I think your advice is the best. Thank you so much. And I am taking the f formula. I’m very happy I found you. I wish It could have been sooner. But hey, it’s never to late. Thank you Marni.
I met my future wife when we were only 17 years old and working at the same restaurant. Per health laws, she had to wear her hair tied back in a ponytail. One day I asked her, “What do you look like with your hair down?” I had not intended it to be a “come on” line, but apparently it worked. We got married at 19 and will be celebrating 50 years of marriage in July 2024. She is still beautiful to me.
I used these techniques on a girl at my college. She turned out to be a militant lesbian. My court date is scheduled for next Thursday. Thanks a lot Marnie.
1) Lead with semi sexual compliments - "you know you look cute when you do that / wear that" 2) Ask semi sexual questions - "what do you find attractive in a man" (own it and don't apologise). 3) Playful misinterpretation
Based on my personal experiences, if a woman is interested in you, it doesn't matter what line you use. She will respond to you favorably no what you said. On the other hand, if she's not interested in you then it doesn't matter either, because she will not reply favorably no matter what you said. Not interested means, "I don't know and I don't want to know." Another thing, "No" means "No".
Should I still be interested if she asks before we leave my house to go to the movies, "honey, do you have a plunger?" Her tailpipe was all gunked up and I ended up having a bad dream I was a muffler and woke up exhausted.
@AndresAKAdom op is onto something. Those phrases all work IF there is a level of attraction. I have guy friends who could have become romantic interests. Once we have an established friendship its not gonna happen. I don't mess around with my guy friends. Friends are too valuable in life to risk. Once we establish a platonic relationship it becomes familiar and any physical interest i might have had goes away. Despite what p0rnhub says, all women don't want to have s3x with their stepbrother. But I can only speak from my perspective
I also read somewhere that men are more hesitant to approach women because they are afraid of being labeled a harasser or a stalker. I’ve experienced a bit of this as myself. But I’ve noticed that if you look a certain way. Or your a bad boy type it’s not a big deal. The crap women see on T.V and social media is hurting our society badly.
@@alphamanga3213 Like I said you have to look a certain way and have a certain charm. Danny Masterson comes to mind btw when I think about this subject. He was doing this for 20 years and had been getting away with it all that time. Just think on that people!!
The problem for us men is that we are worried we're going to cross a line or look like a creep because of all the metoo stuff. I'm not even worried about rejection, I'm worried about a woman screaming that I'm harassing her when I give her a compliment lol
I almost got fired for approaching a woman outside of my place of work. All I said was I thought she was beautiful & asked if she wanted to get a drink sometime. She politely rejected the offer, I said ok, have a nice day & that was it. She was with a small group & one of them called my work (they saw me walk out of the building) & complained that I "sexually harassed her." Ridiculous. Follow this videos advice if you want to get fired and or sued for sexual harassment.
Sometime during October during the baseball playoff season our next door neighbor was over at our house, and I happened to ask her if she liked baseball. She responded in the affirmative. I then proceeded to ask her what was her favorite position, to which she replied, “on my tummy”. I took that as a major green light while my wife was less than impressed.
Eye contact.Then you'll be able to feel the vibes which are all around us daily and do most of the work. A woman who smiles at you is a pretty clear indication,or looks at you a particular way, SHE FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE/INTERESTING, flirt comes after. Or confidently express or engage in some way...trust me, it works and if you make her laugh, she'll feel beautiful for that little gift you gave her for a moment or more.
The other day I created a safe space for a girl by buying a VIP booth. I made all the comments about how beautiful her eyes and everything were and I was being honest because she was the most wonderful and stunning creature I've ever touched. I also asked questions about her because I was genuinely interested not because I saw this video before. Sounds like I did everything right but at the end it doesn't matter because I left the gentleman's entertainment club
Have a healthy athletic body which shows muscles, wear professional stylish clothes and talk about your senior engineer job.... and as long as you're not short most women will be dry humping you for free inside and outside the club.
I have been married for 21 years and this channel has really helped me re-introduce romance into my relationship with my wife. Marni’s sex talk videos have also really improved my foreplay game which, for my wife, is really the key to good sex for us. Thanks, Marni!
Yea, this advice should work on your wife lol. It's terrible advice for a single guy though, following it would be a quick way to get fired and or sued for sexual harassment.
One huge factor is your effort and willingness to learn and try to get that spark going again. Without your effort, this would just be hot air. Hope everything is still going well for you.
The timing of this video is perfect, thanks. I am just starting to casually flirt with women I meet in the last few days at 35 after ending a 15 years relation, moving to my hometown and starting a new job. It is a very thick ice to break haha but I don't have any expectations and with your help, I am a bit less clueless, so the process is prety fun so far.
The lady of your dreams today can become the witch of your nightmares in the future. Lots of stories online where men have lost their career, their children OR even HALF of their entire life savings because of the woman they trusted... stay single.
Today i held a door open for a woman... She said " I can open it myself!" I noticed she was coming back out so I let her open the door herself... She said "A-hole!"
ah yes , my younger sister is like that a man stands to her and she replies saying, i do not need for you to stand for me then same situation happens man does not say a word and she throws a hissy fit and a pout and tells him oh wow thanks for standing for me a hole, i do tarot during the weekends and most young women bit upset because i do not tell them they will meet the tall guy who earns 6 figures and owns a sport cars, me as a 41 year old woman i decided to focus on my personal goals first then if stick to a life style this was back in 1995 and try to make profit of what i know or on i work on
If any bloke wants to meet chicks .Learn to dance. It worked for our grandparents .. Most dance nights are 75% chicks. Best advice i'd give to a 18yo me. A no brainer.
The frayed sweater look really works on you. Gives just a hint of that sexy, "Yes, I just had to have a passionate quickie on my lunch break" vibe. 😉 Now, what was that you were saying about questioning again?
I am decades out of practice and never thought in a million years I would be single again and had stopped flirting decades back.... Thankfully still young enough that I am not ancient, but still to be back in the pond again after several decades... never thought I would be glancing at these types of reminder videos.
Women and dating is extremely hard. After watching so many hours of content back in 2015 I realized how wrong I had been dating for 15 years and completely stopped even interacting with girls ever since. Guys you've got to do this stuff while you're young because once you get into your late 30s or early 40s, you're no longer going to be up for the challenge. I can't comprehend adding more hard into my life as life is already hard enough.
I understand where you’re coming from man. I can tell you, though, that being older doesn’t matter as much as one would think. I’ve had more success with women in my 40s than I ever did in my 20s and 30s. Just have fun, be yourself and don’t be afraid to (respectfully) approach a woman you’re interested in.
“Getting your house in order” first is important. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and am realizing how much with I need to do on myself before I look at trying to bring another person in on the deal. Just a thought 🤷♂️
Meeting and dating are hard. At 68, I decided that I needed to change to meet women. Two marriages, a number of serious connections over the years, yet his is all new to me. I know Marnie's advice is solid, having watched my older cousin do all of this naturally for decades. Good looking, great teasing, conversation. He gets phone numbers all the time. So now I'm working it. Marni has tied a lot of it together. At least I feel better at the end of an evening now.
That's great and all , but with today's society as a man myself it's very difficult to tell which woman will react the way you are saying or which woman will scream sexual harassment.
Agree. My co-workers and I all get rejected. But, my extra tall hot Chad friend (a true 10) gets signals of attraction from women everywhere; things I never see. They walk right into him, they flirt, they hand him their number, etc. He can say or do anything and girl will continue her pursuit. This advice is good for the shy Chad lights (with an SMV of 9).
@@bobbruce4135 I don't think looks is everything to women like it is for men, I think it's more about confidence and I have non. But looks is a big bonus, and if someone is really good looking he'll probably be aware of it and that'll affect his character and he'll be more confident, so it's like a positive feedback loop I guess, while for other men who get rejected it's a negative feedback loop.
@@bobbruce4135What you are saying is, "The better-looking a person is, the more romantic success they will receive. The less attractive a person is, the less romantic success they will get." That sounds like common sense to me.
Telling a modern woman you hardly know she has beautiful eyes, a cute laugh or that she looks amazing in her dress is likely to get neagitive responses from not only the lady, but from those around her because viral negative modern thoughts spread like wildfire.
I think peer pressure is a large contributing factor. For instance, if my friend feels uncomfortable, then I’m obligated to feel like the guy is a creep even though he did not have ulterior motives. If I don’t say he’s a creep, my friend and the others will accuse me of defending the man’s “bad actions”. Personally, I have no problem receiving compliments like these. :P One thing I don’t get is that modern women love to express themselves through their clothing, so it doesn’t make sense if she gets upset over someone’s compliment. 🤷🏻♀️ But anyways, good luck! I’m sure there’s someone nice out there.
No it’s not likely to get a negative response to compliment a stranger. I mean if you know how to say it while being genuine and not creepy is the big difference. Get the negative what if thoughts out of your head tbh
Marni has a Jennifer love ❤️ Hewitt meets Lacey Chabert look and coolness about her. I have a weak spot for petit Brunettes. Always have. A girl I was desperately trying to get her attention from recently prompted to start working out again and though I came to realize that she was a lost cause it did make me marvel at how much better I look and feel so Sometimes when you think your getting kicked downstairs your really getting kicked upstairs.
If you compliment a woman and she gets angry, run away as fast as your feet will carry you. No matter how beautiful you think that woman is, she is NOT!
You gave an example as a "semi-sexual compliment," as "you look amazing in that dress." Some women get offended at statements like that. Instead they prefer "that dress looks amazing on you," because they are so insecure they assume you meam 'they' only look "amazing," while wearing that dress.
I am dating a beautiful Asian woman and thought she is out of my league since she is entire package. I wasn’t even looking but she can into my life of out the blues. Sine she is 15 yrs younger than me but she doesn’t mind. She likes my maturity, masculinity, kindness and attentiveness for her. Also, Asian women are results and goals oriented and she says that I checked in her box. We haven’t been physical but want to wait until she is ready. We are meeting her parents for the first time this weekend. For younger guys out there, Dating an Asian girl, just don’t yelled or be respectful her around her friends and parents young will be her world and the you get back is limitless
It's funny how all those videos about how to get women never say that. All men like women with a nice pair of breasts and a nice rear end. All women like men with beautiful cars and big bank accounts. Am I being too brutally honest?
All these moves make sense because there is a boy friend of mine who’s not really attractive in physical but got to sleep with a girl friend of mine who’s attractive . Thinking about it when we are in a group setting I remember him doing this things. I’ve been observing him since then because I want to learn from him but I saw your RU-vid channel and I subscribed 😂😅❤
Absolutely Marni, helping a woman enter into that protective bubble is crucial. Sometimes that can be simply by passing in front of a woman's line of sight or passing by her in her direct vicinity and locking eye contact for a brief 3 seconds and smiling. If it is directed specifically at her, she will know it. If you can create a space where she forgets there is a single other person in a room or out in public, it will feel like an eternity in the blink of an eye. Thank you Wing Girl, very important point, well done.
What scottstone said, if she doesn't find you attractive then following any of this videos advice is a quick way to get fired and or sued for sexual harassment.
Attraction is built. And it's more about your value than your looks. But you have to actually have value, not think you have value. But I'm not a dating coach, just a good student. And not great looking but i do well in spite of that
@@danielizquierdo113 yes yes yes and yes again. So simple yet most men choose to overcomplicate, twist & flip this simple lesson- I'm referring to danieliz....comment... Please continue to share danielizquierdo113
marni you are absolutely true on "the leading part" as a man you must know how to lead women!!!! i had learn salsa dancing in salsa dancing males are called leads females are called followers !!!! fun thing is if a male or lead dancer knows a salsa very well he can make her dance very well even the ladies who don't know salsa!!! ive tried this experiment with ladies who dont know salsa😊😊 nice one marni keep it up!!! Reply
I'm not too bad looking guy.I am almost 64 but no grey hair. I have great hair, clean and shaven, I usually wear jeans and a tshirt.I have tried everything and i do get a look now and then but when i tried what you're talking about, it did not work. A guy could get in trouble doing this. Every attractive woman is married or have a boyfriend in my area. I am not giving up.
Marni the problem with your advice is that it only works if women are already attracted to you. If you're fat = get into shape If you're broke = get a side hustle If you're depressed = get a hobby that gets you active and passionate If you're fat, broke and in general always a downer...you got to fix yourself before you can expect anyone to flirt with you.
That is 100 percent not true. Listen if you don’t take care of yourself at all AND you have no personality no confidence and no ability to talk then it’s going to be pretty freaking tough to pull off just about anything anyone teaches. What I try to teach is how to build that core so it’s strong enough to be seen more than a little pot belly, bald head or anything else. This video is about shifting how you present yourself just enough to display the things needed to create attraction.
@@geovanilopez5459 So the difference between arrogance and confidence is proof & humility. You can't have nothing to trade ( dating is a trade in the superficial sense ) and expect everything in return. If I expect a woman at her best I should have my best to offer. Entitlement is not attractive
@@marnikinrys 100% not true but you follow up by agreeing with me. Anyone who wants an 8-10 person but is unwilling to be the 8-10 version of themselves is ridiculous.
@@geovanilopez5459 what excites women is a man focused on himself who will keep moving even if she leaves him. Women want a man with hobbies, ambitious goals and discipline. They want to earn our attention, not have it just given to them. A woman could ignore me and I wouldn't care because I have too much to do. My relationship has improved with me focusing on myself and my goals
Most woman I met last year were ladies I worked with. Fist up I will NOT date a woman I work with. One lady I liked came up and grabbed my arm while I was teasing her . I told her she should not do that as I get turned on very easily. She loved it and laughed. Then other ladies saw it and began teasing me. I think this led to problems because some ladies I would not tease and you really have know who you can tease and who you can't. But I do think they were jealous of the attention the other ladies were getting and they were enjoying it. So they made my time there miserable. But becuse it was work I kept it professional and could not get to sexual with my teasing. The best I could do was misinterpret what they said and make innuendos
Marni ur the homegirl I never had immediately I dumped all my wing guys and realized they decreased my chances instead of increasing 😂.... Now u on the other hand really showed me how to put the pieces together lol THANx ur the best
I can agree that the technique of practice in front of mirror can help a lot of things as well. It did help me. I can add one thing of all the mentioned thing that you told Marni. And among them is that a man has to be a gentleman, or to behave as a gentleman. It works that as well, cause the gentlemen, they are also charismatic, and they have nice manners as well (believe it or not). Happy New year to you as well. I wish you all the health, joy, and happiness as well.
"Thank you Marni! Since watching your tutorial about pickup lines, I've been slapped over 12 times by 14 women! I HIGHLY RECOMMEND Marni if you have a fetish to be slapped"! --John, Satisfied watcher
Wake up you fools, she is only trying to sell you stuff and get views, that is how she makes money, by telling you things you want to hear! jesus, people are so ready and willing to jump on anybodies band wagon pretty disgusting
i got numbers from women i dated lot of girls !!! i dont know where i was going wrong !!! funny thing i never knew how to flirt !!! funny thing isn't it (most men are like that) i used to talk with ladies just like i talk with my guy friends thanks marni your doing good work bless u😊
Trust me if you start putting your dick in your friends, you won't be friends anymore. Sex ruins friendship this is something that works after sex eg. You shag a bird and she don't want relationship but here and there she wants that dick ..
I heard from a friend that sometimes can make women like him all he has to do is to crack a joke and the girls start laughing and then starts a conversation but has confidence and then still gets women but only gets one night stands, unfortunately.
That gets women that are after your money. Good women that are willing and able to take care of themselves exist. I'm constantly disgusted by the "golddigger" facade. If 2 consenting adults reach an agreement regarding the nature of their relationship everyone needs to be on the same if it will be successful. I really have distain for wolves in sheep's clothing. The women who openly admit upfront that they're in a relationship for money ....more power to them. It's the dishonest ones I find nasty
I totally dont agree to one lines ,two lines etc. Only two scenarios are there- 1- You meet up and gradually get closer and an emotional bonding will happen eventually (need time investment) 2- You immediately get attracted to each other. As simple as that.
Her advice is more about how not to end up being in the friendzone and steer towards attraction. And clearly one should climb this ladder one step at a time to avoid a fall.
*Flirting should feel natural, not forced, and I appreciate how you emphasized being authentic. What’s the craziest response you’ve ever gotten when using a flirty line? I’m curious to know how others have navigated those awkward moments!*
Difficult part of this is when the other person is natureally open about this stuff with everyone they talk to (new people too), so it's hard to tell if it's actual flirting from interest or if they're just a flirty person.
Happy New Year Marni!!! Great video to start the year off right! I hope your 2023 is going well so far! Looking forward to all of your videos this year! Have a great week and see you next Tuesday!!
You…you say that these tactics will have her flirting with me “first”? But, the tactics are flirting. So, this method is actually “get her to flirt with me first” by flirting with her. That means that I started it…
I wish these videos were simple and straight to the point. Some of them have too much filler. Three great lines which works on just about anyone male or female that can lead to making out or deeper sexual connection. 1. I am sorry I am staring at your lips, they are just so attractive. (this one is blatant and obvious but will work if they are attracted to you. if it doesn't work, the seed is planted) 2. I love looking into your eyes, they sparkle and make me smile. 3. ask them what their favorite food is , and then ask them to make a sound that they would make if they were eating it right now. Then say something like "that sound you make is pleasurable to my ears"
I have ADD and I can follow Marni's videos. It's. Called. CONTEXT. If you want short, try getting dating advice from Tictoc. Good luck with that, though 🦃
In November last year I met a wonderful girl and we've been going better than I thought for these past few months, when is the right time to go official? I've been too quick too many times thus lead to a short relationship.
I REALLY APPRECIATE THE MARNI'S. REKATIONSHIP VIDEOS.. THEY ARE PERFECTLY. PRESENTED. WITH POLITENESS,. INTELLIGENT. PRESENTATION,. AND DECENCY. I HOPE I HAVE PICKED UP. SOME. CLUES.
Normally I'm able to follow your train of thought fairly easily... however, the way you kept throwing your hair back and showing your shoulder completely derailed me... I had to watch it a second time to get the message you were actually trying to convey. Something about sexy necklines gets me every time... Thanks Marni!
What I like about this channel is that to me it makes much more sense to hear flirting tips from a woman's perspective than a guy. I think some of these lines are great. I would say though - these lines suit a date thats going well. You'd need some rapport. The other issue is that whatever you say has to be authentically you - not a line you've memorized from RU-vid. That will just sound fake. The other thing is that Ive been in 4 relationships & never used any of these flirting approaches. So all my successes didnt use any of this stuff. I was just me. Which makes me wonder if these approaches are culturally specific or speculative theory that might work on some women but not others? 🤔
Generally the most effective way to get attracted and become attractive is when your wallet is full of penny.. it doesn't matter whether you're old or not looking guy..as long you have bulky of money then everything will going smooth and fine..😉
just making up from the years wasted. just evaluating myself. thanks for advice. I may make joking comments and check out other influencers. I think I'm immature. wish the best for the future and happy new year 2023
No words needed. Girls choose to approach a guy before he ever utters a word. It’s how he holds himself and presents himself that a woman decides if he’s personally suitable for her to pounce. The days of women being attracted to a fit handsome clean-cut gentleman are long gone. I personally know. They now prefer rude uneducated dirtbags. The things women choose in a guy that attracts them these days blows my ever loving mind.
Before our 2nd date before we left my house to go to the movies my girl Zelda said these 5 words: Do you have a plunger? Here tailpipe was all gunked up and then it made me have a bad dream I was a muffler and woke up exhausted.
So I went monk. Legit honesty with myself has shown my value to women. I have absolutely ZERO value as words and actions have been consistent. Women don't find me attractive in any sense. It's okay though. I can give my time, attention, and passion to mother nature. I am only responsible for myself and answer to no one but myself. I can live simply and happy next to the water with my books, fishing and fully enjoying life without interference or unnecessary drama. Loneliness will come and pass, but my peace and tranquility will last. Why would I want to share this peaceful, simple and tranquil life? Not too many could actually appreciate such simplicity. At nearly 40 years old the time has passed to date and play the hook-up game. I had my fun when I was young. I'm ready to relax and enjoy what I didn't achieve in my 20s.
The problem with what this woman says is that if her advice doesn't project who you are, then you are just doodling the relationship to failure. I'm not saying that she doesn't know what she's talking about, I'm just saying that projecting yourself as someone else might not be the smartest way to start a healthy relationship. It's a problem with every dating coach, after all the coaching, they really don't understand dating themselves
Marnie, any of the questions you suggest that complement how a woman looks, a majority of fhe time, result in the woman claiming that the man is sexually harassing her and a creep, specifically because he's not the 10 she's looking for.
Is it about her saying “my friend”? Well, I wouldn’t worry about that. Back then spouses/lovers would write letters to each other like “My partner for life, my dearest friend”.
