience, I think about the saying "it is just a bad day, not a bad life". I try to remember all the good days and moments I've had before. Feeling empty can mean you are looking for something "missing" but I sincerely believe that all we ever need and wanted is inside of us. Actively fight the negative feelings but also rest your mind and heart once it is overwhelming. Sending virtual hugs. You'll get through it.
I just completed my Masters degree at a medical school and I had high hopes that I would get accepted into the medical school . I missed the gpa needed by 1 point and I thought I would get in but got rejected. Im struggling to get back up and reapply to other schools without feeling like a failure but this video really made me realize how far I've come and for the first time in a while I'm happy again. Thank you so much for this video . God bless you !
My goal now is to lose weight and improve on my eating habits. I am starting small right now and still a work in progress. After watching your video, I feel much more motivated and I will try to persevere. And you are right about the two mindsets. I used to be the former mindset where I think of how much more I need to get there. But now, after changing mindset, it is better to think of how far I have come and to celebrate small wins. That is what makes me happier. Thank you. U are an inspiration. ❤️
Hello Aileen! I am soo happy to watch your videos..And myself and my family listens to your Positive self love affirmations every night, we really love it! ❤
the fact that this video is so peaceful....makes you feel good and kind of helps you to go easy on yourself. after all, we're just humans. Thank you ^^
Love it! Thank you so much! I've watch almost all of your videos and i think this is me right now, I'm procrastinating, i not motivated, i felt like giving up, but learning these tips now helps me to get back up, so i think this video is a lofr saver for me today, thank you and keep up the amazing work Lavendaire ❤️❤️❤️
Hey Aileen! I have been watching your videos for the past 4 years. Consistently. And I just needed to tell you how much I adore you! You have truly helped me through some really tough times in life. And even now, if I feel lost, I know I just need to come back to your videos. And I am home! Thank you for being my guardian angel.🌸🎇 more love and power to you!
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Your timing is always so perfect ..... btw are you not going to make video on how you felt after completing liberation kriya... I've been waiting for it for so long... should I stop waiting..??? Love from Drishti 🇮🇳
I watched this yesterday and in the moment it was so encouraging. Today, I was feeling super negative once again so I decided to rewatch the video. I reflected and took very helpful notes. While reflecting I thought positively and wrote to myself which was self comforting. I am grateful for all your videos and am so glad I decided to write them down. THANK YOU! uwu
Houa, by watching the video again you actually applied the following tips mentioned: (1) forgiving yourself; (8) focusing on the feeling; and (9) embracing imperfection and resilience. I, too, took notes but I'm going to treat my notes for this particular video differently. I'm going to refer to them repeatedly to make sure that I'm applying the gems in this video. I wish you the best, Houa- you can do it!
Firstly, I cannot stress how much this means to me. Today, I've just received my tests back and to my disappointment, I've failed all of them despite putting in a lot of effort. To add on, this affected my performance during my extra curricular to the extent where I was advised to start all over from the basics. It had been a rlly difficult day for me and I just felt so lost and demoralised. Your videos bring a rlly special meaning to me. Although I'm not completely sure how I should take my steps from now on, I'm assured that I'll get back up from my setbacks really soon. Thank you so much and have a wonderful day :)
You can't imagine how much I relate with your words! Be gentle on yourself it's key for me! I expect too much from myself sometimes, then when I realize that I take a step back! I need to work on my projects in a more sustainable way!
Thank you! This really helped me so much!! I journaled while watching this (I paused the video and wrote down what is my 'why', how to take baby steps...) Now I feel I can finally do this. I realized I've tried to do too much at the same time and I exhausted myself. So for now on I can take care of myself better and enjoy the process!
So insightful! I have lost a lot of trust in myself through the pandemic...gave over to my impulses and what I "feel like" doing instead of what needs done. This was so inspiring!
i'm following you from 2018 and i always love your video ☺️ i just wanna say thank you aileen for making my life so much better you're my inspiration 💕 if you facing the hardship remember we always here for you ❤️
Great topic! What helps me get back on track again is to keep it small and easy to achieve. Even if it’s 5 or 10 minutes of movement a day, it’s still better than nothing! I like starting out with 5 or 10 minutes as my goal for the first couple weeks when I’m getting back on track again, as it’s easier to stick to and achieve. And most days I go for longer, but it’s not necessary... once I can show up for the 5-10 minutes a day, it’s much easier to start adding more time onto that in the next few weeks. 5-10 minutes is better than 0!
Omg Aileen you actually build up my confidence level💪. Actually I am not concentrating on my routine more and also I feel so bad😓 about myself like " why am I like this 😔". In this mindset I saw your video!!!!, it gives me more strength and helps me to put another step in my life to get back, thank you Aileen for the video ❤️😘👍. Like I always said that you are definitely a positive person who spread positive Vibes, thanks Aileen.
