Wanting to get your ex back without losing your dignity is going to ask for the application of certain principles.
In effect, winning back your ex has nothing to do with emotional impulses, those urgent and absolute needs to get back with your ex losing your dignity.
A loving reconquest is done without begging and if the principles are applied, the chances of getting back together increase.
The most important and most difficult principle, I think, is distance. The distance, it can be a no contact, a controlled indifference or a micro take away, it can be scary because you can tell yourself that you are going to lose your ex. However, distance management will allow you to surprise your ex, make him/her curious and miss you, because it is difficult to feel the need to be with someone if this person is always present and, sometimes, begging.
The second principle is transformation, that is, what you can contribute as behavioral improvements so that your ex can also feel curious and begin to tell each other that if they get back together it will be different.
The combination of these two elements is very powerful because it gives your ex the freedom to decide, it gives your ex the freedom to appreciate your changes.
And, we know that in matters of seduction and love reconquest, if an ex does not feel free to decide, it will be very difficult to achieve the goal because no one falls in love by force, it is a feeling that must be born.
Finally, sharing your changes so that your ex is aware of your transformation is a practice that generates results, from the moment it is done moderately and sincerely.
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Patrice Lafforgue
Relationship counselor
21 авг 2024
