How To Get Kids To Listen Without Yelling 

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This reminds me of a story I heard years ago about a mom frustrated with trying to get her older kids to clean their rooms. She said to them, you can pick up your clothes, and your stuff off the floor or I can do it for you, but you won't like it when I clean up because I like my rooms to be spotless. The kids of course, ignored this, and they came home to rooms that were bare. She'd left them with a set of night clothes, their school uniforms and sports gear, and pens and paper to write on, but everything that was on the floor or otherwise not put up was gone. They then had to earn each item back one day at a time by proving everyday that they could clean up after themselves and keep things tidy. Yeah, those kids learned to respect what their mom said after that!

My sister taught me decades ago to give your children choices but that both of the choices were in your favor and let me tell you it worked like a dream.

I'm a homeschool mom and I work 12 hour nights at a hospital in the ICU. My husband is not much help, and doesn't get involved with the children. Our girls are 6 and 2 and wow!! I hide in the restroom or closet at least 5xs a day to cry because I hate yelling but the girls run a muck and really do not listen about anything. I try to reach out to family for help but it always comes with judgement rather than with genuine advice or actual help. I love my children, they are the biggest blessing and the best gift that the Lord ever gave to me, so, for me, it's such a horrible feeling when you feel defeated against your own children. God bless you. Thank you for this video. Currently in the restroom crying at 10 a.m. 😂 I'll dry these tears and get back to steppin' with this advice at heart.

I’m a teacher of 3-6yo children. My way of getting their attention without yelling is talking to them politely and I always have to be intentional about it. I make eye contact, I try my best not to call them from a far. I make sure I get their attention before I start talking. It works.

The first time I watched this, it had become time for my 3 year old to go to bed. I told him it's bedtime. He said no. I told him, "You can either walk up to bed yourself, or I can carry you". He wanted me to carry him of course, but it was a choice I was okay with. And he went to bed perfectly fine, no tantrums and no yelling from mom

This is great. I’m a grandma now but as a mom I was a yeller, none of my kids are, but my daughter with kids gives them 1000 warnings. I just sent her this so we can both learn correctly 👏👏👏👍

"Our kids train us…to respond to them in a way that they've trained us to respond to them." Nice sentence. ;-) (and great info)

This guy is a genius ive been using this for the past 2 weeks on my two year old girl and i was so suprised to see that this did work. Ive been using it with everything. This morning my lil girl didnt wanna put her clothes on. My wife was having so much trouble and so i said let me see if this will work and i told ava " daddys gonna give you two choices, u can put your clothes on or daddy can put your clothes on, and i handed her the shirt and she did try to put it on but after she couldnt do it she gave it to me and sit still while i put it on her. I was so freaking happy.

I didn’t think this would work. And I just tried it with my 4 year old & worked like a charm! I didn’t raise my voice. Gave her 2 options. Clean your room or go to bed and she said “I will clean my room” and I said “okay”. We shall see what tomorrow brings ! Thanks

My lesson is the kids learn from parents' behavior. If you yell, get angry and frustrated, they will start doing those too. So if you don't want your kids to get mad, frustrated, or yell, you better not. Those are the things you control and make sure you control them well.

I have been butting heads with my 5 year old. It’s like a switch flipped and suddenly he wanted to argue about literally everything. He would tell me no. I fell into that trap of raising my voice to get him to listen. The day was just packed with ineffective time outs. Day after day of this was wearing on both of us. We were just grumpy around each other. Then I stumped across these videos in my search for help. I am not kidding you guys, the first day I tried giving choices, the first day I told him that I was only going to ask once. He tested one time and I followed through. Today is day 3 and we haven’t had a single time out. He’s listen the first time almost every time (exceptions being near to bedtime so expected, but I still followed through). I went from feeling almost resentful when the day would start, knowing it was going to be another day of battling and tantrums and timeouts. Now I’m eager to go get him when he starts to wake up in the mornings. Motherhood has become joyful for me. Thank you so so much, from the bottom of my sanity, thank you.

I need to watch this once a week, so I can remember!!!

Im a single mom of a three year old. I’m 23 and he’s my first child so I’m just winging it. Idk why it took me so long to finally find your channel!!!

I just watched a good video by another parenting coach on this topic. She said get the kid’s attention, tell them what you want them to do, and if they don’t respond don’t yell, but tell them to walk over to where you are, and tell them again. She said be consistent, and they’ll get tired of having to stop and walk to where you are.

This is so intuitive. I yell until I'm faint. Thanks Doc. Paul

Thank god im not the only one struggling, its hard to be a parent...

You are a Godsend. I prayed the other night for God to lead me to effective discipline for my child and I came across 2 of your videos, this being one of them. I applied this technique and for 2 days now my 5 year old son's behavior has been calm and pleasant and I and my husband have been more calm and pleasant. Thank you so much for your wonderful and helpful advice. God bless you dearly.

Parents need to be in authority, and not let the kids run the house. Good video.

Gold information! However as a father who only sees their child after work I come prepared with love and patience so it's easier for me to keep calm and give then choices. For a mother though having spent 24/7 with the child it seems so much harder to keep calm and think on every sentence we ask them before blowing up. I've told my wife that she shouldn't fight with things that are out of her control too but at the spur of the moment it's just hard to control when you are stuck with the child all day long. Whoever is the bread bringer please be patient and loving to the primary care taker of your child they really have it rough and are desperate for your affection.

When it's bed time.. my 3 yr old never wants to.. so I say "race you" and she jumps up and races me to bed lol

As a classroom teacher, this is the simplest and most practical advice I have heard to manage my teenage classroom. Thank you sir!!

OMG! I am so so proud of my wife!!!! She do all these things without ever reading or watching about them

The key takeaways in this video are very helpful. My brain overwhelms me with thoughts and ideas on how to be a better parent and this video helped simplify it! Acknowledge and separate what you can control and what you cannot control, give them choices. Yelling is reinforcing and increases the behavior, consequences decrease the behavior and you can do so in a loving nurturing way. Taking notes!

I needed this at the right time. Thank you. My head is about to explode but I love my son and I hate shouting or yelling at him.

I am a childcare teacher they teach us this in school. Some parents would benefit from taking the early childhood class. It gives you an insight on children that is mind blowing. Most people have a hard time with 2-3 year olds. At that age they act on impulse. Giving them choices is the best way to go believe me. Or you will give yourself a headache.

I love the delivery of this message! So easy to understand and apply. Genius! Thank you! Mom of 6 here. My kids honestly blow me away with how responsible they can be! I know they're capable, but we have trained each other WRONG just like was described in this video. And I'm wanting to make it RIGHT! I need to set myself up to be prepared to give them good choices. Thank you, Dr, for acknowledging that it's NOT malicious behavior. I suffered a long time thinking it was and feeling devastated by their choices all the time- particularly my oldest who's a tween. Then I learned from my mother in law -and my mom- HOW to love my children. (Titus 2:4) She loved my kids with her words and actions. I could see that demonstrated and then I saw for myself that I can love them and forgive them when they wrong me. BUT my parenting and guiding of them has still been lousy. (My mil is awesome with these techniques, btw, they come naturally to her. They don't come naturally to me.). So anyway, I'm looking forward to binging these Live On Purpose videos and figuring out how to parent better for myself. Oh, and how to help my husband parent better too. 😉

You videos saved my family from so much stress, and brought peace back into our lives.

thank you so much for this... I hate yelling at my son...thank you..

This was so awesome. Yelling at my kids is breaking my heart. I love them too much. This was so helpful in your delivery. Thank you!

Giving them a choice works for me. I used to tell my 7 year old to go to the toilet before we leave the house. He'd argue and shout he didn't need it and refused to go. Then I changed it to "you can use the upstairs or downstairs toilet" and that works much better.

These video lessons have been nothing less than a miracle!!! I've been giving my grandon choices, and just this one little tip has avoided so many three year old melt downs! Just this evening he didn't want to take a bath, but I gave him a simple choice, you take a bath now, or after you play in your room. He didn't even pause, he made the choice to to take a bath instead of playing in his room. WOW! Where were you THIRTY years ago,...??? Thank you Live on Purpose TV!!!

once I caught myself yelling too often at my son. Then I decided to do something about it. Next time I asked my son, "Do you want me to start yelling?" "No," he said. "So, do what I just told you in a nice voice." And he did. I repeated this some more times and he always chose to obey so I wouldn't yell.

I came here looking for classroom management tools and to dispense with yelling. Two choices...that is helpful.

I’ve learned so much with my kids. I thought I have a lot of patience. But your kids will test you. I do the same thing with my kids give them option. But if you promised something you need to do it too.

Me: "Nobody is watching the TV." (directed at teenager in kitchen who is using the computer 😊) "Would you like to turn it off, or would you like me to? Either way is OK with me." Teenager: (with attitude) "Ooohhh, look who's all high and mighty!" Me: (secretly smiling to myself as teenager immediately turns off computer and returns to watch the TV.) 🥳🥳 Your advice... Think - vs - Fight... I think this applies equally to parents. If we take the time to think ahead and plan the x2 choices, especially for problematic scenarios, it helps us to think (not fight). Very helpful. I've just subscribed!

I feel like I am always a bully and a tyrant. I am 'giving' orders because I feel like when I 'ask'....I get ignored. It's extremely frustrating. I am not an aggressive person but having kids (one, in my case) is they bring you to all sorts of levels and have you do what you never thought you would. UGH.....

Just tried this on my 5 year old, do you wanna be quite or do you wanna have tablet free day??? He said tablet free day and now he's upset lol 😂😂😂

Sir, you are responding to each and every comment! Hundreds of them! Haven't seen something like this before. I respect you for being so respectful of others and taking out so much time and energy to help!!

I tell my daughter, you can pick this outfit or this one, both of which I picked out 😂😂. Works great for my 3 year old who is very strong willed. As well as disciplining after the first time! Agree 100%

You are a genius !!!!!! It works !!. Even with picky eaters !!. You can eat your chicken and have a treat after or you don’t eat it and you don’t get to chose a treat . Plus reinforcement and follow through !!!!!. I swear I almost fell off my chair when he ate the chicken lol

Okay, so this worked wonders right away. I feel like I'm literally the dad in this video. My son is especially difficult with listening because he's on the spectrum. So today he came home from school, I went into the bathroom and a bunch of his clothes were on the floor along with his shoes. I asked him nicely like 3 times. Finally I said "you can either pick up your clothes now, or clean the entire bathroom later." And man, he jumped right up and got it done. Great advice. Thank you.

I found that it helped to walk over to the kids and first comment on what they were involved in e.g. this leggo castle looks interesting. Then I'd go from that to what was needed but give a time limit. E.g Right now you're building this castle but dinner will be ready soon. I'm going to ask you to pack up in 5 minutes. Then after 5 minutes I'd walk over, lower my voice and say "It's packing up time now." I might even help pack up for the first few seconds so if one of them didn't get it, he'd join in. Lowering my voice was a sure fire way to get attention. In class, I might be teaching at one volume. As soon as I spoke more quietly, the whole room would become quieter.

My wife counts to three and if her request is not done, the kid has an electronic free day. Works like a charm everytime.

I: "Do you want to make shapes with straws or should mommy put them in the box?" Toddler: "No."

As a "guest teacher" I immediately give my students a choice as the class period commences; "You can do your classroom assignment work in here with us OR you can do your classroom assignment work in the principals office." Like you say DrJenkins, I'm fine either way. So far, so good.

This is great. I’m a grandma now but as a mom I was a yeller, none of my kids are, but my daughter with kids gives them 1000 warnings. I just sent her this so we can both learn correctly

I have used this with my two year old and we've definitely seen improvements! The biggest being when we are out and about. I can say "you can hold mommy's hand or I can carry you" there were a few fits thrown but she has gotten to the point where she'll either hold my hand right away or reach up to be carried! Hoping to incorporate this rule in many other areas!

Omg! I'm so glad I found your video! With this pandemic in a 2 bedroom apartment with a 4 yr old and 11 yr old son, I thought I was gonna lose it. The 4 yr old is special and the 11 yr old tested genius has reverted back to being 4. I feel so bad for yelling till my voice gone. I didn't want to spank or hit them so I scream constantly till I've got migraines. It has to end. I want my boys to do what I ask without all the bickering and fighting they do with every task given. I came home with a new supply of parenting and coping skills from just this one video. I even talked to them, apologized for all the yelling, and they apologized too for being so bad last night during bath time. They really like the idea of us all pressing the restart button and getting this right. Me stopping all the drill sargenting and them stopping all the ignoring mommy. I also definitely can notice and praise the 4 yr old for his accomplishments 30 times during a day. He loves that I notice he did wash his hands or compliment his crayon drawing or just him cutting a light switch off. That's def is working! Question? Got any helpful tips for me and my 11 yr old? He struggles with getting bitten and scratched in his face by his slow brother. And getting blamed when he can't get his brother to comply with assigned task. Please help me. Any advise from any one will be greatly appreciated. I am using the 2 choices technique with some success's. Thank you again. I'm on my own with these 2 . no family or fatherly support around. But I can be taught and am still willing to learn better ways of parenting. God bless.

My dad always told me that one of the worst things a parent can do is keep "threatening" their kids with 'empty threats', and that it's always important to follow through with whatever punishment they've laid out for their child (...hopefully they didn't threaten physical injury or murder, etc). Anyway, I tried to apply this method of "if not this, then ..consequence..." with my first child, as much as possible. For the most part it worked... I tie it in with "by the time I count to 3..." And to this day, if I can't get his attention, all I have to do is start counting (often without even suggesting a consequence at all) and he jumps (irritated) to the occasion. It's like Pavlov's dog or something. *He's 7.5 yo now My second child, however, has been a bit trickier to work with in this way. She often will act like "I don't care if you take that away from me... I'm gonna keep doing this anyway". I found that threatening to take her dresses away from her is usually the best "weaponry" I've got. :-/ Ugh. It certainly gets harder, the more kids you have to apply this to! After awhile, the mental effort it takes me to remember which consequences/punishments I'm trying to carry out (...sometimes I've had to go hard with statements like "for a WHOLE week" ...or even "month")... and sometimes their punishments conflict (like in the case where one of them has lost screen time, but we're all in the common room where the TV is, etc)... Ahhhhhhh!!!! Needless to say, we've been training each other again for me to start yelling! *My second child is 4 yo, btw At this point, do you recommend shock collars??? Haha j/k ...Oh, I see the link you posted about what to do when your child doesn't care about consequences. I'll check it out! :-) Thanks!!!

All these thumbs up. If you are respectful to your kids and speak nicely to them... they will listen

Very informational! I’m a Preschool Teacher so this is GOLDEN!☺️

Thanks a lot, everybody has to know that! Well, I'm a teacher at a secondary school. There's a boy in class 5 who doesn't like to follow rules. In music lessons I gave him two options: You can come with us to join in an experiment or you can stay in class 10 in the meantime. No arguing, no yelling... He only thought about it and became a part of the class working on the experiment.

They ignore because there is no consequence. And by consequence I mean pain. I loved my parents with all my heart; and got my rearend tore up when I messed up. Just love them and let there be no doubt that you do, but correct them when needed.

This is love and logic institute methods. Based on behavioural techniques, how I raised my boys. It has limits, there needs to be a lot of love and active listening in the game too.

THANKS I'm tired of yelling at my 2 little sisters for having to do stuff , you helped alot !!!!!!!!!!

Thank You! I am a chronic yeller. I knew I was going the wrong way when all my kid does is yell back. Thank you so much. Pressing "forward" to my husband so he can watch this. Made me laugh too.

Treat your children with respect. My children never broke the rules as teens, they never snuck out, or disrespected me. They chipped in on chores without asking and took on their own chore list that benefited the house hold. I treated them with respect, when they were little we would talk about what they did wrong and how it could have turned out. I taught them how to think of possibilities and I always treated them with respect. That respect was given back to me. Allowing them to choose between things let's them feel in control of themselves and their lives instead of command and obey.

Thank you for the tone requests from 1st friendly to 12th yelling... I think I only had 2 ... nice and firm... but what worked so well when we went to the park or play area in an establishment, we would have a time limit and I would set my watch ( now it would be a phone) and when it's alarm beeped out, my boys heard it, I commented, it's time - they knew that there was one more slide or one more monkey bars run-through, and we were happy to leave together, no chasing 2 toddlers to preteens or calling after them t please let's go. It was great. Also, 2 options at the restaurant, not the entire menu... never did we do that, it was a choice, it was theirs, but only 2, saved alot of time and headaches I have seen other families have.

Choice making has changed parenting for me. It saves fights, allows my son to understand decision making, and I’m still getting my goal accomplished haha.

Loved your approach to this. I have 4 boys. My first son we used this approach just as a natural way of parenting and he is a great kid who generally obeys (not always happily, but he does it) and has a very understanding and compassionate heart. By the time we got to kid 3 and 4, we are freaking out because they are just ... nuts ... Looking back on it our lives got crazier and more stressful for a number of years (still in the thick of stressful) and our parenting style changed without really noticing. We got more demanding and angry and less patient. So, no wonder that's how our kids are turning out right? My husband sent me a link to this video after I confessed the need for drastic change - not just for the kids behavior but for me as a mama - and I'm so grateful. Great tips! I'm going to start watching your other videos now. Thank you!

I wish I found this earlier but there is still time for my kids to listen to me, thanks for the advice, I never looked at it this way but I see the victory written all over it, will try!

I paused the video because my 3yr old asked me to make him a peanut butter and jam sandwich. I told him he can eat his chicken sitting on the table now, or he can wait for a pb&j. He actually started eating the chicken… this is awesome.

I had never yelled or cursed at my two children. I treated them like little intelligence adults. They became loving, kind and intelligent adults.

I don't even have a wife let alone children but I'm watching this to learn in advance because I don't want to have to smack the living heck outta my unborn children.

I have two teens and one young adult child, and I remember doing this often. I think it gives kids confidence and a sense of being able to choose their own destiny. But now I have a two year old granddaughter so I need a little technique refreshing! So thanks for this.

Dr Paul, your advice is pure gold 🥰 "Think vs fight" is so wise 🌟 Thank you so much for helping me & parents around the world to be a better parent 👩‍👦💗 God Bless you and all families 💗🙏👼✝️

I love your energy! I always give my children options , My son was running in the living room ( which he knows is against the house rules) and therefore knocked over a bin of dirty clothes . I told him he can either pick up the clothes or go to timeout for 10 minutes, he was more than happy to go to time out. 😆

You sir, you're gold. I wish I've known about your channel a long time ago.

I recently discovered the importance of raising emotionally intelligent humans. Thank you for this

I don't know how I came here, but his advise is gold and it works. Im a special needs teacher. Daylie I teach kids who just don't want to get taught. That is my go to. When I asign them a task they refuse. If I present 2 or 3 tasks and everyone can choose for themselves they miraculously pick one and just do it.

he’s very likeable... seems like he would be a good psychologist

i'm going to teach 1st grader next week and i'm blessed to found your video while searching for literacy activities for 1st grader. Thank you..

This is VERY helpful. I asked my toddler to go potty ten times in a row before I remembered this advice (I’m back to this video after watching it a few months ago). I finally said “do you want to hop like a bunny or crawl like a turtle to the potty?” and he went like a turtle. Thank you 😭

Listened to this 2 weeks ago, I haven't yell since then, my wife as a longer learning curve since second option she cannot execute. But seeing me using and succeeding is a good incentive! Thank you so much!

*This deserves more views and subscribers!*

My daughter is 9 and i feel like i missed the boat with getting her to listen and be respectful. I’m so frustrated that I allow a 9 year old to put me in such an emotional state.

I just found this thanks to the algorithm. I have to say that I wish I had found it sooner in life. Great advice for all parents.

I am an assistant teacher and my biggest struggle is earning respect and having them listen to me.

Thank you SO much Dr. Paul! We've been struggling with this very issue in our home and your video broke it down so plainly and effectively. I've been watching your other videos this week and have started implementing some of your strategies (power struggles) and I am happy to say it's working! We've been able to avoid the tantrums and I feel so relieved to be seeing progress with our son! Thank you for sharing these tools with us!

You are a Great Communicator, you sound like a normal person and made me feel like a doctor. I'm perplexed. Thank you for teaching us this

I don't know where this fits in here, but I'm going to share something that happened between me and my then 3 year old son. It seemed that he was constantly spilling things. I was getting more and more frustrated by this and kept telling him over and over to be careful and stop spilling. One day I really lost it and yelled at my little boy, "HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO TELL YOU TO BE CAREFUL?!" The poor child answered in a sweet quiet voice,"Til I do it right?" I have to say it was one of the best, if not the very best parenting lesson I ever had, and it came from a 3 year old! Keep telling them and teaching them until they get it. Also to be more patient with them and yourself. My little boy is now 52 and he's a really great guy and a very loving father. Peace and blessings to you all!

Wow! This video is such an eye opener. It’s gold 👍🏽 my whole life all I’ve wanted to be is a father and now that I am a new father of two, to me It’s important to have these types of tools and outside perspectives. You got a new subscriber from me. Thanks

Ooh 😯 I don’t know how this video popped up but am so grateful!! (Subscribing 😃) Thank you for taking time to make this video public. 🙌

I love this. THE POWER OF TRAINING IS SO AMAZING!

Back in the 70s mr belt taught me many valuable lessons. It wasn’t abuse it was discipline.

Timeouts are literally my golden key to everything. And you dont have to do it too many times until you just say the word timeout and they start moving. Its not physical harm and its not yelling. Once they know the suffering of a timeout, they always remember it. I'll try this out too when she gets older to understand the concept of hiring someone but I feel as though timeouts are applicable too.

Your channel has helped my parenthood so much. I'm happy you are kind enough to give us free help.

I think this really depends on 1. the childs personality and 2. Your connection with them. When I offered my 3 yr old 2 choices, he came back with a 3rd choice that suited him all the time and in the end never did what was asked of him. So I gave this method up! And I worked on being more present and spending more quality time with him and I found once we were laughing more and playing around together, things got done faster!

Me: "Would you like A or B?" My 2-year-old: "No!" 🤣

I have been teaching my 2.5 year old this way all her life. She is young but like all kids learns very quickly. I have a lot of patience which any parent can attest to is the thing you need most with kids. Three things I figured out with her, 1st, she always hears what I say, just doesn't always acknowledge it. Secondly, as the Doc said, everyone including her likes choice. Thirdly, encouraging her to respond and acknowledge me results in a better outcome for both of us. The first and third thing tie together very well. They all tie together and result in a calm, listening, respectful child without punishment. I call her by her name, and if she ignores me and continues to play, I say Sally (fake name) please look at me so we can talk. When she looks I say, lunch is ready lets go eat, sometimes she says yes (if shes really hungry) and other times no (if shes having too much fun to realize shes hungry lol). If she says no, I say well you can come to lunch now or in 1 minute, you choose. She chooses the one minute and we set a timer and when it goes off she comes right over. Additionally I have been teaching her to acknowledge us when we speak to her and if she has something she wants to say its better to express than just say no and run off. This has been coming up more because she was beginning to realize that her looking and listening to me resulted in her doing things she didnt necessarily want to do. So in the lunch scenario, if I ask her to come to lunch, and she continues to ignore me, I say, Sally I know you heard me and if you continue to ignore me then you will have to go into time out until you are ready to have a normal conversation with me. I usually also say, if there is something you want to do it would be better for you to tell me now than ignore me, if you tell me what you want then maybe we can workout a compromise (I have taught her what these words mean of course). If she chooses to not listen she ends up stuck in her high chair (time out) until she decides to talk like a normal person, she most often now on the way to the high chair relents and we have a conversation and can determine if a compromise can be made. Basically I am training her to recognize what people are saying, share her desires and wants, and learn that often times compromises can be made where everyone is happy. Sorry for the long rant but just saw the Doc's info coincided with how I have been raising (teaching/training) my daughter.

I’m not married or have kids but I’m watching this for future. Your videos are so informative thank you 😊

Can I use this technique on my husband? 🤣

During this covid time, i spent a lot of time taking care of my daughter (4 years of age) and her friends, since their parents had to go to work. What i found to work out best is, when i get eye to eye with them. That means i have to go to my knees to "entre their world", then make a "connection" to what their are playing right now and then tell them, what i want them to do. Giving them two choices is also great or asking them, what they can offer and then we negotioate and make a deal. Since i've figured that out, my life is a walk in the park.

there’s a whole book on this called Love and Logic, and another based on it called Loving Your Kid’s on Purpose by Danny Silk, from a Christian perspective

Thank you so much. I have a large family and work full time in the house! Your words give me life and strength.

I don't have children but I help my sisters out with nieces and nephews and they can be more than a handful! Thank you so much for the fantastic advice!! I already see a huge change with the kiddies and also my patience 😂You are amazing Dr. Paul 🙌🏾🙌🏾

im struggling with my almost 3 year old and i'm so glad i saw this video. It was extremely insightful. thank you.

There is a comment below advising you to listen to this at 1.5x speed. Best advice I’ve gotten in a very long time. Great content in this video, it’s just delivered like he ate a fistful of Xanax.